FabSwingers.com forum: According to what your profile says

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Within the last year, have you met anyone who doesn't exactly match the criteria in your profile?

For example - if your profile says you're looking for men aged 35 to 40, have you met a man aged 48?

Why did you meet them? Are your profile details just a guide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No criteria. Met loads of you at a social

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

No, not met with anyone who does not match.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Most of our profile is more about where we like to meet and how we like to interact. That's not set in stone but very much preferred so very little compromise on that. We don't have a set body type so that's flexible, as is age despite the criteria on the profile. That's a guide.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not met anyone...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We only met people who matched our profile and we matched theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im flexible

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I only met a. Oullenof people last year and they definitely matched my criteria (and I theirs).

This doesn’t mean that standards won’t slip in 2019.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Everyone I've met, and played with, met my criteria. Thee are people outside of these who I have met socially either at clubs or arranged socials but that's as far as it went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone I’ve had sex with has met my criteria. I don’t stray from it.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My profile is probably mislead some people, I'm even more awesome in real life.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Everyone I've met in the last year was outside my criteria but then I'm just a slut..

Just kidding..

I met bugger all people last year due to being too busy.. this year, it's going to be a lot different and I doubt I will compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but 1 isn’t exactly a large population to study

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Some bits of our profile are guide lines other parts we won't waiver on we know what bits they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to tell sometimes as you can't check people's profiles on a spontaneous night out.

Either way it's probably a rough guide. We tend to switch alot depending on scenario/fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone I've met doesn't meet my criteria as my profile states not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No criteria. Met one person. Liked her. Had a great fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have met people outside of my criteria.

However the majority of those have been people that I've got chatting to on the forum. The majority of my criteria is just mainly to limit the amount of messages. If I see a profile that I like the look of and they are outside of what I specify then I will just message and see what happens.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Most met some or all of my criteria. I’m prepared to be flexible on some aspects but not others

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Genuine people - tbe only criteria. Its the personality that does it every time. Met some lovely peeps.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes met loads of people at socials , not played with anyone.... Yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I change my age range periodically so they won't always marry up to who I've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within the last year, have you met anyone who doesn't exactly match the criteria in your profile?

For example - if your profile says you're looking for men aged 35 to 40, have you met a man aged 48?

Why did you meet them? Are your profile details just a guide?

Yes

Cos I like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more a guide than a checklist.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

One of my meets was outside my criteria in that it was with a couple which I don't specify I am looking for (although am open to with the right couple) so they didn't match my criteria from that perspective but in all other respects they matched exactly what I look for

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Within the last year, have you met anyone who doesn't exactly match the criteria in your profile?

For example - if your profile says you're looking for men aged 35 to 40, have you met a man aged 48?

Why did you meet them? Are your profile details just a guide?

I'll meet anyone.

*attention whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meet meet verified guys. Took a chance on an unverified guy. Won't repeat that mistake again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My criteria isn't that stringent, so it's easy to find men who fit. The only one I've broken is my lower age preference, but it's someone I've met several times before so I knew he was "suitable"!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Longer than a year ago but Swing didn’t completely meet my criteria, he’s too young

In fairness it was never meant to be anything more than a social. We’d interacted on the forum and as Swing was up north we thought it’d be nice to have coffee. My details were never a guide I knew what I liked. Men aged 40-50 that was until I met one aged 37 and I never met another man again

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The only criteria that I have really is age and that's just a guide. Beyond that it's just a case of 'don't be a dick', so in terms of that; yes, I did break my criteria...

Only joking, the people I met last year were lovely people.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Only meet meet verified guys. Took a chance on an unverified guy. Won't repeat that mistake again."

I'm wondering if this is where I'm going wrong. Compared to many blokes on here I am having decent response rates from messages and even had a couple of women who I am really enjoying talking to say they'd be amenable to meeting but so far it's proving tricky to actually get to meet them... I wonder how much of this is last minute hesitation due to my lack of veris. I did meet someone from the site a few months back and we both had a good time but being new to the site at the time I didn't realise that maybe I was selling myself short by not asking her to verify me. Actually with hindsight I'm impresses I got a meet in my first two weeks of membership.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I have met people outside of my criteria.

Yes the message limiter is a good point. I was pondering if people limit their profile 'wants' to cut down on messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for all the varied replies.

My OP question was because some people mail even when they don't fit the criteria on those profiles. Always a chance that person might still meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go older, slimmer, curvier, but I'm confident I'd never go younger.

But no I've not met anyone outside my preferences, though noones asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. She was younger than what I usually go for but she has a nice ass and a nice personality to match...last but not least she worked at Scotch and Soda and I wanted some good prices to buy new pants

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Within the last year, have you met anyone who doesn't exactly match the criteria in your profile?

For example - if your profile says you're looking for men aged 35 to 40, have you met a man aged 48?

Why did you meet them? Are your profile details just a guide?

My profiles written specifically to dissuade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say that I have not met anyone who does not match my criteria.

Remove the last six words and the sentence remains accurate.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im flexible

You look very flexible.. I'm 48 .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I think everyone I've played with has met what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a very basic criteria which was definitely met on a number of occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to see here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from here, but I've just accepted the offer of a date from a man older than me.

An actual date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Within the last year, have you met anyone who doesn't exactly match the criteria in your profile?

For example - if your profile says you're looking for men aged 35 to 40, have you met a man aged 48?

Why did you meet them? Are your profile details just a guide?

My profiles written specifically to dissuade.

Excellent work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not from here, but I've just accepted the offer of a date from a man older than me.

An actual date."

oooohhhhh yay!!

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can honestly say that I have not met anyone who does not match my criteria.

Remove the last six words and the sentence remains accurate."

Aww

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have met people I thought matched but it turned out they didn’t

V x

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By *arol dawnWoman
over a year ago

near margate

Why do people thing after the age of 50 you are past it I have a bigger sex drive now then I did 10 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t met anyone out of my preferences

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Always been within our preference at the time. It’s our preferences that’s changed after meeting people!

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By *hrekfionaCouple
over a year ago

Leven

I said I wouldn't do car fun, met a guy In his car, made me realise why is at that rule... but was more of a, I knew him from high school and he made a horrible rumour up about me (being shit at oral) kinda wanted the satisfaction, went out he cum within 5mins of being in my mouth... who was shit now?!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Within the last year, have you met anyone who doesn't exactly match the criteria in your profile?

For example - if your profile says you're looking for men aged 35 to 40, have you met a man aged 48?

Why did you meet them? Are your profile details just a guide?

My profiles written specifically to dissuade.

Excellent work.

It seems to do the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not from here, but I've just accepted the offer of a date from a man older than me.

An actual date.

oooohhhhh yay!!

Good luck.

I'm a little apprehensive as he seems a bit too keen and has been talking about how he likes to take care of his woman and buy her things.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Not from here, but I've just accepted the offer of a date from a man older than me.

An actual date.

oooohhhhh yay!!

Good luck.

I'm a little apprehensive as he seems a bit too keen and has been talking about how he likes to take care of his woman and buy her things."

Tell him you want a Ferrari.

Give it to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not from here, but I've just accepted the offer of a date from a man older than me.

An actual date.

oooohhhhh yay!!

Good luck.

I'm a little apprehensive as he seems a bit too keen and has been talking about how he likes to take care of his woman and buy her things."

Sugar daddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The criteria are for fab only, reduces the number of people we wouldn't generally consider but in a club attraction is attraction. No filters required in there.

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