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Nearly end of the year say something positive about yourself this year thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

Well pooch and I hope you have all had just a wonderful Christmas. A relaxing break , and indulged in jolly heaps of goodies .

It's getting near the end of the year , maybe a time to reflect on the past 12 months or look forward to the 12 ahead .

Just a quick Taff tip for those making resolutions

1 make them achievable

2 don't be harsh on yourself if you don't keep them.

3 just be compassionate with yourself as you are with others.

So back to the thread , as you know I do like a meander and to waffle .

So this positive thread , isn't about the poster above or even a popularity who would you like to do splendidly naughty things with .

It's

Name one positive thing you feel you have achieved this year .

For me it's taking back control of the woek life balance. I feel so much better for it and happy

Now yours please .

Taff and Pooch xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i beat cancer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i beat cancer "
Amazing

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I ran a marathon (I don't think I've mentioned it...)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I ran a marathon (I don't think I've mentioned it...) "
splendid its quite a buzz isnt it

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’m ok for a fat bird

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I ran a marathon (I don't think I've mentioned it...) "

You did? Oh brilliant, well done you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m ok for a fat bird "
and a jolly splendid forumite too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came out the other side of prescription drug withdrawal, lost 3 stone and got a little of my former life back. Onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m ok for a fat bird "

more than ok sandy. youre the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I acknowledged that I'm not straight.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I’m ok for a fat bird

more than ok sandy. youre the best x"

Thank you Patrick xx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I struggled at times but passed my exams - quite an achievement at my age!

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Wow hard to think of achievement s for yourself, but all I can say is we survived Xmas and it was wonderful may 2019 also be a wonderful year for us all x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I managed to buy a bra that wasn't half my salary - the joy of slowly shrinking boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost 2 stone and met some cracking girls and banged a few well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most successful year business-wise since 2007, and may yet prove to be my most successful ever

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Professionally it was a great year with many positive developments

I also managed to get close to the shape i'd been wanting.

That's two but who's counting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I'm "better" in 2018

I don't care what others think about me, I'm going to meet my goals and I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks if the way I'm going to do it.....

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Luckily

Still here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed career paths. I’m now back doing the kind of jobs I like. It’s a horrible one that most people would hate but are fascinated with all the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done to everyone so far.. too many to quote individually!

I’ve enrolled at college for the new year and started/lined up other ways of getting myself out of the house after acknowledging I wasn’t happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve filed for my divorce, a really big step forward. X

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Nearly a year has passed, 2018 is almost at an end.

So far I've not killed anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

Well pooch and I hope you have all had just a wonderful Christmas. A relaxing break , and indulged in jolly heaps of goodies .

It's getting near the end of the year , maybe a time to reflect on the past 12 months or look forward to the 12 ahead .

Just a quick Taff tip for those making resolutions

1 make them achievable

2 don't be harsh on yourself if you don't keep them.

3 just be compassionate with yourself as you are with others.

So back to the thread , as you know I do like a meander and to waffle .

So this positive thread , isn't about the poster above or even a popularity who would you like to do splendidly naughty things with .

It's

Name one positive thing you feel you have achieved this year .

For me it's taking back control of the woek life balance. I feel so much better for it and happy

Now yours please .

Taff and Pooch xx "

Brilliant inspiring thread OP.

Great to read all the experiences.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve kept myself alive during tough times and I’m increasing my fitness.....

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I came out as "Clare" to my wife and we're still together and I'm still alive

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

This is my first year on Fab. It has been an eye opener in so many ways.

In good old Fab terms, I’ve discovered that I really enjoy seeing a woman cum through my oral ministrations AND that I’m actually really good at it. Also, that all women are different and each has something wonderful to contribute to any ‘union’ of the flesh. That the chemistry between us totally stems from that sparkle/twinkle in their eyes when they’re horny and sexually confident.

This coming year is going to be great and I am really looking forward to meeting more of you gorgeous solo ladies and exciting couples / groups.

Party on !!! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sitting on a beach under a stary sky reading all your comments and the positive things that have happened in your lives this year .

You have all made me smile

Diolch , thank you

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

To never forget trust is earned.. J

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've gone from barely being able to swim a width of the pool to being able to swim about thirty or forty lengths.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

A positive thing I have learnt this year was to stick up for myself at work against a back stabber I thought was a trusted colleague.

Trust no one guys

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I've lost weight and kept it off.

Oh and I'm told my Christmas cakes are jolly nice.

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By *inkSwingCouple
over a year ago

Preston

I didn't scare Pink off - I'm pretty happy about that

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

Since I've been on here I've realised that I need to get of my Ares and get out to some club meets as I've spent to much time at work. I've been stuck in a bit of a hole where I thought that if I got my head down at work I could just forget about problems I had been through at the start of the year. So a new year and a new outlook on life so look out for me around the club's in leeds.

All the best to everyone on here and hope to meet some of you soon xxx

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

I've discovered family only want you when they need you.

