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Do you. feel good about yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Two weeks almost into 2012 andi have to say i do. watchsomebastard come burst my bubble now!

So do you feel good about yourself 2012?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times

i have good days and off days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very much so.. this is the year I will reach my goal weight.. got some fantastic fun planned this year.

Some great just us times planned with Master..

and in general feeling the best I have ever felt in myself..

Cali. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel myself regularly, and it always feels good

does that count?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel myself regularly, and it always feels good

does that count? "
He he i think it might just count.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I feel myself regularly, and it always feels good

does that count? He he i think it might just count. "

And I find feeling other people has the same effect of making me feel good.

Does that count too?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I feel fanbloomintastic...

hope everyone does x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i feel fab, think 2012 is going to be even better than 2011, and that was some year

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

started the year feeling very very positive,and its gone rapidly downhill.....but hey theres time yet

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

2012 has been really happy and positive, that was tested yesterday but we take it on the chin and look forward.

Last year was very trying for the pair of us and are well rid and have learned from the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each year I grow stronger and more accepting so I'm sure this year will be better than the last. xx

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Started off okish but going a bit cack but hey ho, onwards n upwards and all that.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Feeling good in general, but still have a few health/hospital issues that need to be sorted. But not on the scale they were this time last year thankfully.

And got quite a lot to look forward to this year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And got quite a lot to look forward to this year x"

....... I've got my hat!

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

2011 was a huge adjustment that saw some lows at the beginning and just got better as I found myself again after years of denial with a lot of help from Rhett. 2012 is going to be the year we put our plans in motion. Watch out world

Scarlett

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I feeel absolutly fantastic. All my decorating is complete, the house looks nice, feel briliant about myself. Relationship is fantastic, started meeting again after a break and mini breaks and a holiday in the planning. Son is settled in his new house and job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i feel terrible, my Dad has cancer, i am facing bankruptcy and am getting cold feet on here, not brave enough to get out and have adventures, i need a huge boost of energy and self confidence, oh and a lottery win

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"i feel terrible, my Dad has cancer, i am facing bankruptcy and am getting cold feet on here, not brave enough to get out and have adventures, i need a huge boost of energy and self confidence, oh and a lottery win"
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Sorry to read that. Cyber, friendly hugs to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

concentrate on your dad and your money situation

don't worry about the bonking side of things, but stay around in the forums

they are a great leveller and a great source of laughter when you need it most

i hope the tide turns for you soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah the forums do make me smile, as for bonking, i think i have forgot what to do anyway

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"i feel terrible, my Dad has cancer, i am facing bankruptcy and am getting cold feet on here, not brave enough to get out and have adventures, i need a huge boost of energy and self confidence, oh and a lottery win"

hope Dad improves, best wishes.

and 2012 is a great year for you x

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

my heart goes out to you faced same thing a few years ago,keep the faith and huge hugs from me,stay on the forums it will cheer you up,it does me

xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is pretty good, so yes, i am feeling good!

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel good about myself nearly all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feeling great have now lost 8kg since new year.

yehhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good days and bad days. There have always been good and bad days though, in the past bad days massively outweighed the bad, but the tide has turned.

lLast year was a year of massive adjustment for me. 2010 I was heading towards being an alcoholic, I was suffering with ridiculous levels of anxiety and paranoia and in a job I loathed. Thankfully having made a conscious decision to stop drinking at the end of 2010 but finding it difficult to do so, I subsequently suffered a huge wake up call by getting hit by a car in February in 2011. Made me realise how fragile it all is and that huge changes were needed. So I started racing bikes again, started running, stopped drinking, quit my job, left London and moved in with Boho-J, landed an amazing job (still no idea how!).

So when I look at what I achieved last year there is no way I can, or would want to match that this year. And if I wasnlt having the odd bad day, to be honest I'd be worried. So yeah things are pretty good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HELL YES I FEEL FAB X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel myself regularly, and it always feels good

does that count? He he i think it might just count.

And I find feeling other people has the same effect of making me feel good.

Does that count too?"
I think the answer has ti be yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is what you make it ....... and same for 2012 ..... if you think it will be shit it will be x 2012 i feel will be fab x

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I had a good cry at Eastenders last night and feel much better today, funny how a good cry can make someone feel better. Im ready to tackle 2012 and whatever else it chucks at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not really. I feel like I am running up an escalator coming down, truth be told.

And someone at the top keeps chucking crap on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually feel better about myself these last few months than I have done in years. Funnily enough it's coincided with our return to the land of swing. This lifestyle does wonders for your self esteem!!

