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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is my record for longest I’ve lasted in round 1 of having the sex. How long do you last and ladies is it ever acceptable for a man to blow his load in under a minute ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh this should be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure if he's made me cum at least 4 times

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

38 seconds

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think I can manage 38 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39 seconds. Had to stop to take my socks off during.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well it's nice if he doesn't.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Well it's nice if he doesn't."
what... You mean....sort of...maybe...think of what the woman wants??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?"

i did wonder, the one thing i’m not doing is counting in my head when stroking the inside of a ladies love tunnel with Mr Happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?"

I don't, I count during sex as it makes me last longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it's nice if he doesn't. what... You mean....sort of...maybe...think of what the woman wants??"

Good grief surely not!!??

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

After all that effort of going upstairs and getting undressed I want it to last at least 45 seconds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?"

I count in my head to try and take my mind off cumming...

1 Margaret Thatcher, 2 Margaret Thatcher, etc.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Doesn't matter how long he lasts the first time, providing he can recoup and repeat.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I don't, I count during sex as it makes me last longer. "

So you get up to 39 thrusts do you?

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I count in my head to try and take my mind off cumming...

1 Margaret Thatcher, 2 Margaret Thatcher, etc."

You kinky bugger!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It depends how fast the background music is..don't play disco stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I don't, I count during sex as it makes me last longer.

So you get up to 39 thrusts do you?"

19.5. More of an "in/out" method of counting.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Well it's nice if he doesn't. what... You mean....sort of...maybe...think of what the woman wants??"

Well if he's got to cum fair enough he has to cum,but yeah try and make it last a bit more than a minute,unless it doesn't take you long to get going again.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I don't, I count during sex as it makes me last longer.

So you get up to 39 thrusts do you?"

what are the 39 thrusts?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I don't, I count during sex as it makes me last longer.

So you get up to 39 thrusts do you?

19.5. More of an "in/out" method of counting. "

Yeah I was thinking 39 may be a bit ambitious.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Well it's nice if he doesn't. what... You mean....sort of...maybe...think of what the woman wants??

Well if he's got to cum fair enough he has to cum,but yeah try and make it last a bit more than a minute,unless it doesn't take you long to get going again."

how about changing position halfway

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I don't, I count during sex as it makes me last longer.

So you get up to 39 thrusts do you?what are the 39 thrusts?"

39 thrusts is a perverse prequel to 50 Shades. It’s not for the faint hearted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I don't, I count during sex as it makes me last longer.

So you get up to 39 thrusts do you?

19.5. More of an "in/out" method of counting.

Yeah I was thinking 39 may be a bit ambitious."

It is. Got to 21 once I was so proud. Unfortunately I was on my own so quite hard to prove.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

When I was younger I use to be able to go at least twice in about a hour, as for now at least one session can last for about 30mins that with foreplay, but on a good day maybe 40 mins.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I don't, I count during sex as it makes me last longer.

So you get up to 39 thrusts do you?

19.5. More of an "in/out" method of counting.

Yeah I was thinking 39 may be a bit ambitious.

It is. Got to 21 once I was so proud. Unfortunately I was on my own so quite hard to prove."

Always video your wanks for prove is my tip.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?"

No, there’s a referee shouting in my ear how long I’m lasting, it’s very off putting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter how long he lasts the first time, providing he can recoup and repeat. "

There’s zero chance of that, I’m wiped out and the lady will have to see herself out.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, yes it is. It's like a massive compliment - I think hey, I caused that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, yes it is. It's like a massive compliment - I think hey, I caused that. "

I think it’s the greatest compliment you can pay a woman, it can’t be faked.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Under a minute??

Ffs takes me ages

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Yes, yes it is. It's like a massive compliment - I think hey, I caused that. "

I get that,but what if it happens everytime? With my ex husband it was kinda frustrating,everytime I was really getting into it he'd cum. I used to try keeping it in because the first murmour from me and he'd cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key is the ability to repeat repeatedly

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes, yes it is. It's like a massive compliment - I think hey, I caused that.

I get that,but what if it happens everytime? With my ex husband it was kinda frustrating,everytime I was really getting into it he'd cum. I used to try keeping it in because the first murmour from me and he'd cum."

Ah, I can understand your frustration.

Okay being a bit serious now, if it is premature ejaculation then I'd try and access some of the resources available to help with that. There are also various things that can be implemented to try and help (changes in sex styles etc, masturbation techniques, sprays and medication). Quite often it's a psychological thing so would try and address that. I think you can be supportive but it's really down to the man to deal with if wanted - RE can cause a lot of worry.

And that was a huge stream of consciousness, sorry Op!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The best cure for premature ejaculation is lots and lots...and lots more sex

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Oh edging! Edging is fun and can help. That's my serious done for the day.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Yes, yes it is. It's like a massive compliment - I think hey, I caused that.

