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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?

(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?

(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )"

Site as in this site or sight as in love at first sight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in it...married the guy I saw n fell in love with..28yrs and still going strong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?

(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )"

Lust yes

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

It can and does happen, but it's sight that just plays a part in it.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I believe in lust, but not love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what type of person you are I guess. I’m used to being in the minority with my opinions and I’m not a swinger anyway but personally I think it’s better if there’s some feelings there. I had a FWB for 5 years and I don’t know how you could do that for so long without any feelings. I guess I loved him in my own way but I know I’m not here for a relationship so I suppose yes I could handle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...well not with partners.

Only two people I loved at first sight were my kids.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?

(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )

Site as in this site or sight as in love at first sight? "

I know! Was hoping no one would notice. Sshhhh

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?

(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )"

Sight my dear, not site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i believe in it 100% iv seen it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?

(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )

Site as in this site or sight as in love at first sight?

I know! Was hoping no one would notice. Sshhhh "

you can always rely on me

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"No...well not with partners.

Only two people I loved at first sight were my kids."

Me too..... Mine that is, not yours. Though I'm sure yours are lovely too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel in love on here and married him. Didn’t intend to do that but we just fell for each other.

Kitty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what type of person you are I guess. I’m used to being in the minority with my opinions and I’m not a swinger anyway but personally I think it’s better if there’s some feelings there. I had a FWB for 5 years and I don’t know how you could do that for so long without any feelings. I guess I loved him in my own way but I know I’m not here for a relationship so I suppose yes I could handle it. "
no point develloping things to fwb status for me if there arnt at some level

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?

(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )

Sight my dear, not site..."

When I wrote it I was going to put love at first sight on this site. But changed my mind, but thought site instead of sight when I wrote site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?

(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )

Sight my dear, not site...

When I wrote it I was going to put love at first sight on this site. But changed my mind, but thought site instead of sight when I wrote site. "
i is so confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you believe in this? If you do does it scare you that you may fall in love on here when you're not looking for that? Or do you think you could control it?

(To those I'm chatting too. This isn't aimed at you! Just a thought )

Sight my dear, not site...

When I wrote it I was going to put love at first sight on this site. But changed my mind, but thought site instead of sight when I wrote site. i is so confused "

I was at the time too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont particulary believe in love at first sight but I think it could be easy enough to fall in love on here. (Or whatever love is perceived to be). Why not, we're all people. Ps Im not looking to fall in love either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me when I was 16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv seen it with others and it happened to me once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not happening...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a complete stranger I think it would be lust.

With someone here I think the getting to know each other part beforehand can allow feelings to develop and the first meeting can just feel right. It doesn't scare me, I'm single and love feels incredible.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think things can happen quicker on here feelings wise than in rl.

If I was single I think I could fall in love quite easily with a guy off here, yes. Why not?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Depends what type of person you are I guess. I’m used to being in the minority with my opinions and I’m not a swinger anyway but personally I think it’s better if there’s some feelings there. I had a FWB for 5 years and I don’t know how you could do that for so long without any feelings. I guess I loved him in my own way but I know I’m not here for a relationship so I suppose yes I could handle it. "

I know exactly what type of person I am! The soft kind! Hence I’ve learned to navigate the site very carefully! Generally I deliberately choose to meet people that I’m unlikely to fall for - either because of age gap or geography! It usually works - but not always!

There’s no way I could have regular sex with someone for years without falling for them though - unless they simply weren’t relationship material (ie not right for me - not for others - if that makes sense?). Because I’m so soft I’d never be exclusive with anyone unless it were a real world relationship - as for me that would be asking to get hurt!

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