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Getting rejected purely on your face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

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I’ve seen photos of bald men and re photo angle has made me think it was their cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't fancy your face then they don't fancy your face. Not much you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if someone doesn’t find you attractive, why wouldn’t the reject you?

Chin up.

(Faces are more attractive than cocks, by a country mile).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've all been rejected on something.. unless you'd shag anyone you'll be exactly the same surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens to everyone. You will be some people's type, but not everyones. You have a better chance with your face, than you do with your cock though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what your cock looks like, if I don't want to suck your face I'm not sucking your cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if someone doesn’t find you attractive, why wouldn’t the reject you?

Chin up.

(Faces are more attractive than cocks, by a country mile). "

Aye but chronically.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

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When I send my face pic I always get "you're not.my type", or silence. Just gotta think "oh well" as I'd be the same. I'm a face person! Any body shape looks good with a cute face. I don't have a type apart from that. Gotta accept mine ent winning though!

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

Better than being rejected for your personality... surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

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Maybe hide the face pics and save for pms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

Maybe hide the face pics and save for pms"

Would that make a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better than being rejected for your personality... surely "

Was just about to say this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I suppose if you squeeze your glans sideways you can make it smile. Sort of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh so close, it was only your face they didn’t like. If they rejected you because they didn’t like your big toe, then that’s fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rejection,,,,hurts,,ffs man up,,n go for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh so close, it was only your face they didn’t like. If they rejected you because they didn’t like your big toe, then that’s fair enough. "

They're pretty much the same to be fair.

However my toe does have some value at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 7 billion people in the world.

Even if just 1% of the world's population find you attractive that's still 70 million.

Chin up.

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"rejection,,,,hurts,,ffs man up,,n go for it"

Love it!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

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Rejection is part of life, just accept it and roll with. There be someone out there that likes your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh so close, it was only your face they didn’t like. If they rejected you because they didn’t like your big toe, then that’s fair enough. "

id love tosee your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shur hey lads. You don't look at the mantelpiece when you're poking the fire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

Maybe hide the face pics and save for pms

Would that make a difference? "

Try it and see..

If you still get no interest you know its not your face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shur hey lads. You don't look at the mantelpiece when you're poking the fire! "

Handy for us females sometimes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?"

Rejected by 1000’s?!

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By *teveuk77Man
over a year ago

uk


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?"

Are you trying too hard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to meet someone that isn't attracted to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happens to us all.

dont worry about it and move on.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us and only speaking for us, there has to be an attraction. Face and eyes are the key to attraction. Yes a pussy can look pretty and a cock different to others but if your face looks like either of them it won’t be happening. We aren’t everybodoes cup of tea by any means. This may be a swingers site but doesn’t mean everybody is just going to fancy or shag everything because of it.

Attraction & connection are key for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?"

You've been on 7 weeks. Thats hardly any time at all. It takes months sometimes, even longer. Some go to socials to get a foothold. You are close to my neck of the woods. They have quite a few socials in south Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better than being rejected for your personality... surely "

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter what your cock looks like, if I don't want to suck your face I'm not sucking your cock. "

This.

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Why would you want to meet someone that isn't attracted to you "

Why even moan about it? We really don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its going to happen a lot because its just the way of things. There has to be some physical attraction;

It is very difficult in a one dimensional world such as this website as a picture merely indicates to the viewer what a person looks like photographed under certain conditions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be horrible being rejected because of how you look. Rejection for any reason is horrible.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

You can only play with the cards you are dealt in life.

People can’t all be devastatingly handsome (like me ladies)

Work on another angle send cock pics.

A lot of cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please OP just suck it up and block all who think your not attractive enough for them and move on and if they keep doing it use the report to admin button

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham


"There are 7 billion people in the world.

Even if just 1% of the world's population find you attractive that's still 70 million.

Chin up. "

Out of that 70 million in fab terms 69,585,000 will be blokes

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?"

No just you, I mean come on with that face, would you?

(just joking by the way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must be horrible being rejected because of how you look. Rejection for any reason is horrible. "

You get used to it.

