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"No-one has asked me to prove I'm real,I would send something via Kik if they did I suppose." Oh I bet you are going to get lots of messages on the back of that comment!! | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real " Veris can be faked. | |||
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"I just use common sense and go on my gut instinct. Its worked so far. I'd also expect those I'm talking to to be savvy enough to figure out I'm real without requiring further proof. " How? Because of veris or something else? | |||
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"We do like a face pic before meeting. I’m surprised at those that say we won’t send a face pic but still want to meet! " It's tempting to agree and then, when you meet and you aren't attracted to them, back away slowly, shaking your head | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real Veris can be faked. " This is true If I am looking at veris I see if any of my friends have verid them All mine are real - veris that is | |||
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"I just use common sense and go on my gut instinct. Its worked so far. I'd also expect those I'm talking to to be savvy enough to figure out I'm real without requiring further proof. How? Because of veris or something else?" Spidey senses can't be explained. | |||
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"We don't ask for any proof and don't give any. Time enough at the social for them to find out we're 20 years older and a couple of stone heavier than we claim " That's why I always have socials first. I'm a couple of years older and 20 stone heavier than my pics show. | |||
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"I am 97kg !!!! But then 6ft 1 and a bit so I am a bit chunky " And lovely to boot | |||
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"I like to chat by phone or Skype or something before meeting just to see how we click so that kinda solves it on both sides. I've only once had issue with some psycho thinking I was fake but his vile attitude made me not want to prove him wrong. " I've done phone chat before with a 'woman'. 'She' had a very strange voice. We didn't end up meeting though. | |||
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"I am 97kg !!!! But then 6ft 1 and a bit so I am a bit chunky And lovely to boot " Blushing here now | |||
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"I just use common sense and go on my gut instinct. Its worked so far. I'd also expect those I'm talking to to be savvy enough to figure out I'm real without requiring further proof. How? Because of veris or something else? Spidey senses can't be explained. " This! But they are real | |||
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"I just use common sense and go on my gut instinct. Its worked so far. I'd also expect those I'm talking to to be savvy enough to figure out I'm real without requiring further proof. How? Because of veris or something else? Spidey senses can't be explained. This! But they are real " I'm going to regret saying this but, in the 6 years I've been here I've only had one person not turn up, and I knew he wasn't coming so I didn't bother getting dressed. | |||
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"18 months on here and a couple of years on other sites has pretty much honed my spider senses. Socials are a must.In my very early days I'd arrange meets without a social and they'd be more likely to fall through. There are fakes and dreamers out there but I can generally spot them by the flow and direction of the conversation. " All barring a couple of my meets have been without a social and I was never let down. I've had men admit they can't actually accommodate, while I've been on a social with them, so I don't do socials any more, unless I fancy a drink before we get to the sex part. | |||
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"I hope my veris and attendance at group socials prove I'm real " They do. You showed me your lovely cock | |||
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"No one's ever asked me to prove I'm real. That's the joy of being a legend. Or was it bell end? Anyway...... I've never been asked." I've met you, but I'm still not sure | |||
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"I just use common sense and go on my gut instinct. Its worked so far. I'd also expect those I'm talking to to be savvy enough to figure out I'm real without requiring further proof. How? Because of veris or something else? Spidey senses can't be explained. This! But they are real I'm going to regret saying this but, in the 6 years I've been here I've only had one person not turn up, and I knew he wasn't coming so I didn't bother getting dressed." I've never had a no show, meeting on this profile or others. When we met as a couple I always made sure I proved that I exist. I'm well aware that some 'couples' are just men, so I always made sure they felt comfortable before we met. Both when we were meeting couples or single men. I still feel the need to prove I'm real now. | |||
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"I like to chat by phone or Skype or something before meeting just to see how we click so that kinda solves it on both sides. I've only once had issue with some psycho thinking I was fake but his vile attitude made me not want to prove him wrong. I've done phone chat before with a 'woman'. 'She' had a very strange voice. We didn't end up meeting though. " Haha! I can imagine big fat Dave the trucker squeezing his balls to try get a higher pitch | |||
