FabSwingers.com forum: If this site took away Fabbing photos

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And the hot photo section, do you think there would be a mass exodus from the site from a certain section, cause they’re here purely for validation and an ego boost ?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yes.

I remember the time before them.

And life went on........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly; or it may simply attract a different type of clientele

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish they would take away most fabbed. Not sure it would see a mass exodus but I don't think it adds anything to the site

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

It feels nice when my pictures are fabbed,feeds my exhibitionism but that's only a bonus and not my main reason for being here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wish they would take away most fabbed. Not sure it would see a mass exodus but I don't think it adds anything to the site"

Just be interesting to see what happened, might be a slow walk out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But then how would we know who was the hottest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Would be a total mass exodus.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I wish they would take away most fabbed. Not sure it would see a mass exodus but I don't think it adds anything to the site"

I don't feel the need to know who everyone else thinks is hot.

Doesn't really help in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

use your imagination. the eye is always attracted to beauty

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don’t know, you’re probably right but whether it would be tons of people who knows.

It’s not the same exactly but when I used to go in the chat rooms the cams stopped working for some reason. The room did lose a lot of people but those of us left had a brilliant evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see that it serves a purpose, but then I'm not here just to have my pics fabbed.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m sure some people would leave but not on mass.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Why are some people against others getting fabbed and being in hot pics is my question,it brings out the worst in some people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

To be honest the ones I think are hottest are hidden away and aren’t bothered chasing fabs. They’re like the cool indie bands. before they end up commercial stadium rock bands playing to the masses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It possibly would but in the same way it would if they remove the forums or the web cam chat.

Everybody has different bits of the site that they like to interact with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are some people against others getting fabbed and being in hot pics is my question,it brings out the worst in some people?"

Who said anyone’s against it, just asking what would happen if that aspect of the site was taken away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt it. I rarely even look at how many pics of mine are fabbed. I wouldn’t have a clue. Seems some are a bit obsessed with it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

use your imagination. the eye is always attracted to beauty"

Everyone's individual idea of beauty is different.

It's ATTRACTION that counts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It possibly would but in the same way it would if they remove the forums or the web cam chat.

Everybody has different bits of the site that they like to interact with. "

That's true, if they removed the Forum I would probably leave the site. Not at all bothered by the other stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm that's quite an interesting suggestion actually.

Hot pics doesn't bother me, I like a wee look occasionally. I suppose there isn't really a need for a league table and it maybe changes the dynamic of the site a bit from a focus on meeting, to just enjoying some semi-interactive porn if you can message the people you wank over.

Think I'd probably just leave it as it is. Keep it for people who like it, and those who don't can just ignore it.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

For some showing their bodies off is one of the reasons they are on fab, Some would leave but it wouldn't effect the fab numbers

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It possibly would but in the same way it would if they remove the forums or the web cam chat.

Everybody has different bits of the site that they like to interact with. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the fab taken off my photos anyway as I find the need for validation unecessary in my life but I do get that lots enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really look at the hot pics so adds nothing to my experience but each to their own. Think some would leave on both sides.. some enjoy doing pics, some enjoy looking at them. Has no impact on me so not bothered.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I think I only ever look at the hot pics pages when it's mentioned in here, otherwise I forget it exists

Plus my photos are friends only so I care not one fig if they're fab'd or not so it wouldn't make a difference to me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

To be honest the ones I think are hottest are hidden away and aren’t bothered chasing fabs. "

Yea I reckon that may well be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

To be honest the ones I think are hottest are hidden away and aren’t bothered chasing fabs.

Yea I reckon that may well be true."

Me too!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Why are some people against others getting fabbed and being in hot pics is my question,it brings out the worst in some people?"

I don't think anyone is against people getting fabbed. It's nice to know someone likes your photo after all.

But do we need to know which photos other people like? Do we need to have a ranking system? Surely if someone likes a photo the only people it really affects and potentially benefits are the person seeing it and the person in it?

I'd definitely agree it brings out the worst in some people. From the perspective of those who 'need' to be on page one the extent to which they crave attention and the constant need for approval. I suspect there'd be less people 'anti' the most fabbed facility if people didn't kick up so much drama about it in forum posts and statuses.

