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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.

Am I in the wrong place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, you're okay We love a bit of 'connecting' around here

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like chemestry some like quickies with nothing but dick in a hole easy answer look for what u want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.

Am I in the wrong place?"

No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..

Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Fab is what you make of it. If you don't want quick meets, then don't. If you want to build a connection with someone first, then do

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Definitely needs to be a connection for us makes it more enjoyable

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not at all - it's possible to find that connection here - it's exactly what I look for - doesn't have to be an emotional one as such just as you say to "click" on some level.

I spend a lot of time messaging people and getting to know them before suggesting meeting and it's not failed me yet

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

More of a connection/chemistry for us but we have been pleasantly surprised by meeting people in clubs & parties sometimes but I suppose it’s easier to connect in person over a few hours than chatting back & too on here, also found attraction in people in the flesh than what we probably wouldn’t have just looking & chatting on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No you're in exactly the right place. Loads of people say personality is more important than looks on here.

Personally I go on looks first but do neet to have some superficial connection

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"No you're in exactly the right place. Loads of people say personality is more important than looks on here.

Personally I go on looks first but do neet to have some superficial connection"

I always go on attraction first, if no attraction it’s a no go but if they are hot but if they are a knob or no personality/connection then forget it and I wouldn’t have sex with them because they have a nice personality either, got to be both, it can be hard to get the personality of some on here though

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.

Am I in the wrong place?

No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..

Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap."

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.

Am I in the wrong place?

No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..

Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap."

Id have thought the hard part was finding anyone to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.

Am I in the wrong place?"

Definitely in the right place...

I won’t meet if there’s no connection, I won’t play if there’s no attraction...

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

It has been challenging, but they have been great just not enough sparks from one side or the other.

I am not giving up though.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.

Am I in the wrong place?

No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..

Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap.

Id have thought the hard part was finding anyone to meet!"

HaHa correct, it doesn’t come easy, we stopped looking ages ago just figured if someone contacted us and we were all attracted & connected then great if not hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.

Am I in the wrong place?

No, you're not in the wrong place - the hard part is timing. There are loads of us on here who want more than just a quick spin round the dancefloor, but there are also plenty of people on here who will have sex with anyone who has half a pulse so y'know..

Timing, location, attraction, it's not going to fall in your lap.

Id have thought the hard part was finding anyone to meet!"

No, not really. There are plenty of people to meet if you put in a little time & effort - the hard part is finding someone who's close enough, looking for the same thing, and with mutual attraction to want to make something more than just a one-off. Fab is also not the be all & end all of meeting other humans. At least not in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timeliness, connection, chemistry and feasibility are essential for me if it is going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Timeliness, connection, chemistry and feasibility are essential for me if it is going to happen"

THIS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.

Am I in the wrong place?"

Connection needs to be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be way off base, but there definitely needs to be some connection with someone you are going to have sex with. I have had a few social meets with some great fabbers, but no mutual clicks. I not looking for a relationship, far from it, but necessarily a one off.

Am I in the wrong place?"

In my opinion yes.

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