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"I'm the same, I need a connection, spark, some sort of attraction, what ever you want to call it! I have never been with a guy, who I didnt fancy the arse off of!!! But that's just me " No, i agree with you Personality counts for a lot on here too for me, but maybe thats because i would prefer regular fun to lots of one offs. | |||
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"I'm the same, I need a connection, spark, some sort of attraction, what ever you want to call it! I have never been with a guy, who I didnt fancy the arse off of!!! But that's just me No, i agree with you Personality counts for a lot on here too for me, but maybe thats because i would prefer regular fun to lots of one offs." Lots of regulars is even better | |||
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"I'm the same, I need a connection, spark, some sort of attraction, what ever you want to call it! I have never been with a guy, who I didnt fancy the arse off of!!! But that's just me No, i agree with you Personality counts for a lot on here too for me, but maybe thats because i would prefer regular fun to lots of one offs. Lots of regulars is even better " Haha one step at a time for me! | |||
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"depends on the type of meet and the type of mood you i am in." That is fair enough. Like i said, each to their own, everyone is different | |||
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"Yeah we definatley like a bit of a spark and some attraction but then there are others who will fuck anything! We tend to avoid them too" define fuck anything...these threads always make me laugh as people on a swinging site go into paroxysms of one upmanship about who is the most selective,with finally the 90 yr old virgin who is still waiting for the perfect meet winning i certainly wont fuck anything, i will go out and in total cock slut mode allow men to satisfy me multiple times, strangely men dont seem to mind being there as an available cock...perhaps they tend to be more honest This weekend i shall b ewith dear friends whose personalities are the thing that first attracted me to them.Unlike some shallow people i see mental attraction as being far deeper than superficial prettiness. We shall talk,have fun and hopefully play...communing at a deeper level than any one off meet. Then i hope to go to partners and get my brains fucked out until i can barely walk and have to be helped out But i am glad i make the list of people to avoid...my diary is a bit full for judgemental ppl anyway. | |||
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"What degree of connection and spark are we talking here? Is thinking they are OK enough? Do you have to think they are better than OK? Is it an emotional connection or do you just have to like them as a person based on what you know so far?" Well I just dont like the whole wham bamm thank you mam situation. I get people on here that send one message and expect you to meet. I prefer to get to know someone a bit. Physical attraction if normally obvious from looking at someones pics... but there needs to be a personal attraction/spark... someone who is into the same things as you, understands you and what you both want. i like a bit of personality and sense of humour too. | |||
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"Yeah we definatley like a bit of a spark and some attraction but then there are others who will fuck anything! We tend to avoid them too define fuck anything...these threads always make me laugh as people on a swinging site go into paroxysms of one upmanship about who is the most selective,with finally the 90 yr old virgin who is still waiting for the perfect meet winning i certainly wont fuck anything, i will go out and in total cock slut mode allow men to satisfy me multiple times, strangely men dont seem to mind being there as an available cock...perhaps they tend to be more honest This weekend i shall b ewith dear friends whose personalities are the thing that first attracted me to them.Unlike some shallow people i see mental attraction as being far deeper than superficial prettiness. We shall talk,have fun and hopefully play...communing at a deeper level than any one off meet. Then i hope to go to partners and get my brains fucked out until i can barely walk and have to be helped out But i am glad i make the list of people to avoid...my diary is a bit full for judgemental ppl anyway." Who said you make the list of people to avoid?! No one is judging you... well im certainly not! | |||
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"Is it just you who needs to feel the connection... I mean, does it matter if the other person you feel a connection to doesn't need to feel one and will happily bang you regardless? " We would never know if the other person genuinely felt a spark,, but we would hope that we would choose to meet people who have similar wants and needs from a meet as us so would hope that they like us too.. if they dont then no great loss to us its just not who they are.. just means less likely to have a repeat meet | |||
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"Is it just you who needs to feel the connection... I mean, does it matter if the other person you feel a connection to doesn't need to feel one and will happily bang you regardless? " Well I always think a connection or good chemistry is a two way thing but have had socials eith guys I didn't feelbit with. When politely letting them know this and that we wouldn't be taking things further they disagreed and said they def felt it. Lol. Hm. Never met a guy who said he felt no chemistry in fact. Funny that! | |||
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"Is it just you who needs to feel the connection... I mean, does it matter if the other person you feel a connection to doesn't need to feel one and will happily bang you regardless? Well I always think a connection or good chemistry is a two way thing but have had socials eith guys I didn't feelbit with. When politely letting them know this and that we wouldn't be taking things further they disagreed and said they def felt it. Lol. Hm. Never met a guy who said he felt no chemistry in fact. Funny that! " Haha i can see why a man might be easily distracted | |||
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"big cock, the rest I can close my eyes too....." That's me bummed out then xx | |||
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"big cock, the rest I can close my eyes too..... That's me bummed out then xx " big cock, the rest I can close my eyes too or use my imagination if lacking in the meat department... | |||
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"big cock, the rest I can close my eyes too..... That's me bummed out then xx big cock, the rest I can close my eyes too or use my imagination if lacking in the meat department... " Yea xx | |||
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