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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you're not meeting, why do you still have men/ women/ couples/ whatever on your 'Looking for' list?

You show up on their searches and you're wasting their time. They search for people wanting to meet.

If you clear your 'looking for' list it takes you off the searches.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

That was the best thing I learned! Totally made my Fab experience better and I live in a local update free world. Bliss.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I have.... It doesn't stop the messages though.

So, who's wasting who's time?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

dont think i could make it any clearer im not looking to meet new people

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

[Removed by poster at 02/01/19 18:34:00]

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

If they can’t be bothered reading my profile that clearly states I’m not meeting that’s their problem. Messages regarding other matters are most welcome. Even someone wanting to know if there’s a Greggs at the hospital

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't get the outraged "so what are you doing here if you're not meeting then" messages, and who doesnt like a bit of outrage.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"If you're not meeting, why do you still have men/ women/ couples/ whatever on your 'Looking for' list?

You show up on their searches and you're wasting their time. They search for people wanting to meet.

If you clear your 'looking for' list it takes you off the searches."

What if I was only temporarily not meeting? I might want to talk to new people for future reference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have.... It doesn't stop the messages though.

So, who's wasting who's time? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that if people can’t read it at least allows me to block them when they do message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's down to people updating their profiles, some don't and wonder why .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You still having a thread clear out from last year Op ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not meeting, why do you still have men/ women/ couples/ whatever on your 'Looking for' list?

You show up on their searches and you're wasting their time. They search for people wanting to meet.

If you clear your 'looking for' list it takes you off the searches."

Because I am a tease as well as a timewaster

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"If you're not meeting, why do you still have men/ women/ couples/ whatever on your 'Looking for' list?

You show up on their searches and you're wasting their time. They search for people wanting to meet.

If you clear your 'looking for' list it takes you off the searches."
But they couldn't moan about it then.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"If you're not meeting, why do you still have men/ women/ couples/ whatever on your 'Looking for' list?

You show up on their searches and you're wasting their time. They search for people wanting to meet.

If you clear your 'looking for' list it takes you off the searches."

Oh dear, what will they do about the 20 seconds of time it took to scroll down to the 'not meeting' message...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"If you're not meeting, why do you still have men/ women/ couples/ whatever on your 'Looking for' list?

You show up on their searches and you're wasting their time. They search for people wanting to meet.

If you clear your 'looking for' list it takes you off the searches.

Oh dear, what will they do about the 20 seconds of time it took to scroll down to the 'not meeting' message... "
No time for that! just look at the pics and machine gun message everyone in a 20 mile radius.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not meeting, why do you still have men/ women/ couples/ whatever on your 'Looking for' list?

You show up on their searches and you're wasting their time. They search for people wanting to meet.

If you clear your 'looking for' list it takes you off the searches.

Oh dear, what will they do about the 20 seconds of time it took to scroll down to the 'not meeting' message... "

That’s 20 seconds of shagging they could have been doing, I can get two shags in that time and stick the kettle on, while the lady finishes herself off.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You still having a thread clear out from last year Op ? "

I think she found your old discarded thread idea notebook.

Perhaps you complain to the monopolies commission?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still having a thread clear out from last year Op ?

I think she found your old discarded thread idea notebook.

Perhaps you complain to the monopolies commission? "

I rejected this thread on the grounds of barrel scraping, I went for ‘Has your car got a cup holder ?’ thread instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just updated my profile so they know I’m a shit-swinging-timewasting-wank-shaft.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You still having a thread clear out from last year Op ?

I think she found your old discarded thread idea notebook.

Perhaps you complain to the monopolies commission?

I rejected this thread on the grounds of barrel scraping, I went for ‘Has your car got a cup holder ?’ thread instead. "

Ah yes, I remember the furore over the need for 3 or 4. Top quality threading there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still having a thread clear out from last year Op ?

I think she found your old discarded thread idea notebook.

Perhaps you complain to the monopolies commission?

I rejected this thread on the grounds of barrel scraping, I went for ‘Has your car got a cup holder ?’ thread instead.

Ah yes, I remember the furore over the need for 3 or 4. Top quality threading there "

I don’t waste my evenings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That was the best thing I learned! Totally made my Fab experience better and I live in a local update free world. Bliss. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they can’t be bothered reading my profile that clearly states I’m not meeting that’s their problem. Messages regarding other matters are most welcome. Even someone wanting to know if there’s a Greggs at the hospital "

Good question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried that it didn't stop the messages and occasionally I find a hotty I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're not meeting, why do you still have men/ women/ couples/ whatever on your 'Looking for' list?

You show up on their searches and you're wasting their time. They search for people wanting to meet.

If you clear your 'looking for' list it takes you off the searches.

Because I am a tease as well as a timewaster"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You still having a thread clear out from last year Op ?

I think she found your old discarded thread idea notebook.

Perhaps you complain to the monopolies commission?

I rejected this thread on the grounds of barrel scraping, I went for ‘Has your car got a cup holder ?’ thread instead. "

Do you ever say anything nice?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If they can’t be bothered reading my profile that clearly states I’m not meeting that’s their problem. Messages regarding other matters are most welcome. Even someone wanting to know if there’s a Greggs at the hospital "

In a nutshell.......this.

Not our fault people need a trip to Specsavers.

A

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"If they can’t be bothered reading my profile that clearly states I’m not meeting that’s their problem. Messages regarding other matters are most welcome. Even someone wanting to know if there’s a Greggs at the hospital "
agree completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really have an answer really sorry.

Also sorry to waste anyone’s time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t really have an answer really sorry.

Also sorry to waste anyone’s time "

Took me 3 seconds to realise you’re not meeting, that’s nearly half a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t really have an answer really sorry.

Also sorry to waste anyone’s time

Took me 3 seconds to realise you’re not meeting, that’s nearly half a wank."

. I do make exceptions though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do that but still have the occasional message, when I haven't blocked men. I think they must either see me on the forums or through a verification trail.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I like being a timewaster

Also, it means I get to block those who can't read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do that but still have the occasional message, when I haven't blocked men. I think they must either see me on the forums or through a verification trail.

"

Yep there's a few ways. If you put a pic public you show on new pics.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

All armchair swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All armchair swingers "

Swinging armchairs are good for chillin and kick back too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All armchair swingers

Swinging armchairs are good for chillin and kick back too. "

Those big spinny-round ones? Oooh they're lush! I'd love one of those

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"All armchair swingers

Swinging armchairs are good for chillin and kick back too. "
They talk a good game on here some of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting at the moment and don't know if or when that may change. That said, I enjoy being a member on here so keep my profile up. If folk want to message about similar then there's nowt to stop me chatting. If they read my profile and still ask for a meet that's their luck out

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