FabSwingers.com forum: Ugly

By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

So tonight I got a horrid email, called me ugly on the inside and the out.. not sure why, but you can’t please everyone I guess?

So am I horrible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,as you say can't please everyone ,just be have to be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't recall you being horrible on here. Some people get off on the sickest things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know you, but I don't recall seeing anything but nice when your name has popped up here.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You're not a horrible person

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hope you were nice back to them? That’ll grind their gears, and as someone posted earlier it proves you’re not who they say you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible, nope. However, if you prefer Coca-Cola to Pepsi then you're a fucking cunt.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Ugly is a word best used to describe the person who sent that vile email!

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

No not at all. Your nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm horrible as fuck and so I can spot a horrible one. You are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! ... you're horrible for daring to question yourself. I'm sure you aren't so don't waste you're time with such a waster's comment. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly is usually what people do not what they look like or who they are.

Why would you ever consider such a message worth your time or thoughts

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

"Horrible, nope. However, if you prefer Coca-Cola to Pepsi then you're a fucking cunt."

Guess im a cunt then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always good to self reflect Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have great legs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the end the web is full of mean people who are heartless and unfriends so who every said that to u should look at them self before judging others

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"So tonight I got a horrid email, called me ugly on the inside and the out.. not sure why, but you can’t please everyone I guess?

So am I horrible?"

Nope. But the person that sent the message is. Wonder if it's the same person that had nothing better to do on Christmas Eve than to send me nasty messages? Sad really that these people have such small lives...

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Trolls are ugly! End of.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I don't know you, but I don't recall seeing anything but nice when your name has popped up here. "
awww xx

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Horrible, nope. However, if you prefer Coca-Cola to Pepsi then you're a fucking cunt."
pepsi yeh

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Thanks for all the kind words of support, I got angry, but more hurt that someone could be so nasty, why?

Life with the cancer is bad enough, yet alone dealing with insults as bad as this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Horrible, nope. However, if you prefer Coca-Cola to Pepsi then you're a fucking cunt.pepsi yeh"

You magnificent bastard

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Hugs for you xx

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Hugs for you xx"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na your alright from what i seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend of mine deleted her account yesterday due to abusive messages.

She had been on the site before but this time she'd had enough so left.

Luckily I'm in contact with her and we meeting but I just don't understand the nasty approach at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only ugliness apparent was in the behaviour of the person who sent the message. I feel sad when I hear things like this so frequently on here.

There really isn’t enough compassion and love in this world

Hugs x

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"So tonight I got a horrid email, called me ugly on the inside and the out.. not sure why, but you can’t please everyone I guess?

So am I horrible?"
Haters got to hate - I've seen nothing ugly about you

Mr icebreaker

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Friend of mine deleted her account yesterday due to abusive messages.

She had been on the site before but this time she'd had enough so left.

Luckily I'm in contact with her and we meeting but I just don't understand the nasty approach at all"

It’s not necessary is it

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"So tonight I got a horrid email, called me ugly on the inside and the out.. not sure why, but you can’t please everyone I guess?

So am I horrible?Haters got to hate - I've seen nothing ugly about you

Mr icebreaker"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So tonight I got a horrid email, called me ugly on the inside and the out.. not sure why, but you can’t please everyone I guess?

So am I horrible?"

Im afraid we'll need a full colonoscopy video to decide if your insides are ugly. Ideally in 4k HD with directors commentary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friend of mine deleted her account yesterday due to abusive messages.

She had been on the site before but this time she'd had enough so left.

Luckily I'm in contact with her and we meeting but I just don't understand the nasty approach at all

It’s not necessary is it"

I think sites like this this suffer from the dame things as the likes of face book and instagram with the fear of missing out "fomo" effect.

People see others meeting, getting veries, having play pics etc while they are having no luck (especialy guys as well we are a saturated market :p) and for some people this is thier reaction. They protect thier ego by attacking others. They arent "missing out" when they are rejected as they "never wanted you anyway" because of whatever insult they can level at you.

