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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I have a theory based on my own life experience, guys basically are mainly bisexual.

When we’re younger we don’t think about it, we’re machoistic and very hetrosexual, then as we age we become curious but publicly still macho, then as our own seclude at home deteriorate we get more curios and even secretly try it, some are put off, some disgusted with themselves, but it becomes more addictive

I ended up being who I am because I tried secretly about 15 yrs ago, disgusted with myself, but I went back every now n then..

As time passed it was a very periodic thing for me, then via depression I was on estrogen for 12 months

That changed how I feel and made me considrr dressing, since then I can’t stop, now I’ve too many clothes I am going to get rid of some...

Now I’m bi

I prefer women, love tvs, and enjoy a nice cock

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By *isexycockMan
over a year ago

Worcester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree"

I ask my husband often if there’s anything he’d like to try, I joke that he would be the perfect ‘bottom’ but nope. He’s not curious in the slightest to do anything sexual with men or TVs/TS, he’s straight

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston

I'd say it's a scale, 1-10, 1 being 100% Straight, 10 being 100% Gay.

Most people are closer to one end of the scale than the other, some closer to the middle.

I'm very straight, but have no squeamishness about homosexuality. I don't baulk if I see 2 guys engaged in sexual activity, it has no sexual effect on me, in much the same way as watching someone eating an apple has no sexual effect on me.

So being completely honest, I'd probably be about a '2' using my scale, but nothing has changed in that respect since I became sexually aware, and I really can't see anythig changing now I'm in my mid forties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be very knee jerk no way reaction when we started playing all those years ago. Slowly but surely all those cocks waving near me with their different hormones and scents made me want to feel and lick and suck them.

It was no good. I couldn't resist. I was ready to burst and just blurted it out that I was Bi and needed to be open with Mrs N about it.

She was fine with it and said that she was OK with it but it didn't turn her on. That has become a bit of a problem over the years as I feel I am less able to express my Bisexuality as much as I would like. I sort of feel awkward about it and is a source of a little wall growing between us. Does this mean we are not as compatible as we once thought. I do wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'd disagree. I don't think all men are mainly bisexual.

If pushed, I'd give a stupid guesstimate at the figure being closer to 1/3 Homosexual 1/3 Bisexual 1/3 Hetrosexual. I've no figures or facts to base that on, only life experience.

I'm not insulted by your theory, but I imagine there will be a lot of people within all three groups of men who may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it's a scale, 1-10, 1 being 100% Straight, 10 being 100% Gay.

Most people are closer to one end of the scale than the other, some closer to the middle.

I'm very straight, but have no squeamishness about homosexuality. I don't baulk if I see 2 guys engaged in sexual activity, it has no sexual effect on me, in much the same way as watching someone eating an apple has no sexual effect on me.

So being completely honest, I'd probably be about a '2' using my scale, but nothing has changed in that respect since I became sexually aware, and I really can't see anythig changing now I'm in my mid forties!"

I'd place you at a 4 if your don't baulk at a gay sex scene It took me a while to get comfy with that and I'm definately bisexual I've never been homophobic though. Always vocally supporting LGBTEWSVJIG's right to be treated like everyone else and.... had Gay friends Could I watch gay sex, or not dry wretch at gay men discussing their sex lives as open as straight man does with his friends when i was younger? Could i fuuuuuck I'd have been a 2 under your scale. You'd be a 4 and I'm now an 7-8... I think

Unless this scale has negative numbers and what I described myself as being was actually a bit homophobic (I'd not say so) in which case you may be a 2 and I may have been a -1.

I like your scale, good post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be very knee jerk no way reaction when we started playing all those years ago. Slowly but surely all those cocks waving near me with their different hormones and scents made me want to feel and lick and suck them.

It was no good. I couldn't resist. I was ready to burst and just blurted it out that I was Bi and needed to be open with Mrs N about it.

She was fine with it and said that she was OK with it but it didn't turn her on. That has become a bit of a problem over the years as I feel I am less able to express my Bisexuality as much as I would like. I sort of feel awkward about it and is a source of a little wall growing between us. Does this mean we are not as compatible as we once thought. I do wonder."