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"I like to chat by phone or Skype or something before meeting just to see how we click so that kinda solves it on both sides. I've only once had issue with some psycho thinking I was fake but his vile attitude made me not want to prove him wrong. I've done phone chat before with a 'woman'. 'She' had a very strange voice. We didn't end up meeting though. Haha! I can imagine big fat Dave the trucker squeezing his balls to try get a higher pitch " You've talked to her too then. | |||
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"I can't say that I've ever had a problem with being catfished. The simple fact is that I chat for so long, about such randomly dull subjects, that they would have to be the most tenacious and strong willed catfish to get anywhere near anything worth it. Its something special when a catfish accuses you of wasting their time... " I do the same. If they can put up with my chat everyday for months before meeting, they must be real! | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real " 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about | |||
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"I can't say that I've ever had a problem with being catfished. The simple fact is that I chat for so long, about such randomly dull subjects, that they would have to be the most tenacious and strong willed catfish to get anywhere near anything worth it. Its something special when a catfish accuses you of wasting their time... " That's one of our tactics too | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about " Why not? | |||
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"I just use common sense and go on my gut instinct. Its worked so far. I'd also expect those I'm talking to to be savvy enough to figure out I'm real without requiring further proof. " I found common sense is over rated in most areas. I think most men would say send a dick pick. | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about Why not? " It’s seems excessive. Just not for me. Or maybe he’s just lucky lol | |||
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"Nobody has actually asked me to prove I’m real but my displayed veris are from an organised social and it would be very hard to fake all of those. " Yep, you're definitely on our 100% genuine list | |||
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"Make them reply with a captcha. MqTX4yulry." Hahahhah | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about Why not? It’s seems excessive. Just not for me. Or maybe he’s just lucky lol" Or been here a long time... | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about " Why on earth not? The whole purpose of the site is to meet people isn't it? | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about Why not? It’s seems excessive. Just not for me. Or maybe he’s just lucky lol" Have you read any of them? It's easy to rack up veris if you go to clubs and/or group socials. | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about " Strange comment. | |||
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"Nobody has actually asked me to prove I’m real but my displayed veris are from an organised social and it would be very hard to fake all of those. " I may need extra proof | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about " Why??? | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about Why not? It’s seems excessive. Just not for me. Or maybe he’s just lucky lol" How many do you have and how long have you been on here? | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about " What a strange thing to say, they are from socials and club meets by the looks of it, I would be proud if I was Mike that so many people think he is a nice enough guy to verify meeting | |||
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"We would never meet mike, but thats just our opinion." Because he has 118 verifications from clubs? Where most of them say he chatted to them? | |||
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"I can't say that I've ever had a problem with being catfished. The simple fact is that I chat for so long, about such randomly dull subjects, that they would have to be the most tenacious and strong willed catfish to get anywhere near anything worth it. Its something special when a catfish accuses you of wasting their time... " That's really funny and a great point! Boring subjects put the catfish off. Probably why I don't get the catfish, I'm naturally dull. | |||
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"We would never meet mike, but thats just our opinion. Because he has 118 verifications from clubs? Where most of them say he chatted to them?" I would say I have probably played about with about 30 of them!!! I did have to count. That’s full sex, some others have been soft play and some have been watch. I know I am not everyone’s cup of tea in terms of playing. However I try to be polite as I can be, maybe flirt a bit. I don’t expect everyone wanting to meet me. I would say most of the people I have meet have been through the club scene and a few socials. I have been on site for more than 10 years so that works out at about 12 new veris a year. I probably speak to about 5 to 10 people evry time I go to a club. So actually it should be a lot higher | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about Why on earth not? The whole purpose of the site is to meet people isn't it? " I once saw over 100 veris on a profile. I was shocked. I'd never meet someone like that! | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about Why on earth not? The whole purpose of the site is to meet people isn't it? I once saw over 100 veris on a profile. I was shocked. I'd never meet someone like that!" And thats our answer to. | |||
