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"My ex never used to i had about 20 until this year" last year even grrrr4 | |||
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"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one? ![]() You're not the only one. Men don't understand this at all... | |||
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"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one? ![]() I don't understand what a so terrible about it, just made me a tad curious of other people's opinions. | |||
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"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one? ![]() keep off the onions but eat my sausage ![]() | |||
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"What is it exactly you don't under stand? ?" Why people think it's so terrible, they couldn't give reasoning why, but found it was more common than expected ![]() | |||
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"What is it exactly you don't under stand? ? Why people think it's so terrible, they couldn't give reasoning why, but found it was more common than expected ![]() Some people dont like cheese i guess ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one? ![]() ![]() Haha bloody predictive text... I hate onions too ![]() | |||
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"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one? ![]() ![]() ![]() its ok but il still let ya im nice like that | |||
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"I love giving bjs, couldn’t do without it if I’m honest " This is my thought exactly ![]() | |||
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"I love giving bjs, couldn’t do without it if I’m honest This is my thought exactly ![]() There are still a few of us out there ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?" Shocked that men don’t return the compliment. 69 is the best ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Bit like me saying I don't understand you hAve no meets or veris I guess we are all different If I were a woman I would want a bi curious man's willy in my mouth or pussy I'd be constantly thinking omg this has been in a man's bum Spose it's like food sone like some things that others detest ![]() We've only met one person from fab and he deleted his profile before we met, so just kept in touch via kik. But that has nothing to do with the subject. I said I understand people's preferences ECT I didn't know it was a common thing, only one person from a group of 10 women said they enjoyed it. | |||
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"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that? Shocked that men don’t return the compliment. 69 is the best ![]() ![]() Personally I hate 69! So uncomfortable and would rather concentrate on enjoying either giving or receiving | |||
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"You only need to look at some of the cock pics on here to understand why some women won't suck them." This is a very good reason. I enjoy sucking a cock that looks, feels and most importantly smells good to me, even if I don’t find the bloke facially attractive. Equally if a lady doesn’t want to perform oral then that’s cool with me. Yes I really enjoy it, but I also enjoy a lot of things that don’t happen usually when I have sex. However OP, I know what you mean if you’ve been in a relationship where it’s scarce and now getting a lot of oral then you’re probably wondering why not! | |||
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"You only need to look at some of the cock pics on here to understand why some women won't suck them." True dat, and the same is probably true of men and some of the pussy shots. | |||
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"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one? ![]() I love to give and receive and so far all my meets have had verrry big ticks for this ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that? Shocked that men don’t return the compliment. 69 is the best ![]() ![]() Fair enough, each to their own. | |||
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"Oh, and anyone who thinks blowjobs involve deep throat, particularly without the consent of the person giving. Blow job yes, struggling to breathe and vomiting no. " Unfortunately a lot of people's "experience" seems to have come from porn | |||
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"Bad past experiences, demanding and selfish lovers, or that they just don't want to. I love giving oral, but thought I didn't because of the first two. I remain perturbed when the favour isn't returned, though. " Hmm I see why women would be put off, my friend has never done it and just says she never would. Each to their own I guess ![]() | |||
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"People like and don't like all kinds of different things. If you're planning to meet with someone then you either need to accept it or move on. For me, I hated it until this year ![]() Oh really, interesting. I genuinely didn't realise how common it was, I had someone tell me they only did it on their anniversary as a treat to their husband. Perhaps I've been brainwashed by the other half that it's common! Haha ![]() | |||
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"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?" Thats some booty I mean, yup I agree ![]() | |||
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"There are some ugly cocks out there ![]() Very true, some would put me off sex altogether while others are yummy ![]() | |||