I take it she doesn't use the forum? I'd suggest you need to talk to each other if that's on your mind.

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston

Interesting point, I guess a 1 would be the limit of Straightness before encroaching into the realms of homophobia... But let's face it, the homophobes could fall pretty much anywhere on the scale if they were honest!!

As a younger man, my partner's brother was gay, so I spent a lot of my 20s/30s socialising with gay men, and remain good friends with many, so it was always pretty normal to me - just not a normal that floated my own boat!

There have been times where I would love to fall in the middle of the scale - sounds like so much fun!! - but for me, it's only ladies that put lead in my pencil!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your sexuality line has something to it you know.. you should start a new thread on it So we don't derail this one.

I want to see which number is Ground Zero "Oh shit, did I really just try that!? Am I a gay now? I I don't even know if I liked it or hated it! Help!".

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston


"I think your sexuality line has something to it you know.. you should start a new thread on it So we don't derail this one.

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There seem to be an awful lot of threads where men wrestle with their sexuality, I don't think we need me to add to it!! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good god. Another male bi thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good god. Another male bi thread? "

Not me this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My theory is that many guys 'become' bi after watching too much porn (is it possible to watch too much porn)?. If the cumshot is the most arousing part of the video then I think that many guys gradually over time link the vision of a guy shooting his load with their own sexual pleasure as they bash themselves senseless. It's then easy to see how some guys are then gradually re-wired to actually get turned on solely by watching guys cum.

Or it may just be that some blokes like a bit of cock as well as pussy ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My theory is that many guys 'become' bi after watching too much porn (is it possible to watch too much porn)?. If the cumshot is the most arousing part of the video then I think that many guys gradually over time link the vision of a guy shooting his load with their own sexual pleasure as they bash themselves senseless. It's then easy to see how some guys are then gradually re-wired to actually get turned on solely by watching guys cum.

Or it may just be that some blokes like a bit of cock as well as pussy ..."

Cumshot being the best bit??? I like the build up myself. Story lines are awesome lmfao.

That might be true for some, it sounds credible in some cases. I've wondered if that's the case.. where men are attracted to Tgirls or if I have been influenced to dress up because of it? I don't think it's the case with me. I don't really give much thought to it anymore though. I'm happy.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"My theory is that many guys 'become' bi after watching too much porn (is it possible to watch too much porn)?. If the cumshot is the most arousing part of the video then I think that many guys gradually over time link the vision of a guy shooting his load with their own sexual pleasure as they bash themselves senseless. It's then easy to see how some guys are then gradually re-wired to actually get turned on solely by watching guys cum.

Or it may just be that some blokes like a bit of cock as well as pussy ..."

I'm not sure how much credance I would give that theory, if it's possible to be 'programmed' as bi or gay then you can be deprogrammed, just like the churches have been trying to do for a long time...

Still not worked yet!

I think that sexuality is fluid, it's part of who you are, not so much a 'born this way' but definitely a case of moving over time as you mature.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Good god. Another male bi thread? "

Apparently so!

Maybe someone should contact the LGBQT council so we can get better organised and spread these things out, it would be awful to have all the straight people feel marginalised.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"I have a theory based on my own life experience, guys basically are mainly bisexual."

Here's the problem. It sounds like you're projecting you own unique journey and experiences on to the male population as a whole.

As much as I agree that it is likely, that there are far more bi-curious guys (I use the term loosely) than would openly admit to it, I see no reason to believe this would be true of all, or even most men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it's a scale, 1-10, 1 being 100% Straight, 10 being 100% Gay.

Most people are closer to one end of the scale than the other, some closer to the middle.

I'm very straight, but have no squeamishness about homosexuality. I don't baulk if I see 2 guys engaged in sexual activity, it has no sexual effect on me, in much the same way as watching someone eating an apple has no sexual effect on me.

So being completely honest, I'd probably be about a '2' using my scale, but nothing has changed in that respect since I became sexually aware, and I really can't see anythig changing now I'm in my mid forties!"

The purple-red scale takes other sexualities into consideration.

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By *udio2Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have never found a man sexually attractive, but a woman with a cock is a HUGE turn on. Go figure.

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