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"I don't think anyone has asked me to prove I'm real but if they did I probably wouldn't bother with them. " | |||
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"I can't say that I've ever had a problem with being catfished. The simple fact is that I chat for so long, about such randomly dull subjects, that they would have to be the most tenacious and strong willed catfish to get anywhere near anything worth it. Its something special when a catfish accuses you of wasting their time... I do the same. If they can put up with my chat everyday for months before meeting, they must be real!" | |||
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"Nobody has actually asked me to prove I’m real but my displayed veris are from an organised social and it would be very hard to fake all of those. I may need extra proof" You can have it | |||
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"Nobody has actually asked me to prove I’m real but my displayed veris are from an organised social and it would be very hard to fake all of those. Yep, you're definitely on our 100% genuine list " | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real Veris can be faked. " Oh I can vouch for him. I’ve verified him twice I think. | |||
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"We would never meet mike, but thats just our opinion. Because he has 118 verifications from clubs? Where most of them say he chatted to them?" We are on here to meet similar people but not to broadcast to the whole world who we meet. This is our private life,if not then we would have our real names and face pictures on full view. If ppl want to post they have met tom dick or sally, even just at a club,then it's their choice but not our choice. | |||
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"We would never meet mike, but thats just our opinion. Because he has 118 verifications from clubs? Where most of them say he chatted to them? We are on here to meet similar people but not to broadcast to the whole world who we meet. This is our private life,if not then we would have our real names and face pictures on full view. If ppl want to post they have met tom dick or sally, even just at a club,then it's their choice but not our choice. " Because you're going to know how many veris he shows when you meet him in a club? | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real " Tart! | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real Tart!" Lmao!!!! Just smooth | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn" So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental)." Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. | |||
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"I show the veris that show that im a real person. some socials and some friends veris. I dont see the need to show veris that ive met this and that person on any site." | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech." It's also called character assassination and not very nice. | |||
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"We would never meet mike, but thats just our opinion. Because he has 118 verifications from clubs? Where most of them say he chatted to them? We are on here to meet similar people but not to broadcast to the whole world who we meet. This is our private life,if not then we would have our real names and face pictures on full view. If ppl want to post they have met tom dick or sally, even just at a club,then it's their choice but not our choice. " I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris because we're not compatible. | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real Veris can be faked. Oh I can vouch for him. I’ve verified him twice I think. " I was only joking. x | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice." It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; | |||
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"We would never meet mike, but thats just our opinion. Because he has 118 verifications from clubs? Where most of them say he chatted to them? We are on here to meet similar people but not to broadcast to the whole world who we meet. This is our private life,if not then we would have our real names and face pictures on full view. If ppl want to post they have met tom dick or sally, even just at a club,then it's their choice but not our choice. I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris because we're not compatible. " What’s sex - I like to watch and wank I knew you were joking - it’s fine | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice. It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; " Would you meet a female with 118 verifications though? | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice. It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; Would you meet a female with 118 verifications though?" You do realise that the whole point of people being on here is because it’s a liberated place designed for people to meet. Do you not think it hypocritical to criticise people for doing just that? | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice. It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; Would you meet a female with 118 verifications though?" I have done!!!!! I know female friends in the clubs thatplay with 4 or 5 guys in one session. Now assuming that they go to a club 10 times a year that’s easy 50 plus the veris they meet outside club | |||
