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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... and vice versa, right?

Why are men always so keen to out women? Just scroll on.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

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What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They love to tell you how they recognise you. Often for no reason or to shame you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not gentlemanly at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They love to tell you how they recognise you. Often for no reason or to shame you."

Maybe they are hoping for a way in. Most of their messages get ignored, so they want to grab your attention to get you chatting. Ive had them a few times, with my real name in the title heading. But i have face pics up, so i know that sometimes i will be recognised.... i just wish, like you, that they would scroll on haha.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Most likely bullshitting for attention, block and move on. Report if they cause you any hassle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You can't block in real life. You can't block family friends.

I do know how the site works. I'm questioning men's behaviour and hope even one man reading this will think more carefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think if I recognise someone on here or in a club, or vise versa, then we're both in the same situation.

Yes I'm on a sex site and I'd rather keep my private life just that, having said that I'm not ashamed that im on a swingers site or that I enjoy sex. Like I said I don't make it public or common knowledge but it wouldn't devastate me if somebody was to find out.

I do understand what you mean though OP. If I recognised someone on here I wouldn't message them just to tell them I would move along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely would think twice, I would approach the lady and say hi.. and say it's our secret and leave it at that...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah just move on people!

There is a man Vs woman thing. There's more stigma attached being a woman in charge of her own sexual destiny. That is why so many guys try and use it against you when you turn them down on dating sites.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah just move on people!

That is absolutely spot on.

I or any woman for that matter has nothing to be ashamed of being on a site like this. It's the same for men obviously, but you are absolutely right on the whole it is far more socially acceptable for a man to have lots of sex with multiple partners than it is for a woman. Although I do think attitudes are changing slowly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

This

Very funny guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah just move on people!

That is absolutely spot on.

Hopefully!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here "

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair i've been turned down on here an overwhelming percentage but i've never even thought of 'outing' anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me"

Because men have the shitty attitudes, yes?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me

Because men have the shitty attitudes, yes?

It's Ok Mr Stingly, I'm sure I can stand ma own ground here, but thanks for sticking up for me anyway Matey

So what appears to be your problem then Missus? I made a lighthearted joke and you took it to heart and accused me of having a negative dick

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"... and vice versa, right?

Why are men always so keen to out women? Just scroll on."

Certainly not cool.

But anyone who posts face pics has to expect there's a chance of it happening surely?

If the risk of being outed is one you want to avoid then it's pretty easy to maintain a level of plausible deniability, simply by keeping face pics and any showing easily identified ink out of public view.

Sure - it would be great if everyone could post full body/face photos without a care and with no worry if Dave down the pub would see them and show/tell others.

But common sense says that's unlikely.

Sometimes you have to look at being on here with 20/20 vision rather than rise tinted spectacles......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me"

wowzer.

Rude.

No, what the chap had done isn't nice, but no need to take your angst out on those that have done nothing to ya.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me"

Wow , someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed !

We’ve been ‘outed’ many a time in our home city , by both men and women . The worst was in ASDA on a Friday morning by two women who we had played with at a club in the Wednesday before . The fact that we had our four year old son with us didn’t help . They had forgotten the name of this site , and wanted a reminder , and were overly excited about meeting up again . Both were in their early twenties , and discretion wasn’t high on their list of priorities . I walked away with the lad while my wife explained why they were out of order .

It happens , so the best thing to do is accept it and move on .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me

Wow , someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed !

It happens , so the best thing to do is accept it and move on . "

Don't shop in Asda.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me

wowzer.

Rude.

No, what the chap had done isn't nice, but no need to take your angst out on those that have done nothing to ya."

Maybe someone had actually pissed on the chips. Now that would be a terrible crime,I'd get well aggy.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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I had one fella from another site threatening to out my sexuality on Facebook. I opened a new profile and arranged to meet the guy without him knowing it was me , gave me his address and everything. I didn't meet him, but I told him I now knew who he was and to leave me alone or he'd meet a real cunt !....worked a treat

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me

wowzer.

Rude.

No, what the chap had done isn't nice, but no need to take your angst out on those that have done nothing to ya."

That's why I'm outta this thread before I get a time out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me

wowzer.

Rude.

No, what the chap had done isn't nice, but no need to take your angst out on those that have done nothing to ya.

Maybe someone had actually pissed on the chips. Now that would be a terrible crime,I'd get well aggy."

This vinegar is a bit warm and ammonia like.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me

wowzer.

Rude.

No, what the chap had done isn't nice, but no need to take your angst out on those that have done nothing to ya.

That's why I'm outta this thread before I get a time out. "

I'll mind your cafe ash if you do haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me

wowzer.

Rude.

No, what the chap had done isn't nice, but no need to take your angst out on those that have done nothing to ya.

That's why I'm outta this thread before I get a time out. "

Thing that stands out to me Ace, is that if you were to speak to your "fellow" men, you'd be addressing the good guys who respect people, have a sense of humour but are also very supportive!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I take it that someone has pissed on your chips then OP? It's not nice when it happens, but I'm sure you'll get over it

You should have spent that energy talking to your fellow men instead of wasting it here

Cor blimey Missus, if we were married, we could have some right good angry sex

No thanks I wouldn't want your negative dick anywhere near me

wowzer.

Rude.

No, what the chap had done isn't nice, but no need to take your angst out on those that have done nothing to ya.

Maybe someone had actually pissed on the chips. Now that would be a terrible crime,I'd get well aggy.

This vinegar is a bit warm and ammonia like."

That's what I've thought many a time and the reason I steer clear from vinegar now.

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