It's shitty and it sucks to be on the reciving end of it but you have to remember it's not a reflection on you but them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friend of mine deleted her account yesterday due to abusive messages.

She had been on the site before but this time she'd had enough so left.

Luckily I'm in contact with her and we meeting but I just don't understand the nasty approach at all

It’s not necessary is it

I think sites like this this suffer from the dame things as the likes of face book and instagram with the fear of missing out "fomo" effect.

It's shitty and it sucks to be on the reciving end of it but you have to remember it's not a reflection on you but them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So tonight I got a horrid email, called me ugly on the inside and the out.. not sure why, but you can’t please everyone I guess?

So am I horrible?"

I've had simular just because they aren't my type or something...some people get bitter if they are knocked back.

I wouldn't let it bother you and keep being fabulous

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Be thankful they didn't threaten to break into your house and r@p.e you which is what happened to a friend on here..

Some twisted and sick puppies about..

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Omg sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says more about the person that sent the message than it does about you. And you’re definitely not ugly in any way x

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Says more about the person that sent the message than it does about you. And you’re definitely not ugly in any way x "

Thank you angie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be thankful they didn't threaten to break into your house and r@p.e you which is what happened to a friend on here..

Some twisted and sick puppies about.. "

I always wonder for people like that are they actually that emotionally unstable to lash out like that or are they just pure hatred inside.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

It wasn’t nice

I’ll post the words in a min

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It wasn’t nice

I’ll post the words in a min"

You shouldn't as it against forum rules

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

So this was the message I got last night, then they blocked me before I could respond..

“You blocked last time we said something to you, what a Fockn ass you are!!

But here you are, if you want to be truly insulted, you’re ugly on the outside, guaranteed to be ugly on the inside as well!”

Funny if I blocked them last time as they claim, how were they able to messsge me???

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"It wasn’t nice

I’ll post the words in a min

You shouldn't as it against forum rules"

Oops not mentioning them by name though, I’d never do that it’s pointless

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Really is best to delete the email, rather then dwelling on the ugly words that were written.

I’ve always seen your comments on the forums as being polite and pleasant x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Horrible, nope. However, if you prefer Coca-Cola to Pepsi then you're a fucking cunt."

Pepsi girl here

How would they know if you’re ugly on the inside or out if you’ve never met ?

Throw an insult out hope it sticks, nothing wrong with you OP, unless you prefer Coke

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"Be thankful they didn't threaten to break into your house and r@p.e you which is what happened to a friend on here..

Some twisted and sick puppies about..

I always wonder for people like that are they actually that emotionally unstable to lash out like that or are they just pure hatred inside. "

It's the unfortunate truth of sites like this that it will draw the dregs of society, those that have failed to retain a relationship, have not achieved anything on standard dating sites and see sites like fab as a certainty to get sex.

When they fail at what in their mind was a foregone conclusion, the nasty side of them comes out..

It is this nasty side that is the reason for their continued failure in any form of relationship and why they become the keyboard warrior, spouting venom to anyone that refuses their approach..

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Horrible, nope. However, if you prefer Coca-Cola to Pepsi then you're a fucking cunt.pepsi yeh"

DR Pepper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be thankful they didn't threaten to break into your house and r@p.e you which is what happened to a friend on here..

Some twisted and sick puppies about..

I always wonder for people like that are they actually that emotionally unstable to lash out like that or are they just pure hatred inside.

When they fail at what in their mind was a foregone conclusion, the nasty side of them comes out..

It is this nasty side that is the reason for their continued failure in any form of relationship and why they become the keyboard warrior, spouting venom to anyone that refuses their approach.. "

Just take it as a compliment. The worse the abuse, the more they wanted to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not easy being a single guy on here despite what women/couples likely think (understandably, I may add). Unfortunately, some guys react to rejection in a very unfortunate manner and resort to 'revenge' tactics/accounts. Sorry, you had the misfortune to receive abuse at the hands of one of these people, but you shouldn't take it to heart as it truly says more about them than it ever does about you.