However life is too short to be bitter about it. I have been told I look better in real life, which doesn't help when you have tonsend a face pic to get any sort of response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please OP just suck it up and block all who think your not attractive enough for them and move on and if they keep doing it use the report to admin button "

Report people who don't find the OP attractive? Not being attracted to someone is not a reportable offence...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know it's your face? Do people actually reply and tell you that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

You've been on 7 weeks. Thats hardly any time at all. It takes months sometimes, even longer. Some go to socials to get a foothold. You are close to my neck of the woods. They have quite a few socials in south Wales "

I've been on here around 4/5 months. Plus i'm talking about the previous five years on other avenues.

Just a catch 22.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Please OP just suck it up and block all who think your not attractive enough for them and move on and if they keep doing it use the report to admin button "

Yeah report them for turning you down!!!

That will show them.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yep, has happened me a lot.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

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What if you get rejected based on just your cock?

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

How do you know it’s purely down to your face?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"How do you know it’s purely down to your face?"

Because they stop talking after you exchange face pics. One even told me I was ugly and that she only wanted handsome men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

You've been on 7 weeks. Thats hardly any time at all. It takes months sometimes, even longer. Some go to socials to get a foothold. You are close to my neck of the woods. They have quite a few socials in south Wales

I've been on here around 4/5 months. Plus i'm talking about the previous five years on other avenues.

Just a catch 22. "

My mistake. It says 7 weeks on your profile, so i just assumed . You have to remember that the ratio between men and women is massive. It's difficult for a lot of men to get meets on here. Thats why i suggested socials. It's a good way to meet likeninded people and you may secure a meet from it, if you hit it off with someone in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please OP just suck it up and block all who think your not attractive enough for them and move on and if they keep doing it use the report to admin button

Yeah report them for turning you down!!!

That will show them. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

What if you get rejected based on just your cock? "

Chemical castration maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

You've been on 7 weeks. Thats hardly any time at all. It takes months sometimes, even longer. Some go to socials to get a foothold. You are close to my neck of the woods. They have quite a few socials in south Wales

I've been on here around 4/5 months. Plus i'm talking about the previous five years on other avenues.

Just a catch 22.

My mistake. It says 7 weeks on your profile, so i just assumed . You have to remember that the ratio between men and women is massive. It's difficult for a lot of men to get meets on here. Thats why i suggested socials. It's a good way to meet likeninded people and you may secure a meet from it, if you hit it off with someone in person "

I went to a social on my own once.

Didn't end well. Learnt lesson.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The problem is we don’t get to see faces very often so when we see one we like we jump on it (metaphorically), I love kissing and if I don’t feel like I want to kiss you there isn’t much we can do about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was rejected purely on being a knobhead.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead."

Understandable

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead."
and having an ever so small penile attachment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is a huge part of it. To think otherwise would be silly. Would you honestly get with somebody you didn't find attractive? It is kind of a mood killer I'd imagine.

You need to look at it this way.

As an average looking guy, I know the feeling of being rejected on face value, however there will be very few people have not had some sort of rejection physically. Its life, but not everyone has the same view of attractiveness. I've been rejected by some and had others genuinely compliment me on my face. Just how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

You've been on 7 weeks. Thats hardly any time at all. It takes months sometimes, even longer. Some go to socials to get a foothold. You are close to my neck of the woods. They have quite a few socials in south Wales

I've been on here around 4/5 months. Plus i'm talking about the previous five years on other avenues.

Just a catch 22.

My mistake. It says 7 weeks on your profile, so i just assumed . You have to remember that the ratio between men and women is massive. It's difficult for a lot of men to get meets on here. Thats why i suggested socials. It's a good way to meet likeninded people and you may secure a meet from it, if you hit it off with someone in person

I went to a social on my own once.

Didn't end well. Learnt lesson."

Okay then. I'll leave you to your moan

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead. and having an ever so small penile attachment. "

It’s a corker ain’t it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead.

Understandable "

Happens

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead. and having an ever so small penile attachment.

It’s a corker ain’t it "
I don’t need to see his visage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead. and having an ever so small penile attachment.

It’s a corker ain’t it I don’t need to see his visage. "

Fade to grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s understandable though, you are a bit ugly

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead. and having an ever so small penile attachment.

