FabSwingers.com forum: Hey mum I'm a swinger...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, I just told my mum I'm a swinger.

Her reaction was "Nice one hun, enjoy yourself but be safe. I knew you were upto something lol".

Anyone else told family or friends about swinging? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I told my mom and she said laughed and told me she used to, told me to have fun haha (mrs)

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Told some friends that I go to clubs and stuff. They all seem to be accepting and think it’s good for me. A couple of them would love to visit a club just to see what it’s like, but their hubbys would not understand/accept it. At least I can dispel some of the myths though. One friend has a brother who is into bdsm and is quite active on that scene. She’s pleased to be able to discuss this with me because I understand and don’t judge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can't believe how well she reacted lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told some friends we enjoy this lifestyle and they looked mortified

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I can't believe how well she reacted lol x"

I think that’s great. She’s not on here on the sly is she?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

"I can't believe how well she reacted lol x

I think that’s great. She’s not on here on the sly is she?

She’s not a bad shag!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people are more open minded about things these days x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s good to talk

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

my son knows. didnt bat an eyelid

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I can't believe how well she reacted lol x

I think that’s great. She’s not on here on the sly is she?

I thought the same thing, apple doesn’t fall far from the tree

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

My mother would be mortified she is an Angel.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Malmesbury

Cool Mum OP!

I've told a few close friends (male and female), they don't judge and like to hear what I've been up to (normally, not much)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't believe how well she reacted lol x

I think that’s great. She’s not on here on the sly is she?

I bloody hope not haha. My folks only had sex once to make me lol x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

God no.

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"My folks only had sex once to make me lol x"

Reminds me of Kevin and Perry Go Large

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My folks only had sex once to make me lol x

Reminds me of Kevin and Perry Go Large

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

I’d quite like to...but she asks too many questions already!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I can't believe how well she reacted lol x"

You're very lucky but she will worry x

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I can't believe how well she reacted lol x

I think that’s great. She’s not on here on the sly is she?

I bloody hope not haha. My folks only had sex once to make me lol x"

My folks didn’t even do that. My mum just rolled over and laid in the wet spot

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I have a feeling our friends and family will disown us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that “need” to know know. Don’t feel embarrassed or wrong. Brits are too stiff and need to lighten up.

Told my 18 yr old daughter recently. She knows that me and R go to parties and have “special “ friends.

She appreciated the honesty and knows that in turn she can tell me anything.

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a feeling our friends and family will disown us.... "

Noooo. No they won’t. Surly not

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

My mum has a rough idea. But would never talk to me about it. But my two male cousins found me on fab and their reaction was “wow little cuz is shining”

Maybe the fact I use to host parties and they had no idea haha

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I have a feeling our friends and family will disown us....

Noooo. No they won’t. Surly not

They will if they want in on the action, can’t call it too freaky if legally disowned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My work mates make jokes about my many trips to hull so guess they kind of know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't believe how well she reacted lol x

I think that’s great. She’s not on here on the sly is she?

I bloody hope not haha. My folks only had sex once to make me lol x"

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

my mum was cool about it, it was my dad who was the more shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother knows. She said it's nice that I feel that we are close enough for me to tell her but she never wants to hear about it. Lol!!

Some friends know as well. Mixed reaction from them. Xx

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

My niece was talking about dogging and going to clubs with her boyfriend,so i said to try swingers clubs and she said "we are already on fab"

I told her i was too,she high fived me!!!lol

Then added me as a friend and he boyfriend seen all my friends pics,was quite mortified for all of 5mins,then shrugged it off!!

Good job im her fave aunt... haha..x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She's suspected it for ages and I hate lying to my mum.

She's relieved I go to clubs to meet as its safer rather than random house meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I just told my mum I'm a swinger.

Her reaction was "Nice one hun, enjoy yourself but be safe. I knew you were upto something lol".

Anyone else told family or friends about swinging? X"

My mum was a swinger first! 20years

Luckily she is on the shelf atm and out of my age range!

For obvious reasons!

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Another niece went to townhouse with her partner and absolutely loved it....

Can you tell im the "cool aunt" yet...haha..

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

"She's suspected it for ages and I hate lying to my mum.

She's relieved I go to clubs to meet as its safer rather than random house meets x "
I am so glad that went so well for you. Your mum rocks, as do you of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She's suspected it for ages and I hate lying to my mum.