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"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs. Personally I love to give. Especially if he is freshly showered and trimmed. I could and have literally spent hours teasing with my tongue. It's one of my favorite things to do if I'm totally honest. And seeing his reaction as he's enjoying it, feeling his cock harden as he's about to cum and feeling it pulsate as he is cumming. I love nothing more " ![]() | |||
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"Until I joined the swinging scene, I also pretty much only had selfish lovers. I'd rarely orgasm and I was told it was me. (one even complained when I asked him to wash!) Turns out, no, no it's not. Why should I do a thing, in that context, that gives me no physical pleasure? I resented the expectation that their pleasure was paramount and mine was a burden if it was remembered at all. I didn't really realise things could be different, just thought that was the toll for sex for women. So blow jobs were rare and grudging in that context. " Yeah having a selfish lover would perhaps do that! Luckily m loves to give so I've never really experienced anything like that. Perhaps I'll dig deeper and ask the women I know why it is they don't like it also. Or wether just like my friend it's just something they've never done. | |||
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"I used to have an ex that didn't exactly refuse. But made it so clear she wasn't enjoying it, I never forced the issue. She might start off for a little while but then we would so something else. I went years without having a blowjob where I actually came from it. Anyway, when I met Candy she told me she loved giving them. One day she told me she was determined to make me cum. She set about working on me. I thought I came three or four times when I actually hadn't. I then eventually did and my inability has been cleared ever since! I guess it must have been a mental thing... " Candy to the rescue ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?" its not a good session if i dont go down to eat.. | |||
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"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs. Personally I love to give. Especially if he is freshly showered and trimmed. I could and have literally spent hours teasing with my tongue. It's one of my favorite things to do if I'm totally honest. And seeing his reaction as he's enjoying it, feeling his cock harden as he's about to cum and feeling it pulsate as he is cumming. I love nothing more " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one? ![]() I've never met a women who says they don't suck cock... I knew one lady who would orgasm just from sucking me. Cal | |||
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"My sister in law gets with a cock in her mouth, so doesn't do it. " Huh? | |||
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"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs. Personally I love to give. Especially if he is freshly showered and trimmed. I could and have literally spent hours teasing with my tongue. It's one of my favorite things to do if I'm totally honest. And seeing his reaction as he's enjoying it, feeling his cock harden as he's about to cum and feeling it pulsate as he is cumming. I love nothing more " Tbh the only women I would want sucking my cock are ones like you who genuinely enjoy it. There's nothing worse than a half hearted BJ. | |||
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"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs. Personally I love to give. Especially if he is freshly showered and trimmed. I could and have literally spent hours teasing with my tongue. It's one of my favorite things to do if I'm totally honest. And seeing his reaction as he's enjoying it, feeling his cock harden as he's about to cum and feeling it pulsate as he is cumming. I love nothing more " This ![]() | |||
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"Personally I love sucking cock nothing gets me wetter! I am the minority amongst friends, I only know one other girl who enjoys it as much as I the rest hate it and only do it to please their partners. I’ve met a couple of guys who don’t like receiving and haven’t even let me attempt to show them how good it can be which saddens me haha " Wow that's crazy isn't it being the minority, I genuinely thought it was common during sex, obviously I was misinformed! I also enjoy it and feel like it adds an element of naughtiness to the act ![]() | |||
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"I don’t have much saliva now, I wonder how it affects giving head?" Massively nothing worse than dry Oral, always keep a glass or something near you to help or even use it to your advantage. One glass of cold one cup of hot then you can warm your mouth before going down alternating with the cold. The change in sensation really gets some guys going | |||
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"Personally I love sucking cock nothing gets me wetter! I am the minority amongst friends, I only know one other girl who enjoys it as much as I the rest hate it and only do it to please their partners. I’ve met a couple of guys who don’t like receiving and haven’t even let me attempt to show them how good it can be which saddens me haha Wow that's crazy isn't it being the minority, I genuinely thought it was common during sex, obviously I was misinformed! I also enjoy it and feel like it adds an element of naughtiness to the act ![]() I think a lot of girls have had bad experiences that have put them off, maybe an overly eager guy with his hands on the back of her head or even just a smelly area which is disgusting and off putting! | |||
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"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him. ![]() vax? | |||
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"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him. ![]() I think some men prefer that ![]() | |||
