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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure." Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. " A lot of women are you know. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know." How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. " Ok maybe insecure eas a bad word. Body conscious then. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. " Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. | |||
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"So if a woman wants the lights off she’s insecure? Maybe she just wanted to fantasise about someone else " Yeah possible, they might think I'm really Freddie Flintoff | |||
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The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity." Limits your choice of women on here then probably  | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably "No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid. | |||
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"I wouldn’t say I lacked body confidence but I have sex with the lights out
The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background. "Ooo new thread ... which film would you have on in the background whilst you're having sex .. and why? | |||
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"So if a woman wants the lights off she’s insecure? Maybe she just wanted to fantasise about someone else " Or, maybe she likes how not being able to see heightens all her other senses and makes the sex more sensual. | |||
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"I wouldn’t say I lacked body confidence but I have sex with the lights out
The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background.
Ooo new thread ... which film would you have on in the background whilst you're having sex .. and why?"Chitty chitty bang bang | |||
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"I wouldn’t say I lacked body confidence but I have sex with the lights out
The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background. "I don't like the distraction of a television on in the background. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid." . I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. "Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it? | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?"Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc. Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure. "Yeah body conscious | |||
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"Dimmed lighting, unless your kink is to film it "Ah, then I’ll get the tripod lighting rig out. 4 daylight LED’s. And my shotgun mic. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.
Yeah body conscious "Yeah. I’m replying to Mr stubborn Blonde. Unfortunately I’m Ms stubborn blonde so we could be here all day | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. "WHAT that body looks stunning Nora | |||
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"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun." I’m with you on this I like the darkness | |||
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"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun. I’m with you on this I like the darkness " Not a bad band, Justin Hawkins voice range is amazing ... but they didn't really do much did they? | |||
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"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun." That is true. Like you're both blindfolded | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity.
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"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun. I’m with you on this I like the darkness Not a bad band, Justin Hawkins voice range is amazing ... but they didn't really do much did they? " | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure. "insecure meaning × DICTIONARY Search for a word insecure /??ns?'kj??,??ns?'kj??/Submit adjective 1. uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident. "a rather gauche, insecure young man" synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More | |||
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"I wouldn’t say I lacked body confidence but I have sex with the lights out
The light from the telly is enough to see what I’m doing, always have sex with a film on in the background.
Ooo new thread ... which film would you have on in the background whilst you're having sex .. and why?"I probably use the same three films, Drive, Lost Biys and Closer! Or it could even be the 80’s music channel! Just enough for a little background noise against the sac slap and squelching and enough light to see the guys face. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.
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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.
"a rather gauche, insecure young man"
synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More
"Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.
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synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More
Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. "So just a touch of insecurity then. You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks. | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.
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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.
"a rather gauche, insecure young man"
synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More
Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.
You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks. "Jeeeez if I ever met you I’d give it 30 seconds before I chucked my drink over you! | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.
insecure meaning
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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.
"a rather gauche, insecure young man"
synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More
Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.
You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks.
Jeeeez if I ever met you I’d give it 30 seconds before I chucked my drink over you! "That long .. you're restrained  | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.
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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.
"a rather gauche, insecure young man"
synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More
Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.
You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks.
Jeeeez if I ever met you I’d give it 30 seconds before I chucked my drink over you! "Behave yourself, you would be putty in my hands.  | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.
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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.
"a rather gauche, insecure young man"
synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More
Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.
You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks.
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know. How do you define insecure though? Yes a lot of women lack body confidence. Not sure that equates to insecurity. Wouldn't expect women on here to want to have sex with the lights out. Lacking confidence is insecurity. Limits your choice of women on here then probably No, I'm not gonna refuse sex just because the lights are out though. I'm not stupid.
. I think you’re wrong though. I’m not insecure but I’ve put about a stone on during the past year so I’m probably not as body confident as I usually am. It’s not insecurity. Oh I'm not wrong often. You need to convince me more then. What is it?
Insecure means self doubting, shy, timid etc.
Someone who prefers the lights off or to keep some sort of clothes on because they may have put on a bit of extra weight or has some eczema or a few stretchmarks or cellulite doesn’t mean they should be branded generally as insecure.
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insecure
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adjective
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uncertain or anxious about oneself; not confident.
"a rather gauche, insecure young man"
synonyms: unconfident, lacking confidence, lacking self-confidence, not self-assured, diffident, self-effacing, self-conscious, unforthcoming, uncertain, unsure, doubtful, self-doubting, hesitant, unassertive, retiring, shrinking, shy, timid, timorous, meek, passive, inhibited, introverted; More
Ok. So I am none of those things but I am a little body conscious at the moment as I’ve put weight on. As a person I’m not insecure in any way. Maybe we should leave it there before we get told off for taking over the thread. So just a touch of insecurity then.
You're being insecure again. We can be mavericks.
Jeeeez if I ever met you I’d give it 30 seconds before I chucked my drink over you! Behave yourself, you would be putty in my hands.
It would certainly be a battle of wills
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"What about wearing my blindfold does that count ? Saves him getting out of bed to turn the bloody light off... "No blindfold? I suppose poking you in the eye works also? | |||
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"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun. I’m with you on this I like the darkness Not a bad band, Justin Hawkins voice range is amazing ... but they didn't really do much did they? "Apparently he lives a life of tranquility in Sweden nowadays | |||
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"Not a fan but had to compromise a few times. It usually means they are insecure. Yeah I was kidding. But I do know why some people have the lights out. Had an ex that did, I thought she looked amazing but she was insecure. A lot of women are you know." And men too ... | |||
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"I prefer natural light. You get better pictures. A nice high floor room is perfect. " If it’s dark though lights on unless it’s the just woke sleepy sex. Yum | |||
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"I actually think the darkness is sexy. Feeling your way, being more relaxed is obviously a bonus. The darkness heightens the senses, everything can feel a bit more intense. I don't think it's boring or less fun." I agree on occasion this can be very enjoyable. Usually though I would go for dim lighting or natural light. | |||
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"Do you imagine they're someone else? "Have you tried the dark-rooms in clubs? Haha | |||
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"Well ever reading this thread I feel like such a prude and the only one who shags I’m the dark. " I do too. You didn't see me because the light's off.  | |||
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"Well ever reading this thread I feel like such a prude and the only one who shags I’m the dark. " Yeah, you prude | |||
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"Well ever reading this thread I feel like such a prude and the only one who shags I’m the dark. Yeah, you prude "Mad isn’t it cos I actually like my body. So is the general consensus that most man want the light on for sex. Main light not just light from the tv and a few candles? | |||
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"Well ever reading this thread I feel like such a prude and the only one who shags I’m the dark. Yeah, you prude
Mad isn’t it cos I actually like my body.
So is the general consensus that most man want the light on for sex. Main light not just light from the tv and a few candles?
"Men are just more visual in general. I want it lit up like the the Las Vegas strip. | |||
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"One of my bedside lamps has a red bulb. I’ve had that on in the past before!" Ooooh I do like red bulbs | |||
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"Lights are good. I'm very visual I love seeing a womans body. I do like the anticipation that darkness can bring also. Win win really! "That | |||
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"Candlelight is wonderful P" This and some soft music. X | |||
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"Do you imagine they're someone else? "Do they imagine YOU are someone else? | |||
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"I have a fantastic imagination I can imagine they are someone else if needed even with the light on "Sorted so haha  | |||
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