It’s a corker ain’t it I don’t need to see his visage. "

Tell you what, Sandy beach, notice I used a French word? People always fall for a bit of French chat up. You wait and see....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

You've been on 7 weeks. Thats hardly any time at all. It takes months sometimes, even longer. Some go to socials to get a foothold. You are close to my neck of the woods. They have quite a few socials in south Wales

I've been on here around 4/5 months. Plus i'm talking about the previous five years on other avenues.

Just a catch 22.

My mistake. It says 7 weeks on your profile, so i just assumed . You have to remember that the ratio between men and women is massive. It's difficult for a lot of men to get meets on here. Thats why i suggested socials. It's a good way to meet likeninded people and you may secure a meet from it, if you hit it off with someone in person

I went to a social on my own once.

Didn't end well. Learnt lesson.

Okay then. I'll leave you to your moan "

Thank you.

Learn to accept some are just fucked. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just try the fetish and Bdsm scene.....

They are more about kink than ascetics....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead. and having an ever so small penile attachment.

It’s a corker ain’t it I don’t need to see his visage.

Tell you what, Sandy beach, notice I used a French word? People always fall for a bit of French chat up. You wait and see...."

Surlememt

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Just try the fetish and Bdsm scene.....

They are more about kink than ascetics...."

Exactly yeah, they could put a gimp mask on us.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead. and having an ever so small penile attachment.

It’s a corker ain’t it I don’t need to see his visage.

Tell you what, Sandy beach, notice I used a French word? People always fall for a bit of French chat up. You wait and see....

Surlememt "

My phone doesn’t speak French Surelement

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead. and having an ever so small penile attachment.

It’s a corker ain’t it I don’t need to see his visage.

Tell you what, Sandy beach, notice I used a French word? People always fall for a bit of French chat up. You wait and see...."

The oiseaux like it anyway

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Just try the fetish and Bdsm scene.....

They are more about kink than ascetics....

Exactly yeah, they could put a gimp mask on us."

This is why I keep one in my bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are 7 billion people in the world.

Even if just 1% of the world's population find you attractive that's still 70 million.

Chin up.

Out of that 70 million in fab terms 69,585,000 will be blokes"

Beggars can't be choosers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just try the fetish and Bdsm scene.....

They are more about kink than ascetics....

Exactly yeah, they could put a gimp mask on us."

Anytime ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock is a cock once you have seen one you have pretty much seen them all....a face is much more attractive and there is someone for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status won’t help dude, don’t draw attention to the fact you think you’re unattractive.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Interesting strategy OP. I wouldn’t recommend anyone lead with a photo of their pride and joy but you do as you see fit obviously.

We can’t all appeal to everyone but surely if someone doesn’t find you attractive aren’t you better off finding out straightaway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really difficult to say that someone isn't for me, it's like they think, I think I'm better than them, but that's not the case, I just can't fake sexual attraction, I don't want to upset anyone, but I won't just play with anyone either.

I do believe that there is someone for everyone though.

Just don't give up!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose if you squeeze your glans sideways you can make it smile. Sort of. "

You tried this didn't you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your status won’t help dude, don’t draw attention to the fact you think you’re unattractive. "

I never thought I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by one lady that she found me too facially attractive for her. How the fuck does that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The face is the one thing I am most likely to reject someone on

If I don't find you facially attractive, it doesn't matter how good your body is, how good your personality is etc, we won't be shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily chatted to a couple once,exchanged a few messages,then sent a face picture,got the response that I looked like Mr Bean ! & found my self blocked,bloody cheek. Never got to see their face picture.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Personally I’d respect the up front honesty

I’m far away from being “perfect” so I know I’m not for everyone

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?"

Yes, do a search for all the other threads from guys who get rejected or say they can't get meets.

I personally am taken aback by your logic. Show them your cock first. How will that work? At some point a sensible person will want to see your face.

Might as well get that out of the way and not waste any time

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"I was told by one lady that she found me too facially attractive for her. How the fuck does that work? "

She was rejecting in what she thought was a polite way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are 7 billion people in the world.

Even if just 1% of the world's population find you attractive that's still 70 million.

