FabSwingers.com forum: Political opinion..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does it matter for you when you want to shag someone you are physically attracted to? I was so attracted to a girl but when I knew her political opinions I was so turned off.

Would you still be physically intimate with someone you (disagree with politically)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even shag a woman who heard Yanny instead of Laurel so you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how extreme their views were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how different and how vocal they are about it. We don't have to vote for the same party to shag, but I'm going to get on better in the chat with someone with a similar world view. Sometimes I can tell right away by username or tattoos that our politics don't align and I'd write them off right away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends how extreme their views were. "

She voted ukip and I’m an immigrant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would struggle to fuck a Trump supporter but I would give it a go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only if he was exceptional lol

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Does it matter for you when you want to shag someone you are physically attracted to? I was so attracted to a girl but when I knew her political opinions I was so turned off.

Would you still be physically intimate with someone you (disagree with politically) "

I don't mind. It's sex not marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how different and how vocal they are about it. We don't have to vote for the same party to shag, but I'm going to get on better in the chat with someone with a similar world view. Sometimes I can tell right away by username or tattoos that our politics don't align and I'd write them off right away."

Must be a west of scotland thing lol i do the same..

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

This why I don't talk about politics and religion

It's never ends good

Don't ever talk about politics with some one on here or any other other dating apps

To answer your question

I do still smash her to squash the beef lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"only if he was exceptional lol "
Yes exceptionally quiet

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ppl with Tattoos heard Yanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be a west of scotland thing lol i do the same.. "

Maybe it's different here because politics and football are so entwined, so it's more obvious. For example I bodyswerve anyone with things like 1690 or 1888 in their username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it matter for you when you want to shag someone you are physically attracted to? I was so attracted to a girl but when I knew her political opinions I was so turned off.

Would you still be physically intimate with someone you (disagree with politically) "

You talk politics during a meet??!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"only if he was exceptional lol "

She was hot lol and wanted me but I canceled. Totally a turn off

Personally I have sex in my mind before physical and political views does make my mind turned on or off.

I understand people are different but for me I would struggle to shag someone I know that they share those kind of views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it matter for you when you want to shag someone you are physically attracted to? I was so attracted to a girl but when I knew her political opinions I was so turned off.

Would you still be physically intimate with someone you (disagree with politically)

You talk politics during a meet??!!!

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Does Brexit not get your juices flowing lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the same as for usernames. Particularly in Glasgow, football allegiances dictate a lot of politics and certainly phrases/emblems tattooed would be a no-go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started a thread like this a while back and it got moved to the Politics section!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't shag a man that heard Laurel instead of yanny!

It was very clearly yanny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you still be physically intimate with someone you (disagree with politically) "

Angry sex can work, no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it matter for you when you want to shag someone you are physically attracted to? I was so attracted to a girl but when I knew her political opinions I was so turned off.

Would you still be physically intimate with someone you (disagree with politically)

You talk politics during a meet??!!!

Wasn’t on here and it was before the meet and it slipped from her while chatting about different stuff I wish I shagged her before knowing

but once you know you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you still be physically intimate with someone you (disagree with politically)

Angry sex can work, no?

I know make up sex but not angry sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't shag a man that heard Laurel instead of yanny!

It was very clearly yanny.

You stay away from me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't shag a man that heard Laurel instead of yanny!

It was very clearly yanny.

You stay away from me !! "

Likewise. We clearly have absolutely nothing in common and are polar opposites!

Just saying it was definitely yummy!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't shag a man that heard Laurel instead of yanny!

It was very clearly yanny.

You stay away from me !!

Likewise. We clearly have absolutely nothing in common and are polar opposites!

Just saying it was definitely yummy!!!!!

They are offering free hearing test at Specsavers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't shag a man that heard Laurel instead of yanny!

It was very clearly yanny.

You stay away from me !!

Likewise. We clearly have absolutely nothing in common and are polar opposites!

Just saying it was definitely yummy!!!!!

They are offering free hearing test at Specsavers.

Then I would suggest you book yourself an urgent appointment!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Can you explain the correlation between tattoos and someone’s political views ? "

People with bulldog tattoos or Union Jacks with 'proud' or 'Keep England English' ones appear in my opinion to have far-right political views.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you explain the correlation between tattoos and someone’s political views ?

People with bulldog tattoos or Union Jacks with 'proud' or 'Keep England English' ones appear in my opinion to have far-right political views. "

Oh thabks for explaining. Completely ignorant about these things. Does women have them as well? How can you tell if someone is far right without asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My old profile used to say "no tories, no sun readers, no Coldplay fans". I still stand by that criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My old profile used to say "no tories, no sun readers, no Coldplay fans". I still stand by that criteria."

What if they’ve got ‘A rush of blood to the head’ but didn’t like any of the other albums ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My old profile used to say "no tories, no sun readers, no Coldplay fans". I still stand by that criteria.

What if they’ve got ‘A rush of blood to the head’ but didn’t like any of the other albums ? "

Then I'd probably judge them even harsher!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you explain the correlation between tattoos and someone’s political views ?

