FabSwingers.com forum: Hiding verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

In the words of Billie Piper.

Because we want to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I don't need to advertise who I've met.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

Have you read some of the verifications guys leave? I completely understand why some people don't want them displayed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

I don't show mine, because I don't want to!!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m only displaying social verifications... I found that if I display meet verifications as soon as I added a new one my profile became a honey pot for females checking me out! I didn’t much care for the unwanted attention ... especially after one contacted me to rant I’d stepped on her toes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama. "

Does this seriously happen??? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X

Have you read some of the verifications guys leave? I completely understand why some people don't want them displayed lol"

Rude explocit stuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I his them because they have something in there that I don't want the whole world to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some of them can influence who messages and what they ask for.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I hid mine years ago simply because it’s my business who I had met, if new ones appeared you would get the “you met them not me” or I have had ladies asking what certain people are like, I used to reply meet them and see for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some of them can influence who messages and what they ask for."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel that if i do, everyone will be knowing as much as i do .. now what's the fun on that ?.. lol

I like my discrecy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only displaying social verifications... I found that if I display meet verifications as soon as I added a new one my profile became a honey pot for females checking me out! I didn’t much care for the unwanted attention ... especially after one contacted me to rant I’d stepped on her toes!!

This

. Can’t be doing with the hassle. Besides it’s private

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Some would hide verifications and numbers of , because of the types of people they meet with are the opposite of the way the profile reads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama.

Does this seriously happen??? X"

Someone saw a veri that I had left and asked me why he met me when she was so much better than me...I almost wet myself laughing

She had answered her own question ... I was having fun, not comparing myself to anyone or any scenario whilst she was beating herself up about me meeting a man she wanted to meet ... I mean ... Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to display ours but now we keep them hidden. It doesn't bother us if people don't like that as we don't use fab to meet just to keep in contact with people we have met at clubs.

Most verifications go into some sort of detail and we'd rather keep the finer details for those that were there while it happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X

In the words of Billie Piper.

Because we want to!"

Hahahahaha - agreed-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some would hide verifications and numbers of , because of the types of people they meet with are the opposite of the way the profile reads "

Some, but not all- not ashamed to hide who i have met on here, personailly i wouldnt lower my standards online to real life, but some of us like to display if asked... just a preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X

In the words of Billie Piper.

Because we want to!"

I can't get this frickin song out of my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama.

Does this seriously happen??? X"

Yes and mine were all social apart from one which was a woman. Bloody ridiculous. One I’ve had since I wouldn’t show ever because I just know it will cause grief. Sad but true

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I never display verifications from str8 guys, i once had a msg from a woman asking too many questions, like someone else said i dont want the drama..Never sure why str8 blokes would want to verify another male, but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine because I find it a bit odd. I don't go around telling people who I've met or what I've done in the real world so I'm not sure why I would on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display mine anymore. Kept getting comments on how many I had. It's no one's business who or how many I've fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama. "

this, the subsequent woman stalkers, and I value my privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive only got fake veris

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Yes. I don't need to advertise who I've met. "

Even my closest friends only know a couple of people I've met and I've been on here for seven years. I don't want to court unnecessary negative attention either - I much prefer just getting on with what I want and who I want without grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

Yes

Too many nosey fuckers.

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

"I hide mine because I find it a bit odd. I don't go around telling people who I've met or what I've done in the real world so I'm not sure why I would on here. "

Exactly this

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

My veris at the moment are reverifications from when I was here before, if/when I get more I may display them but to be honest I don't think they do much except prove that I'm real and I turned up.

Someone else's opinion of me shouldn't influence others and I don't like to be part of the 'verification trail game' which many people seem to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama.

Does this seriously happen??? X"

Yep it does sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide the ones who said iv a tiny willy and shit in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admittedly do hide only because I only keep my latest veris fresh, a lot of my veris are from socials and meeting people in clubs. I would look like a total tart if I showed them all and my summery which couldn't be further from the truth as I meet for play infrequently and I do repeat meets when playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I admittedly do hide only because I only keep my latest veris fresh, a lot of my veris are from socials and meeting people in clubs. I would look like a total tart if I showed them all and my summery which couldn't be further from the truth as I meet for play infrequently and I do repeat meets when playing. "

Haha I show my summary

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I tend to keep my display veris as the ones from socials

They site that I'm a regular bloke (I think)

I did have a bit of lamp post posting from some of my play veris, so I keep them in private now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

Cause some of mine are cringy

‘knows what she wants’ ‘treat her with respect’ and all that jazz

And a few are from when I went on the cams once. Got loads of veris - for sitting in my jammies

one is from a man who sees me often in my town, but I have no idea who he is...he would verify me if he saw me

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

This

. Can’t be doing with the hassle. Besides it’s private "

Exactly!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hide accidental duplicates and ones with identifying information.

