FabSwingers.com forum: Social dress code

By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

I’m always keen to present myself in the light of sexy and alluring for a social, but it can be a difficult thing to achieve when it’s not always possible when leaving the house, kids, neighbours etc, so would be interested in your thoughts, ladies- what do you wear for a social meet and boys, what is it that you expect ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Columbo mac.

Sorted.

Seriously, if it's a social I really don't mind what she wears. There's already an attraction or we wouldn't be having a social.

She of course can wear whatever she likes, for her, not for me.

Just be comfortable.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the weather, but I would never turn up in stockings, short dress/skirt, low cut top and heels.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

For a social?

Whatever she felt comfortable in and was appropriate for the weather.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I always wear a dress and heels. Nothing too fancy but i feel better when wearing a dress.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

My usual smart or smart casual attire. A dress, good hair and a smile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Would depend on where the social is. Coffee during the day would probably be skinny jeans, boots and a flattering top. Drinks in the evening would be more dress and heels. Hair and make up done to look/feel my best.

V x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what I'd wear to a pub in normal life.. a social, to me, is just that so generally just skinny jeans and tshirt.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a quick coffee whatever your comfy in

If it's a pub or hotel bar meet skirt stockings heels blouse jacket ..

Big Coat to disguise ..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever gives you confidence and makes you feel good about yourself

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

Thanks lovely people ..... I’ve ibviously been stressing over nothing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I would have to see at least one element of sexy- low cut top or short skirt or stocking, heels etc of course have to dress for weather but a little hint/flirt makes me smile

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

"Thanks lovely people ..... I’ve ibviously been stressing over nothing

*obviously* !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Would depend on where the social is. Coffee during the day would probably be skinny jeans, boots and a flattering top. Drinks in the evening would be more dress and heels. Hair and make up done to look/feel my best.

V x"

This for me too x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks lovely people ..... I’ve ibviously been stressing over nothing

Present yourself as a person, not a sex object.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

"Thanks lovely people ..... I’ve ibviously been stressing over nothing

Present yourself as a person, not a sex object."

Quite right I agree ..... I’m not an everyday dress or skirt girl, so leaving the house in anything other than jeans and heels (at a push) is out of the norm for me ..... small community, nosey neighbours and kids at home to get past

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Thanks lovely people ..... I’ve ibviously been stressing over nothing

Present yourself as a person, not a sex object."

This

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Thanks lovely people ..... I’ve ibviously been stressing over nothing

Present yourself as a person, not a sex object."

This exactly! I always arrive looking smart but tend to be casual for a first social ( despite most guys would quite happily sit and have coffee with you in a basque, heels and stockings!!! Or so it seems

) in you dreams guys

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"jeans and heels (at a push)"

Sound perfect,a s long as there's a top too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

"jeans and heels (at a push)

Sound perfect,a s long as there's a top too

Haha ....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I wear a balaclava - so I don’t get recognised by the locals.

Nothing else though so my fab meet recognises me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I tend to wear a pair of dark sunglasses, a fez and a long coat

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

Fabulous ....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Im exactly the same, its why I prefer evening meets when its dark. I wear a long coat when leaving the house lol mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Thanks lovely people ..... I’ve ibviously been stressing over nothing

Present yourself as a person, not a sex object."

That's what I meant. You phrased it much better.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a while since I had a social.

I wore jeans and a top with flip flops to my last one

I go as myself.

For people I've already met the outfits have been erm .. less

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

Ok so ... long coat, balaclava and glasses ... I’m off to tkmaxx first thing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

Thank you all .... most helpful

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"I’m always keen to present myself in the light of sexy and alluring for a social, but it can be a difficult thing to achieve when it’s not always possible when leaving the house, kids, neighbours etc, so would be interested in your thoughts, ladies- what do you wear for a social meet and boys, what is it that you expect ?

Each social I treat as an interview, so always look smart but not over the top! I never play on first meet (never did as a single lady either) so I never ware anything that says ‘I’m up for it’ making sure I feel comfortable is paramount

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"Ok so ... long coat, balaclava and glasses ... I’m off to tkmaxx first thing

Good lass

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what ya doing but remember if you fancy someone dress to impress

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Seriously though op, I wear whatever makes me feel good and in comfortable in.

I wear lots of dresses so it's usually one of those.

If you wear jeans then opt for those.

I've worn dungarees before.

It's social, it's to gauge your interest in someone before committing to sex

If they judge you by your clothing then they should fuck off x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Ok so ... long coat, balaclava and glasses ... I’m off to tkmaxx first thing

Good lass "

You forgot the Minnie Mouse shoes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

What I'm comfy in.

Heels, jeans and a top.

Sometimes a dress and heels

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Depends what ya doing but remember if you fancy someone dress to impress"

I'm expecting to be impressed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual dress, tights and probably Chelsea boots - it wouldn't be anything sexy, but I'd try do my make up nice.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear dresses all the time, so it’s usually one of them and nice underwear for me to make me feel good x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

I like to wear a dress and heels, dress to impress I like the prepping it's half the fun also like our meets to put in the effort

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever I feel comfortable in on the day, anyone requesting/demanding I turn up in stockings/suspenders/heels or any other specifics get their meet with me revoked immediately. I don't think I've ever disappointed anyone based on my clothing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeans & tshirt with Vans or DMs. It's what I'm comfortable & confident in. If someone is that concerned about what I'm wearing then I've seriously misjudged them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Sometimes I’m just in my work gear and so are they.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever I liked, I wouldn't go short skirt, low top for a social.

My first social with my fwb I wore leggins, jumper and ankle boots.

I wouldn't dress on demand either, I don't like being told what to wear.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"What I'm comfy in.

Heels, jeans and a top.

Sometimes a dress and heels

Which of you posted that?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top hat, monocle and cane. Faux Victorian accent. “Good day m’lady...God save the king”.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a get naked as soon as possible gal.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Expectations of what the lady's attire might be, none. Hopefully something she feels very comfortable in.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wear what I feel like- sometimes a dress, sometimes jeans x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

It all depends what time of the day it is but most of mine are early eve so it would be semi casual the sort of thin kI would go out with friends in.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always in dresses or skirts with those really dark black tights and heels of some kind.

Daytime heels such as wedge heel ankle boots or heeled cow boy style boots.

I like skater style dresses which are fitted or low cut on top. Or I wear pencil skirts. Both above the knee but not mega bum skimming short lol.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

It would be cool if you just put a long coat over the clothes you are wearing on your pics...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilks xXx OP Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

I’m feeling mighty chilled about it now ... all of the replies are spot on and at the end of the day whatever I wear I’ll always make an effort, for me mostly, but yes there are few that expect, prompt, hint, that the whole lingerie package be present .... mmmm

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be cool if you just put a long coat over the clothes you are wearing on your pics...

I do that when I'm heading for my second meet with the guy I plan on sleeping with. Driving to his address in a outfit similar to my pics on here but with a long coat on.

I'm always paranoid a cop will pull me over. Nothing wrong with my driving. Just my nerves making me paranoid

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to see at least one element of sexy- low cut top or short skirt or stocking, heels etc of course have to dress for weather but a little hint/flirt makes me smile

What do you wear to make them smile?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread

Social dress code - ladies