She's relieved I go to clubs to meet as its safer rather than random house meets x I am so glad that went so well for you. Your mum rocks, as do you of course."

Cheers hun. She's not daft. She said "You've no idea what I got upto. Just be safe and I'll be happy!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's suspected it for ages and I hate lying to my mum.

She's relieved I go to clubs to meet as its safer rather than random house meets x "

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

My long term FWB is my safe buddy too and only one friend knows .... she lives her lack of adventure through hearing about mine

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

"She's suspected it for ages and I hate lying to my mum.

She's relieved I go to clubs to meet as its safer rather than random house meets x I am so glad that went so well for you. Your mum rocks, as do you of course.

Cheers hun. She's not daft. She said "You've no idea what I got upto. Just be safe and I'll be happy!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We told our friends and we played with some too.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I don't tell anyone.

I think for me it's better that way. I value my privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be very careful about not revealing the details of my private life to anyone- quite easy as my parents passed away years ago. But after my recent accident, I decided to come out as a swinger to whoever reads my blog, including my boss and work colleagues. I just stopped caring any more, and found it very liberating to be out as a swinger. Also, it allows me to try and bust some of the stereotypes associated with swinging.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I have a feeling our friends and family will disown us....

Noooo. No they won’t. Surly not

I just don't want to chance telling them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did you tell her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging isnt a crime or illegal

we live in a modern world

most are very highly sexed as opposed to swingers anyway , some naturists , some voyeurs

sex and the excitement is actually healtheier and fitter than going to a smelly gym and a better workout.

my mum wouldnt careless if i told her but i dont feel the need ..

personally i dont think im a swinger , i just love sex , the female body and mind , the sexy lingerie they wear etc etc

basically sex mad/highly sexed as opposed to a swinger

jane divorced tarzan for swinging to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. This all stays with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. This all stays with me

I kinda let your secret out.

Called out for autumn whilst enjoying the hotness of your sister, summer.

Apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a great response from your mum. My mum is no longer here but I think she would have a similar outlook. I have very few family members left, if they found out so be it, but I wouldn't want my son to know or my work colleagues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. My friends don't talk about sex and they appreciate that such things are private.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My parents and I maintain the polite fiction that I'm a virgin. No, this isn't healthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my son knows. didnt bat an eyelid"

Same here our son just asked if we had a good time. He did say on Chritmas day after watching hubby and i open our presants to each other, that he was surprised we hadn't got a ballgag and swinger chair...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. This all stays with me

I kinda let your secret out.

Called out for autumn whilst enjoying the hotness of your sister, summer.

Apologies "

I thought she was looking at me funny over Xmas dinner

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

My daughter told us ( well more the Mrs) that she has many let’s say friends.

We told her to bring them her so we know shes safe.

Not an issue to any of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I overheard a workmate tell her gf she’s going xstasia and I was like

erm how do you know that place and she said how do you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I overheard a workmate tell her gf she’s going xstasia and I was like

erm how do you know that place and she said how do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boss knows.

I’d have never told my mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a few friends that know i’m on this site, they’re not arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My grown up daughter knows. She wasn't bothered at all. As long as she knows I'm safe, that's all she cares about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My grown up daughter knows. She wasn't bothered at all. As long as she knows I'm safe, that's all she cares about. "
faf

sorry carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends and family know, my daughter is my safe buddy...never had a bad reaction from anyone, most are just interested and ask questions. Never go into detail with them but I think a lot would like to try it but are too scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My grown up daughter knows. She wasn't bothered at all. As long as she knows I'm safe, that's all she cares about. faf

sorry carry on

She warned me off you

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I can only guess it must be an age thing again for me , but I wouldn’t dream of telling my parents I’m a swinger .

I don’t tell them when or how I choose to shag my wife either .

But I suppose with the way that everyone seems to be so happy telling everyone what they like and how they like it all over social media , it’s not surprising that people think it’s cool to tell their parents about their sex life .

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

"I can only guess it must be an age thing again for me , but I wouldn’t dream of telling my parents I’m a swinger .

I don’t tell them when or how I choose to shag my wife either .

Dont think her mums getting a blow by blow account of what she gets up to lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont think her mums getting a blow by blow account of what she gets up to lol

Oh god no lol. All she knows is I go to clubs. That's all she needs to know haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would of been comedy gold if your mum had asked for a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come from a very religious family and we never talk about sex.....