How people react to my verifications is sometimes useful in determining whether or not I want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whenever there's a new veri, all the friends swoop on the profile to view lol.

I just wanted to see what people thought about it and whether they hid them because they've been "beer goggle meets" lol x

Thank you x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama.

Does this seriously happen??? X

Someone saw a veri that I had left and asked me why he met me when she was so much better than me...I almost wet myself laughing

I sometimes get messages from guys saying "why won't you meet me if you've met him?"

Because he has been an utter delight from the first message, you sent me lazy or crude crap, and devaluing other people according to a scale only you know isn't going to work for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t display mine, swingers are some jealous folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama.

Does this seriously happen??? X

Someone saw a veri that I had left and asked me why he met me when she was so much better than me...I almost wet myself laughing

I sometimes get messages from guys saying "why won't you meet me if you've met him?"

Because he has been an utter delight from the first message, you sent me lazy or crude crap, and devaluing other people according to a scale only you know isn't going to work for you. "

I’ve had people message people in my verifications to get around my filters, to send them abuse, to ask for advice on how to meet me...annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t display mine, swingers are some jealous folk "

I second this statement!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I recently squared up to one female who contacted me with what appeared to be territory marking ... apparently she was just being over friendly but I did take the opportunity to make plain FAB etiquette regarding contacting ladies on a guys profile who she was keen on! I wasn’t the only one she contacted!! Jeeeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently squared up to one female who contacted me with what appeared to be territory marking ... apparently she was just being over friendly but I did take the opportunity to make plain FAB etiquette regarding contacting ladies on a guys profile who she was keen on! I wasn’t the only one she contacted!! Jeeeez

Bloody hell thats definitely too far

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Someone recently asked how long I'd been on the site then broke down number of veris into 'months per meet'. Think it's hiding time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone recently asked how long I'd been on the site then broke down number of veris into 'months per meet'. Think it's hiding time! "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I like the system and always display a few, the troublemakers can suck it up and get over it!

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"If so, for what reason? X"

Discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've been here years, our oldest ones don't really add anything to our profile, we don't display older ones if we've been reverified generally and we don't show the summary mainly because when we're not looking to meet straight single guys, they moan that we've got verifications from straight single guys, that gets less if they've got to scroll through...they serve a purpose for showing we do meet and have met recently and they're nice to receive, but we don't look for them

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Someone recently asked how long I'd been on the site then broke down number of veris into 'months per meet'. Think it's hiding time! "

Wow! That’s bloody scary!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I also find that if I post a veri from someone who is populate then I suddenly get loads of views from guys wanting to meet that person, obviously trying to work out why me.

I really can't be bothered with the drama

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I also find that if I post a veri from someone who is populate then I suddenly get loads of views from guys wanting to meet that person, obviously trying to work out why me.

I really can't be bothered with the drama"

I don't think a few guys viewing you is drama is it?? It makes me giggle when I put up a new veri and all my past meets come have a good nose around lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We display the nice ones that we feel accurately display who we are, but hide the more graphic ones that display what we have done, which means people we meet don't have too much expectation of night happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We display the nice ones that we feel accurately display who we are, but hide the more graphic ones that display what we have done, which means people we meet don't have too much expectation of night happen "
whos we are u borg?

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama.

Does this seriously happen??? X"

Yes I'm afraid it does. The old adage, we are what we eat.

I've heard of others snooping the veri breadcrumb trail back and having a dig at someone.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Yes I do, why? Because I can

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

I don't enjoy reading what others thought of their sexual encounter,but following the verification trail back has saved me from meeting a guy pretending to be a couple.

I think it's mostly women do a lot of cross referencing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a couples profile too

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I also find that if I post a veri from someone who is populate then I suddenly get loads of views from guys wanting to meet that person, obviously trying to work out why me.

I really can't be bothered with the drama

I don't think a few guys viewing you is drama is it?? It makes me giggle when I put up a new veri and all my past meets come have a good nose around lol!

