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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It it just me, or do others find calling women "sluts" distasteful.

No woman deserves to be called a slut just because she is highly sexed and enjoys sex.

I never reply to messages calling my wife a slut. She is very sexy sometimes very kinky but always a lady.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"It it just me, or do others find calling women "sluts" distasteful.

No woman deserves to be called a slut just because she is highly sexed and enjoys sex.

I never reply to messages calling my wife a slut. She is very sexy sometimes very kinky but always a lady."

Entirely agree ... we had a couple message is ... clearly the guy ... saying do you want to come and fuck and use my slut... erm ... no thanks

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"It it just me, or do others find calling women "sluts" distasteful.

No woman deserves to be called a slut just because she is highly sexed and enjoys sex.

I never reply to messages calling my wife a slut. She is very sexy sometimes very kinky but always a lady.

Entirely agree ... we had a couple message is ... clearly the guy ... saying do you want to come and fuck and use my slut... erm ... no thanks"

Us.. not is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not that simple. Some women hate the word, others embrace it as an emblem of sexual freedom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being "his" slut

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Context really. If it's while fucking and something both parties enjoy, I don't find it tasteful. Going straight in with the slut thing isn't for me but one of my friends really enjoys it and finds it empowering (the whole reclamation thing) which is fair enough.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Context really. If it's while fucking and something both parties enjoy, I don't find it tasteful. Going straight in with the slut thing isn't for me but one of my friends really enjoys it and finds it empowering (the whole reclamation thing) which is fair enough."

Indeed .. another case of each to their own ... not judging... just not our thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some profiles use that term. “come fuck me like a slut” or like a post above said with couples profiles “fuck my slut wife” Different strokes for different folks I guess. I don’t think many people would use it to try and demean someone though. It might just be their attempt at dirty talk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not that simple. Some women hate the word, others embrace it as an emblem of sexual freedom. "

You are probably right. It's just my opinion. They are all ladies if they want to be called sluts then it is THEIR choice

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Depends on context. From most people, offensive. I do know some people reclaim it in a "someone who enjoys promiscuity" way, where it can be neutral to positive.

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

Personally I love it, for me it's a part of my submissive persona, it excites me.

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I sometimes refer to myself as a slut, especially with some friends but it isn’t my go to line when speaking to others because not everyone embraces the word the same as I for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Context really. If it's while fucking and something both parties enjoy, I don't find it tasteful. Going straight in with the slut thing isn't for me but one of my friends really enjoys it and finds it empowering (the whole reclamation thing) which is fair enough."

My view also. I have no problem Using it if that is what she is in to.

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

I also ignore guys that say I'm a slut I hate it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh i just posted now its gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it. I dislike it when people say the are looking for one too. We are people, not commodities x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It it just me, or do others find calling women "sluts" distasteful.

No woman deserves to be called a slut just because she is highly sexed and enjoys sex.

I never reply to messages calling my wife a slut. She is very sexy sometimes very kinky but always a lady."

Totally agree.

I think there's possibly a time and a place for the word, but in the context of calling her "my slut" during play or sex, not just "a slut". Big difference, IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaging me calling me a slut, or just calling me it in conversation I absolutely hate. If you ask if I like it, and call me it when appropriate...love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It it just me, or do others find calling women "sluts" distasteful.

No woman deserves to be called a slut just because she is highly sexed and enjoys sex.

I never reply to messages calling my wife a slut. She is very sexy sometimes very kinky but always a lady."

Agree, but Jim Carey got away with in the film Liar liar was funny

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Context for me also... random stranger calling me a slut? @#uck off! Someone i know and have a connection with.. in the right moment? @#uck yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a term I never use unless I know the lady I'm talking to likes it. Some women enjoy being called it during sex, others have reclaimed the word, whether via things like the Slutwalk or through self-identification (a woman I know says she practices 'ethical sluttery').

'Slut' is only a negative term because patriarchy tries to repress women's sexuality, and personally I see it as simply meaning a woman who exercises sexual autonomy. But due to the negative connotations in the way most men use the term, it's definitely one to only use with someone you know well.

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By *hunkyThighsMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Slag is worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It it just me, or do others find calling women "sluts" distasteful.

No woman deserves to be called a slut just because she is highly sexed and enjoys sex.

I never reply to messages calling my wife a slut. She is very sexy sometimes very kinky but always a lady."

I don't mind being called one in the heat of the moment. I don't like being called a slag though.

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By *un Mike 2019Man
over a year ago

Bristol

The word itself isn’t what’s important, as with many words. It’s the intent. Slut shaming is horrific and should be avoided at all times. Slut pride is a different matter; a woman who is proud of her sexuality and ability to attract many men should be a much more positive thing and should be held in greater regard.

But it is still in the intent and the recipient, as I appreciate that some still won’t like to hear this word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like being "his" slut "

Yes this but I wouldn’t let a stranger call me a slut .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The word itself isn’t what’s important, as with many words. It’s the intent. Slut shaming is horrific and should be avoided at all times. Slut pride is a different matter; a woman who is proud of her sexuality and ability to attract many men should be a much more positive thing and should be held in greater regard.

