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By *arc82 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

If I want to have a few hours of fun with a partner, I use Viagra. Yes I can go for an hour or two without it.......but longer than that and things get a little "strained"!!

If i mention at work that I use Viagra.....at always seems to invoke negative responses like.....

"What do you need that for?"

"Can't you get it up ?"

"Why don't you just get 'her' to sort it ?" (wtf?)

Always demeaning, negative stuff.

Is it really a slant on a guys performance and should I feel inadequate? It seems to me that it's almost better not to talk about it.

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of that talk at work sounds like machismo, just roll with it, im sure you’re not the only one who needs it.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"If I want to have a few hours of fun with a partner, I use Viagra. Yes I can go for an hour or two without it.......but longer than that and things get a little "strained"!!

If i mention at work that I use Viagra.....at always seems to invoke negative responses like.....

"What do you need that for?"

"Can't you get it up ?"

"Why don't you just get 'her' to sort it ?" (wtf?)

Always demeaning, negative stuff.

Is it really a slant on a guys performance and should I feel inadequate? It seems to me that it's almost better not to talk about it.

Thoughts?

"

If you're using it because you have to, fine.

If you're using it to stay hard longer, less fine.

To your question, if you don't want to be judged, don't give people anything to judge you on.

Why are you discussing your sex life with your work colleagues? None of their business is it?

Unless you were hoping telling them you lasted for ages would somehow enhance your reputation/status among your peers.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"If I want to have a few hours of fun with a partner, I use Viagra. Yes I can go for an hour or two without it.......but longer than that and things get a little "strained"!!

If i mention at work that I use Viagra.....at always seems to invoke negative responses like.....

"What do you need that for?"

"Can't you get it up ?"

"Why don't you just get 'her' to sort it ?" (wtf?)

Always demeaning, negative stuff.

Is it really a slant on a guys performance and should I feel inadequate? It seems to me that it's almost better not to talk about it.

Thoughts?

"

It wouldn't be as popular as it is, if many many guys weren't using it. Medically and recreationally.

I bought some of the Connect stuff over the counter, a few months back because I was on the Keto diet. As much as the diet was effective in shifting flab, it was also a massive boner killer. That was my reason for using it, you have your reasons, unless the guys at work are gonna join you in the bedroom to act as you personal fluffer, it's none of their business anyway.

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By *HE B0SSCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Sydney

* One to watch. Excellent post OP

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By *arc82 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

I don't discuss my sex life......people were discussing if they'd ever used it and i said yes and got "shot down" in flames!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Just a thought, some women don't want to be doing it for hours! I'm one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of workplace discussions sometimes remind me of being back in the playground at school, sometimes i wonder if anyone has grown up at all.....

Its alpha male syndrome a lot of the time, by the naysayers needing to be seen as top gun....ignore their infantile quips i say.

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By *arc82 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

I agree........quality over quantity but some girls do want hours and hours and Im done in about two. (There goes my friend invites!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use it all the time, makes me feel like a teenager again, rock hard stiffy. I just got to stick it somewhere. The best thing ever since sliced bread.

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By *arc82 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

I do use it recreationally and this is why i am getting slated. I don't see it as being any different from using sex toys in the bedroom but this doesn't seem to be frowned upon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do use it recreationally and this is why i am getting slated. I don't see it as being any different from using sex toys in the bedroom but this doesn't seem to be frowned upon. "

Possibly as sex toys aren't a medical aid for those who have issues with their erection?

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By *arc82 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

.............and should i be frowned upon then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do use it recreationally and this is why i am getting slated. I don't see it as being any different from using sex toys in the bedroom but this doesn't seem to be frowned upon. "

Women that use sex toys are sexy as fuck.

Men that use sex toys are dirty perverts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".............and should i be frowned upon then?"

Not at all. Next time tell them nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too foxyminx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".............and should i be frowned upon then?"

By some you will be

I couldn't give a shit - was just advancing a theory

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By *arc82 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

lol.........ive had it!

Oh and you are right........I wish I hadn't mentioned it at work.......or here now too !

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Me too foxyminx "

Thanks! Who the hell wants hours of being pounded away at? No thanks!

Bit of foreplay, (where hopefully I cum) then about 20 mins fucking, then I am bored.

A bit of a rest, a chat, another glass of wine then back again if wanted, if it takes longer than that you're doing it wrong

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I use it because I need to due to my MS. I'm very grateful for it. And so is Miss lol.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I've heard more Men say they use Viagra especially after they have been on a night out then Men who say I fuck for hours, I've never heard anyone say "why did you take it or need it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll all be asking where you got it from when they get you alone.

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By *arc82 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"They'll all be asking where you got it from when they get you alone. "

One of them already has, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an old girl. An hour is enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You feel inadequate as you can only keep it going for 2 hours. Bloody hell, 2 hours with a constant erection is plenty enough for me!

Bollox to these all nighter fuck fests, I’d rather roll over and get some kip to be honest. 2 hours is flippin’ plenty!!

And if you really do have a woman that demands hours and hours then use your hands, tongue and toys while your cock takes a break for a bit and re-engergises itself.

Any lass that demands that I keep going for 4, 5 or 6 hours of non-stop cock action can go fuck herself. Literally!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought, some women don't want to be doing it for hours! I'm one of them "

Well yes! We should have coffee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You feel inadequate as you can only keep it going for 2 hours. Bloody hell, 2 hours with a constant erection is plenty enough for me!

Bollox to these all nighter fuck fests, I’d rather roll over and get some kip to be honest. 2 hours is flippin’ plenty!!

And if you really do have a woman that demands hours and hours then use your hands, tongue and toys while your cock takes a break for a bit and re-engergises itself.

Any lass that demands that I keep going for 4, 5 or 6 hours of non-stop cock action can go fuck herself. Literally!!"

How many men can actually fuck for hours? Even young, very fit men get tired after a while; I doubt they can pound away for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me too foxyminx

Thanks! Who the hell wants hours of being pounded away at? No thanks!

Bit of foreplay, (where hopefully I cum) then about 20 mins fucking, then I am bored.

A bit of a rest, a chat, another glass of wine then back again if wanted, if it takes longer than that you're doing it wrong

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Spot on

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Just a thought, some women don't want to be doing it for hours! I'm one of them

Well yes! We should have coffee! "

I prefer wine lol

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By *arc82 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Wine and Viagra have similar effects.......they both make your cheeks flushed with colour and feel a little heady !

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

It goes to show a huge percentage of men are liars.

!/They can go for hours! Well thats B/S

2/It really is 10 inches! More B/S

3/Honest im single! Even more B/S

Take no notice OP to what other guys tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took one a 5omg it got me hard but had a banging headache after though

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