FabSwingers.com forum: Do You?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instantly delete. I used to reply with a thanks but not interested message, but I got a fair amount of abuse for it. So no point

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. I've taken the same amount of time and effort they have.

I don't make exceptions no matter how hot they are, and any immediate follow up I block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I've taken the same amount of time and effort they have.

I don't make exceptions no matter how hot they are, and any immediate follow up I block them. "

I maybe send a screenshot of the fab FAQ; why it isn’t rude to ignore messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Instantly delete. I used to reply with a thanks but not interested message, but I got a fair amount of abuse for it. So no point "

Yep, we did that and got abuse for it,usually from mature genuine gents,

Not very mature to throw the dummy out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always... depends on who they are.. even a "hi" may have taken someone alot guts just to send..

Mistress Amelia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instantly delete. I used to reply with a thanks but not interested message, but I got a fair amount of abuse for it. So no point

Yep, we did that and got abuse for it,usually from mature genuine gents,

Not very mature to throw the dummy out

Pretty much

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some "nice guys" really show their true colours when we don't roll over and play dead.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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I've not sent a "faf" message for about 8 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some "nice guys" really show their true colours when we don't roll over and play dead. "

Or we don't instantly drop our pants and want to shag them because they have attached a dick picture

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We always replied regardless. But for every one nice guy we got about 50 odd ones so we have blocked single guys from messaging now. It’s a shame but it was becoming a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'll have a look at the profile.

If it intrigues me and I like what I see I'll chat.

If not then delete

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Some "nice guys" really show their true colours when we don't roll over and play dead.

Or we don't instantly drop our pants and want to shag them because they have attached a dick picture

Oh this is more, they send a horrendously generic message, including saying how nice they are, the word nice appears all over their profile, they attach a face picture because that's what all women want, then when I delete their message... Nice people don't make threats like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We always replied regardless. But for every one nice guy we got about 50 odd ones so we have blocked single guys from messaging now. It’s a shame but it was becoming a nightmare "

As they say " the actions of the few,impact the many"

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

Depends on my mood a one or two word message will usually get a one or two word reply. If they continue to respond with little or no context then I quickly lose interest.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Possibly, wider context sometimes makes a difference. Maybe I like their profile (I may have alot to say) or we have met before or a response to wink for examples. Sometimes to break the ice dosent need to be war and peace. And sometimes just with one line there may be a something quite profound or intresting. So I take it on a case by case basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm bored and I don't have many messages then sometimes I look at the profile and see if anything intrigues me but more often than not I just delete it, then which is often the case I get a message saying "guess your not interested then, shame I would have given you the best time of your life" I just block.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"We always replied regardless. But for every one nice guy we got about 50 odd ones so we have blocked single guys from messaging now. It’s a shame but it was becoming a nightmare

As they say " the actions of the few,impact the many"

Yep. It’s was worse when I was a single lady on here. At least they just keep chancing their arm with our couples profile. Three strikes and they’re blocked. Before as a single lady, the abuse I received if I wouldn’t meet them for a coffee. Or a coffee and a blow job! as I’m on a sex site so it’s a given that that’s what I would do! All sorts of names thrown at me! Like that’s gonna win me round! Although I did end up marrying the man that was originally a thanks but no thanks so I’m glad I didn’t block him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not always... depends on who they are.. even a "hi" may have taken someone alot guts just to send..

Mistress Amelia x

Same here. We give them a chance unless it's clear from their profile that we're not a match and they haven't read ours.

Mrs

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Had a few just saying "Hi." I delete those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I don’t do it so don’t expect anyone else to send me one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I reply to all first messages. Most people just delete messages so why bother writing anything more than "hi"? Anything else is a waste of their time.

So I reply and often get chatting to really nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is. If it's someone who tempts me I'd reply. If the messages continue to be crap I'd get bored quite quickly though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many people send messages? Most just sit and wait for their inbox to boost their ego. Deleting 100 messages a day makes them feel good.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only ones we don't reply to are the ones that very obviously haven't read our fairly brief profile.

Copy and paste doesn't bother us neither do one liners. The following messages will tell if we're compatible or not.

I think people expect too much of a first message. When you're approached by someone in a bar for example you don't expect much more than a "hello, how are you" to get the conversation going.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"How many people send messages? Most just sit and wait for their inbox to boost their ego. Deleting 100 messages a day makes them feel good.

I doubt we receive a 100 a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many people send messages? Most just sit and wait for their inbox to boost their ego. Deleting 100 messages a day makes them feel good.

I doubt we receive a 100 a year. "

Put a status up asking "who wants sex?" Ego boost right there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"How many people send messages? Most just sit and wait for their inbox to boost their ego. Deleting 100 messages a day makes them feel good.

I doubt we receive a 100 a year.

