FabSwingers.com forum: People leaving fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

Coulda sworn you said you were leaving

Apparently not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

Coulda sworn you said you were leaving

Apparently not"

Hey Sappy .. Not me ..lol

Hope you are doing ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

Coulda sworn you said you were leaving

Apparently not"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt surprise me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many fakes and time wasters putting people off....just go to a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too many fakes and time wasters putting people off....just go to a club

I go to lots of clubs usually with one of my single female friends or couples.

I'm pretty well known on the scene.. They are all genuine varifications from people I've actually met.Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People come and go that’s how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many fakes and time wasters putting people off....just go to a club

Now why didn’t he think of that.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Too many fakes and time wasters putting people off....just go to a club

I go to lots of clubs usually with one of my single female friends or couples.

I'm pretty well known on the scene.. They are all genuine varifications from people I've actually met.Thanks for the advice

Didn't he mean that's why people are leaving because of the fakes on here. Maybe not.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

People leaving doesn’t change your verification summary number..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too many fakes and time wasters putting people off....just go to a club

I go to lots of clubs usually with one of my single female friends or couples.

I'm pretty well known on the scene.. They are all genuine varifications from people I've actually met.Thanks for the advice

Didn't he mean that's why people are leaving because of the fakes on here. Maybe not."

I was just wondering if it was Christmas that makes them leave.? Or perhaps they have entered into a relationship.. Christmas can be a lonely time as a single person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many fakes and time wasters putting people off....just go to a club

Now why didn’t he think of that.

Feels like you’d be wasting your time eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People leaving doesn’t change your verification summary number.. "

I'm afraid it does if the account gets closed ..It's a new thing .. I would have lots more if not .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People leaving doesn’t change your verification summary number..

I'm afraid it does if the account gets closed ..It's a new thing .. I would have lots more if not .. lol

Is this just a thread to say how many veris you got. Is 71 not enough or something?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Why worry ... people come and go ... that’s life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People leaving doesn’t change your verification summary number..

I'm afraid it does if the account gets closed ..It's a new thing .. I would have lots more if not .. lol

Is this just a thread to say how many veris you got. Is 71 not enough or something? "

72 now .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why worry ... people come and go ... that’s life

That's what all the people say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why worry ... people come and go ... that’s life

That's what all the people say! "

Riding high in April, shot down in May *shrugs shoulders.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

"People leaving doesn’t change your verification summary number..

I'm afraid it does if the account gets closed ..It's a new thing .. I would have lots more if not .. lol

Veri disappears but not summary..

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Quite a few people leave over Christmas/New Year. It’s often a time when people take stock and make decisions. They’re often back before February though!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"People leaving doesn’t change your verification summary number..

I'm afraid it does if the account gets closed ..It's a new thing .. I would have lots more if not .. lol

Read it again. The *summary* doesn't change, but the text can no longer be published, so if you publish all, and look at your own profile regularly, you'll see the impact of leavers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quite a few people leave over Christmas/New Year. It’s often a time when people take stock and make decisions. They’re often back before February though! "

This is exactly my point

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

Could the ones after New Year's Eve be down to resolutions to take a break from swinging to spend more time pursuing other things or more family time etc

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

Soooooo just to be clear....

After they've met you, they leave?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

Soooooo just to be clear....

After they've met you, they leave?

Looks like it.. lol ..

We were sat next to each other at the Manchester lounge social birthday meal if you recall?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Maybe they are ones to pass by then

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

Soooooo just to be clear....

After they've met you, they leave?

Looks like it.. lol ..

We were sat next to each other at the Manchester lounge social birthday meal if you recall?

Indeed I do.

Now, stop meeting people and scaring off the talent!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

Soooooo just to be clear....

After they've met you, they leave?

Looks like it.. lol ..

We were sat next to each other at the Manchester lounge social birthday meal if you recall?

Indeed I do.

Now, stop meeting people and scaring off the talent!!!!!

I do try my best .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many fakes and time wasters putting people off....just go to a club

I go to lots of clubs usually with one of my single female friends or couples.

I'm pretty well known on the scene.. They are all genuine varifications from people I've actually met.Thanks for the advice

Didn't he mean that's why people are leaving because of the fakes on here. Maybe not."
Yes fakes and time wasters on here you always hear people ranting so possibly that?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

People come and go. Some more often than others

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"People come and go. Some more often than others

I prefer coming to going!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"People come and go. Some more often than others

I prefer coming to going!

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People come and go. Some more often than others

I prefer coming to going!

Oh yes

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they found love

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Alien Abduction.....I’ve been saying it for years; It’s happening everywhere folks! Now you’ll believe me, right?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

People come and go, its sad when you see some of your good friends leave but they have their reasons. I wouldn't worry about your veri's the social butterfly that you are I'm sure they'll be hitting triple figures in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

At least your not as big a slut as you were lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People come and go, its sad when you see some of your good friends leave but they have their reasons. I wouldn't worry about your veri's the social butterfly that you are I'm sure they'll be hitting triple figures in no time

You know me Sharif .. Always polite and respectful just like yourself my friend . It's the only way to be.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alien Abduction.....I’ve been saying it for years; It’s happening everywhere folks! Now you’ll believe me, right? "

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period"

Your profile says you have been verified by 77 people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period

Your profile says you have been verified by 77 people. "

Thank you .. I have seen that .. Sometimes we might verify after meeting a few times. We don't always verify every meet

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wasn't suggesting that you did !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was unfriended by a few people last year cause i wasn’t online for over 5 months, also, again as others have said, a fair few of the people who verified me have also left the site, still got me green tick though

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

So OP are you saying the veri summary total will now go down when people leave?

The text in verifications and ability to display them has always vanished when someone leaves - it's been that way since day 1 of the site.

But the summary changing? News to us.

We've just come back from a four year sabbatical, plenty of people who'd verified us have left....yet the summary number remains the same.

Have you queried your theory with site admin because I suspect you may be mistaken.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Like Obi said, if somebody has verified you then does one, as has happened to lots of people I suspect, all that happens is that the text disappears, but your summary count will remain the same

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I've been seeing the number on my varifications going down from 81 to 71 since the beginning of the Christmas period... Has anyone else noticed this?

I know of one or two that have let me know and messaged me through other communications format, that have left fab for their own reasons..

Answers on a post card please?

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Im sure it wont be too long until ur in the 80's again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All be back by lent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wasn't suggesting that you did !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There all be back like myself 3rd time now lol

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