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Guys, what signals do you give out if you fancy a girl?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, not quite swinger-ish and I probably sound pretty naive lol but how would you let a girl/woman know that you fancy them if being obvious isn't your style?

Reason I'm asking is that I bumped into an old neighbour of mine recently, who I always had the major (!!!) hots for, but not enough confidence to make a move. He's still as hot as hell and I would love to give him a go, but don't want to look a plonker if I'm totally off the mark. So how will I know if I should make a move or not?

Oh and as far as I know he's not into this lifestyle, and he kinda knows my other half so I have to get this right lol

Ta xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I start acting like a bumbling buffoon. Where even a action like walking through a door seems difficult.

I walk away thinking, somebody shoot me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I start acting like a bumbling buffoon. Where even a action like walking through a door seems difficult.

I walk away thinking, somebody shoot me!!"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me its usually not being able to take my eyes off you

(not in the creepy kinda way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if it was me, I would usually just come out and say it

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By *heekygeordieguyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Would just say to him, I have always liked you...and take it from there,that leaves the ball in his court, it works for me.!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say to him, your hair looks nice, or see you have had your hair cut, or i like your jumper.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally, I start acting like a bumbling buffoon. Where even a action like walking through a door seems difficult.

I walk away thinking, somebody shoot me!!"

Lol thing is I'm a bit like this too :-Z this guy is totally hot - tall, dark, handsome and a bod to die for, but he was always quite shy and quiet. wow am i hoping he's got a lovely big cock too

I don't bump into him very often, yesterday was the first time I've seen him in about 18 months. so if i want to make a move I'll have to go to his place.......need a good excuse, and to make sure he won't turn me down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what are his interests - usually good for a guys / girls ego if you ask for their advice / coaching etc

i'm a professional coach, it's all about listening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say it... It can be as simple as saying 'i want you to know, i think you are very attractive....'

I did it once and ended up with a hubby... divorced the guy though. lol!

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Another tongue tied stumbler or alternatively have a good chat for ages and give no return signals myself and then afterwards realise I had missed all the signs.

Did once get the evil eye from the DJ, turns out was flirting too heavily with his GF, talked my way out, and had a good dance partner for rest of the evening, on condition that was it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say Hi or pull tongues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tried & trusted method can be learnt from on this site. just say to him

fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another tongue tied stumbler or alternatively have a good chat for ages and give no return signals myself and then afterwards realise I had missed all the signs.

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+1

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

The Boat That Rocked, classic line

Simon (I think) the smooth one who got all the ladies, was asked at the end how he pulled so many and he said something like 'Well I just say nothing, and when the silence is unbearable, say so how about it?'

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