But it is still in the intent and the recipient, as I appreciate that some still won’t like to hear this word. "

Isn't slut a woman who is sexually adventurous? not necessarily promiscuous, isn't slag more related to sleeping about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most of what has been written it's all about context.

I've seen a few profiles mainly couples ones, that have said something along the lines of " looking for a slut to come and join me and the wife". That is an immediate turn off for me even if I was really attracted to them and the rest of the profile was perfect.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"The word itself isn’t what’s important, as with many words. It’s the intent. Slut shaming is horrific and should be avoided at all times. Slut pride is a different matter; a woman who is proud of her sexuality and ability to attract many men should be a much more positive thing and should be held in greater regard.

But it is still in the intent and the recipient, as I appreciate that some still won’t like to hear this word.

Isn't slut a woman who is sexually adventurous? not necessarily promiscuous, isn't slag more related to sleeping about?"

Bit as with many words, depending on context, it can be used as a derogatory term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Context! Messaging me with it or a stranger saying it wouldn’t go down too well.

If I let you write it across my arse in lipstick, alls good

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I agree with most of what has been written it's all about context.

I've seen a few profiles mainly couples ones, that have said something along the lines of " looking for a slut to come and join me and the wife". That is an immediate turn off for me even if I was really attracted to them and the rest of the profile was perfect. "

context is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The word itself isn’t what’s important, as with many words. It’s the intent. Slut shaming is horrific and should be avoided at all times. Slut pride is a different matter; a woman who is proud of her sexuality and ability to attract many men should be a much more positive thing and should be held in greater regard.

But it is still in the intent and the recipient, as I appreciate that some still won’t like to hear this word.

Isn't slut a woman who is sexually adventurous? not necessarily promiscuous, isn't slag more related to sleeping about?

Bit as with many words, depending on context, it can be used as a derogatory term"

Oh yes. If it's meant in a derogatory way, either is insulting. I like to own my inner slut though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with most of what has been written it's all about context.

I've seen a few profiles mainly couples ones, that have said something along the lines of " looking for a slut to come and join me and the wife". That is an immediate turn off for me even if I was really attracted to them and the rest of the profile was perfect. "

Yes, I completely agree. A couple on another post asking for advise on their profile used the word. Amongst the profile write up (which was quite long) the only word I saw was slut and it put my back right up.

Slut or whore. Hate both those words being used in a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Context! Messaging me with it or a stranger saying it wouldn’t go down too well.

If I let you write it across my arse in lipstick, alls good "

Now there's a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My FWB wants me to call her a slut amongst other things. She likes it.

So although I don’t think woman who like sex are “sluts” I like calling her my little slut when I fuck her.

I think there’s a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

George Carlin had a great view on the used of words and their context.

"There is absolutely nothing wrong – There is absolutely nothing wrong with any of those words in and of themselves. They’re only words. It’s the context that counts.

It’s the user. It’s the intention behind the words that makes them good or bad. The words are completely neutral. The words are innocent. I get tired of people talking about bad words and bad language.

Bullshit! It’s the context that makes them good or bad. The context"

Cut the quote there as he does go on to talk about racial words but his point is solid. All down to the context and the way an individual person views it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good girl Dotty x

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Esp when it's in their FAB user name.....don't get it myself, but to each their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate whore, sluts and slag and daddies girl! Team that up with Hun and babe and it’s instant delete and block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like it but some girls thats what they want and need to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate whore, sluts and slag and daddies girl! Team that up with Hun and babe and it’s instant delete and block! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it. But understand that others enjoy it in a certain context. It's not always black and white with that word. I see it as more of a submissive term that some like. Others enjoy it to reclaim it as a form of sexual freedom.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Hubby can call me a slut anytime, but if someone else does it they aren't going to see if I am a slut

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Not a word I like or use.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hate whore, sluts and slag and daddies girl! Team that up with Hun and babe and it’s instant delete and block! "

Agree, but some women love it. The problem arises when (some) men assume because (some) women embrace the word ALL women are happy with it!

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

In the right context, with Mart or very trusted friends, in the heat of the moment, I love being called a slut.

Outside of that, especially from random blokes, you are likely to learn quickly that it's a no-no!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

It's probably more delusional not to refer to men as sluts -or at least find a fitting "derogatory" term for them to relish in . personally, slut doesn't have any negative connotations for me -something I hapily wear with pride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been called a slut a couple of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The word itself isn’t what’s important, as with many words. It’s the intent. Slut shaming is horrific and should be avoided at all times. Slut pride is a different matter; a woman who is proud of her sexuality and ability to attract many men should be a much more positive thing and should be held in greater regard.

But it is still in the intent and the recipient, as I appreciate that some still won’t like to hear this word. "

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Not a word I'm keen on

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Nothing to say really.

xslutx

Is it still disrespectful if it's the name I chose for myself ?

I is dissing myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it. Crazy how many guys message calling me a sexy/dirty/etc slut and think that I'm going to like it

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