I get that,but what if it happens everytime? With my ex husband it was kinda frustrating,everytime I was really getting into it he'd cum. I used to try keeping it in because the first murmour from me and he'd cum.

Ah, I can understand your frustration.

Okay being a bit serious now, if it is premature ejaculation then I'd try and access some of the resources available to help with that. There are also various things that can be implemented to try and help (changes in sex styles etc, masturbation techniques, sprays and medication). Quite often it's a psychological thing so would try and address that. I think you can be supportive but it's really down to the man to deal with if wanted - RE can cause a lot of worry.

And that was a huge stream of consciousness, sorry Op! "

Suppose it's up to the individual to decide if it is premature ejaculation or just a quick cummer and there's nothing to address. If there's frustration from either side it needs to be addressed,that's where I went wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend that cums pretty quick on the first round and I absolutely love it. Not timed it though . And he can keep going and always makes me cum shortly after so win win.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, yes it is. It's like a massive compliment - I think hey, I caused that.

I get that,but what if it happens everytime? With my ex husband it was kinda frustrating,everytime I was really getting into it he'd cum. I used to try keeping it in because the first murmour from me and he'd cum.

Ah, I can understand your frustration.

Okay being a bit serious now, if it is premature ejaculation then I'd try and access some of the resources available to help with that. There are also various things that can be implemented to try and help (changes in sex styles etc, masturbation techniques, sprays and medication). Quite often it's a psychological thing so would try and address that. I think you can be supportive but it's really down to the man to deal with if wanted - RE can cause a lot of worry.

And that was a huge stream of consciousness, sorry Op! "

No problem, I welcome any serious debate. My main problem is vaginas feel to good, so I blame the women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She must have been some hot chick

Or you had very full balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if he's a fast cummer as long as he goes again and doesn't excuse himself and bugger off home.

If he tells me I can give him a little wank, and when he recovers we can have sex.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

How about keeping winkie out of the love tunnel until the tunnels owner has orgasmed a couple of times, and pre warn that they are so sexy you will blow your beans super fast, but reassure round two will follow.

She's happy she's cum, she's happy you find her so sexy and she's happy she's getting another bash.

Your just happy to be there.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?"

No, he uses a metronome..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lier my gran said it was at least 3 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

No, he uses a metronome.."

He has one thrust per second and counts each thrust.

33...34...35 I'm near! 36 here it comes (tongue hanging out) 37 OH YES! YES! YES!

Thanks love, fancy a cuppa ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it. My shortest experience was when I climbed on top and inserted his penis, I rose up once and then on the downstroke he blew, was probably not even 10 seconds. Changed my name to Paul Daniels after that.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I like it. My shortest experience was when I climbed on top and inserted his penis, I rose up once and then on the downstroke he blew, was probably not even 10 seconds. Changed my name to Paul Daniels after that. "

Man I'd just find that incredibly frustrating,I prefer penetration to anything else so would be disappointed with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it. My shortest experience was when I climbed on top and inserted his penis, I rose up once and then on the downstroke he blew, was probably not even 10 seconds. Changed my name to Paul Daniels after that.

Man I'd just find that incredibly frustrating,I prefer penetration to anything else so would be disappointed with that."

I’d had most of my fun beforehand, I’d been up his arse and rubbed my fanny on his foot. He managed to go again after, for about a minute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it. My shortest experience was when I climbed on top and inserted his penis, I rose up once and then on the downstroke he blew, was probably not even 10 seconds. Changed my name to Paul Daniels after that.

Man I'd just find that incredibly frustrating,I prefer penetration to anything else so would be disappointed with that."

It's ok if they recover and can go again.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I once met a guy, not from here, and as soon as I put my hand down his pants he blew his load.

He was embarrassed but I loved it, and he got hard again almost straight away. So yes its acceptable, in fact its quite a turn on, as long as that's not the end of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends how fast the background music is..don't play disco stuff"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I like it. My shortest experience was when I climbed on top and inserted his penis, I rose up once and then on the downstroke he blew, was probably not even 10 seconds. Changed my name to Paul Daniels after that.

Man I'd just find that incredibly frustrating,I prefer penetration to anything else so would be disappointed with that.

I’d had most of my fun beforehand, I’d been up his arse and rubbed my fanny on his foot. He managed to go again after, for about a minute!"

Slight improvement then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i normally last 5 months on first round

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I like it. My shortest experience was when I climbed on top and inserted his penis, I rose up once and then on the downstroke he blew, was probably not even 10 seconds. Changed my name to Paul Daniels after that.

Man I'd just find that incredibly frustrating,I prefer penetration to anything else so would be disappointed with that.