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"We would never meet mike, but thats just our opinion. Because he has 118 verifications from clubs? Where most of them say he chatted to them? We are on here to meet similar people but not to broadcast to the whole world who we meet. This is our private life,if not then we would have our real names and face pictures on full view. If ppl want to post they have met tom dick or sally, even just at a club,then it's their choice but not our choice. I won't meet people with more than 4 sex veris because we're not compatible. What’s sex - I like to watch and wank I knew you were joking - it’s fine " Me too! (watching) I'm sorry you seem to be getting picked on. I'll clarify my comment. I'm intimidated by people with more than 4 sex veris showing. They most likely want someone similar and that's not me. I'm no extrovert. If they had fucked 1,000 people that doesn't bother me in the slightest - if they had no veris showing. I know it seems weird and it is. x | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice. It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; Would you meet a female with 118 verifications though?" As opposed to meeting someone who bangs 2000 guys a year but doesn't show veris........... You realise veris mean jack shit in relation to how many people some folk meet? Some verify and show every meet. Others don't. Doesn't mean those that show none haven't met everyone on site, does it? A | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice. It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; Would you meet a female with 118 verifications though? As opposed to meeting someone who bangs 2000 guys a year but doesn't show veris........... You realise veris mean jack shit in relation to how many people some folk meet? Some verify and show every meet. Others don't. Doesn't mean those that show none haven't met everyone on site, does it? A" You just ask a woman how many people she has slept with and times it by 3. For a man you divide by 3. | |||
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"I just use common sense and go on my gut instinct. Its worked so far. I'd also expect those I'm talking to to be savvy enough to figure out I'm real without requiring further proof. " Snap! That right there is exactly why I have not had the no show experience. I am going to quote another post because I combine the two things and it has worked really well for me. | |||
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"I can't say that I've ever had a problem with being catfished. The simple fact is that I chat for so long, about such randomly dull subjects, that they would have to be the most tenacious and strong willed catfish to get anywhere near anything worth it. Its something special when a catfish accuses you of wasting their time... " ^ Yep! ^ I don't do same day meets or rush into things. Most of the time the conversation will fizzle out because not mentioned anything to do with sex for a while. For those that go the distance plus combined with my previous post means we may have a possible mutual match! Which is rare, but worth the wait! I will add: A few times people mention across different threads how can you be sure over online communication alone... The answer: Time and patience! If you come across a fibber rather then a fabber the truth always comes out. Sooner or later. Forums help and you can have a phone conversation before arranging any meet. | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice. It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; Would you meet a female with 118 verifications though? As opposed to meeting someone who bangs 2000 guys a year but doesn't show veris........... You realise veris mean jack shit in relation to how many people some folk meet? Some verify and show every meet. Others don't. Doesn't mean those that show none haven't met everyone on site, does it? A You just ask a woman how many people she has slept with and times it by 3. For a man you divide by 3. " In my case you'd be wrong as I would give the correct number. | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice. It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; Would you meet a female with 118 verifications though? As opposed to meeting someone who bangs 2000 guys a year but doesn't show veris........... You realise veris mean jack shit in relation to how many people some folk meet? Some verify and show every meet. Others don't. Doesn't mean those that show none haven't met everyone on site, does it? A You just ask a woman how many people she has slept with and times it by 3. For a man you divide by 3. In my case you'd be wrong as I would give the correct number." Always 1 isn't there | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice. It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; Would you meet a female with 118 verifications though? As opposed to meeting someone who bangs 2000 guys a year but doesn't show veris........... You realise veris mean jack shit in relation to how many people some folk meet? Some verify and show every meet. Others don't. Doesn't mean those that show none haven't met everyone on site, does it? A You just ask a woman how many people she has slept with and times it by 3. For a man you divide by 3. In my case you'd be wrong as I would give the correct number. Always 1 isn't there " Of course | |||