People with bulldog tattoos or Union Jacks with 'proud' or 'Keep England English' ones appear in my opinion to have far-right political views. "
Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My old profile used to say "no tories, no sun readers, no Coldplay fans". I still stand by that criteria."
Sun readers are better than Daily Mail readers surely? X

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

I was reading a thread the other day about people who won't have sex with bi men, and there's a kind of congruence with this thread.

Here's my problem. There are different types of sex to me, and sex as part of a relationship with someone you like is different from just sex. I have been, at times, a bit of a slut. Hell, I've been a lot of a slut. The odds on me knowing the political opinions of some of the people I've had sex with are pretty slim given that I haven't even known their names. If we're in a club and someone is desirable and up for it I'm not going to hand them a questionaire cloned from Harmony.com or the like to find out whether we're compatible - the negotiation is strictly about oonsent and what next. Given that in my youth I took great pleasure in turning hyper macho men (like skinheads) and making them be sub to me it's quite likely I have fucked men who, if they expressed their political opinions, might have got a smack in the mouth from me. (I'm older and wiser now, but I was a hot blooded young 'un)

Coming back to the bi-men isue, I get that some people don't want to have sex with me because of who I might have had sex with before, or who I might have sex with in the future. I don't understand it, but I respect it. If some people go beyond that being a matter of taste and are repelled by the idea of having sex with someone who's had sex with another man, they're probably bi-phobic, but provided they don't discriminate against me in any way other than choosing to have sex with me, that's their problem, not mine.

So have I kissed a tory? Probably. Would I in the future? Probably, unless I enter a monastery. Would I buy them a drink before or after if I knew they were a tory? Probably not, although I have got a few friends of that inclination who are decent people, if wrong.

Mr Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was their opinion and they didn't try to force it then it wouldn't put me off...but if they tried to force it then it would as we all have our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely something we would never discuss, like brexit or religion. It's meant to be a sex/fun site not Facebook.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ultimately it comes down to attraction and part of attraction for me is connecting with someone beyond a physical level - so if their political views were that radically opposed to my own it would probably come out before we got to meet and would suggest there was no connection, so the meet wouldn't happen.

That said in the immediacy of a club environment I have probably met and played with people that hold opposing views to me and not known it - does it bother me? Not in the slightest, in that moment we found other common ground.

In the context of an arranged meet from here where I do invest time in getting to know people though it may affect whether we eventually met or not as I suggested at the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like who i like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be a west of scotland thing lol i do the same..

Maybe it's different here because politics and football are so entwined, so it's more obvious. For example I bodyswerve anyone with things like 1690 or 1888 in their username."

Same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a girl on a dating site not so long ago. She turned out to be quite the activist. Full on SJW. That was a huge turn off. I moved swiftly on after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could try and fuck her round to my point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how extreme their views were. "

I concur

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I could try and fuck her round to my point of view

I can’t fuck on a far right angle my penis I curved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it matter for you when you want to shag someone you are physically attracted to? I was so attracted to a girl but when I knew her political opinions I was so turned off.

Would you still be physically intimate with someone you (disagree with politically) "

Absobloodylutely! Love a good debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone trying to talk politics to me will be kicked out of bed quicker than if they had done a wet fart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair my tattoos probably give a good idea as to my politics and spiritual beliefs, I would imagine I (we) would avoid meeting people we had a massive political difference with, and that it would become quite obvious if that was the case as we tend to chat to people before we meet them

Phil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not that discerning about politics when it comes to who I fuck all about the face, yes fickle I know. I don’t think anybody has to justify who they choose to fuck on here.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Political views per se would not put me off, it would be an underlying attitude. Some of those are so foul it would be an instant turnoff.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"My old profile used to say "no tories, no sun readers, no Coldplay fans". I still stand by that criteria.

What if they’ve got ‘A rush of blood to the head’ but didn’t like any of the other albums ?

Then I'd probably judge them even harsher!!"

Parachutes is probably the only album it's acceptable to listen to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be fair my tattoos probably give a good idea as to my politics and spiritual beliefs, I would imagine I (we) would avoid meeting people we had a massive political difference with, and that it would become quite obvious if that was the case as we tend to chat to people before we meet them

Phil"

I need to find out what most of signs and political tattoos means then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't talk religion or politics with anyone other than my actual family and real friends ..

fab for me is just for casual sex fun ,, not interested in peoples views on that sort of stuff or divulging mine ,, been on socials where people have gone on off about brexit , religion etc i just changed subject ..

For me I have zero care for someones views/stances on that stuff , it has no baring for sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lady on here (she may well comment on this post) I see regularly who's political views are the total opposite of mine. We still manage to enjoy each other between the sheets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is a lady on here (she may well comment on this post) I see regularly who's political views are the total opposite of mine. We still manage to enjoy each other between the sheets

that’s nice I can’t personally do it but good for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure we've ever discussed politics with any prospective meets, and if any future meets broached the subject via message regardless of their leaning I personally would consider they would bore me to sleep not charm my undies off and not arrange a meet on that basis.

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