Chin up. "

I wish I could find those 70million wow what a challenge

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I was told by one lady that she found me too facially attractive for her. How the fuck does that work? "

Have to admit I'm dubious about very attractive men proposing meets, presuming they are way out of my league and just kidding!

OP, I have to admit it's not your face that puts me off! While I realise it's shallow, the hairy mole is something that I find unappealing. Perhaps others feel the same way but aren't quite as blunt as I am. I actually think you have nice open, friendly face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about rejection, even my wife rejects me and she doesnt need a picture for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

huh,,,try never being rejected,,,,ITS HELL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was told by one lady that she found me too facially attractive for her. How the fuck does that work?

Have to admit I'm dubious about very attractive men proposing meets, presuming they are way out of my league and just kidding!

OP, I have to admit it's not your face that puts me off! While I realise it's shallow, the hairy mole is something that I find unappealing. Perhaps others feel the same way but aren't quite as blunt as I am. I actually think you have nice open, friendly face"

Ha well the birth mark is something I was born with. I will shave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a woman says "get off, I was sleeping, you make me sick" would that be seen as rejection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman says "get off, I was sleeping, you make me sick" would that be seen as rejection? "

Or a challenge lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman says "get off, I was sleeping, you make me sick" would that be seen as rejection?

Or a challenge lol"

If you get battered, you have your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman says "get off, I was sleeping, you make me sick" would that be seen as rejection?

Or a challenge lol

If you get battered, you have your answer "

Oh I thought that was foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The face is the one thing I am most likely to reject someone on

If I don't find you facially attractive, it doesn't matter how good your body is, how good your personality is etc, we won't be shagging "

Not even doggy style?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"huh,,,try never being rejected,,,,ITS HELL "

It's why I can't show my face on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

"

What would you prefer to be rejected for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the perfect face....

For radio

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

What would you prefer to be rejected for?"

My lack of exotic pets.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

"

Blimey if guys think their cock is more attractive than their face....I'm off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

What would you prefer to be rejected for?

My lack of exotic pets."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The face is the one thing I am most likely to reject someone on

If I don't find you facially attractive, it doesn't matter how good your body is, how good your personality is etc, we won't be shagging

Not even doggy style?"

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

Blimey if guys think their cock is more attractive than their face....I'm off!! "

By definition though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

What would you prefer to be rejected for?"

My feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

Blimey if guys think their cock is more attractive than their face....I'm off!! "

My cock is probably more attractive than my face

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

I’ve seen photos of bald men and re photo angle has made me think it was their cock. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman says "get off, I was sleeping, you make me sick" would that be seen as rejection?

Or a challenge lol

If you get battered, you have your answer

Oh I thought that was foreplay "

Sometimes it can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman says "get off, I was sleeping, you make me sick" would that be seen as rejection?

Or a challenge lol

If you get battered, you have your answer

Oh I thought that was foreplay

Sometimes it can be "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman says "get off, I was sleeping, you make me sick" would that be seen as rejection?

Or a challenge lol

If you get battered, you have your answer

Oh I thought that was foreplay

Sometimes it can be "

Interesting, as long as it leaves one still conscious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the face that launched a thousand blocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman says "get off, I was sleeping, you make me sick" would that be seen as rejection?

Or a challenge lol

If you get battered, you have your answer

Oh I thought that was foreplay

Sometimes it can be

Interesting, as long as it leaves one still conscious "

Well.....

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Become a masked superhero. It works for Deadpool and his face looks like arse.....

Or a Mexican wrestler.

Problem solved.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Become a masked superhero. It works for Deadpool and his face looks like arse.....

Or a Mexican wrestler.

Problem solved.

A"

I'm liking the deadpool idea, it kind of goes with the battering for foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes in a way plus my looks and disabilities but that life on the web they only want the best

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?"

If you have been rejected by thousands, then you're messaging a lot of women who's criteria you don't meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Or a Mexican wrestler.

Problem solved.

"

I bloody love nachos and my star sign is Libra so this could work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why was porn invented, for the rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?"

Literally thousands, or figuratively?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

Literally thousands, or figuratively?"

Literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

Literally thousands, or figuratively?

Literally."

Can i ask, why have you sent that many out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

Literally thousands, or figuratively?