No, it's not directly. I guess I'm just a private person on the whole and I dislike people having a nosey at me just because I met someone

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Also territory marking for some...god forbid you meet a guy on here and some other person takes offence that said person has chosen to meet someone else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also territory marking for some...god forbid you meet a guy on here and some other person takes offence that said person has chosen to meet someone else lol

We have come across that too (on our couples profile)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hide ours cos we would rather the whole world didn't know who we have met.

In other words,we don't kiss and tell.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We hide them because they aren’t important to us. Pretty useless in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep who I meet, when I meet them and what I do with them is really our business, unless we specifically decide we want to make them public.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I show the summary as thats gives the information that people have met us/me, and in doing so will hopefully give reassurance that we are who our profile describes.

I like to keep an element of discretion and privacy however, so don't show the full verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

Because I can

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We intentionally hide ours because if people knew what we were really like they'd never meet us

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By *CheshireMaleMan
over a year ago

Middlewich

I lost all my veries when I left for a break

Most ladies I knew have left lol

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We used to display but not anymore.

We don't want everyone knowing our business. We've had messages saying you've met so and so so surely you'll meet us/me as we're friends.

Had couples message us asking about said persons performance on a meet and penis size, yes really.

There's more incidents too, just a lot easier and less hassle not showing them.

We've had potential meets turn us down because we wouldn't open up our veris but that's their problem and not ours, we're not compatible is how we see it.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

If I've been to a social and collected say, ten veris, I'll show them one at a time over 20 days, for a couple of days each.

A new veri increases my profile visibility in local updates.

I'll also swap my veris around a bit for no reason other than my idle amusement.

Non forum related ones tend to stay around for longer. Forum related ones tend to be hidden quicker, way too many drama llamas about for my liking.

I've been known to keep the funny "in joke" ones on show for longer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

I've got one verification, I've chosen not to display it, because I'm quite private. I don't want strangers having access to my sexual history.

Took the time to explain to my veri that it's not personal and they understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine to myself for many reasons. If a guy wants to see them that I am considering meeting then I have no problem showing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Food for thought! As if veris are this controversial.. thankfully all but 2 are Social only but didn't put any thought into how they could be abused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We display all ours, could remove loads of old ones but just can’t be bothered with the hassle, what people make of it all, positive or negative it really doesn’t matter, after all those that see it negatively we wouldn’t want to meet anyway x

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I hid mine as there was a running theme that when they brought me cakes I'd never share and always hid them away.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Also territory marking for some...god forbid you meet a guy on here and some other person takes offence that said person has chosen to meet someone else lol

Yes,a lot of territory marking. I'm a bit put off if there are a couple of dozen veris (plus all the ones who didnt)

Often though there might be 5+ by the same guy. Why doesn't she say stop verifying me you fuckwit.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"I hid mine as there was a running theme that when they brought me cakes I'd never share and always hid them away."

All I can think of is cake. Mmmmm

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I show social ones mainly. I used to show all my play ones but it only causes problems, had women say they would like to meet me but didn't want to annoy any of my "regulars" as didn't need the aggro.

One play meet Veri displayed from each person even if met multiple times was safest compromise I found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are just veris, doesn’t bother me whether people display them or not, what did annoy me though is being told by more than 1 of the blokes in my veris is that women who I’ve no idea who they are asking the blokes about me? What’s that all about!

I’m just out to have fun which I think most of my veris show, I’ll go in and hide some of them again soon when I can be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide mine because I find it a bit odd. I don't go around telling people who I've met or what I've done in the real world so I'm not sure why I would on here. "

Your profile made me chuckle... Great pics btw

Eski

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I show mine - but if anyone messaged me to say i had stepped on someone’s toes they would get a response off ffs we are all swingers we play when we want

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Often though there might be 5+ by the same guy. Why doesn't she say stop verifying me you fuckwit."

They don't have to show all his veris. Guessing they're choosing to display those five plus veris, might even really like the guy.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Meh I display all mine (most of them are social anyway) - if anyone chooses not to meet me because of any of them, or has any kind of other issue with them then it's their problem not mine.

That said, if someone that had left me one, asked me to hide theirs, and had a valid reason for doing so then I'd happily comply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had profiles in the past, first as singles then as a couple. We over the years have take breaks from fab and the scene, deleted old profiles and come back. In turn lost all old verifications. I could ask some of the people to reverify us but we aren't fussed so haven't bothered.