Just my 2p of course.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"And the hot photo section, do you think there would be a mass exodus from the site from a certain section, cause they’re here purely for validation and an ego boost ?

Is it purely validation and ego boost? Some people are exhibitionists and enjoy being looked at like that. For some it's a way of marketing to get meets.

I'm not sure that being told that you're hot by several thousand people at a time would be turned down by many people...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Why are some people against others getting fabbed and being in hot pics is my question,it brings out the worst in some people?

Who said anyone’s against it, just asking what would happen if that aspect of the site was taken away. "

Knew you were going to say that.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Why are some people against others getting fabbed and being in hot pics is my question,it brings out the worst in some people?

I don't think anyone is against people getting fabbed. It's nice to know someone likes your photo after all.

Just my 2p of course.

I agree with you on that point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are some people against others getting fabbed and being in hot pics is my question,it brings out the worst in some people?

Who said anyone’s against it, just asking what would happen if that aspect of the site was taken away.

Knew you were going to say that."

I knew you were going to ask that question.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

How do you know they're the hottest if they're hidden away?

I'm thinking about this too much...I need to fab some guy's in hot pic's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if I couldn't fab pics that would mean I'd have to send a message to a man to express my appreciation...it would be chaos

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Why are some people against others getting fabbed and being in hot pics is my question,it brings out the worst in some people?

Who said anyone’s against it, just asking what would happen if that aspect of the site was taken away.

Knew you were going to say that.

I knew you were going to ask that question. "

You so didn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are some people against others getting fabbed and being in hot pics is my question,it brings out the worst in some people?

Who said anyone’s against it, just asking what would happen if that aspect of the site was taken away.

Knew you were going to say that.

I knew you were going to ask that question.

You so didn't."

Knew you were going to say that!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

How do you know they're the hottest if they're hidden away?

I'm thinking about this too much...I need to fab some guy's in hot pic's."

There should be an 'indie fab' list like the NME which lists all the cool profiles before they go mainstream and sell out

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Of the people on here who are only chasing fabs and nothing more I think a large proportion are single women. The guys and couples chasing fabs are more often doing so to get meets, that's my hunch.

So if I'm right about that it would result in a bigger loss of single women on fab than men and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish they would take away most fabbed. Not sure it would see a mass exodus but I don't think it adds anything to the site

I don't feel the need to know who everyone else thinks is hot.

Doesn't really help in any way.

But surely you do enjoy looking at hot pictures in general. If Hot pictures are enjoyable to look at. Then Hot pictures is good feature.

Simples

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Why are some people against others getting fabbed and being in hot pics is my question,it brings out the worst in some people?

Who said anyone’s against it, just asking what would happen if that aspect of the site was taken away.

Knew you were going to say that.

I knew you were going to ask that question.

You so didn't.

Knew you were going to say that!

Ok you win I didn't know you were going to say that.

Get your widge out and I'll fab it again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

How do you know they're the hottest if they're hidden away?

I'm thinking about this too much...I need to fab some guy's in hot pic's."

They’re profiles aren’t hidden, they just don’t make the hot photo section. The sexiest woman on this site has never been on there and she couldn’t give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

Forum threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

How do you know they're the hottest if they're hidden away?

I'm thinking about this too much...I need to fab some guy's in hot pic's.

They’re profiles aren’t hidden, they just don’t make the hot photo section. The sexiest woman on this site has never been on there and she couldn’t give a shit. "

It's true. I couldn't.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"I have the fab taken off my photos anyway as I find the need for validation unecessary in my life but I do get that lots enjoy it "

I'm the same.

Took fabs off ages ago and have moved my pictures into friends only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

How do you know they're the hottest if they're hidden away?

I'm thinking about this too much...I need to fab some guy's in hot pic's.

They’re profiles aren’t hidden, they just don’t make the hot photo section. The sexiest woman on this site has never been on there and she couldn’t give a shit.

It's true. I couldn't."

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

How do you know they're the hottest if they're hidden away?

I'm thinking about this too much...I need to fab some guy's in hot pic's.

They’re profiles aren’t hidden, they just don’t make the hot photo section. The sexiest woman on this site has never been on there and she couldn’t give a shit.

