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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not jolly quite sure , I know I have made some very good chums in the forums

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By *un Mike 2019Man
over a year ago

Bristol

It’s a swinging site. It’s where people go to chat to others of a like mind can go to look for consensual sex when they are in a relationships and the singles should respect and understand that. Sadly a lot of the singles, not-actually-singles and even some couples don’t seem to get it.

A sex site is somewhere you just go to get laid, morals be damned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers will use it for swinging. The rest of us will use it for casual sex. Or coffee. Or being a nause on the forums.

It ceased to be a ‘purely’ swinging site AGEEEEESSSSS ago. Whatever that is.

Hopefully the Swingers will be along to tell us shortly, although Wikipedia says it is the following :

Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping, husband swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1] Swinging is a form of open relationship.

Mind you any numpty can edit Wiki can’t rhey so who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a swinging site. It’s where people go to chat to others of a like mind can go to look for consensual sex when they are in a relationships and the singles should respect and understand that. Sadly a lot of the singles, not-actually-singles and even some couples don’t seem to get it.

A sex site is somewhere you just go to get laid, morals be damned. "

this

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"It’s a swinging site. It’s where people go to chat to others of a like mind can go to look for consensual sex when they are in a relationships and the singles should respect and understand that. Sadly a lot of the singles, not-actually-singles and even some couples don’t seem to get it.

A sex site is somewhere you just go to get laid, morals be damned. "

It was originally intended as a swingers site obviously, but if the majority of people are using it as a sex site, which they probably are, doesn't that just make it a sex site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is both,if people can't get what they want on here they just go somewhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a swinging site. It’s where people go to chat to others of a like mind can go to look for consensual sex when they are in a relationships and the singles should respect and understand that. Sadly a lot of the singles, not-actually-singles and even some couples don’t seem to get it.

A sex site is somewhere you just go to get laid, morals be damned. "
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Well that last sentence is why I’m on Fab. And it’s worked for me. So maybe it isn’t *just* a swinging site then, it’s a sex site too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit of fun to pass the time and maybe have orgasms

Does it need any more analysis?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

It's Facebook for liberated adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, OP, what do YOU think!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly not a sex site. I've been here over two years and not had any...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a swinger. I'm too greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's certainly not a sex site. I've been here over two years and not had any..."

Maybe it's a bad sex site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swingers will use it for swinging. The rest of us will use it for casual sex. Or coffee. Or being a nause on the forums.

It ceased to be a ‘purely’ swinging site AGEEEEESSSSS ago. Whatever that is.

Hopefully the Swingers will be along to tell us shortly, although Wikipedia says it is the following :

Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping, husband swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1] Swinging is a form of open relationship.

Mind you any numpty can edit Wiki can’t rhey so who knows? "

This maybe right.... possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a site for people to contact each other, for whatever they are looking for.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's certainly not a sex site. I've been here over two years and not had any..."

I play the violin did I ever mention that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a whatever you want it to be site.. Find someone looking for the same and have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or a site for women with low self esteem to tease old married men in an attempt to make themselves feel better? Or maybe I’m too cynical

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"What's the difference? "

It was for us who live a vanilla alternative life but now full of fakes and single looking for sex..

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By *impleman007Man
over a year ago

st albans / north london

I find difficulty in understanding too , also found some trying to date

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ultimately it's a sex site regardless of what your definition of swinging is (and that's a huge debate in itself) given that swinging has at it's core sex as its purpose.

I use the site to suit my needs and meet people of a like mind, which it enables me to do, and don't really feel the need to define it further than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's certainly not a sex site. I've been here over two years and not had any...

I play the violin did I ever mention that "

Are you just stringing me along?..

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I guess for a lot of couples it is a swinging site but as I mostly play apart from my partner, it is a place to find friends and lovers who I know will stimulate both mind and body.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

It's different things to different people Personally for us, its a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a huge clue in the site title

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The site is whatever somebody wants it to be. A swingers site to some, a sex site to others and many other things as well.

Ultitely if it works for you then great, if it doesn't work for you then fuck off and find a site that does don't whinge and moan about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve made some good friends through fab does everything need to be about sex ? If so that’s very sad

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

It is what you make of it I guess. Use it however it makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s both and much more, it’s whatever people want of it. X

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Contrary to what my name actually means in a cryptic kind of way, I'm actually just a tart

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not a swinger. I'm too greedy"

Aren't swingers greedy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a site for people to contact each other, for whatever they are looking for. "

I like this.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"It’s a swinging site. It’s where people go to chat to others of a like mind can go to look for consensual sex when they are in a relationships and the singles should respect and understand that. Sadly a lot of the singles, not-actually-singles and even some couples don’t seem to get it.

A sex site is somewhere you just go to get laid, morals be damned.

It was originally intended as a swingers site obviously, but if the majority of people are using it as a sex site, which they probably are, doesn't that just make it a sex site? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The site is whatever somebody wants it to be. A swingers site to some, a sex site to others and many other things as well.

Ultitely if it works for you then great, if it doesn't work for you then fuck off and find a site that does don't whinge and moan about it."

