FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Year end tidy up

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I deleted my entire hotlist and going forward I’ll only had people who want to be on it.

No more stalking people who are not interested in me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you now waiting for people to beg to be added?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you now waiting for people to beg to be added? "

Me me me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I thought that was the point of the hotlist.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I deleted my entire hotlist and going forward I’ll only had people who want to be on it.

No more stalking people who are not interested in me.

"

I don't mind add me if you wish

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotlust is for wank-stalking. Friends list is for people who like you.

(Deliberate typo)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yeah, hot list is for want and can't have for me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotlust is for wank-stalking. Friends list is for people who like you.

(Deliberate typo)"

Explains why my hotlist is infinity longer than my friends list!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good strategy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Yeah, hot list is for want and can't have for me. "

My hotlist is for people that I like but haven't contacted yet or not enough to move onto friends. Generally it's a work in progress!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have friends or a hotlist. I also find it very creepy when people mention something like a new photo and you have no idea who they are. We should be informed when people are hotlisting us.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't have friends or a hotlist. I also find it very creepy when people mention something like a new photo and you have no idea who they are. We should be informed when people are hotlisting us. "

Ooh no, I don't like that idea at all.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, hot list is for want and can't have for me.

My hotlist is for people that I like but haven't contacted yet or not enough to move onto friends. Generally it's a work in progress! "

I used mine in the same way and would only delete people who turned me down or deleted my message without replying. Ended up with plenty of people who didn’t reply to me or didn’t read my message.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotlust is for wank-stalking. Friends list is for people who like you.

(Deliberate typo)

Explains why my hotlist is infinity longer than my friends list!"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I don't have friends or a hotlist. I also find it very creepy when people mention something like a new photo and you have no idea who they are. We should be informed when people are hotlisting us.

Ooh no, I don't like that idea at all. "

No!

90% on mine are actually Not List

Wouldn't want them knowing & thinking I actually like them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 30/12/18 12:08:33]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have friends or a hotlist. I also find it very creepy when people mention something like a new photo and you have no idea who they are. We should be informed when people are hotlisting us.

Ooh no, I don't like that idea at all.

No!

90% on mine are actually Not List

Wouldn't want them knowing & thinking I actually like them "

What’s the point of Not List? Don’t you just block?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Use your hotlist how it works best for you lovely.

I have a few on mine after having an adding frenzy before Christmas but I will sort that out.

I like to add people I like to look at for whatever reason, people I hope may message and one or two hotties who may already be on my friends list

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use your hotlist how it works best for you lovely.

I have a few on mine after having an adding frenzy before Christmas but I will sort that out.

I like to add people I like to look at for whatever reason, people I hope may message and one or two hotties who may already be on my friends list "

Will happily confess Babs is on mine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I don't have friends or a hotlist. I also find it very creepy when people mention something like a new photo and you have no idea who they are. We should be informed when people are hotlisting us.

Ooh no, I don't like that idea at all.

No!

90% on mine are actually Not List

Wouldn't want them knowing & thinking I actually like them

What’s the point of Not List? Don’t you just block?"

There are people I avoid, for certain reasons.

I want to know who they have met with.

I'm sure as hell not going anywhere they've been

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don’t tend to use the hotlist.

I’ve had a friends list clearout today though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have friends or a hotlist. I also find it very creepy when people mention something like a new photo and you have no idea who they are. We should be informed when people are hotlisting us.

Ooh no, I don't like that idea at all.

No!

90% on mine are actually Not List

Wouldn't want them knowing & thinking I actually like them

What’s the point of Not List? Don’t you just block?

There are people I avoid, for certain reasons.

I want to know who they have met with.

I'm sure as hell not going anywhere they've been "

Gotcha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t tend to use the hotlist.

I’ve had a friends list clearout today though "

I’m doing that next

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top