Put a status up asking "who wants sex?" Ego boost right there.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

If there’s anything crude I delete. I have also grown to dislike messages that say ‘are you behaving?’

It’s not about the length of the message, it’s about the content. It can be a one liner but a nice one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, i reply to every message i get...........sits waiting for a message....... waiting......... waiting............. waiting..........

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

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"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

My profile warns about poor quality messaging and I don't hesitate to block if someone does not make any effort

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yup. I like to keep a tidy (empty) inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me "

You get messages off women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to reply with one word replies till they get bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i block everyone from sending me messages.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Delete and block for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

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on occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

I would reply. I'm here to have some nice chat with a normal guy for mmf. I don't need to be impressed. I'm not up myself that way x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion"

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

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its a great way up until the last month i only met forum folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a reply and it’s no I thank them for taking the time to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I'll give a "hey" the benefit of the doubt. My instant deletes are anyone using text speak like "wuut?" That a just lazy.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

its a great way up until the last month i only met forum folks"

How have you changed your approach then?

I'm out of most people's age ranges now, so I just tend to post inane drivel on here in the vain hope that it might get me laid at some point in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

I would reply. I'm here to have some nice chat with a normal guy for mmf. I don't need to be impressed. I'm not up myself that way x"

It's not about being up yourself it's about being inundated with messages so one or two words messages just aren't going to get a response. I most certainly don't need to be impressed but I do like to know that somebody has put a bit of effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

its a great way up until the last month i only met forum folks

How have you changed your approach then?

I'm out of most people's age ranges now, so I just tend to post inane drivel on here in the vain hope that it might get me laid at some point in time

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i just chat shit dont really have an approach i just shout until folks take notice with randomly comical status shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

its a great way up until the last month i only met forum folks

How have you changed your approach then?

I'm out of most people's age ranges now, so I just tend to post inane drivel on here in the vain hope that it might get me laid at some point in time

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i also never wanted to meet none forum folk until a recent bout of horniness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

My two most recent ones have been people that I've chatted to in the forums it's definitely a really good way to get to know someone and what they are like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

My two most recent ones have been people that I've chatted to in the forums it's definitely a really good way to get to know someone and what they are like. "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

its a great way up until the last month i only met forum folks

How have you changed your approach then?

I'm out of most people's age ranges now, so I just tend to post inane drivel on here in the vain hope that it might get me laid at some point in time

i just chat shit dont really have an approach i just shout until folks take notice with randomly comical status shite"

Should I change ma username to pull my plonker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

I would reply. I'm here to have some nice chat with a normal guy for mmf. I don't need to be impressed. I'm not up myself that way x

Nah. Just be normal and down to earth x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

I would reply. I'm here to have some nice chat with a normal guy for mmf. I don't need to be impressed. I'm not up myself that way x

exactly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

its a great way up until the last month i only met forum folks

How have you changed your approach then?

I'm out of most people's age ranges now, so I just tend to post inane drivel on here in the vain hope that it might get me laid at some point in time

i just chat shit dont really have an approach i just shout until folks take notice with randomly comical status shite

Should I change ma username to pull my plonker?

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its your profile dude i dont think my name gets me ladys to be honest

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

My two most recent ones have been people that I've chatted to in the forums it's definitely a really good way to get to know someone and what they are like. "

I seem to attract ladies from the South Coast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

I would reply. I'm here to have some nice chat with a normal guy for mmf. I don't need to be impressed. I'm not up myself that way x

Nah. Just be normal and down to earth x"

Thank you for that great observation. I am very down to earth however if I was to apply to every single message I received I would need a personal secretary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

My two most recent ones have been people that I've chatted to in the forums it's definitely a really good way to get to know someone and what they are like.

I seem to attract ladies from the South Coast

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Should I change ma username to pull my plonker?

its your profile dude i dont think my name gets me ladys to be honest"

I know, I was only having a Giraffe, did you have a previous username? I was superramfan until about 4 years ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sometimes I'll give a "hey" the benefit of the doubt. My instant deletes are anyone using text speak like "wuut?" That a just lazy."

To be honest it would take me a while to figure out what that even meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I change ma username to pull my plonker?

its your profile dude i dont think my name gets me ladys to be honest

I know, I was only having a Giraffe, did you have a previous username? I was superramfan until about 4 years ago

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yes but dont remember it only had it 1 month

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

My two most recent ones have been people that I've chatted to in the forums it's definitely a really good way to get to know someone and what they are like.