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I play as a single, I’ve played as part of a couple, I’ve been to parties and clubs. I’ve had 1 to 1 meets, 3sums and moresums.

I’ve also been sub to a Dom and a Domme and I’ve dabbled in being a Domme.

I’ve made some great friends along the way and I’ll make new ones. The site is whatever you want it to be as long as you have no expectations from it. You have to make some effort in order to gain the fun and experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like any social media these days it’s whatever you want it to be. For me it’s a place to relax, have fun, meet women and yes ultimately indulge in some personal fantasy’s and enjoy some Fab sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here for the shagging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the dictionary version of swinging is now all but dissolved, certainly in the context of this site.

I think those couples that attend clubs, house parties etc. are swingers. The rest of us are just shagabouters.

I'm not sure Fab would have too much of an impact on the lifestyle of 'true' swingers other than it brings new people to the scene - that in itself is a double edged sword

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Sex,it's a sex site. People come here for sex,yep definitely a sex site.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Maybe they should rename it Fabtinder.

Most look at it as such

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Maybe they should rename it Fabtinder.

Most look at it as such "

Or Instashag of course

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

It’s what ever you want it to be

If you get a good meet then you may get lucky and have sex

Take it as you find it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I am not a swinger. I'm too greedy

Aren't swingers greedy?"

Can I have a munch on you dumplings?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

*your

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*your"

This

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Both. And neither.

Take from it what you need. Stuff the rest.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"*your

This "

I love you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they should rename it Fabtinder.

Most look at it as such

Or Instashag of course "

Which is right though? The ones wanting Instashag or those wanting a swinging friendship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it can be many things to many people, right and wrong are dependant on perspective. We all use it for different reasons, as long as no one gets hurt then I say it’s all good

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Maybe they should rename it Fabtinder.

Most look at it as such

Or Instashag of course

Which is right though? The ones wanting Instashag or those wanting a swinging friendship? "

There is no right but we would say if you haven’t been to a club then you aren’t a swinger.

It’s as much about the social as the sex.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Both. It’s also a picture swapping site, a cam site, a chat site, a talking bollocks but sometimes good advice site, a stalking site, a hilarious respite from the real world site and a site where you can grab a virtual drink and a hug.

It’s alright here.

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By *heekyweebissimWoman
over a year ago

fife,


"It’s a swinging site. It’s where people go to chat to others of a like mind can go to look for consensual sex when they are in a relationships and the singles should respect and understand that. Sadly a lot of the singles, not-actually-singles and even some couples don’t seem to get it.

A sex site is somewhere you just go to get laid, morals be damned. "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both. It’s also a picture swapping site, a cam site, a chat site, a talking bollocks but sometimes good advice site, a stalking site, a hilarious respite from the real world site and a site where you can grab a virtual drink and a hug.

It’s alright here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ropes frame seat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sex site pure and simple. It's used by couples to meet couples, couples to meet singles and singles to meet singles.

Some will argue it's for morally superior interactions. This is nonsense. Society in general will see nothing moral in swinging. And neither does it mean that couples are any better than singles or have 'higher standards'.

In it's simplest terms it's a site for anyone who enjoys recreational sex with like-minded people ... whether as a couple or single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a sex site pure and simple. It's used by couples to meet couples, couples to meet singles and singles to meet singles.

Some will argue it's for morally superior interactions. This is nonsense. Society in general will see nothing moral in swinging. And neither does it mean that couples are any better than singles or have 'higher standards'.

In it's simplest terms it's a site for anyone who enjoys recreational sex with like-minded people ... whether as a couple or single. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the difference? "

It's neither any more, just a social meeting place primarily.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

Does it really have to be one or the other? Everyone uses it in their own way, so why not simply ignore those who aren’t looking for what you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its a sex and banter site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging with sex and humour mixed in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it really have to be one or the other? Everyone uses it in their own way, so why not simply ignore those who aren’t looking for what you are?"

The OP is just asking for opinions. It's interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the difference?

It's neither any more, just a social meeting place primarily. "

People do meet. It can be difficult but we always managed to have some amazing fun.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I use it to arrange coffee mornings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not a swinger. I'm too greedy

Aren't swingers greedy?"

But I don't like to share, my overall goal during sex is to ensure that I an make my partner feel as great as possible to inflate my own ego. If others are there, it takes me away from my objective. I'm not even interested in a end with me in the middle. I'm all about the 1on1

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"It's a site for people to contact each other, for whatever they are looking for. "

That's the best answer I've seen on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not a swinger. I'm too greedy

Aren't swingers greedy?

But I don't like to share, my overall goal during sex is to ensure that I an make my partner feel as great as possible to inflate my own ego. If others are there, it takes me away from my objective. I'm not even interested in a end with me in the middle. I'm all about the 1on1 "

There's room for everyone's preferences. That sounds fine.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

it is both.....

it is neither.....

it is what people make of it.....

the beauty of the site is that it is big enough so that whatever YOU think the site is, you'll find people that will agree with you... and concentrate on those people!

some people just feel like they have to be everything to everyone....its not a popularity contest!!! its finding like minded people!

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