Literally.

Can i ask, why have you sent that many out? "

Speaking as a massive perv, I'm not even sure if I have looked at that many profiles

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

Literally thousands, or figuratively?

Literally.

Can i ask, why have you sent that many out?

Speaking as a massive perv, I'm not even sure if I have looked at that many profiles "

That's like a full time job, I'd put an add out for a PA

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

Literally thousands, or figuratively?

Literally.

Can i ask, why have you sent that many out? "

Oh not just here i'm talking everywhere. Probably only a few hundred here. You have to keep plugging away.

I have needs I guess? It's hard to grasp as someone who is sexually healthy I know but try and imagine. If you were poor you would take any chance at a job wouldn't you? Etx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

Literally thousands, or figuratively?

Literally.

Can i ask, why have you sent that many out?

Oh not just here i'm talking everywhere. Probably only a few hundred here. You have to keep plugging away.

I have needs I guess? It's hard to grasp as someone who is sexually healthy I know but try and imagine. If you were poor you would take any chance at a job wouldn't you? Etx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

Literally thousands, or figuratively?

Literally.

Can i ask, why have you sent that many out?

Oh not just here i'm talking everywhere. Probably only a few hundred here. You have to keep plugging away.

I have needs I guess? It's hard to grasp as someone who is sexually healthy I know but try and imagine. If you were poor you would take any chance at a job wouldn't you? Etx"

ROFL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens to everyone. You will be some people's type, but not everyones. You have a better chance with your face, than you do with your cock though "

What if I draw a face on my willy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter what your cock looks like, if I don't want to suck your face I'm not sucking your cock. "

Faf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens to everyone. You will be some people's type, but not everyones. You have a better chance with your face, than you do with your cock though

What if I draw a face on my willy?"

Only if it has googly eyes and the pubic hair is used as a beard.

Hello stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This happens to everyone. You will be some people's type, but not everyones. You have a better chance with your face, than you do with your cock though

What if I draw a face on my willy?

Only if it has googly eyes and the pubic hair is used as a beard.

Hello stranger "

Everyone's an art critic!

Hey Misty lovely to see you again. xx

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I was rejected purely on being a knobhead. and having an ever so small penile attachment.

It’s a corker ain’t it I don’t need to see his visage.

Tell you what, Sandy beach, notice I used a French word? People always fall for a bit of French chat up. You wait and see....

Surlememt

My phone doesn’t speak French Surelement "

If we're going for le Fronglais, try the soixante neuf route and you don't even have to look at the face.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"There are 7 billion people in the world.

Even if just 1% of the world's population find you attractive that's still 70 million.

Chin up. "

I love that such a positive way of looking at it

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Some guy on here arrived at a meet with me and immediately said "sorry you're fat and not pretty enough" and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guy on here arrived at a meet with me and immediately said "sorry you're fat and not pretty enough" and left "

his wife must have been directly behind u..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guy on here arrived at a meet with me and immediately said "sorry you're fat and not pretty enough" and left "

Twat!! His loss x

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I think my problem may be that my face pics are just so damn gorgeous the recipient assumes they must be fake...

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Some guy on here arrived at a meet with me and immediately said "sorry you're fat and not pretty enough" and left "

That is horrible, and from what I can see, patently untrue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guy on here arrived at a meet with me and immediately said "sorry you're fat and not pretty enough" and left

That is horrible, and from what I can see, patently untrue. "

Just a twatty thing to say. Anyone with alittle decency would have just said, sorry no spark then left

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I just don't understand why people feel the need to be hurtful like that and also, get as far as meeting someone before they decide someone's not for them. If I like someone based on their profile, pictures and chat, I'm usually just super stoked and excited to meet them. Literally the only thing that would sway me is if it was obviously catfishing or the person hasn't mentioned they have four arms and two heads. Which, now I come to think of it, might be quite fun...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

"

Get over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked at your pics get rid of them all apart from the face pic with the blue background.Also no need to have so many other photos of your face (the best one will do)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you got rejected. Some of us don't even go to that stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lay out the info about yourself in a better format,maybe spaced paragraphs.

Decide whether you want fun or a girlfriend.

Try not to be too self-effacing.