I would never tell my mom about anything I do because she would probably drag me into church.....

I also wouldn’t tell any of my friends I like fucking married couples.... all of them are married and I don’t want them thinking I want to fuck their wives...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I come from a very religious family and we never talk about sex.....

I would never tell my mom about anything I do because she would probably drag me into church.....

I also wouldn’t tell any of my friends I like fucking married couples.... all of them are married and I don’t want them thinking I want to fuck their wives..."
I bet you do wanna fuck some of their wives though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come from a very religious family and we never talk about sex.....

I would never tell my mom about anything I do because she would probably drag me into church.....

I also wouldn’t tell any of my friends I like fucking married couples.... all of them are married and I don’t want them thinking I want to fuck their wives... I bet you do wanna fuck some of their wives though.

No way , some of the wives have let themselves go after having children....

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I come from a very religious family and we never talk about sex.....

I would never tell my mom about anything I do because she would probably drag me into church.....

No way , some of the wives have let themselves go after having children...."

Should tell your friends to keep em in check.

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

My best friend got me to sign up on here so she knows .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pet of our friends know and never had any issues with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most my new village know

Fucks given = none

Fucks gained = a few

Found out a few couples and single lady's are in the fab club too. one 6 doors away no b.s.

Smallish village aswell

The whole of the UK seems to be on it

Or most of it

And it's just truly an amazing scene

People are getting pissed off with the day to day crap that has to be done and there looking for a release and excitement

This beautiful world gives them that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most my new village know

Fucks given = none

Fucks gained = a few

Found out a few couples and single lady's are in the fab club too. one 6 doors away no b.s.

Smallish village aswell

The whole of the UK seems to be on it

Or most of it

And it's just truly an amazing scene

People are getting pissed off with the day to day crap that has to be done and there looking for a release and excitement

This beautiful world gives them that "

A good few of small villages have a awful lot of pampas grasses

might be just a old person thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know at least 3couples that swing in my village ,1single woman andtheres possibly a few others I've yet to meet from here and nearby villages on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mentioned it to a friend and ever since he seems to expect a full report every time we meet.

I keep it to myself now.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

My folks know I have a friends with benefits but not the whole fab thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come from a very religious family and we never talk about sex.....

I would never tell my mom about anything I do because she would probably drag me into church.....

No way , some of the wives have let themselves go after having children....

Should tell your friends to keep em in check."

No way , that Would be considered mental abuse....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most my new village know

Fucks given = none

Fucks gained = a few

Found out a few couples and single lady's are in the fab club too. one 6 doors away no b.s.

Smallish village aswell

The whole of the UK seems to be on it

Or most of it

And it's just truly an amazing scene

People are getting pissed off with the day to day crap that has to be done and there looking for a release and excitement

This beautiful world gives them that

A good few of small villages have a awful lot of pampas grasses

might be just a old person thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most my new village know

Fucks given = none

Fucks gained = a few

Found out a few couples and single lady's are in the fab club too. one 6 doors away no b.s.

Smallish village aswell

The whole of the UK seems to be on it

Or most of it

And it's just truly an amazing scene

People are getting pissed off with the day to day crap that has to be done and there looking for a release and excitement

This beautiful world gives them that

A good few of small villages have a awful lot of pampas grasses

might be just a old person thing

Villages are full of swingers

Think it's due to the fact many have only just got a bus service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have wondered why people act strange & try to look as if incognito in our village , like an 80’s spy film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only told my best mate about being in the lifestyle, and she took it without blinking an eye!

Not sure I could tell my folks, or if Red could tell hers... They’d both would probably just say we should stay safe, but the embarrassment factor over Sunday lunch would be unbearable for a few weeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have wondered why people act strange & try to look as if incognito in our village , like an 80’s spy film "

Yep

You've spotted em

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

My brothers/sister know. All my friends know. One cousin knows but never told my Aunties. Never did tell my Mother but I think she knew I saw lot's of ladies!!

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Told all my friends, only because it was intertwined with our new relationship so hard to talk about one without the other!

They’ve been very accepting and rather intrigued!

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We very nearly accidentally told relatives over Xmas - we were about to tell one of our funny anecdotes and then realised just at the last moment how it ended...

Her dreamt last night that we told the children. Apparently Fab give you a little booklet to give give to them...