Not planning to show any new verification unless it's social.

Eski

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people tend to put detail in them and it's kinda no one elses business what we got up to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don’t show them because they are embarrassed about some of the people they have met.....

Could be a straight guy meeting a tv...

Could be a guy meeting a known bareback couple....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because everyone I've met is lovely.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Because everyone I've met is lovely. "

True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people might have verifications that have gone into too-much detail and they don't want that showing?

Or that the person who left the veri wanted the privacy and asked for it to be hidden?

A person could have slept with 200 people off fab and not care to mention that.

You can't assume the worst, if you're genuinely interested, as the person concerned

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the 'what you meet her for, you can to better' message after posting a verification.

I just blocked them no point replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought. "

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. "

No it doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because everyone I've met is lovely.

True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

No it doesn't. "

Doesn't it?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Don't hide them, some repeat 1's aren't necessary to show.

Lost all my best 1's with even better superlatives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

I hide mine because posting them leads to everyone having a bitch fit and having a go at me...

Using a casual site to be casual... how very dare I?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet. "

Cannot easily be faked you say? Once anyone has one veri it's extremely easy to fake as many others as you want, and there's at least one profile on this very thread that I'm fairly confident that this is the case who has them hidden to help hide that fact.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

Scroll, scroll, scroll... Oh aye

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

Scroll, scroll, scroll... Oh aye

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

Yeah and people verifying their other fake profiles, the ones they use to keep an eye on people who’ve blocked them or just cause trouble for people they have issues with or to troll people with. Numerous profiles so numerous veris if need be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

Report it?

I do appreciate it's more likely an issue for females rather than males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine because they are really bad reviews

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost veris from pass profiles whenever I swear off fab and leave

Current verification is not hidden by my volition

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"I only display social veris as who I have sex with of nobody else business quite frankly and I’ve had ladies express their displeasure that someone they meet has met me.

I’m not on here for drama.

Does this seriously happen??? X"

This has happened to me, one woman texted the guy constantly about it going over both our verifications, screen shotting them and constantly viewing me.

I blocked her in the end, and every month she rejoins fab she blocks me back.

I sometimes hide, sometimes show one's I want. I've had people get a bit obsessed with them in the past. I guess I don't really bother ask for them either anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine tend to be a repeat meet from the same person. There's no need to show all of them, so i display only the one off him

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

People think I am hiding mine.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

I've got a couple hidden, one because it's a bit graphic and the other because it was unexpectedly received from someone I met nearly 3 years ago on a different profile and isn't really relevant to my current one.

Can't say I've ever had any grief about treading on other people's toes, I'm more likely to hide social veris than meet ones where people have a truer idea of what I'm like.

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By *uckbiMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

"Some people don’t show them because they are embarrassed about some of the people they have met.....

Could be a straight guy meeting a tv...

Could be a guy meeting a known bareback couple....

Like the ones who say ‘I’m not gay but...’ and show as straight with verifications from men

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

Report it?

I do appreciate it's more likely an issue for females rather than males "

Where it's obvious, reporting is the thing to do - however where veris are hidden it's obviously not so easy to prove or confirm - which is why I used "fairly confident" because other circumstantial evidence would suggest it's the case in this particular instance.

The point is however that you cannot rely on veris alone to confirm someone is genuine - they can be easily faked - the *only* way to confirm someone is 100% genuine is to actually meet them yourself otherwise you can only go on gut instinct, getting to know them through messaging, seeing they have a range of veris from other users who themselves have a range of veris etc and other common sense actions.

All too often the people that say they have been let down by a no show haven't done any real due diligence to be as sure as they can be that the person is who they say they are and even when they have it's still not totally foolproof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are very judegemtal.

I could be talking to someone for a week before they even view my profile. If someone looks up your verifications and sees you met someone who is, in their opinion, unnatractive, its enough to call it off.

Pre-intrenet and outside of fab, that just doesn't happen.

But again, I don't hide

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

"Some people are very judegemtal.

Pre-intrenet and outside of fab, that just doesn't happen.

But again, I don't hide "

I take the view that it would be doing me a favour not meeting someone like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are very judegemtal.

Pre-intrenet and outside of fab, that just doesn't happen.

But again, I don't hide

I take the view that it would be doing me a favour not meeting someone like that. "

True.