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"I just use common sense and go on my gut instinct. Its worked so far. I'd also expect those I'm talking to to be savvy enough to figure out I'm real without requiring further proof. " I'd go with this too | |||
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"There will always be people that make fake profiles just to boost their ego and get lots of mail. Lots of pics and text saying what good fucks they are. Or not much information on their profile and hidden verifications. So how do you prove you're real and not one of the 'fakes'? When you're looking to meet people you will have your own rules you use to check the person's authenticity. Do you offer the same proof to people who want to meet you?" Good question - from a hidden profile, lol #irony | |||
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"I asked a women to send me a live photo holding up 3 fingers and she wouldn't. Even though she had sent me a few stored photos of her already. I blocked her as I didn't want to waste my time. She only bloody turned up as a suggested friend on Instagram with the photos she's has sent me. I still haven't told her yet, I'm too embarrassed I will just have to let this one go." Wouldn't bother me doing that if I had my make up on, but if I'm chatting while looking like a burst couch (which is probably 80% of the time!) I'd say no too. Maybe give a longer timescale instead of blocking right away next time ! | |||
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"Ah but we never go to clubs. So never going to happwn So you're unlikely to ever meet him then and your comment was a bit pointless (and a bit judgemental). Well as hes hundreds of miles away it would never happen anyway. Not judgemental. Its called freedom of choice and freedom of speech. It's also called character assassination and not very nice. It’s cool!!!! I know a lot of people wouldn’t meet me based on the number of veris and I can be the same (more on the lack of for me not saying no but would be more cautious) We all have our own preferences what we look for in the scene. The number of veris for a club goer wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. If there was no suggestion from profile that they went to clubs and that was the amount of meets that were all play meets. I may be a bit actually intimidated; Would you meet a female with 118 verifications though?" I have over 200 verifications. Mostly from socials or going to a club. I hold a weekly quiz social, I’ve held murder mystery nights and I’ve attended several large socials. I’ve been on here nearly 8 years so that equates to 2 verifications per month. Not many are from play meets and I don’t give many play meet verifications. Feel free to judge on the number of verifications. | |||
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"I asked a women to send me a live photo holding up 3 fingers and she wouldn't. Even though she had sent me a few stored photos of her already. I blocked her as I didn't want to waste my time. She only bloody turned up as a suggested friend on Instagram with the photos she's has sent me. I still haven't told her yet, I'm too embarrassed I will just have to let this one go. Wouldn't bother me doing that if I had my make up on, but if I'm chatting while looking like a burst couch (which is probably 80% of the time!) I'd say no too. Maybe give a longer timescale instead of blocking right away next time !" Yeah that's a fair point. I just don't want to waste anytime on here as it is. I know the guys struggle so it's easy for me to be dismissive and value my time as this is not my primary outlet But you are right, I should be a little more considerate of the immediate situation | |||
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"There will always be people that make fake profiles just to boost their ego and get lots of mail. Lots of pics and text saying what good fucks they are. Or not much information on their profile and hidden verifications. So how do you prove you're real and not one of the 'fakes'? When you're looking to meet people you will have your own rules you use to check the person's authenticity. Do you offer the same proof to people who want to meet you? Good question - from a hidden profile, lol #irony" Smoke and mirrors. *scratches bollocks* | |||
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"Hardly hoops if its to makes the other person be safe and get rid of all the fake profiles and all the other crap that comes with the internet. It takes two seconds to speak on phone or set up face time etc, yea its not necessary for most people but if it helps a woman feel safe then i would jump any hoop she asked, nothing to hide." Yeah that's why I feel the need to prove I'm real. I'm so weird it will set their spidey senses tingling. I've never been stood up so it works. I put them off long before they agree to a meet. | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about Why on earth not? The whole purpose of the site is to meet people isn't it? I once saw over 100 veris on a profile. I was shocked. I'd never meet someone like that!" I'm not sure if this fellahs a slag or just plain awesome. I'm going with awesome. | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real 118 mike?.... absolutely nothing to be proud about Why on earth not? The whole purpose of the site is to meet people isn't it? I once saw over 100 veris on a profile. I was shocked. I'd never meet someone like that! And thats our answer to." The person with over 100 veris is probably pretty open minded. Most likely they wouldn't want to meet someone so judgemental so it works both ways. It's all good, there's room for everyone on Fab. | |||