I seem to attract ladies from the South Coast

Shame I'm too old and you can't travel, although I've had ladies who say they won't meet smokers come to stop with me for a couple of days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

I would reply. I'm here to have some nice chat with a normal guy for mmf. I don't need to be impressed. I'm not up myself that way x

Nah. Just be normal and down to earth x

Thank you for that great observation. I am very down to earth however if I was to apply to every single message I received I would need a personal secretary. "

Lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

My two most recent ones have been people that I've chatted to in the forums it's definitely a really good way to get to know someone and what they are like.

I seem to attract ladies from the South Coast

Shame I'm too old and you can't travel, although I've had ladies who say they won't meet smokers come to stop with me for a couple of days

Well I'm a smoker so I wouldn't have that problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I look at the profile and either reply or send a no thank you message.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"No as it would mean i talk to nobody women generally tend to put very little effort into messaging me

You get messages off women?

on occasion

I do as well, most of ma meets have been through pm's that have come about via a bit of banter on the forums, it's a good way to meet

My two most recent ones have been people that I've chatted to in the forums it's definitely a really good way to get to know someone and what they are like.

I seem to attract ladies from the South Coast

Shame I'm too old and you can't travel, although I've had ladies who say they won't meet smokers come to stop with me for a couple of days

Well I'm a smoker so I wouldn't have that problem.

Sounds cool, do you fancy a trip to Derby sometime?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hate to be inundated with so many messages I couldn't read and reply to them all.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"I would hate to be inundated with so many messages I couldn't read and reply to them all."

I had a lady come and stop at mine a few years ago, and I was amazed how many she actually had in her inbox, it would freak me out as well!

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

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We delete those type of messages and those that indicate they’re a “genuine” person. I’m sure there aren’t too many fake humans on here, unless some being from space has joined Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hate to be inundated with so many messages I couldn't read and reply to them all.

I had a lady come and stop at mine a few years ago, and I was amazed how many she actually had in her inbox, it would freak me out as well!

I think the other thing is I've made it very clear on my profile the kind of messages I don't want to receive so if somebody sends me a 1 or 2 word message then I just delete it and I don't understand why they're surprised by that. There is only so many "hi how are" messages I can receive in a day before I get exceptionally board. Also I'm not going to feel guilty for not being obliged to reply to a message.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"no, i reply to every message i get...........sits waiting for a message....... waiting......... waiting............. waiting..........

Hahaha shame were more than 20 miles away then lol

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Best ones are the exact same msg theyve sent before ....new mailbox shows the old one lol total c+p

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

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"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

Instant delete.

If they CBA to put the effort into writing anything worth reading, I CBA to bother replying.

It's clearly stated on my profile, but yeah yeah, we all know no ones reads that stuff anyway.

Always amuses me when I get a follow up message, criticising my attitude.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"I would hate to be inundated with so many messages I couldn't read and reply to them all.

I had a lady come and stop at mine a few years ago, and I was amazed how many she actually had in her inbox, it would freak me out as well!

It was crazy, when she opened her laptop she must have had about 150 messages in there, some wishing her well for her journey to mine, she did return for a second visit, but mostly unsolicited. How the hell's anyone supposed to reply to them for crying out loud no matter how good natured and what your intentions may be. I need a secretary to open ma post on a weekly basis ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hate to be inundated with so many messages I couldn't read and reply to them all.

I had a lady come and stop at mine a few years ago, and I was amazed how many she actually had in her inbox, it would freak me out as well!

Exactly.

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over a year ago

"I would hate to be inundated with so many messages I couldn't read and reply to them all.

I had a lady come and stop at mine a few years ago, and I was amazed how many she actually had in her inbox, it would freak me out as well!

Exactly.

This^ I try to keep on top of mine but haven't managed to get it to less than 100. Currently sat at 264 (although I'm sure I can add at least 5 to that in the time it's taken to type this) and probably half are just "hey" or "u ok?"

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over a year ago

"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

I would reply. I'm here to have some nice chat with a normal guy for mmf. I don't need to be impressed. I'm not up myself that way x"

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over a year ago

"Instantly delete one or two line messages? Or obvious "copy & paste" messages.

For ex. "Hi" "hows youse"

We instantly delete them because if they can't be bothered putting some effort into, we can't be arsed either.

I'd check for pics first

If I fancied them then I'd reply

If it got to a few messages in and I was getting short answers and it was like pulling teeth, then I'd lose interest

If there were no pics or I didn't fancy them, I wouldn't answer

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over a year ago

"Instantly delete. I used to reply with a thanks but not interested message, but I got a fair amount of abuse for it. So no point "

Same! Have had loads of abuse back when I sent a polite reply so just delete now unles its a really nice message

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over a year ago

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"Instantly delete. I used to reply with a thanks but not interested message, but I got a fair amount of abuse for it. So no point

Same! Have had loads of abuse back when I sent a polite reply so just delete now unles its a really nice message

And me, I ignore most messages unless one catches my eye, and periodically go through them replying to some and deleting most.

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