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Pretty good at the moment - just done 30 miles on my mtb through some beautifully frozen countryside, plus i threw in an extra 1000ft climb at the end that was worth it for the _iew

Thing is, whilst i was stood at the top admiring the _iew i thought to myself "this is what it is actually all about, being out in the hills on a stunning day and all your cares diminish to the size they really are, not the size you allow them to be".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty good at the moment - just done 30 miles on my mtb through some beautifully frozen countryside, plus i threw in an extra 1000ft climb at the end that was worth it for the _iew

Thing is, whilst i was stood at the top admiring the _iew i thought to myself "this is what it is actually all about, being out in the hills on a stunning day and all your cares diminish to the size they really are, not the size you allow them to be"."

right, i better make a run fer it afore it gets dark then.

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

I'm always seem to be in jovial spirits, partly down to deluded optimism and partly to be bloody minded toward the spiteful hateful peoples.

plus the odd bit of philosiphy sometimes help to reevaluate life.

"So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservatism, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more dangerous to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future. The very basic core of a man's living spirit

is his passion for adventure. The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have

a new and different sun."

— Chris McCandless

if that doesn't work, illegitimus non carborundum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty good at the moment - just done 30 miles on my mtb through some beautifully frozen countryside, plus i threw in an extra 1000ft climb at the end that was worth it for the _iew

Thing is, whilst i was stood at the top admiring the _iew i thought to myself "this is what it is actually all about, being out in the hills on a stunning day and all your cares diminish to the size they really are, not the size you allow them to be"."

Just going to grab an hour on my cross bike, Hit the local bridlepaths and get to watch an impressive sunset is the plan.

Jealoius of the hills though!

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"Pretty good at the moment - just done 30 miles on my mtb through some beautifully frozen countryside, plus i threw in an extra 1000ft climb at the end that was worth it for the _iew

Thing is, whilst i was stood at the top admiring the _iew i thought to myself "this is what it is actually all about, being out in the hills on a stunning day and all your cares diminish to the size they really are, not the size you allow them to be".

Just going to grab an hour on my cross bike, Hit the local bridlepaths and get to watch an impressive sunset is the plan.

Jealoius of the hills though!"

We have some nice mtb playgrounds around here, rode up an 800ft climb to do some singletrack, dropped into the Calder Valley and did the big climb out the other side before heading home via some great downhill singletrack stuff - mixture of frozen mud, pointy rocks and slick ice so a bit 'skittery'.

Keep thinking about a cross bike but i've already got 4 bikes and i'm running out of room...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

yes i feel fabulous about myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have some nice mtb playgrounds around here, rode up an 800ft climb to do some singletrack, dropped into the Calder Valley and did the big climb out the other side before heading home via some great downhill singletrack stuff - mixture of frozen mud, pointy rocks and slick ice so a bit 'skittery'.

Keep thinking about a cross bike but i've already got 4 bikes and i'm running out of room... "

Cross bikes are great fun. And from a handling point of _iew it makes you concentrate, but if I lived up there I'd not bother with one. Down here we simply don;t have hills - I see guys on full sussers and just wonder why they want the extra weaight, particularly when I overtake them when I'm descending LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate my small marks on my tummy but I guess we all have our wee bits that annoy us x

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"Two weeks almost into 2012 andi have to say i do. watchsomebastard come burst my bubble now!

So do you feel good about yourself 2012?"

Nah...never did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i feel terrible, my Dad has cancer, i am facing bankruptcy and am getting cold feet on here, not brave enough to get out and have adventures, i need a huge boost of energy and self confidence, oh and a lottery win"

Aww bless u! Thoughts, prayers, crossed fingers! Anything that works babe! Xxx my dad has it too but things looking good! Hope it all works out for u!

As for meeting, go for it babe! Have a few coffees and see how it goes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its pretty easy to tell that I love myself

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I'm feeling great, things in general are good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence wise, I am fairly, I'm happy with my appearance, my ability etc, yes there are lots of things that could be better, I am imperfect in lots of ways. You have to love yourself and happy within yourself as what's the alternative, depression over certain things you can't change. Acceptance is the key, of your positives and mindful of the negatives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a half-pint... it could sometimes be better but generally my glass is topped up rather than empty!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Hummm lets see started my secondment in December which I love. Then a week into it found out my main job is under threat due to funding. Went for a meeting last week to start the formal process and won't find out about funding until the week after.

I have started my diet that is going ok... I am just wondering if its my year this year..

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