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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I play a sport that means I constantly have scrapes and grazes on my legs arms or hands.

Can I get opinions? Would this put you off? Have had a few socials and it hasn’t helped first impressions with grazed body parts.

I always explain but I’m sure it’s put people off me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put us off.

We met a guy who was very bruised after a bad encounter on a previous meet a few days before .... He was hit with a baseball bat.

I'm surprised he met us after that experience.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No. If you were a woman. If you were a woman and had some scars then definitely sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play a sport that means I constantly have scrapes and grazes on my legs arms or hands.

Can I get opinions? Would this put you off? Have had a few socials and it hasn’t helped first impressions with grazed body parts.

I always explain but I’m sure it’s put people off me"

Wouldn’t put me off at all.

My brother in law told my husband I was damaged goods (for reasons not similar to yours OP) when we got together. He continues to call me it when slagging me off (my brother in law that is, not my husband).

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m exceptionally clumsy and bruise like a peach so it wouldn’t put me off. I’m probably in a similar state anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bruise really easily, always have some bruising on my arms and legs. It’s never been an issue when meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all! I'm often battered from life hobbies ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all. As long as they weren’t really hurt or in any pain.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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"Wouldn't put us off.

We met a guy who was very bruised after a bad encounter on a previous meet a few days before .... He was hit with a baseball bat.

I'm surprised he met us after that experience.

"

How did he get hit with a baseball bat?.....did he tell you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d put up with a lady’s cuts and bruises, and hopefully in a reciprocal arrangement she’ll accept my weeping genital sores. Can’t say fairer than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't put us off.

We met a guy who was very bruised after a bad encounter on a previous meet a few days before .... He was hit with a baseball bat.

I'm surprised he met us after that experience.

How did he get hit with a baseball bat?.....did he tell you?"

Yeah he met a couple of fab, it was their first experience of a threesome. The husband got jealous and went into a rage.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Wouldn't put us off.

We met a guy who was very bruised after a bad encounter on a previous meet a few days before .... He was hit with a baseball bat.

I'm surprised he met us after that experience.

How did he get hit with a baseball bat?.....did he tell you?

Yeah he met a couple of fab, it was their first experience of a threesome. The husband got jealous and went into a rage. "

Seriously?!! bloody hell! Talk about fragile egos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d put up with a lady’s cuts and bruises, and hopefully in a reciprocal arrangement she’ll accept my weeping genital sores. Can’t say fairer than that! "

There is always one haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't put us off.

We met a guy who was very bruised after a bad encounter on a previous meet a few days before .... He was hit with a baseball bat.

I'm surprised he met us after that experience.

How did he get hit with a baseball bat?.....did he tell you?

Yeah he met a couple of fab, it was their first experience of a threesome. The husband got jealous and went into a rage.

Seriously?!! bloody hell! Talk about fragile egos. "

I honestly can't believe he met us a few days later, I think it would of put me off fab for life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have burns on my arms and it hasn't stopped people meeting me

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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"Wouldn't put us off.

We met a guy who was very bruised after a bad encounter on a previous meet a few days before .... He was hit with a baseball bat.

I'm surprised he met us after that experience.

How did he get hit with a baseball bat?.....did he tell you?

Yeah he met a couple of fab, it was their first experience of a threesome. The husband got jealous and went into a rage. "

Haha I can just see Bernard Breslaw as Gripper the wrestler in the carry on films coming home

And kicking off ......" Where is he ! "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have burns on my arms and it hasn't stopped people meeting me"
how did you get the burns?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha! The guy said he was bricking it because he was pretty sure he was going to walk through the wall like the terminator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often have damaged body parts, I play with sharp things a lot...

Seriously would not want sex with an unknown if I have cuts to my hands or fingers. That wouldn't be safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I play a sport that means I constantly have scrapes and grazes on my legs arms or hands.

Can I get opinions? Would this put you off? Have had a few socials and it hasn’t helped first impressions with grazed body parts.

I always explain but I’m sure it’s put people off me

Wouldn’t put me off at all.

My brother in law told my husband I was damaged goods (for reasons not similar to yours OP) when we got together. He continues to call me it when slagging me off (my brother in law that is, not my husband). "

Well your husband did well not to listen. You seem like top shelf goods to me!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

No, I slept with a girl who was a self harmer and had scars all on her inner thighs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I met one of my regular partners he looked sheepish and covered his stomach after undressing, and explained that he had deep scars in his stomach from operations.

So, I moved his hands and kissed them.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"The first time I met one of my regular partners he looked sheepish and covered his stomach after undressing, and explained that he had deep scars in his stomach from operations.

So, I moved his hands and kissed them.

"
Nice move

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Wouldn't bother me. I'm always covered in bruises and little marks from cannulas/infusion sites. Hate it but no option. I'd hope it wouldn't bother anyone else either!

V x

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

They probably find you explaining yourself more off putting than the bruises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have burns on my arms and it hasn't stopped people meeting me how did you get the burns? "

Motorbike crash, fuel tank sent fuel over my body and it ignited as I was trapped under machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play a sport that means I constantly have scrapes and grazes on my legs arms or hands.

Can I get opinions? Would this put you off? Have had a few socials and it hasn’t helped first impressions with grazed body parts.

I always explain but I’m sure it’s put people off me"

Not at all..I prefer the rough & ready look to someone who's pristine looking!..

I find scars attractive each one tells a story.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

They say chicks dig scars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say chicks dig scars."

Tis true

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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"They say chicks dig scars.

Tis true"

I think every scar is a story, usually interesting one too

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