It's true. I couldn't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the fab taken off my photos anyway as I find the need for validation unecessary in my life but I do get that lots enjoy it

I'm the same.

Took fabs off ages ago and have moved my pictures into friends only."

Yeah I moved most of mine to friends only just before Xmas.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"And the hot photo section, do you think there would be a mass exodus from the site from a certain section, cause they’re here purely for validation and an ego boost ?

Is it purely validation and ego boost? Some people are exhibitionists and enjoy being looked at like that. For some it's a way of marketing to get meets.

I'm not sure that being told that you're hot by several thousand people at a time would be turned down by many people... "

*waves hand in air* I'd hate it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I wish they would take away most fabbed. Not sure it would see a mass exodus but I don't think it adds anything to the site

I don't feel the need to know who everyone else thinks is hot.

Doesn't really help in any way.

But surely you do enjoy looking at hot pictures in general. If Hot pictures are enjoyable to look at. Then Hot pictures is good feature.

Simples

Nope. Never look. If I want visual stimulation there's a big old world of porn on t'internet. When we were meeting the only profile pics we'd be interested in were those we were potentially looking to meet. What use is seeing a hot photo of someone who isn't looking for you, has blocked you from contacting, has age filters you don't meet or is 500 miles away?

The only time I ever know who's on it is when I see a status update begging for fabs or when a forum thread sprouts up about it. Which happens a lot.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fans are a great way to show appreciation of someone whether it's because you think they look good or have taken a great photograph.

You also can do this regardless of preferences set by the user. If it wasn't there then I expect some people would get even more messages!

I think the hot pics tally is a bit daft.

OP, I see that you have fabs enabled for your pics so I'm guessing you get something from it? I have too. I don't get that many fabs but it's nice to know someone enjoyed the pics.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

How do you know they're the hottest if they're hidden away?

I'm thinking about this too much...I need to fab some guy's in hot pic's.

They’re profiles aren’t hidden, they just don’t make the hot photo section. The sexiest woman on this site has never been on there and she couldn’t give a shit. "

but you speak likes it's a bad thing and all the women on there are attention seeking bitches that's what gets me. I just don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think hot photos is a waste of time personally i don't look but if thats why some folks here i have no issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish they would take away most fabbed. Not sure it would see a mass exodus but I don't think it adds anything to the site

I don't feel the need to know who everyone else thinks is hot.

Doesn't really help in any way.

But surely you do enjoy looking at hot pictures in general. If Hot pictures are enjoyable to look at. Then Hot pictures is good feature.

Simples

The only time I ever know who's on it is when I see a status update begging for fabs or when a forum thread sprouts up about it. Which happens a lot.......

Oh I see, I see, I see. I only visit hot pics to admire the photography, lighting, camera angel. And background. Nothing else! Promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just imagine how everyone would struggle if there were no pics at all and people had to write decent messages or put together a profile worth reading.

You know, all the things that single men are already expected to do...

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

I don’t look at them, not interested in fabbing egos

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

Forum threads

true

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I’m not sure there would be a mass exodus but it might detract for those that enjoy seeking that sorta validation. Personally, I don’t need or seek that so removed the Fab function from my pics.

I do wish we had an option NOT to see the Hottest/Most Fabbed group of pics that show up on my Feed as I don’t find it necessary for my Fab experience.

As others have said we all get our “Fab Fix” in different ways. Some it’s Forums, some it’s Chat/Cam Rooms, others it’s new pic uploads... and so on. Everyone’s pleasure here is different. I just wish I had more control on my Feed than I already have.

Oh & I wish Fab Admin would tackle some if their tech issues which DOES cause me to drift away to the competition for weeks/months on end so they lose out on my continuous Site Support.

Other than that - I’m good.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

How do you know they're the hottest if they're hidden away?

I'm thinking about this too much...I need to fab some guy's in hot pic's.

They’re profiles aren’t hidden, they just don’t make the hot photo section. The sexiest woman on this site has never been on there and she couldn’t give a shit. "

Say hi to your mum for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

How do you know they're the hottest if they're hidden away?

I'm thinking about this too much...I need to fab some guy's in hot pic's.

