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By *oejulien OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

For a long time we have been sharing our hot sex life with an amazing guy.

We've recently agreed that a girl would be a great addition.

How would you suggest we best go about doing this?

Do you think anyone is interested?

How do we come across as genuine?

Thanks for your advice and help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about meeting with couples, a lot easier than finding single women up for meeting couples x or have a look at other local couples veris, see if they have single women on their profile you could message x N x

Good luck x

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By *_BelleRose_xCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

Join a club go to the couples and single women night then put your magic to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile and photos are pretty good actually.

The only thing I would suggest is maybe add,

that you are specifically looking for a woman at the moment. I may be a little bit about what you would want from the meet. So would the woman be playing with both of you or just the fem ect. Then the only other advice is to put yourself out there and message some women that you like the look of and see where it leads.

As a woman that meets with couples your profile like I said is pretty good. There isn't anything that would put me off.

Hope you find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have very good pictures, but to be honest, in your profile, your mention of females seems like an afterthought. I would suggest adding more about looking for a female, but try not to make it sound like she will be a plaything for you both. I've seen couples who have made this mistake and have steered clear, when they have messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have very good pictures, but to be honest, in your profile, your mention of females seems like an afterthought. I would suggest adding more about looking for a female, but try not to make it sound like she will be a plaything for you both. I've seen couples who have made this mistake and have steered clear, when they have messaged "

You always say what I'm thinking but just in a much better way than I put it across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We struggling too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have very good pictures, but to be honest, in your profile, your mention of females seems like an afterthought. I would suggest adding more about looking for a female, but try not to make it sound like she will be a plaything for you both. I've seen couples who have made this mistake and have steered clear, when they have messaged

You always say what I'm thinking but just in a much better way than I put it across. "

Hahaha great minds amd all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have very good pictures, but to be honest, in your profile, your mention of females seems like an afterthought. I would suggest adding more about looking for a female, but try not to make it sound like she will be a plaything for you both. I've seen couples who have made this mistake and have steered clear, when they have messaged

You always say what I'm thinking but just in a much better way than I put it across.

Hahaha great minds amd all that "

That's my thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We struggling too!

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I've just had a look at your profile and I think if I'm honest it's quite obvious why you're struggling to find a woman to join you. You need to tailor it a little bit more towards looking for a woman if that's what you want to do.

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By *oejulien OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

Thank you all for the tips, we will improve our profile to reflect what we are actually looking for.

It;s not what we are only looking for, so we kept it rather general, but I get your point about being more specific

Cheers XXX

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By *oejulien OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

thanks for all you replies and advice.

Do you think what we wrote improves things?

Thanks

xxx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"thanks for all you replies and advice.

Do you think what we wrote improves things?

Thanks

xxx"

Definite improvement

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

As a lady who joins couples I’d definitely recommend letting the female half of the couple do the ‘hunting’. It’s really apparent on here whether you’re talking to him or her and I find the successful meets were engineered as a result of the ladies doing the bulk of the chatting. As ever it’s not foolproof and not everyone will agree but it works for me.

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By *oejulien OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

Ah, good advice indeed. Although I'm 'hunting' as you say on behalf of the 3 of us.

In your experience how common or uncommon is it to have a mmf searching for an extra female?

It looks very rare indeed.

xxx


"As a lady who joins couples I’d definitely recommend letting the female half of the couple do the ‘hunting’. It’s really apparent on here whether you’re talking to him or her and I find the successful meets were engineered as a result of the ladies doing the bulk of the chatting. As ever it’s not foolproof and not everyone will agree but it works for me. "

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"Ah, good advice indeed. Although I'm 'hunting' as you say on behalf of the 3 of us.

In your experience how common or uncommon is it to have a mmf searching for an extra female?

It looks very rare indeed.

xxx

As a lady who joins couples I’d definitely recommend letting the female half of the couple do the ‘hunting’. It’s really apparent on here whether you’re talking to him or her and I find the successful meets were engineered as a result of the ladies doing the bulk of the chatting. As ever it’s not foolproof and not everyone will agree but it works for me. "

I’d say it was rare but definitely intriguing. You have the issue of finding someone who likes each of you but it’s not impossible. Happy hunting

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