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Excited about getting messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t know about you but I get very exciting when I get the yellow notification that I received a message while browsing on fabs. I’m always curious to know what the message is about and who might have sent it.

I know that there are some instances of many unwanted messages, especially addressed to females and couples, but how do you feel when you see the yellow notification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to delete my messages instantly but now I do a weekly bulk delete so my button is pretty much always yellow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to delete my messages instantly but now I do a weekly bulk delete so my button is pretty much always yellow"

And it doesn’t bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to delete my messages instantly but now I do a weekly bulk delete so my button is pretty much always yellow"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to delete my messages instantly but now I do a weekly bulk delete so my button is pretty much always yellow

This "

It’s curious to see how the same thing can cause two opposite reaction for different people. How do you now that you haven’t deleted a message that you actually wanted to read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great getting a message there few and far between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to delete my messages instantly but now I do a weekly bulk delete so my button is pretty much always yellow

This

It’s curious to see how the same thing can cause two opposite reaction for different people. How do you now that you haven’t deleted a message that you actually wanted to read? "

I don’t but the majority I can tell I don’t want to read them from the first line. I don’t want to block people messaging me though as I have a lot of friends on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supply and demand

I expect for the ladies it is rare that the notification is never there. Flooding the market.

For single males getting a message is rare making the process more exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised usually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to delete my messages instantly but now I do a weekly bulk delete so my button is pretty much always yellow

This

It’s curious to see how the same thing can cause two opposite reaction for different people. How do you now that you haven’t deleted a message that you actually wanted to read? "

I check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to delete my messages instantly but now I do a weekly bulk delete so my button is pretty much always yellow

This

It’s curious to see how the same thing can cause two opposite reaction for different people. How do you now that you haven’t deleted a message that you actually wanted to read?

I don’t but the majority I can tell I don’t want to read them from the first line. I don’t want to block people messaging me though as I have a lot of friends on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy getting messages as generally they are from people I want to chat to. Any that aren’t get deleted.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I enjoy getting messages as generally they are from people I want to chat to. Any that aren’t get deleted."

What you get messages?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy getting messages as generally they are from people I want to chat to. Any that aren’t get deleted.

What you get messages?! "

Was gonna say the same

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I enjoy getting messages as generally they are from people I want to chat to. Any that aren’t get deleted.

What you get messages?!

Was gonna say the same "

A single Male on fab getting messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I enjoy getting messages as generally they are from people I want to chat to. Any that aren’t get deleted.

What you get messages?!

Was gonna say the same

A single Male on fab getting messages "

It looks weird but it happens sometimes

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I enjoy getting messages as generally they are from people I want to chat to. Any that aren’t get deleted.

What you get messages?!

Was gonna say the same

A single Male on fab getting messages

It looks weird but it happens sometimes "

Does it?! I’ve not been on here for about 10 months has it changed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't because if I get a yellow inbox it probably means I forgot to put my message filters after entering a forum thread.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I don't because if I get a yellow inbox it probably means I forgot to put my message filters after entering a forum thread."

Yes of course you did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy getting messages as generally they are from people I want to chat to. Any that aren’t get deleted.

What you get messages?!

Was gonna say the same

A single Male on fab getting messages "

I only ever get messages from gay or Bi men never a lady. I can see from a wans s point of view that they get so many it must get boring reading the same old stuff. I get excited then realise it’s a fat man want to suck off a straight man (not going to happen sorry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't because if I get a yellow inbox it probably means I forgot to put my message filters after entering a forum thread.

Yes of course you did! "

That just made me Titter....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errr, I open it and see what's written?

Sure, I like getting them too, most guys do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to be brutal and bulk delete and start again. Just can't bring myself to press the button.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I don't because if I get a yellow inbox it probably means I forgot to put my message filters after entering a forum thread.

Yes of course you did!

That just made me Titter...."

Oh hello peachy bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a rush of excitement Keep the site supporter message and setting it to unread before going to sleep. When you wake up you will have a message notification.

Feels shitty afterwards but still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't because if I get a yellow inbox it probably means I forgot to put my message filters after entering a forum thread.

Yes of course you did! "

Damn you've seen right through me!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I don't because if I get a yellow inbox it probably means I forgot to put my message filters after entering a forum thread.

Yes of course you did!

Damn you've seen right through me!"

I know I’m a clever fucker me

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

For the few that I get i dont get massively excited but there's always that little hope that it's one that you want off a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a rush of excitement Keep the site supporter message and setting it to unread before going to sleep. When you wake up you will have a message notification.

Feels shitty afterwards but still "

This

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