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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So today in the office we had a "casual" chat about different vaginas and penises. A couple of guys mentioned how some vaginas can be very ugly.. eg: fat vaginas, big flaps etc... they found it very gross and off putting. I took it a little bit personal obviously isn't mention anything about my private parts but I'm wondering do guys find vaginas like that off putting and disgusting??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I fancy the lady and want to meet her what it looks like is not even a concern. As long as it's clean all is good.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally not but I have seen some pictures on fab that makes it look like a wolf has eaten their vagina.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some men do I've seen comments in the forum along the lines of badly packed kebab, that sort of thing.

My personal opinion is that anyone who body shames men or women is best avoided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my kebab. If someone is offended by it, the browser back button is in one corner somewhere.

Chilli sauce with that?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's the person attached to the cock or pussy that I am interested in not the shape or size of their genitals so nope wouldn't bother me one bit - besides, short of radical surgery, it's what someone was born with and there's nothing anyone can do to change it.

Genitals don't define the person they're attached to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men should be thankful they see a vagina, let alone judge it!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So today in the office we had a "casual" chat about different vaginas and penises. A couple of guys mentioned how some vaginas can be very ugly.. eg: fat vaginas, big flaps etc... they found it very gross and off putting. I took it a little bit personal obviously isn't mention anything about my private parts but I'm wondering do guys find vaginas like that off putting and disgusting?? "

What kind of office is this? I would be straight into the HR department if I took it personal as you have. What kind of men do you work with who can easily discuss vagina’s in the office?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they're done with me, they look like roadkill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally not but I have seen some pictures on fab that makes it look like a wolf has eaten their vagina."

It's these kinds of comments that make women self conscious about their labia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally not but I have seen some pictures on fab that makes it look like a wolf has eaten their vagina.

It's these kinds of comments that make women self conscious about their labia."

Thankfully, it'll say more about them that it ever will about my bits n bobs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Generally not but I have seen some pictures on fab that makes it look like a wolf has eaten their vagina.

It's these kinds of comments that make women self conscious about their labia."

I do think porn has a lot to answer for in this respect. Womens external genitals are always neat and even it give both men and women a false impression.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Generally not but I have seen some pictures on fab that makes it look like a wolf has eaten their vagina."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So today in the office we had a "casual" chat about different vaginas and penises. A couple of guys mentioned how some vaginas can be very ugly.. eg: fat vaginas, big flaps etc... they found it very gross and off putting. I took it a little bit personal obviously isn't mention anything about my private parts but I'm wondering do guys find vaginas like that off putting and disgusting?? "

Mine looks fresh to begin and then oh dear looks like smashed lasagne rig used right ?! Luckily it’s designed to stretch and shrink... human Lycra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t find them disgusting at all. It’s actually quite interesting to me how different they can be. And I’m a sucker for a natural hairy fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body shaming and undermining self-esteem of anybody is a pretty low thing to do. It reduces a person to body parts.

Anyone doing it probably ought to be avoided as they clearly have no regard for the other person.

Both men and women do it. I often see comments about men's cocks such as 'seen one seen them all' and references to shape and size.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Body shaming and undermining self-esteem of anybody is a pretty low thing to do. It reduces a person to body parts.

Anyone doing it probably ought to be avoided as they clearly have no regard for the other person.

Both men and women do it. I often see comments about men's cocks such as 'seen one seen them all' and references to shape and size. "

Yep. People often make these very personal comments without regard for the people they're talking about.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've got a naturally fleshy mons pubis.

My labia isn't large nor does it protrude

But I do have a chubby vagene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t find them disgusting at all. It’s actually quite interesting to me how different they can be. And I’m a sucker for a natural hairy fanny "

Funny you say this, I recently grew mine, simply.cba grooming . Today i neatened it and got trigger happy, so am no longer Matured 80s look. Actually Feel lighter :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a naturally fleshy mons pubis.

My labia isn't large nor does it protrude

But I do have a chubby vagene"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they're done with me, they look like roadkill."

What a stud. Comments like that make me want to just jump on your cock and loose myself.....

Aren’t you the chap that was wondering why he wasn’t getting many meets the other day on here. Just a thought hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they're done with me, they look like roadkill.

What a stud. Comments like that make me want to just jump on your cock and loose myself.....

Aren’t you the chap that was wondering why he wasn’t getting many meets the other day on here. Just a thought hun

"

Sass I love the tone I read the HUN in in my head *-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t find them disgusting at all. It’s actually quite interesting to me how different they can be. And I’m a sucker for a natural hairy fanny

Funny you say this, I recently grew mine, simply.cba grooming . Today i neatened it and got trigger happy, so am no longer Matured 80s look. Actually Feel lighter :/"

Ah no don’t say that. I’m the same myself I get pretty lazy in the trimming department unless its for a meet and the other party specifically wanted me shaved. I feel like I look odd without pubes as I’m so hairy all over.