They’re profiles aren’t hidden, they just don’t make the hot photo section. The sexiest woman on this site has never been on there and she couldn’t give a shit.

Say hi to your mum for me"

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

That just said... I’m Fabbing pics of hairy chests on the Hairy Chest Appreciation thread - even the hairy women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just imagine how everyone would struggle if there were no pics at all and people had to write decent messages or put together a profile worth reading.

You know, all the things that single men are already expected to do..."

Ouch

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

I like to Fab pics to show my appreciation of a picture.

This could be for someone I already know or a complete stranger.

Why get rid of a feature which is popular with a section of Fab users?

A lot of Fab members don't use the chat rooms or the forums as it serves no purpose to them. Should we get rid of those too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never look most fabbed. I’ve only fabbed when it’s to do with a thread. So I wouldn’t care either way.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

And anyway, does that mean the lovely lady at No2 is hotter than all the lovelies lower down the pecking order??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are those that seek fabs and those that don’t. Doesn’t bother me either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never look most fabbed. I’ve only fabbed when it’s to do with a thread. So I wouldn’t care either way. "

Same here.

It’s a site supposedly for swinging. I’m not interested in how many fabs I or anyone else has.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And anyway, does that mean the lovely lady at No2 is hotter than all the lovelies lower down the pecking order??"

Certainly not but she’s probably got a fan base on here.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"And anyway, does that mean the lovely lady at No2 is hotter than all the lovelies lower down the pecking order??

Certainly not but she’s probably got a fan base on here. "

Maybe, maybe not. I think which pic gets to number one is pretty random a lot of the time, though I only ever look when there's a thread about it, male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And anyway, does that mean the lovely lady at No2 is hotter than all the lovelies lower down the pecking order??

Certainly not but she’s probably got a fan base on here.

Maybe, maybe not. I think which pic gets to number one is pretty random a lot of the time, though I only ever look when there's a thread about it, male or female."

I made a comment a while back regarding fabbed pics and was told some have a fan base.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And anyway, does that mean the lovely lady at No2 is hotter than all the lovelies lower down the pecking order??

Certainly not but she’s probably got a fan base on here.

Maybe, maybe not. I think which pic gets to number one is pretty random a lot of the time, though I only ever look when there's a thread about it, male or female.

I made a comment a while back regarding fabbed pics and was told some have a fan base. "

A lot of fans are secretly hoping that fabs turn into meets.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"And anyway, does that mean the lovely lady at No2 is hotter than all the lovelies lower down the pecking order??

Certainly not but she’s probably got a fan base on here.

Maybe, maybe not. I think which pic gets to number one is pretty random a lot of the time, though I only ever look when there's a thread about it, male or female.

I made a comment a while back regarding fabbed pics and was told some have a fan base. "

Yes, they undoubtedly do get one, but sometimes outsiders get in at number one too lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very few photos resemble the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t come here for fabs, I come here for the beautiful people of the forums

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"very few photos resemble the person "

How many people have you met?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"I don’t come here for fabs, I come here for the beautiful people of the forums "

Me? A Swan???

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"very few photos resemble the person "

True. I'm way hotter in person. Everyone I meet would definitely real life fab me

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t come here for fabs, I come here for the beautiful people of the forums "

I came here to make sweeet love

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The vain and egotistical profiles would leave but as most are only on here for the glorification of themselves and not to actually meet they would not be missed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very few photos resemble the person

True. I'm way hotter in person. Everyone I meet would definitely real life fab me

Mrs"

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"very few photos resemble the person

How many people have you met? "

And seen in their underwear or naked? seeing as that’s how most people are in their pics.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"very few photos resemble the person

How many people have you met?

And seen in their underwear or naked? seeing as that’s how most people are in their pics.

You mean fabbers don't walk around in their pants all day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just imagine how everyone would struggle if there were no pics at all and people had to write decent messages or put together a profile worth reading.

You know, all the things that single men are already expected to do..."

I have no pics showing. I still get messaged.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Just imagine how everyone would struggle if there were no pics at all and people had to write decent messages or put together a profile worth reading.

You know, all the things that single men are already expected to do...

I have no pics showing. I still get messaged. "

Same.