Personally, I find completely reasonable and polite women/couples telling me that I'm 'not their thing' and to 'have a nice day' far worse

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Horrible, nope. However, if you prefer Coca-Cola to Pepsi then you're a fucking cunt.

Pepsi girl here

How would they know if you’re ugly on the inside or out if you’ve never met ?

Throw an insult out hope it sticks, nothing wrong with you OP, unless you prefer Coke

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pepsi all the way

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Be thankful they didn't threaten to break into your house and r@p.e you which is what happened to a friend on here..

Some twisted and sick puppies about..

I always wonder for people like that are they actually that emotionally unstable to lash out like that or are they just pure hatred inside.

When they fail at what in their mind was a foregone conclusion, the nasty side of them comes out..

It is this nasty side that is the reason for their continued failure in any form of relationship and why they become the keyboard warrior, spouting venom to anyone that refuses their approach..

Just take it as a compliment. The worse the abuse, the more they wanted to fuck you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I doubt it. An opinion as solid and aggressive and rude as that simply means that they lack the ability to be objective when faced with a subjective outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

They are commonly known as as an ignoranus.

(spelt wrong deliberately)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not easy being a single guy on here despite what women/couples likely think (understandably, I may add). Unfortunately, some guys react to rejection in a very unfortunate manner and resort to 'revenge' tactics/accounts. Sorry, you had the misfortune to receive abuse at the hands of one of these people, but you shouldn't take it to heart as it truly says more about them than it ever does about you.

Personally, I find completely reasonable and polite women/couples telling me that I'm 'not their thing' and to 'have a nice day' far worse

Do polite people make you sad?

I think many men feel bad at getting no replies so I try and be polite and always reply to first messages. I don't ever say they're 'not my thing' though.

I think they're usually just relieved I said no.

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"So tonight I got a horrid email, called me ugly on the inside and the out.. not sure why, but you can’t please everyone I guess?

So am I horrible?"

I learnt a new acronym TFTF - too fat to fuck! The charmer Everyday a learning day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Presumably this was after you turned them down ? We get it a hell of a lot. Ignore them ..hugs xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

In a similar vein I got a message this morning saying "Just Clare" - "just-hideous"

No idea why, never spoken to him,what these people get out of it I've no idea.Just why?

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

It’s a sad case of how people can insult others without fear of retribution

Modern society allows this on social media websites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be the person you wish to be . Your beauty is within you.

What others say reflects on them not you x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ignore them and block them. They are in the minority. There are far more nice people on here than not nice x

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"Ignore them and block them. They are in the minority. There are far more nice people on here than not nice x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeap,,I was almost sick lookin at your profile,,

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Sorry

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"yeap,,I was almost sick lookin at your profile,,

I know ugly bitch I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeap,,I was almost sick lookin at your profile,,

I know ugly bitch I am

uglys being polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm.... The person who said those things to you clearly doesn't get the whole swinging lifestyle. No need to be horrible to another human being. Kinda ironic that they should call you horrible by being horrible themselves.

Not that you were asking for a profile review and I hope I don't get blocked off the forums for saying so but you have some fantastic pictures. Perhaps you should give me tips on getting a great pic.

Chin up, for the one person that was nasty towards you there are plenty who are not.

Some men don't get the TV/TS thing and that bothers them. That's their problem not yours.

Xoxo

Eski

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy to nasty when you are anonymous..

And that works in all kinds of scenarios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its easy to nasty when you are anonymous..

And that works in all kinds of scenarios "

its also easy to ignore such garbage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its easy to nasty when you are anonymous..

And that works in all kinds of scenarios

its also easy to ignore such garbage

Yeah... some people enjoy the drama though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its easy to nasty when you are anonymous..

And that works in all kinds of scenarios

its also easy to ignore such garbage

Yeah... some people enjoy the drama though "

oh I can see that

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