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

There are obviously some that look more aesthetically appealing than others but it wouldn't put me off the person

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Nope, not at all. I like a more 'complex' vagina with plenty to look at and play with. Most porn would be massively dull if it wasn't for the sheer diversity of them! If they all looked the same, it'd be dull. What is unattractive is obvious signs of untreated illness or general poor hygeine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private Parts , aka PP a jolly splendid chap and friend .

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


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Aren’t you the chap that was wondering why he wasn’t getting many meets the other day on here. "

That REALLY narrows it down....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"So today in the office we had a "casual" chat about different vaginas and penises. A couple of guys mentioned how some vaginas can be very ugly.. eg: fat vaginas, big flaps etc... they found it very gross and off putting. I took it a little bit personal obviously isn't mention anything about my private parts but I'm wondering do guys find vaginas like that off putting and disgusting?? "
don't take any notice... they're silly boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally not but I have seen some pictures on fab that makes it look like a wolf has eaten their vagina.

It's these kinds of comments that make women self conscious about their labia.

I do think porn has a lot to answer for in this respect. Womens external genitals are always neat and even it give both men and women a false impression.

"

You haven't seen big labia porn then?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Generally not but I have seen some pictures on fab that makes it look like a wolf has eaten their vagina.

It's these kinds of comments that make women self conscious about their labia.

I do think porn has a lot to answer for in this respect. Womens external genitals are always neat and even it give both men and women a false impression.

You haven't seen big labia porn then? "

This is true. . I should have thought about the fact that there is a porn category for every type of labia

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I'd have called that a NSFW chat

Judge not lest ye be judged eh?

Not into body shaming. Everyone is different.

V x

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"

I do think porn has a lot to answer for in this respect. Womens external genitals are always neat [...]

"

Maybe the big-budget glitzy American stuff but that kind of content is a dying market. Modern stuff is way more diverse, a lot of the content is produced by women and I would say that of all the regular hetero porn produced, about 75% features 'amateur' models, favours the 'natural' look, loads of porn about now that is body hair positive, there's stuff out there for all preferences.You could only want to see ginger women who weigh over 100 kilos and still there's enough out there on the Web to keep the most insatiable fapper busy for months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't let a guy to down on me ... a) got told it smelt / tasted funny apparently "larger" ladies don't have personal hygiene dialled umm I work in healthcare I do and b) as a result self esteem is at bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any chance of them seeing an actual vulva and going balls deep into a vagina - bet they wouldn't be complaining?

As a SSBBW, I consider my puffy pillow (mons pubis) somewhere relaxing for them rest their forehead. You know, in case their tongue gets tired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any chance of them seeing an actual vulva and going balls deep into a vagina - bet they wouldn't be complaining?

As a SSBBW, I consider my puffy pillow (mons pubis) somewhere relaxing for them rest their forehead. You know, in case their tongue gets tired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I don't let a guy to down on me ... a) got told it smelt / tasted funny apparently "larger" ladies don't have personal hygiene dialled umm I work in healthcare I do and b) as a result self esteem is at bottom "

I think some men expect a natural vagina to taste of honey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like it if they tasted of Mint Viscounts. Love those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love pouting pussy lips, but some aren't attractive but wouldn't put me off licking or fucking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am surprised how much penises vary, so many are small, ugly or deformed. Thankfully I do not have that problem

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I do think porn has a lot to answer for in this respect. Womens external genitals are always neat [...]

Maybe the big-budget glitzy American stuff but that kind of content is a dying market. Modern stuff is way more diverse, a lot of the content is produced by women and I would say that of all the regular hetero porn produced, about 75% features 'amateur' models, favours the 'natural' look, loads of porn about now that is body hair positive, there's stuff out there for all preferences.You could only want to see ginger women who weigh over 100 kilos and still there's enough out there on the Web to keep the most insatiable fapper busy for months."

Yes, I acknowledged that up thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an aside.

Interesting office you work in where that is a general topic of discussion.

Cocks tomorrow?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So today in the office we had a "casual" chat about different vaginas and penises. A couple of guys mentioned how some vaginas can be very ugly.. eg: fat vaginas, big flaps etc... they found it very gross and off putting. I took it a little bit personal obviously isn't mention anything about my private parts but I'm wondering do guys find vaginas like that off putting and disgusting??

What kind of office is this? I would be straight into the HR department if I took it personal as you have. What kind of men do you work with who can easily discuss vagina’s in the office? "

To make it clear we were all just having a laugh, making jokes etc.. and that subject kind of rolled in in a jokey way. I was a little bit offended (maybe more shocked) as I didn't think men would be bothered by the size or shape of the private parts. X

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