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"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him. ![]() ![]() il take quality over power so il have kirby ![]() | |||
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"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?" Frankly, no. I love giving oral! Weirdos..... | |||
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"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him. ![]() ![]() ![]() Sounds a bit niche to me ![]() | |||
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"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs. Personally I love to give. Especially if he is freshly showered and trimmed. I could and have literally spent hours teasing with my tongue. It's one of my favorite things to do if I'm totally honest. And seeing his reaction as he's enjoying it, feeling his cock harden as he's about to cum and feeling it pulsate as he is cumming. I love nothing more " I completely agree with this. I love having a cock in my mouth and giving DP as well. I treat it as a challenge to see how far I can go before I gag. Makes me horny just thinking about it ![]() | |||
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"its amazing how many women dont give blowjobs or do them reluctantly" Must admit I wouldn’t do it if I didn’t like it. It’s my favourite thing though ![]() | |||
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"I love giving them. I enjoy seeing how far I can take it and the power of feeling their pleasure and response as I pleasure them. Can’t beat that feeling ![]() This ![]() | |||
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"I love giving them. I enjoy seeing how far I can take it and the power of feeling their pleasure and response as I pleasure them. Can’t beat that feeling ![]() ![]() Good girl lol | |||
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"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs. Personally I love to give. Especially if he is freshly showered and trimmed. I could and have literally spent hours teasing with my tongue. It's one of my favorite things to do if I'm totally honest. And seeing his reaction as he's enjoying it, feeling his cock harden as he's about to cum and feeling it pulsate as he is cumming. I love nothing more " Surely if you are doing it for hours then you must be doing it wrong? Isn't that what men are told? ![]() | |||
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"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs. Personally I love to give. Especially if he is freshly showered and trimmed. I could and have literally spent hours teasing with my tongue. It's one of my favorite things to do if I'm totally honest. And seeing his reaction as he's enjoying it, feeling his cock harden as he's about to cum and feeling it pulsate as he is cumming. I love nothing more Surely if you are doing it for hours then you must be doing it wrong? Isn't that what men are told? ![]() She's definitely not doing it wrong ![]() | |||
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"You only need to look at some of the cock pics on here to understand why some women won't suck them. True dat, and the same is probably true of men and some of the pussy shots. " Absolutely, We both enjoy eating pussy but some you look at and think "No, just no" | |||
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"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one? ![]() I've found this as well. And some of the ones that are in relationships always say 'Oh he gets 2 a year' Birthday & Christmas | |||
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"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving ![]() My ex hated it too, mind you he hated a lot of things! So wasn't something I'd done much of & was quite nervous about giving Think I'm getting it right now though, although one can never have enough practise ![]() | |||
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"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving ![]() ![]() Well you're not that far from us .... busy? Hahaha | |||
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"Love giving one (Kitty here). But I’m in control.. don’t grab my head and force it.. I want control!!" Agree with that | |||
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"I always assumed that people (men and women) that don’t like to give oral usually have that opinion because of hygeine/health/smell issues? " Some of it is parental programming from childhood "Don't do that it's naughty" "Don't touch that it's dirty " | |||
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"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving ![]() ![]() Oh my! I hadn't even noticed your location! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh yes .. dare I ask why? Hehe | |||
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"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's part of one of my nicknames & very similar to my couples profile name ![]() | |||
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"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Didn't copy ... honest ![]() | |||
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"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn't? My bad! Well.... Maybe ![]() | |||
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"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Maybe your bad Or maybe you're free ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Bloody love it now, but I hated it until I got rid of my ex husband... I don't think he would know how to handle me now, not that he would ever get the chance again ![]() Oh Ariel your ex hubby was a fool you are beautiful x | |||
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