FabSwingers.com forum: Do you get put off by.......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?

I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.

That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I do

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Yes we do too!

A profiles that put you off

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I hide my veris, as I value my privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I’m very particular and like people I meet to be too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes here too

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Sometimes... Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?

I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.

That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not."

What an honest post

I do too , and it’s not wrong. You have every right to be put off or encouraged to meet someone for sex depending on where they have been before

There’s no shame in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone (that isn't a virgin) has a sexual history on and off Fab you shouldn't really dwell on it. You're not fucking the people your potential meet has fucked are you?

The only time you should be bothered if their profile says safe sex but they meet known barebackers. Even then you make sure you have yourself covered (pun intended).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all do it but we are rarely honest about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’m guilty of that.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Sometimes I do , yes. There's a lot to consider before I agree to meet anyone

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Yeah, we get put off and not always because they’ve met less desirable people, sometimes it’s because they’re meeting really hot people and I worry I wouldn’t meet their expectations. Madness eh?! Sometimes I suppose ignorance is bliss.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of i just do my homework track 3 generations of veris

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Kind of i just do my homework track 3 generations of veris

You are the male version of me lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind of i just do my homework track 3 generations of veris

You are the male version of me lmfao

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i agree my tits are spectacular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Which feels kinda hypocritical because I don't show mine but I don't ask them to show theirs either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, we get put off and not always because they’ve met less desirable people, sometimes it’s because they’re meeting really hot people and I worry I wouldn’t meet their expectations. Madness eh?! Sometimes I suppose ignorance is bliss.

Lou x "

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I did until I realised that we only see what people chose to show. What we see its normally only half a story so it's worthless really.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"I did until I realised that we only see what people chose to show. What we see its normally only half a story so it's worthless really."

I wouldn't say worthless, over time you do get a fairly good idea.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yep - I know that people meet others and don't display their veris so you never really get a full idea of who they've met but the ones I can read/know about I do occasionally.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I did until I realised that we only see what people chose to show. What we see its normally only half a story so it's worthless really."

Agreed although even worse when the half they show is a turn off - god only knows what they aren’t showing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

If someone was concerned about who we had met, I would assume they were a bit controlling. We’re here for NSA sex, not dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reality i dont even read profiles until im about to meet let alone veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if a guy contacts me but as his veris are from slim ladies I wonder why he wants to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah they can put me off for a whole host of reasons. The kind of verifications they leave for other people makes a difference too.

I don't normally like graphic ones, but there was one guy I was so interested in meeting purely from a scenario a girl he'd met described in his veri so it works both ways.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I do. As a semi regular at clubs I see a lot of what happens when people are d*unk and/or horny and don’t care too much about their Fab persona anymore. If I see a veri from someone who shags 20 guys in one evening but couldn’t describe them - then I will back away from a meet. It’s sensible for sexual health reasons.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"Other profile verifications or people they have met"

Abso-fucking-lutely!

It's like if you'll go there, you'll go anywhere. I don't wanna be special but neither am I any hole is a goal. 'xx'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll read veri's if they're available but won't get to hung up on it.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Yep. If there's certain people on there it would make me think twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god I'm not the only person that does this!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Everyone (that isn't a virgin) has a sexual history on and off Fab you shouldn't really dwell on it. You're not fucking the people your potential meet has fucked are you?

The only time you should be bothered if their profile says safe sex but they meet known barebackers. Even then you make sure you have yourself covered (pun intended)."

Agreed.

It amuses me and I think you'd have to be pretty naive enough to believe someone with no or few veries showing is somehow a "better bet "than someone with more displayed, because that's all it really comes down to really, how many are displayed , not how many meets good ,bad or otherwise (in your eyes) the person has had.

...but if that works for you then go for it.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why is it anyone’s business?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine are from socials anyway but I usually hide them, to preserve the privacy of the writer.

(Yes, I've seen you veri-stalkers... out there in the bushes)

Veri = 'is my profile genuine?' - yup. 'nuff said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should never assume the person your viewing would meet you anyway.

its a two way street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. More so if the people they have met are known to play BB as that would instantly stop me meeting them, or if the type of people that they meet are nothing like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet people with all their veris hidden.

I use other profiles for meeting on here so it doesn't matter anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Yes if a guy contacts me but as his veris are from slim ladies I wonder why he wants to meet me."

Or when they are all from much younger gorgeous voluptuous ladies, I also wonder..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people read mine and really think that I fuck ppl behind supermarkets then they would be absolutely right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes we are often put off by veries

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah which is not good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg yes and I was going to post the same question earlier. I am interested in checking veri’s and see if I’m their type or not or just another f*** x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if a guy contacts me but as his veris are from slim ladies I wonder why he wants to meet me.

Or when they are all from much younger gorgeous voluptuous ladies, I also wonder.."

In my case it would be because I have a wide taste in body types. I have my likes and dislikes but just because I'd been with a slim woman with no curves does not mean I have zero interest in somebody with curves.

I look at veris to see what the competition is, see how I match up and if I have a chance and then think fuck it, always worth a shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?

I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.

That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not."

No because I don't read them, half are fake and the rest mainly nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. I know it’s bad but I’ve turned down a lot of meets with those I find attractive, because i didn’t like the people in their verifications.

And I don’t mean I didn’t like the people physically - it’s usually because those in the veri’s practice bareback or seem to have low standards.

That being said - the same happens in reverse and people that I may not usually be interested in seem more open to when you see all the positive feedback they’re getting

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?

I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.

That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not."

Yes although not in the way you think.

If I see someone has a rake of veris from 30 year olds with bulging muscles, long hair and a huge cock I don't see the point in reaching out, they're obviously not looking for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to know what other people have done before a meet and I don't want to be compared to them or henge my intimate secrets posted either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to know what other people have done before a meet and I don't want to be compared to them or henge my intimate secrets posted either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

An interesting read and was pleasantly surprised to hear that so many are in thr same boat as me

Happy New Year to you all xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no. i only ever read the top couple of verifications on someones profile. Ive no real interest in who theyve met

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Other profile verifications or people they have met that you would like to meet?

I do. I know its wrong but i do judge people based on who they've met in the past.

That can be a deal breaker on if decide to meet or not."

Surprisingly I haven’t in the past. If I like someone, I like them. However some of the stuff I seen and heard in the last six months would make me a bit more wary in the future I think.

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