This is that last place for judgemental people lol

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

No it doesn't.

Doesn't it? "

Afraid not.

There are absolutely no guarantees. That's why people are recommended not to rush into anything, establish rapport over time and do your due diligence.

Even then, there's no guarantee.

IMHO people are too keen to get their dick wet and their holes filled to do the homework.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are very judegemtal.

Pre-intrenet and outside of fab, that just doesn't happen.

But again, I don't hide

I take the view that it would be doing me a favour not meeting someone like that.

True.

This is that last place for judgemental people lol "

Not really. Being on here doesn't automatically mean that someone is open minded about everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

No it doesn't.

Doesn't it?

Afraid not.

There are absolutely no guarantees. That's why people are recommended not to rush into anything, establish rapport over time and do your due diligence.

Even then, there's no guarantee.

IMHO people are too keen to get their dick wet and their holes filled to do the homework.

First off, someone already answered in a less condescending way.

Second, all I said it means, is that it indicates there not A dude in pants pretending to be something else, and that they meet. I.e. not A female been on 5 years and never meets, just collects penpals.

I did not say it's a replacement for making a connection with a person.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I hide mine. Nobodys business what i'm doing on here.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Does make you wonder what's the point of verfications and why bother leaving them at all just a thought.

The system works in a manner that can't easily be faked.

It means the person is real, I.e. they are not A catfish and that they do genuinely meet.

No it doesn't.

Doesn't it?

Afraid not.

There are absolutely no guarantees. That's why people are recommended not to rush into anything, establish rapport over time and do your due diligence.

Even then, there's no guarantee.

IMHO people are too keen to get their dick wet and their holes filled to do the homework.

First off, someone already answered in a less condescending way.

I did not say it's a replacement for making a connection with a person.

You thought that was condescending?

I'm off for a lay down......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people don’t show them because they are embarrassed about some of the people they have met.....

Could be a straight guy meeting a tv...

Could be a guy meeting a known bareback couple....

Like the ones who say ‘I’m not gay but...’ and show as straight with verifications from men

Only on Fab , only on Fab

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I display the MLS veris because I like them.

I tend not to display anything else because it’s private. I have displayed on occasion but it encourages unwanted attention. People only know as much as I want to tell them and some things are just for me to know so it’s very much kept to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I display the MLS veris because I like them.

Sorry babs

I’ve told everyone about your girkin kink and how we made a smoothie with our bodily fluids afterwards

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I display the MLS veris because I like them.

Sorry babs

I’ve told everyone about your girkin kink and how we made a smoothie with our bodily fluids afterwards

And I told them how you like to lick jelly from my bellybutton as I massage your buttocks with my feet What are we like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I display the MLS veris because I like them.

Sorry babs

I’ve told everyone about your girkin kink and how we made a smoothie with our bodily fluids afterwards

And I told them how you like to lick jelly from my bellybutton as I massage your buttocks with my feet What are we like?

Sticky

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I display the MLS veris because I like them.

Sorry babs

I’ve told everyone about your girkin kink and how we made a smoothie with our bodily fluids afterwards

And I told them how you like to lick jelly from my bellybutton as I massage your buttocks with my feet What are we like?

Sticky

I think I may have a tingle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the mystery

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We display ours as it gives others an indication to the type of people we are and what we look for in a meet. On the downside of it we have had people contact those who have verified us asking them for info on us and if they had pics taken on the meet but thankfully the people we met have told us about it so we let the cheeky monkeys we know their game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I display some, not all of my verifications. I really don't give a fuck what people think about the people I meet. I also quite like to see who I'm sharing with, so like reading them.

I have had women contacting all the guys I've met asking to meet, just to try and wind me up. Pathetic with a Capital P!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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You have to hide them because some people on here are a bit loopy.

No one wants a loopy person trying to find out who you have been hanging out with or of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I display some, not all of my verifications. I really don't give a fuck what people think about the people I meet. I also quite like to see who I'm sharing with, so like reading them.

I have had women contacting all the guys I've met asking to meet, just to try and wind me up. Pathetic with a Capital P! "

Yep. We're all out to get you

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

If someone give's me more than one Veri, I only show the latest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X

If someone give's me more than one Veri, I only show the latest."

Oh you're having a brownie point

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X

If someone give's me more than one Veri, I only show the latest.

