FabSwingers.com forum: Dating

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

I know there’s another thread with this title but this is a different question!

If you were dating outside of Fab (in the real world, so to speak). How long before you think you’d sleep with someone?

Second date or much later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we get the urge don't bother me much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how well we got on, and if circumstances were right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we get the urge don't bother me much"

You said you've never dated so how do you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do anal on the first date.

Honestly? I’m totally unsure. I haven’t been single since I was 14 and if I found myself in a position to date again, I’d totally wing it. Probably wouldn’t be until the fourth or fifth date, cause I’m such an anxious person. But then again, a gals gotta eat

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

First date. Sometimes second or third. I once managed eight whole dates! There weren't any set rules I believed in, if I wanted to have sex I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In between the main and dessert

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"In between the main and dessert "

But only if you skipped the starter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it feels right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't know. It would depend on where we went on the first date and the vibe I got from him.

Saying that, if I didn't feel any sexual chemistry on the first date I probably wouldn't go on a second date.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Met a Woman on Tinder, as she lived quite a few miles away from me, our first date was an afternoon in Birmingham having dinner and coffee. We decided we would meet again and as she worked in London (and I love going to London) we would have a weekend together.

We did end up sleeping and having sex, but if she had lived in the same vicinity I doubt it would have been so quick as a second date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't dated in almost 40 years; not including socials from here. I don't know how I would behave on an actual date now.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I know there’s another thread with this title but this is a different question!

If you were dating outside of Fab (in the real world, so to speak). How long before you think you’d sleep with someone?

Second date or much later? "

Depends on the vibe. Very few people I have met for dating ever get that far....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't dated in almost 40 years; not including socials from here. I don't know how I would behave on an actual date now."

Long time. Good luck when you do venture into it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know there’s another thread with this title but this is a different question!

If you were dating outside of Fab (in the real world, so to speak). How long before you think you’d sleep with someone?

Second date or much later? "

Second? I suppose if you had to wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't dated in almost 40 years; not including socials from here. I don't know how I would behave on an actual date now.

Long time. Good luck when you do venture into it again

I'm wondering if I can act like girlfriend material now I'm so used to looking at men as just sex partners.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"First date. Sometimes second or third. I once managed eight whole dates! There weren't any set rules I believed in, if I wanted to have sex I would."

And ,, of course as long as the other person wanted sex

. Or are you talking cavewoman here and taking by force ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know there’s another thread with this title but this is a different question!

If you were dating outside of Fab (in the real world, so to speak). How long before you think you’d sleep with someone?

Second date or much later? "

When it feels right for both of us ... That is how I have always played it.

I don't think you can plan or say you will wait X number of dates...go with the flow is my motto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never fucked on a first date. One partner I really wanted to fuck I made him come back the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Till marriage, I thought that was it. Damn no wonder I am not getting

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

There's no set time, even on fab I've had multiple socials before a play meet. It's when it feels right

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