Profile also says I'm not meeting or chatting to anyone new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as I realised it was there, I removed the fabbing option. I'm happy to fab other pics that I like but it's not terribly important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t come here for fabs, I come here for the beautiful people of the forums

I came here to make sweeet love

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thats a nice bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that picture fabs mean nothing. However if I've taken time to take some it's nice for people to appreciate them.

Does it feed my ego? Not really but it doesn't do any harm either.

I've never been on a quest to get to hot photos and don't particularly look at them.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"very few photos resemble the person

How many people have you met?

And seen in their underwear or naked? seeing as that’s how most people are in their pics.

You mean fabbers don't walk around in their pants all day?"

Don’t start that rumour. I’m sat here in my bra and knicks. Not cold at all

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"And the hot photo section, do you think there would be a mass exodus from the site from a certain section, cause they’re here purely for validation and an ego boost ?

Why are so many people so hung up on fabbing and hot photos? Either they love it and are desperate to 'make it' or they ruducule those who are simply using the site to get the kicks they want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And the hot photo section, do you think there would be a mass exodus from the site from a certain section, cause they’re here purely for validation and an ego boost ?

Why are so many people so hung up on fabbing and hot photos? Either they love it and are desperate to 'make it' or they ruducule those who are simply using the site to get the kicks they want.

I asked the question would a lot of people leave if it was got rid of, you inferred the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think quite a few would leave ... whether it's their photos up there or they log on just to admire them. Like the forums or chatrooms if that's your thing for whatever reasons, you would leave if it was removed

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"And the hot photo section, do you think there would be a mass exodus from the site from a certain section, cause they’re here purely for validation and an ego boost ?

Why are so many people so hung up on fabbing and hot photos? Either they love it and are desperate to 'make it' or they ruducule those who are simply using the site to get the kicks they want.

I asked the question would a lot of people leave if it was got rid of, you inferred the rest. "

It's difficult to infer anything different when the words 'purely for validation and an ego boost' are used

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By *rankyJAYMan
over a year ago

jarrow

No because when I look at tvs the hottest ones are the most fabbed which takes away all the ones I ain't looking for...

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Wouldn’t bother us if it went, don’t look at them unless see a post that intrigues you to look. We only fab friends pics or if somebody contacts us and we like their pics. Don’t see why you would be on a swingers site just to get people to like/Fab your pics isn’t there other sites for fan followers if your not on here for the swinging scene?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the hot photo section, do you think there would be a mass exodus from the site from a certain section, cause they’re here purely for validation and an ego boost ?

Is it purely validation and ego boost? Some people are exhibitionists and enjoy being looked at like that. For some it's a way of marketing to get meets.

I'm not sure that being told that you're hot by several thousand people at a time would be turned down by many people... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I think quite a few would leave ... whether it's their photos up there or they log on just to admire them. Like the forums or chatrooms if that's your thing for whatever reasons, you would leave if it was removed "

Good point about the pic admirers leaving too. It's a mutual relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when they introduced it.

So yes it would make a difference. But not a "mass" exodus.

Maybe we should have a mass debate about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some would be in therapy if their FABS were taken away.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Busty Babe would explode lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Good point about the pic admirers leaving too. It's a mutual relationship. "

But isn't there a big old world full of porn out there to satisfy them?

If someone's wank bank is exclusive to Fab profile pics they're leading a very sheltered life......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point about the pic admirers leaving too. It's a mutual relationship.

But isn't there a big old world full of porn out there to satisfy them?

If someone's wank bank is exclusive to Fab profile pics they're leading a very sheltered life......

A man friend told me he likes sites like these because he can wank about the women actually fucking. Maybe they never meet and are just on here for Fabs but it still feeds his fantasy as it's a possibility.

The ones with pics on other sites are more likely to just be doing it for other reasons.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"But then how would we know who was the hottest

LOL

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I just fab whoever's pic's I like...seldom look at the hottest list....its just an ego boost and fun...its nice to be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just imagine how everyone would struggle if there were no pics at all and people had to write decent messages or put together a profile worth reading.

You know, all the things that single men are already expected to do...

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very few photos resemble the person

True. I'm way hotter in person. Everyone I meet would definitely real life fab me

Mrs"

Haha I would fab that post if I could!

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