Oh you're having a brownie point"

Why thank you , I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X

If someone give's me more than one Veri, I only show the latest.

Oh you're having a brownie point

Why thank you , I think

You're right to be cautious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The green tick proves I'm real; I'd rather keep the details private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My veris at the moment are reverifications from when I was here before, if/when I get more I may display them but to be honest I don't think they do much except prove that I'm real and I turned up.

Someone else's opinion of me shouldn't influence others and I don't like to be part of the 'verification trail game' which many people seem to play. "

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I display some, not all of my verifications. I really don't give a fuck what people think about the people I meet. I also quite like to see who I'm sharing with, so like reading them.

I have had women contacting all the guys I've met asking to meet, just to try and wind me up. Pathetic with a Capital P!

Yep. We're all out to get you

Daft isn't it.

I've heard many a tale of the F side of a couple messaging another woman warning them off her husband.

Mental cases......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I display some, not all of my verifications. I really don't give a fuck what people think about the people I meet. I also quite like to see who I'm sharing with, so like reading them.

I have had women contacting all the guys I've met asking to meet, just to try and wind me up. Pathetic with a Capital P!

Yep. We're all out to get you

Daft isn't it.

I've heard many a tale of the F side of a couple messaging another woman warning them off her husband.

Mental cases......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there private really......

bit like showing everyone your text messages on your phone ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i hide them, sometimes i show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine because I had met the same guy a female had and I don’t think she was happy

But instead of messaging me herself she had got another guy to message me saying that said guy was a player etc trying to put me off meeting him

Frankly it’s no ones business who anyone meets and no one owns anyone on this site

We are ALL FREE to meet whoever we want

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I hide some of mine , a few reasons why

1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play

2. I’ve been on here 5 years and people judge , profiles only say ‘been here over a year’ not joined in 2013 and with all the social veris as well as a few play ones I get sick of the messages inferring that I’ve got too many veris cos they just sees number

A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We display summary to show that we do meet and not all our veris are cam. Who we've met is noones business but ours.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why

1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play

A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it

If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why

1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play

A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it

If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible.

x "

Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol

Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"Cause some of mine are cringy

‘knows what she wants’ ‘treat her with respect’ and all that jazz.."

I think people should complain as much about cut and paste veris as they do about messages.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X"

Because they are quite old, they fill up space, they and I have moved on, some were extremely silly (although I’ve left a few daft ones in) and to give those sexy people some privacy - I’ve had people hassle the people in my veris along the lines of ‘you’ve had sex with him have sex with me’ and those useless men messages caused some minor issues.....that’s why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been interesting reading everyone's buffalo stance on the matter. Convinced me to hide my veris which were previously on display.

I would be happy to show them to a guy I'm meeting should he wish to see

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"I display some, not all of my verifications. I really don't give a fuck what people think about the people I meet. I also quite like to see who I'm sharing with, so like reading them.

I have had women contacting all the guys I've met asking to meet, just to try and wind me up. Pathetic with a Capital P!

Yep. We're all out to get you

Daft isn't it.

I've heard many a tale of the F side of a couple messaging another woman warning them off her husband.

Mental cases......"

We have heard that from a female also, not had it as a couple, only people asking if we would recommend anyone, suppose we are not seen as a threat as we are a couple. You can’t be the jealous type on here, will only end in being hurt and does the guy know the female is warning off other females??

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why

1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play

A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it

If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible.

Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol

Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha "

Agree that the amount of veris could be off putting to some, we don’t show single guys veris that we just spoke to at a club as we don’t meet single guys that often so don’t want guys thinking we meet all the time, exception to one though which was a five minute chat and kiss at a train station lol. If people had a quick mooch though them then they would see lots of ours are social meets and years old, if they can’t be bothered its their loss if they think we have played too much haha. If you go a club or party lots of people may veri you but you may have played with none...don’t judge a book springs to mind but each to their own

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why

1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play

A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it

If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible.

Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol

Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha

Yes I rarely read thro veris myself as most are over hyped bullshit. I like to see that someone is genuine from genuine meets that’s all

Yes there are a few times I can be put off but that’s just personal reasons. You are right tho it’s hard to please everyone haha

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why

1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play

A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it

If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible.

Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol

Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha

Yes I rarely read thro veris myself as most are over hyped bullshit. I like to see that someone is genuine from genuine meets that’s all

Yes there are a few times I can be put off but that’s just personal reasons. You are right tho it’s hard to please everyone haha

I always look at veri’s if we are planning on meeting for fun, gives me an idea on the type of people they are and a bit of a clue what they like in a meet, we wouldn’t usually meet anyone who didn’t display any as some people’s profiles don’t give much away they can be vague, so veris work by giving you a little extra info...bit like hitting the ‘read more’ on trip advisor reviews lol

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I hide some of mine , a few reasons why

1. I was a party host and so 90% of mine are just ‘thanks for a great party’ etc ... I don’t host anymore and am enjoying actually swinging lol so prefer to show veris that show I meet to play

A few other reasons but that’s the jist of it

If they think you have too many veris you're just not compatible.

Yep , I wouldn’t expect anyone to read them as the same old stuff is boring lol

Often thought it would be nice if either the length of time we have been on here would show in years or the year joined or veris could be split as social or sex hahaha

Yes I rarely read thro veris myself as most are over hyped bullshit. I like to see that someone is genuine from genuine meets that’s all

Yes there are a few times I can be put off but that’s just personal reasons. You are right tho it’s hard to please everyone haha

Haha and there’s a few times I wish I had ‘read more’ for sure

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

I'd like to get a few more verifications this year.

Would anyone like to give me one?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I'd like to get a few more verifications this year.

Would anyone like to give me one?

lol I see what you did there

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

"I'd like to get a few more verifications this year.

Would anyone like to give me one?

lol I see what you did there "

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I display my Veris briefly, then put them away in private. Likewise my Friends List. Even my profile.

As folk say, some play the Verification Trail Game (note to self: write to Channel 4 to see if they fancy a celebrity version of Fab’s very own reality game show).

Why? Cos theyre’s some right sketchy fkrs on Fab!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I'd like to get a few more verifications this year.

Would anyone like to give me one?

*waves.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they say I'm a crap shag, I can't have that be visible on my profile when pulling birds.

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand

Because an OP on another thread took the piss out of my 1 veri and made out he'd contacted her and set up a meet etc...

To avoid drama for the lovely lady who wrote it

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I hide mine because I had met the same guy a female had and I don’t think she was happy

But instead of messaging me herself she had got another guy to message me saying that said guy was a player etc trying to put me off meeting him

Frankly it’s no ones business who anyone meets and no one owns anyone on this site

We are ALL FREE to meet whoever we want "

Absofuckinglutely lady!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Ive hidden mine as I've just decided I want some privacy

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Don't really think they are much use. I've never seen a negative one. So it's all just fluff. As long as there's a tick it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only display ones from gentlemen I have gotten along with and would meet again..

I have some blokes who have veri'd meet just because they think it'll get my attention even though we've never met and that's pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only display ones from gentlemen I have gotten along with and would meet again..

I have some blokes who have veri'd meet just because they think it'll get my attention even though we've never met and that's pointless

Can you veri me babe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to get one, then I'll decide. Too early to make my mind up...

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

I feel a bit of a show off showing my veri's. I do look at the veri's of prospective partners though so perhaps it's a little hypocritical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only display ones from gentlemen I have gotten along with and would meet again..

I have some blokes who have veri'd meet just because they think it'll get my attention even though we've never met and that's pointless

Can you veri me babe x"

Only if it'll get you to notice me xoxox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display loyalty card points either....

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I don't display loyalty card points either...."

Ha ha great use of term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only display ones from gentlemen I have gotten along with and would meet again..

I have some blokes who have veri'd meet just because they think it'll get my attention even though we've never met and that's pointless

Can you veri me babe x

Only if it'll get you to notice me xoxox"

I always notice you

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Personally I wouldn't show a verification that had anything of a sexual nature. I'd rather show I'm a honest and nice person that can kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X

I hide mine because posting them leads to everyone having a bitch fit and having a go at me...

Using a casual site to be casual... how very dare I?

In addition, I wish we could retract the ones we’ve given when they turn into a dick after you’ve left them one or blatantly asked for one but never left you one.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I know verifications disappear when people leave fab/you block someone but do you intentionally hide your verifications?

If so, for what reason? X

I hide mine because posting them leads to everyone having a bitch fit and having a go at me...

Using a casual site to be casual... how very dare I?

In addition, I wish we could retract the ones we’ve given when they turn into a dick after you’ve left them one or blatantly asked for one but never left you one.

You can just block them, the veri will text will disappear off their profile.

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