FabSwingers.com forum: Why do so few guys read profile?

By *otte Bella OP Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire uses Clubs to meet guys in

I’ve tried meeting guys in almost all the situations outlined on a site such as this. The only method that works well enough for me is to meet initially within the sanctuary of swinger clubs. Generally they’re less expensive than a good Hotel, anonymity is preserved, girl’s safe from predacious men, each party gets opportunity to socialise, if the chemistry is right, go all the way first meeting. Yet guys seem to denigrate this proven method. I can't for the life of me see why; maybe cost is a factor but so is meeting in an Hotel? They cant fool you in a swing club, maybe that’s the real reason. I may have let upon the ideal way to meet genuine guys, so why do I have to suffer abuse from guys who couldn’t have read my profile in the first place? I don’t see why a single guy makes it difficult for himself. I block them of course but know reportings pointless, they’re left to bother other ladies on the site. Am I alone in wishing to use established swingers clubs, as a way of screening guys, prior to giving them access to my body? To Pre-Butt harpies who attack ladies such as me, who meet single guys, NO I'm in no way whatsover linked to any club, I use many of them throughout the S-East & E-Midlands

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You poor thing. xxxx

I hope everything gets better for you and that people read your profile first and take you for the very genuine person you seem to be xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You poor thing. xxxx

I hope everything gets better for you and that people read your profile first and take you for the very genuine person you seem to be xxxxxx "

pmsl

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Block them and select your own. Means you putting in the work to find someone for your own pleasure. You will get out what you put in.

Continue to use the meets & events section advising you are to be in a certain club on a specified date... and if they want you, they will attend.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i carnt wead vewy wewl so just ave a win at the piccccies

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I’ve tried meeting guys in almost all the situations outlined on a site such as this. The only method that works well enough for me is to meet initially within the sanctuary of swinger clubs. Generally they’re less expensive than a good Hotel, anonymity is preserved, girl’s safe from predacious men, each party gets opportunity to socialise, if the chemistry is right, go all the way first meeting. Yet guys seem to denigrate this proven method. I can't for the life of me see why; maybe cost is a factor but so is meeting in an Hotel? They cant fool you in a swing club, maybe that’s the real reason. I may have let upon the ideal way to meet genuine guys, so why do I have to suffer abuse from guys who couldn’t have read my profile in the first place? I don’t see why a single guy makes it difficult for himself. I block them of course but know reportings pointless, they’re left to bother other ladies on the site. Am I alone in wishing to use established swingers clubs, as a way of screening guys, prior to giving them access to my body? To Pre-Butt harpies who attack ladies such as me, who meet single guys, NO I'm in no way whatsover linked to any club, I use many of them throughout the S-East & E-Midlands "

i have never come across anyone critising ppl, men women or couples who prefer to arrange their initial meet in a club,

reporting is not pointless, how can admin do anything about abuse if you dont report!

i think you for some reason are attracting the wrong sort of person, far be it from me to suggest it might be your name...

however in these circumstances, when swinging ceases to be fun, i tend to suggest a break...if it makes you this riled up ,why do it?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

stick to your guns if it works for you why worry.

on the club note i would never meet in a club as i find the pricing structure wrong and unjust so wouldnt go, if you find yourself in this scenario why not meet in a pub or cafe serves the same purpose and if all ok set up a play meet for a later day good luck and happy swinging

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

I would block them..

Your profile is very clear about club meets and you also have a "Meet today" stating which clubs you use..

If they have any interest in going to clubs, they can introduce themselves to you there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do what i do if a guy starts slagging me off on here for saying no i copy and paste his message and send it to admin before i block him and they soon disapear off site alot say admin dont do a thing but it helps if they can see whats been said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

noone reads profiles, why does this still come as a shock to so many people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just have to accept that people will do what they want. You can't stop the messages unless you filter your messages to stop them.

Your profile states quite clearly, and many many times, that you only meet at clubs. If that's not drummed into people or if they haven't read and just messaging on the off chance then ignore and delete.

I prefer to meet at clubs too and will often put a status up to say where we are going. Yes I get messages saying guys are not members but will join to meet me. I reiterate that ill say hello to them in 6 months then, cos that's the waiting time for single guys and I always reiterate that just cos they've messaged and will seek me out in a club, that doesn't mean ill play with them. It means ill say hello, a chance to meet people in the flesh.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"You poor thing. xxxx

I hope everything gets better for you and that people read your profile first and take you for the very genuine person you seem to be xxxxxx "

Granny you are so right!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I alwayd read profiles then end up saying oh bugger when you get to the bottom and it says fems only lol

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

people will only see what they want to see on a profile without noticing the rest at all,it happens to us all,even single guys!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading profiles gets in the way of cutting and pasting emails...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I am thick and thats after goggling it so I didnt have to ask question but what is a Partous ?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Ok I am thick and thats after goggling it so I didnt have to ask question but what is a Partous ?"

Where did you get Partous from?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Cuz they never really took to the Janet n John books and just like to look at pictures....simply really xx

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Cuz they never really took to the Janet n John books and just like to look at pictures....simply really xx

I was more Robin and Rosie myself

Wolf

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Cuz they never really took to the Janet n John books and just like to look at pictures....simply really xx

I was more Robin and Rosie myself

Wolf

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you would be

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Cuz they never really took to the Janet n John books and just like to look at pictures....simply really xx

I was more Robin and Rosie myself

Wolf

you would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I am thick and thats after goggling it so I didnt have to ask question but what is a Partous ?

Where did you get Partous from?"

Partous or Partouz is a posh way to say Orgy or Group Sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people dont read profiles no biggie but they wont get a reply of me if they expect to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I am thick and thats after goggling it so I didnt have to ask question but what is a Partous ?

Where did you get Partous from?"

I read the OP's profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I am thick and thats after goggling it so I didnt have to ask question but what is a Partous ?

Where did you get Partous from?

Partous or Partouz is a posh way to say Orgy or Group Sex

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I thought that was paaarrrrtayyyyyyy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought that was paaarrrrtayyyyyyy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought that was paaarrrrtayyyyyyy!

Think they're all the same thing, but at a partous/z they say please and thank you a lot

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