It's ok if they recover and can go again. "

and last more than one thrust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's still going at it for longer than 30 seconds I get bored and go dry. I just stare at him till he climbs off me.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I like it. My shortest experience was when I climbed on top and inserted his penis, I rose up once and then on the downstroke he blew, was probably not even 10 seconds. Changed my name to Paul Daniels after that. "

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Is my record for longest I’ve lasted in round 1 of having the sex. How long do you last and ladies is it ever acceptable for a man to blow his load in under a minute ? "

I avoid any of the quick draw McGraw *unneccessariness by not having any of the sex.

*credit BrightonSteve for the word "unneccessariness"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I like it. My shortest experience was when I climbed on top and inserted his penis, I rose up once and then on the downstroke he blew, was probably not even 10 seconds. Changed my name to Paul Daniels after that. "
wow...I'd love this..you must be bloody good..did he leave you a veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum pretty fast myself, think I’ve evolved to get in there quick before they do!

Pretty much as soon as it goes in and they throb it, if I reach down and rub my bean the same time it just happens, then they just get stronger. Oh crumbs I feel like getting fucked big time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it. My shortest experience was when I climbed on top and inserted his penis, I rose up once and then on the downstroke he blew, was probably not even 10 seconds. Changed my name to Paul Daniels after that. wow...I'd love this..you must be bloody good..did he leave you a veri"

No he wasn’t from here. Was off a certain fitnes forum.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Most people who contact me just want a quickie ...

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Most people who contact me just want a quickie ... "

Most people who contact me just want a quiche....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think extremely quickly coming is an evolutionary thing...the male can be in..fertilising and out before the alpha ...and maybe even the females know what's going on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a freak then coz I average about an hour before I blow!

The old chap ain’t as sensitive as he used to be! Haha

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Then...if theres time for seconds he can take his time a bit more

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"How about keeping winkie out of the love tunnel until the tunnels owner has orgasmed a couple of times, and pre warn that they are so sexy you will blow your beans super fast, but reassure round two will follow.

She's happy she's cum, she's happy you find her so sexy and she's happy she's getting another bash.

Your just happy to be there. "

Love this.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Most people who contact me just want a quickie ...

Most people who contact me just want a quiche.... "

hahahahaha

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

For us it depends on what we are doing..

A good D/s session can be several hours of play depending on what is being used. From first kiss to the end of aftercare it can take a whole evening up from 7pm-1am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he's still going at it for longer than 30 seconds I get bored and go dry. I just stare at him till he climbs off me."

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Is my record for longest I’ve lasted in round 1 of having the sex. How long do you last and ladies is it ever acceptable for a man to blow his load in under a minute ? "

Very rare that I'm able to come from sex after my injury. Can be digging tunnels for a while till I decide to finish myself off.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"If he's still going at it for longer than 30 seconds I get bored and go dry. I just stare at him till he climbs off me."

You've just won the internet....

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yes, yes it is. It's like a massive compliment - I think hey, I caused that.

I get that,but what if it happens everytime? With my ex husband it was kinda frustrating,everytime I was really getting into it he'd cum. I used to try keeping it in because the first murmour from me and he'd cum."

Yes once in a blue moon when something is really exciting is fair enough, but in general a gentleman needs to learn to give the lady enough time!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And ladies, if you think round 2 will be any better, you’ll be in for yet more disappointment.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

i prefer a man with a bit of self control

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"And ladies, if you think round 2 will be any better, you’ll be in for yet more disappointment. "

and that's why threesomes plus are wonderful thing's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubbys record after a few too many was 6 hours ..we both slept well after that night ! Our average is 30-40 minutes but it is nice to have a 10 minute quickie. He’s never cum first, we normally can cum more or less together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the So Not Solid Crew thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I count in my head to try and take my mind off cumming...

1 Margaret Thatcher, 2 Margaret Thatcher, etc."

Pervert!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And ladies, if you think round 2 will be any better, you’ll be in for yet more disappointment. "

What is a 'round 2'?

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By *uckaroo BanzaiCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere nice


"Do you have your stopwatch at the side of you?

I count in my head to try and take my mind off cumming...

1 Margaret Thatcher, 2 Margaret Thatcher, etc."

Maggie Thatcher was my go to for years lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he's still going at it for longer than 30 seconds I get bored and go dry. I just stare at him till he climbs off me."

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By *easeme13Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes


"I cum pretty fast myself, think I’ve evolved to get in there quick before they do!

Pretty much as soon as it goes in and they throb it, if I reach down and rub my bean the same time it just happens, then they just get stronger. Oh crumbs I feel like getting fucked big time. "

My goodness.....might jump in the car and head to South Wales right now!! Lol

Used to live in Swansea area, and occasionally visit friends down there too

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