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"I pinched myself and it hurt " I pinched stellaheels, the scream validates my reality, and it doesn't hurt me | |||
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"I send number as title and face pic" You send your number to random women? Has this worked for you ever? | |||
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"I could never get offended my someone who put safety before pleasure, if a video call or a chat on a phone is too much then something is wrong. " I wish more people thought like that. | |||
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"before our first meet we had a phone call with the other couple. Since then we’ve never had to prove wee’re Real and I’m sure our verifications speak for themselves. Reading this thread shows that our number of verifications (70+) and number of meets (100+) will put people off, but we’re not worried about that in the slightest. Kiki x" You'll attract people that love that. | |||
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"The art of conversation should really be enough to show you are real. A persons language, tone and choice of words are important. If the words engage and flow with ease then you will start to build a mental picture of who your talking too and that generally relates to an instant gut feel. Hopefully their pictures can back this up too. Verifications mean nothing to be honest as these are often inflated promises with no real depth or meaning to them. " Agree about the conversation. It's quite easy to spot men pretending to be women. Bless them. | |||
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"The art of conversation should really be enough to show you are real. A persons language, tone and choice of words are important. If the words engage and flow with ease then you will start to build a mental picture of who your talking too and that generally relates to an instant gut feel. Hopefully their pictures can back this up too. Verifications mean nothing to be honest as these are often inflated promises with no real depth or meaning to them " | |||
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"I could never get offended my someone who put safety before pleasure, if a video call or a chat on a phone is too much then something is wrong. " We would never video call or chat on the phone if someone wanted proof from us being a couple, unless a fem was meeting Mr R only and needed reassurance that I knew/agreed. We have both been on the scene for years so don't feel the need to prove anything. We play in clubs, our paths cross or not, no drama/no expectations. Alot are hung up about fakes on here. Play your way or it ceases to be fun. | |||
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"If my profile was fake do you think I would use this face, is what I normally tell them." You have a nice face. x | |||
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"If my profile was fake do you think I would use this face, is what I normally tell them. You have a nice face. x" Thanks you have great heels X | |||
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"I could never get offended my someone who put safety before pleasure, if a video call or a chat on a phone is too much then something is wrong. We would never video call or chat on the phone if someone wanted proof from us being a couple, unless a fem was meeting Mr R only and needed reassurance that I knew/agreed. We have both been on the scene for years so don't feel the need to prove anything. We play in clubs, our paths cross or not, no drama/no expectations. Alot are hung up about fakes on here. Play your way or it ceases to be fun." There are different ways to reassure people about safety. I'll take the middle ground a bit. I don't think people should be asked to jump through silly hoops, particularly if they're well verified, but expecting people to just show up without some sort of preliminary reassurance isn't on either. | |||
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"Well 118 veris - I hoped I am real Veris can be faked. " My veri of his is real though | |||
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"I could never get offended my someone who put safety before pleasure, if a video call or a chat on a phone is too much then something is wrong. We would never video call or chat on the phone if someone wanted proof from us being a couple, unless a fem was meeting Mr R only and needed reassurance that I knew/agreed. We have both been on the scene for years so don't feel the need to prove anything. We play in clubs, our paths cross or not, no drama/no expectations. Alot are hung up about fakes on here. Play your way or it ceases to be fun. There are different ways to reassure people about safety. I'll take the middle ground a bit. I don't think people should be asked to jump through silly hoops, particularly if they're well verified, but expecting people to just show up without some sort of preliminary reassurance isn't on either. " Exactly, and that's why I'd speak to a single fem on the phone to reassure them that a woman is part of this profile. In my early fab years I used to chat to single men to assure them I was real, until I woke up to the fact they were getting off on it. | |||
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