And that sometimes, water js thicker than blood

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Used the grief of my grandson dying in 2017 into fundraising for two charities that supported and cared for him, we raised £8000 in 8 months! It also made me reassess my whole outlook on life and focus on what was truly important xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am one of the most honest people you will ever find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope for a better year as the this last year was a bad one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I survived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used the grief of my grandson dying in 2017 into fundraising for two charities that supported and cared for him, we raised £8000 in 8 months! It also made me reassess my whole outlook on life and focus on what was truly important xx"

well done you. outstanding

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Used the grief of my grandson dying in 2017 into fundraising for two charities that supported and cared for him, we raised £8000 in 8 months! It also made me reassess my whole outlook on life and focus on what was truly important xx

well done you. outstanding "

Thanks did my first 10k run to raise money and just signed up for my next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admitted I had an alcohol problem ...now three months clean. Hubby doesn’t have a problem but stopped in support of me ...we’ve both lost over a stone with no other changes ..new year we are going to expand on this with healthier eating and more exercise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much had a complete breakdown in the summer. Which doesn't sound positive but coming back from being suicidal means the only way is up. So I'm quite glad I'm still here, and that toxic influences outed themselves for what they are. And most of all I;m happy that I've accepted and started the process of getting the help that my somewhat broken brain needs

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"A positive thing I have learnt this year was to stick up for myself at work against a back stabber I thought was a trusted colleague.

Trust no one guys "

Having being there with a neighbour, with you 100% Bhu

Mx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I pretty much had a complete breakdown in the summer. Which doesn't sound positive but coming back from being suicidal means the only way is up. So I'm quite glad I'm still here, and that toxic influences outed themselves for what they are. And most of all I;m happy that I've accepted and started the process of getting the help that my somewhat broken brain needs"
well done it's so courageous to make that first step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally decided to live my dream life and be a bum! No, go backpacking with no time limits and no plan. Jump into the mouth of the unknown! Going be amazing, will have to do a travelling thread?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I've lost weight and kept it off.

Oh and I'm told my Christmas cakes are jolly nice. "

I may have mentioned it a few times... A dozen that is!

One positive thing?

There's quite a few to choose from, but I the one that stands out the most for me.

My confidence.

It took me a long while to rebuild my life, and start living again.

The start of this year, I had somebody play on my insecurities, twist my vulnerabilities, it almost took me back to somewhere I didn't want to go.

I removed that person from my life, but it totaly shook my confidence for a while.

Luckily I have friends around me who picked me up & got me back on my feet.

I know now I'm stronger than ever before, and I will never go back down that black hole again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decided To focus on myself and enjoy my life

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I managed to find a lady friend off fab and I’m really pleased I managed todo that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaargh difficult. Being on here has made me realise I have slightly obsessive qualities that I could better control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pretty much had a complete breakdown in the summer. Which doesn't sound positive but coming back from being suicidal means the only way is up. So I'm quite glad I'm still here, and that toxic influences outed themselves for what they are. And most of all I;m happy that I've accepted and started the process of getting the help that my somewhat broken brain needs"

Hope you're doing better.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Accepted I had depression and managed to get help and got my life back x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I know what or who I want and why. That I can wait until the stars align, and if they do then it's better to wait, and accept that things will be, in their own time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quit smoking roll ups and moved to the vape after 30 years.

I realised that for my age, I look ok. no wrinkles. a few grey hairs that aren't worthy of dying yet. and my wobbly bits are ok.

and that I my job is worthy. I make people happy

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

I have tried to think of one good thing and the only one that comes to my mind is that I am still alive.

Happy to hear so many of you have achieved such great things. Let's hope for a better 2019 for all.

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By *ugbylad87Man
over a year ago

lichfield

I have started anew career complete change and doing an adult apprenticeship really happy I was brave enough to try something completely different

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I lost 2 stone in weight

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By *ky19Man
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I lost 2 stone in weight "

Well done. I gained 2 much needed stones, but that's over 3 years (and probably only half of it is muscle... )

For 2018, I have made it through, despite too many times truly not knowing what I'm going to do, going under with interest on payday loans and not knowing how I'm going to get out.

Yet now it's reasonably under control, I'm able to eat pretty well and am just starting gently working out again, sorta have my abs coming back a bit after too many years without. I'll post a few pics when I can make a bit more progress

(tl;dr version - I'm still here!)

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I made some fabulous friends, i hope that i have helped people that i care about, i survived through a really bad year with the help of my friends.

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By *annieWoman
over a year ago

hinckley

I’ve had a shitter of a year but if it has taught me anything positive about myself it is that I am a lot stronger than I give myself credit

I have some great friends who have made me realise that I am a good person and that i have a life worth living. So here I am going kicking and screaming in to 2019 making the things I want happen and thinking about myself for a change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i beat cancer "

Great news....... congrats xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In an effort to change my life for the better, I moved from the south to Lincolnshire not knowing anybody. Since January, I have gotten involved in village life, joined various groups, made many friends and life is good. I really had to push myself but it's been so worth it. I'm quite proud of myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In an effort to change my life for the better, I moved from the south to Lincolnshire not knowing anybody. Since January, I have gotten involved in village life, joined various groups, made many friends and life is good. I really had to push myself but it's been so worth it. I'm quite proud of myself "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I realised that I am a kick ass mum!!

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By *oodpeckerABCWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

I found someone who saved me from a dark place and makes me smile everyday.

They may be far away but they are there xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not pushing up daisies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my elbow replaced at the start of Dec and happy to say recovery going well. Looking forward to full movement range and to get back rock climbing as soon as possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I found someone who saved me from a dark place and makes me smile everyday.

They may be far away but they are there xxx"
how jolly splendid

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I decided last Jan in a new yrs resolution that id look for a new job. I handed my notice in for a job as spent 18 yrs doing. Started my new job then in the April. Im proud that I set myself a goal and did it. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My unwavering tenacity is a great achievement.

Another 12 months without so much as a sniff of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came out the other side of prescription drug withdrawal, lost 3 stone and got a little of my former life back. Onwards and upwards "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you!

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