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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Automatically delete or accept?

We delete without a seconds thought, why would we be friends if we aint friends?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

The same as with winks...we just bulk delete.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Mostly just leave them there so they can't resend. Or sometimes I'll accept when they're offline, look at their friends pictures, then delete them.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Mostly just leave them there so they can't resend. Or sometimes I'll accept when they're offline, look at their friends pictures, then delete them. "

This.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"

Automatically delete or accept?

We delete without a seconds thought, why would we be friends if we aint friends? "

Delete!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Mostly just leave them there so they can't resend. Or sometimes I'll accept when they're offline, look at their friends pictures, then delete them. "

Might do this in future

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"

Automatically delete or accept?

We delete without a seconds thought, why would we be friends if we aint friends? "

I just leave them so they can’t send another one. If I’m chatting to someone and we want to become friends, I send them a request so theirs doesn’t get lost in all the ones that get sent when I’m online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete. I find it rude to not speak before sending request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they look interesting I'll message them and see from there.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I rarely get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore. Today I deleted all my friend requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep and ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore. Today I deleted all my friend requests. "

Which I did to clean up my profile for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them. I only accept friend requests from those them potentially going to meet, or if we have gotten friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them so they can't request again. Only people I'm chatting to regularly become friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly just leave them there so they can't resend. Or sometimes I'll accept when they're offline, look at their friends pictures, then delete them.

Might do this in future "

Same here, it's only good manners

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I tend to only add people that I have met in club scene or socialy - some exemptions to that but mainly

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Its baffling. We delete in seconds. Why add them as friends if we dont know them. We may have face pics up too so definitely wouldn't add random strangers. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just leave them sitting so they can't send another. Unless they are fit inwhich case I perv their pics then unfriend them.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I ignore unless it's someone I intend meeting

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t accept them unless we’ve chatted at some length and I’ve seen that they are interesting people.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

Delete usually, unless it’s someone I’m interested in and even then I’ll usually message them first for a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind..... what’s the worst that could happen?

(Secretly hoping for lots of requests)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to ignore them

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Just delete...we ain't friends till we've met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to delete them until I saw someone posted on the forum that they don't delete them because they can't try and add you again.

I just don't understand why people do it, I get loads of unsolicited friend requests and up until today I didn't have any friends only photos so I never really understand what people would get from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually ignore them but don't delete so they can't be resent!! Only ever have people who I've met on my friends list!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I ignore. I click the button so it doesn't show up as me having any new requests, then leave them. Ditto on winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same as with winks...we just bulk delete."

I don't agree with this, winks are people hinting that they like you, nothing wrong with that. As for random friend request, that is definitely rude to do without having a long conversation first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete talk first pls

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