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

"We very nearly accidentally told relatives over Xmas - we were about to tell one of our funny anecdotes and then realised just at the last moment how it ended...

Her dreamt last night that we told the children. Apparently Fab give you a little booklet to give give to them... "

I’m sure if they are old enough they will know.

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

"We very nearly accidentally told relatives over Xmas - we were about to tell one of our funny anecdotes and then realised just at the last moment how it ended...

Her dreamt last night that we told the children. Apparently Fab give you a little booklet to give give to them... "

I can just imagine the title.

"So my parents are swingers. How does that affect me?" lol

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By *ristenloveCouple
over a year ago

London

We are very new even our friends doesn't know yet

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I've always been open abut being into swinging and bdsm, way I see it, of people know then it can't bite me in the arse

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

"I've always been open abut being into swinging and bdsm, way I see it, of people know then it can't bite me in the arse "

Thought you might like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve no need to tell my mum or my family that I’m interésted in this type of thing. It’s my business and my personal private life.

If anyone asked for some reason , I’d explain I suppose.

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl

It's also fascinating how many men on m/f profiles haven't even told their wives!

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

near lincoln

We are open and families and friends know. Was a worry when we first started and we had a few issues with an ex but no one is bothered what we do. And explaining it to them makes them realise it’s not the horrific thing it’s portrayed to be in the media .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's also fascinating how many men on m/f profiles haven't even told their wives!

I was typing out the same thing, you were to quick for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a naturist as well. Infact its that that got me into swinging and when my parents found out i take my clothes off at beaches etc they were horified but soon got over it

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By *ed PetalCouple
over a year ago

Kent

You’re brave! My mum would worry for our safety and Mr RP’s mum would take is straight to church to try and save us from our sins. I suspect she always had a feeling I am leading her son astray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are open and families and friends know. Was a worry when we first started and we had a few issues with an ex but no one is bothered what we do. And explaining it to them makes them realise it’s not the horrific thing it’s portrayed to be in the media . "

I’d say lots of negative images are for selling papers. Putting it in good light and painting a good image is what people want. Scandle and drama sells. It’s a fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re brave! My mum would worry for our safety and Mr RP’s mum would take is straight to church to try and save us from our sins. I suspect she always had a feeling I am leading her son astray.

Them churchgoers are the worst

And they've got a quiet venue

I'll get my coat now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told my mum and she giggled when I admitted I had spent five days in bed with two women.

My dad however is more reserved and has yet to comment...

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By *hief117Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

My little brother grinned and shook my hand when I told him on Christmas day, said he was envious he'd just Vanilla'd up with a girl from the real world lol!

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By *uyforyouMan
over a year ago

Cumnock

"So, I just told my mum I'm a swinger.

Her reaction was "Nice one hun, enjoy yourself but be safe. I knew you were upto something lol".

Anyone else told family or friends about swinging? X"

I don't have to say that, they're invite me to friends list, sometimes we meet up for good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I just told my mum I'm a swinger.

Her reaction was "Nice one hun, enjoy yourself but be safe. I knew you were upto something lol".

Anyone else told family or friends about swinging? X"

No. My parents are quite old fashioned, so I wouldn't want them worrying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum was a professional dominatrix in the 80's and early 90's. So I don't think she would bat an eyelid. It must be kinky genes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mum was a professional dominatrix in the 80's and early 90's. So I don't think she would bat an eyelid. It must be kinky genes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mum was a professional dominatrix in the 80's and early 90's. So I don't think she would bat an eyelid. It must be kinky genes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't believe how well she reacted lol x"

Just out of sheer curiosity, why did you feel the need to tell her? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just out of sheer curiosity, why did you feel the need to tell her? X"

We're very close (She lives with me and my son) and she had a strong idea about it. I was buying lingerie, dresses, make up etc which wasn't like me lol so rather than get caught out I decided to be honest about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another niece went to townhouse with her partner and absolutely loved it....

Can you tell im the "cool aunt" yet...haha.."

Sounds like a whole family hobby lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of sheer curiosity, why did you feel the need to tell her? X

I see, that is understandable and it sounds like you have a great relationship with your mum. Treasure that, it's precious x

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

"So, I just told my mum I'm a swinger.

Her reaction was "Nice one hun, enjoy yourself but be safe. I knew you were upto something lol".

Anyone else told family or friends about swinging? X"

My mum said the same collowed by well in the 60s time for me to dash off lol

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