Good luck.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

"

If your face isn’t acceptable why lead in with your cock?

#menarefrommars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was rejected on my choice of wig once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab certainly hardens you in terms of getting rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

"

I lead in with my face. ... oh your talking about before sex. I see now.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Damn right I reject someone purely on their face.

Why would I want to snog a face I didn't like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection, rejection, rejection...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been rejected Purely for my banal comments on this thread.

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By *r B.Man
over a year ago

Durham

I know what's gonna happen even before I send message... Read through while bloody profile... Send message. Delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body is better than my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say my face is better than my body which is good when you’re not in maintenance mode.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"It doesn't matter what your cock looks like, if I don't want to suck your face I'm not sucking your cock. "
lol

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Had a hard life, broke my nose twice. More rugged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a hard life, broke my nose twice. More rugged."

Me too, have metal in jaw and had my nose broken 4 times. Now it makes a crunch noise when I lift a nostril up!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Had a hard life, broke my nose twice. More rugged.

Me too, have metal in jaw and had my nose broken 4 times. Now it makes a crunch noise when I lift a nostril up!"
It just adds character.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Try again ...

If they have a face like a blind cobbler's thumb ... then it's a pretty big no for many people

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Unfortunately I think that to be on this site means that you have to learn to deal with rejection and being rejected because of your face or other intimate parts of your anatomy.

Such is the nature of the site, a thick skin is often required. Sad to say but I've seen people be chewed up and spat out on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me because im an absolute stunner carved from greek marble by the very hand of god himself.

I do feel sorry for you bunch of uggers though.

But thats what alcohol is for.

Bahahhahahahahhaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people have experienced rejection based on their looks, it happens.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Never happened to me because im an absolute stunner carved from greek marble by the very hand of god himself.

I do feel sorry for you bunch of uggers though.

But thats what alcohol is for.

Bahahhahahahahhaaaa"

Cold with nothing but calcite between the ears?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I’d say my face is better than my body which is good when you’re not in maintenance mode. "

That must be one amazing face then. Just saying from a logical point of view rather than a pervy one just to be clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 3 major factors that will be the thing others will look for when making their decision on how much they are attracted to you

Face, body, and attitude/personality

The thing is they each play a part in how attractive the other two are.

An average face will often get a boost from a good body or attitude. An attractive face will help a lesser body be more appealing. Works both ways though, a bad attitude can hurt a lot.

Bottom line though, if they are not attracted to you there is nothing you can do about it.

Except make them laugh, make them laugh a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what's gonna happen even before I send message... Read through while bloody profile... Send message. Delete"

I went in for a closer look at your face too, and just got your cock. Show us your eyes

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By *ikely ladMan
over a year ago

Hounslow


"This happens to everyone. You will be some people's type, but not everyones. You have a better chance with your face, than you do with your cock though "
I bet it doesn't happen to you very often x

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

This is a site for casual sex. Hence you are going to be judged on how you look.

It's brutal. If being judged on your looks upsets you, you should leave the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

"

I am a body type, personality and face person before the cock.

on here its important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a site for casual sex. Hence you are going to be judged on how you look.

It's brutal. If being judged on your looks upsets you, you should leave the site. "

my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men tend to lead in with their cock...

When I send my face pic I always get "you're not.my type", or silence. Just gotta think "oh well" as I'd be the same. I'm a face person! Any body shape looks good with a cute face. I don't have a type apart from that. Gotta accept mine ent winning though!"

Better than no response.

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By *r B.Man
over a year ago

Durham


"I know what's gonna happen even before I send message... Read through while bloody profile... Send message. Delete

I went in for a closer look at your face too, and just got your cock. Show us your eyes "

You can see them now

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By *ikely ladMan
over a year ago

Hounslow


"Some guy on here arrived at a meet with me and immediately said "sorry you're fat and not pretty enough" and left

Twat!! His loss x"
absolutely! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, are you "pre" or "post" OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face is so bad it closes threads!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"So hang on guys am I the only one who's been rejected by literally thousands of women. I was under the impression this is abnormal, as everyone I know gets varying degrees of success.

Am I misunderstanding this?

Rejected by 1000’s?! "

Prone to exaggeration?

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