FabSwingers.com forum: Question ? Honest answers please

By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I have a quandary, I’m 58 this year, I had a tough 2018 with health issues.

I want honest answers.

Should I quit being a tv?

I am concerned I’m too old now. Yet I love buying clothes that make me feel sexy.

So one word answers

Quit

Yes or No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

nooopppe

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want too?

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By *kinybuthungMan
over a year ago

About

Do what makes you happy and feel good. Your never to old to feel good

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *CheshireMaleMan
over a year ago

Middlewich

no, enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can answer that my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

*never one to follow the trend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell, no. Anything that gives you pleasure should be embraced, regardless of your age. How old is too old anyway?!

(Great pins, by the way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest or one word answers...

Honestly, do whatever you think is right for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck the opinion of people on a social platform.

Do what makes you happy and what you’re comfortable with.

Be yourself, however that is and you’ll be content with life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!!! If you feel good stay feeling good, age is just a number not a state of mind ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a quandary, I’m 58 this year, I had a tough 2018 with health issues.

I want honest answers.

Should I quit being a tv?

I am concerned I’m too old now. Yet I love buying clothes that make me feel sexy.

So one word answers

Quit

Yes or No?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes you feel happy and good , be what ever you want to be and stay true to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do whatever makes you feel happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The simple answer is..do whatever you would be happy with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn’t a one word answer Stella. As I said before. Be whoever you want to be, whether it be one or both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do u want to

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No, if it's a part of who you are and you still enjoy it then I don't see why you would want to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do your own thing. What ever makes YOU happy op.

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over a year ago

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

No, if you enjoy it and it makes you happy then you shouldn't stop. Live life to the full.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Be true to yourself and do whatever you want to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy life, do what makes you happy. Never to old to be happy.

Eski

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

No. If it makes you happy and isn't hurting anyone else, then be happy

V x

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

No why should you. Age has nothing to do with it. It’s how it makes you feel. You obviously enjoy it so why stop and what other people think is nothing to do with then. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No do what makes you happy, there’s enough negative things and people in this world so you have to keep doing the good things for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Do what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck the opinion of people on a social platform.

Do what makes you happy and what you’re comfortable with.

Be yourself, however that is and you’ll be content with life"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many seem to understand the concept of one word answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where does it say answer in one word??

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No. No way would I give up something I enjoyed when I didn't need to, except for health that is. I don't see how being a tv harms your health, unless there's something I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not many seem to understand the concept of one word answers

I understand. I didn’t feel there was a one word answer. Hope thats ok

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Do what makes you happy sweetie .

If that doesn’t upset anyone else and you feel fulfilled just enjoy

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I have a quandary, I’m 58 this year, I had a tough 2018 with health issues.

I want honest answers.

Should I quit being a tv?

I am concerned I’m too old now. Yet I love buying clothes that make me feel sexy.

So one word answers

Quit

Yes or No?"

No stick with what makes you happy

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By *aughtycplStokeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

No, you should carry on doing what makes you happy, you only live once so take every ounce of happiness from it xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it’s part of who you are. X

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

No why should you? If it pleases you and your happy then carry on. If you've been ill is this like feeling better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No be true to what makes you happy.

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By *eyooooMan
over a year ago

London

Why do girls always block me

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By *each loverMan
over a year ago

Fun town

I'm in the the No camp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why give up something you so obviously enjoy?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...be who you are always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry if I'm showing my ignorance, but I thought you can't really quit being a TV? I know it's not the same as TS, even pre-op, but isn't being a TV part of your personality? As it is not supposed to be 'just' about dressing up as a woman? So if it's a part of who you are as a person, yes, you can suppress the urge, but deep down you're not going to be fully happy.

Short answer: do what makes you happy and fuck what others think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where does it say answer in one word??

On the opening post, obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a quandary, I’m 58 this year, I had a tough 2018 with health issues.

I want honest answers.

Should I quit being a tv?

I am concerned I’m too old now. Yet I love buying clothes that make me feel sexy.

So one word answers

Quit

Yes or No?"

Sorry for more than one word, but the fact that you said that you still love buying the clothes that make you feel sexy tells me you know yourself that you shouldn't quit. Sounds like the fun hasn't stopped for you yet, OP. Carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think from an early age its indoctrined in us to adhere to others expectations of us, you're expected to behave a particular way throughout every stage of life and for some that may work but for others it merely represses their very identity. The idea that gender/age/parental status or anything else should dictate who we can be is ludicrous, when you think how short and fragile life is. Yes we should care about those around us, but if we are doing no harm to others, and indulging in something we enjoy its not for society or others to judge us.

So I say if you are doing no harm, and truly enjoy it, don't let age be against you, embrace what you enjoy and be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply No... you should stick to what makes you, you. Carry on x

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

After last pic carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a quandary, I’m 58 this year, I had a tough 2018 with health issues.

I want honest answers.

Should I quit being a tv?

I am concerned I’m too old now. Yet I love buying clothes that make me feel sexy.

So one word answers

Quit

Yes or No?"

If you're still buying and wearing women's clothes that you feel are right for you and make you feel sexy, then carry on. I stopped wearing (what I thought were sexy) muscle t-shirts when I was 25 because I thought I was too old for them, and I got fat

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By *teven12ABCMan
over a year ago

Wigan lancs

no you should continue

love the sexy knicker photos

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Don't quit

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

No, you have to carry on with what you enjoy otherwise you will become unhappy. Unless of course you have no option as you are physically unable to do what you like.

Take care and best wishes x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Do what makes you happy

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Hell NO!! Do what makes you happy & feel good, age is only a number at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Do what makes you happy and if your health isn't directly affected by it then what's the harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love buying clothes that make me feel sexy"

So no.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No. Only you can decide that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, you have to do what makes you happy.

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By *achelNottmTV/TS
over a year ago

notts/derbys

No xx

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Yes and No!

If you dress to make you feel sexy and feminine then are you/any of us ever too old for that?

However - if you dress purely for sexual encounters and no longer feel sexy or desirable in that persona - then perhaps the answer is yes!

Sorry - I’m crap at one word answers!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, definitely not!! Never too old, carry on doing what makes you happy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say only stop when it stops making you feel sexy

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what makes you feel happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...

If it's making you unhappy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never stop being who you want to be, as far as we know we only get one life, live it x

Which is advice I need to take myself

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only can know the answer.

The fact that you have been asking the question shows that you may know the answer of this question and just want confirmation from another people.

Do you like being a TV ? Does it make more happy than before or not ? Those are the questions you should ask yourself before making a decision.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes, remove one from the competition

The urge to purge, live a normal life, be like all others. No longer hiding a part of yourself from others and be normal.

Honestly

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