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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Hello everyone

Its almost that time if the year again and the new year is almost here

What are your new years resolutions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have none, that way i won’t feel guilty when they don’t happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To nail the person below!

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By *cousesubsallyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.

2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.

3. Have at least a mfm

4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.

5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To cook more healthy stuff from scratch and maybe start an instagram or twitter page to show off my cooking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get as far away from the UK as possible!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't usually make resolutions at New year but this year I will. Basically it's to do the stuff I keep talking about doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoop!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Quit smoking!

I quit for 12yrs, January 2yrs ago I stupidly started again while dealing with alot of family stress.

I know I need to quit, but just havn't had the willpower or incentive.

I have a couple of good reasons now.

Appointment booked with smoking nurse next week.

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.

2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.

3. Have at least a mfm

4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.

5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!"

How achievable do you think these are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.

2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.

3. Have at least a mfm

4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.

5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!

How achievable do you think these are

1 - unsure. I’m really struggling. Managed to get pregnant three times with no effort in 2017. This year I have been actively trying and nothing. Doctors are monitoring (whole list of health issues too).

2. - unsure. They’re due a baby on my husbands birthday and I know I won’t be able to cope emotionally.

3 - very possible. I just need to stop being shy.

4 - I’m getting there, so again, very possible.

5 - I’m working on that one

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.

2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.

3. Have at least a mfm

4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.

5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!

How achievable do you think these are

2. - unsure. They’re due a baby on my husbands birthday and I know I won’t be able to cope emotionally.

3 - very possible. I just need to stop being shy.

4 - I’m getting there, so again, very possible.

5 - I’m working on that one

My advice would be arrange them in to order of how achievable they are then start ticking them off the list.

Tackle each one at one step at a time and you can do it.

I am happy to help if you need any moral support x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Life's short so mine remains as it does every year to simply "Be happy"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

lose weight

maybe stop smoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have my tattoos removed.

Got appointment in new year to see how much it will cost then I'll decide what to do.

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By *othrockercplCouple
over a year ago

Halloween Town

To contact one person per week on my hotlist and to follow up the Winks that I give or get.

Ms GR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None apart from keep being jolly happy and see the positive in people and situations

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.

2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.

3. Have at least a mfm

4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.

5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!

How achievable do you think these are

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get the hell away from Rugeley and move either to Cambs or Essex. Maybe even Bedfordshire at a push

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quit smoking is the big one.

Continue with my exercise

Cook more healthy food

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By *lirtyfun!!Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

Travel more, worry less

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By *r n Mrs F xCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Finally set the wheels in motion, to emigrate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More Sexercise

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By *lexeatonMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

To do something I've always wanted to do, take part in a porn scene before my only option is BeautyAndTheSenior :P

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Finally set the wheels in motion, to emigrate. "

Where are you moving to

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Travel more, worry less

Where would your next travel destination be?

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

Staying away from people issues even family when they have nowt to do with you until they only have you left... Walking away my heart on my sleeve is being selfish in 2019

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Staying away from people issues even family when they have nowt to do with you until they only have you left... Walking away my heart on my sleeve is being selfish in 2019 "

Protect your bubble. Not selfish at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get my passport renewed, it's ten years out of date & in my maiden name (no longer married) & go on holiday for the first time in fifteen years.

Try to take a decent passport photo.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

To not be so hard on myself this year so think about myself more and definitely get out and enjoy myself x storm x

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough

To get fitter and healthier if possible..and..bit of a long shot...but to get laid

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By *lirtyfun!!Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

"Travel more, worry less

Where would your next travel destination be? "

I've got flights booked to Australia and NZ in a few weeks. Might carry on from there, but I've no definite plans as yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make one every year and so far have never broken it's so that I always feels empowered and amazingly strong

.... and it's to never make new year resolutions

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"To have my tattoos removed.

Got appointment in new year to see how much it will cost then I'll decide what to do."

Why? They're great!

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Travel more, worry less

Where would your next travel destination be?

I've got flights booked to Australia and NZ in a few weeks. Might carry on from there, but I've no definite plans as yet."

Are you going travelling or just a holiday. I wish i was going away. I'm trying to save for a house

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

1. To lose weight for our wedding in May. There's no way I can get to a 'normal' weight in 5 months(and I don't want to get too thin anyway to be honest) but a couple of stone would help me feel a lot more confident and not cringe when I see the photos.

2. To find a different job. Teaching sucks.

E x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.

2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.

3. Have at least a mfm

4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.

5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!

How achievable do you think these are

good luck"

What’s that face for?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Let more ladies make the first move

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To have my tattoos removed.

Got appointment in new year to see how much it will cost then I'll decide what to do.

Why? They're great!"

People only see the body and tattoos.

Not who I really am

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Let it go

Do a 100 mile cycling event in one day

Go to event socials get my face out there

Aim to be the fittest Ive ever been before its to late

Start swimming again

Learn to pole dance or a martial art(kick boxing)

Meet my man in crime and together make 2019 full of fun, laughter, sexy adventures, push boundaries be a we instead of I

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough

"Let it go

Do a 100 mile cycling event in one day

Go to event socials get my face out there

Aim to be the fittest Ive ever been before its to late

Start swimming again

Learn to pole dance or a martial art(kick boxing)

Meet my man in crime and together make 2019 full of fun, laughter, sexy adventures, push boundaries be a we instead of I

Good luck with the 100 miler..I've done several this year and hope to do even more next year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will meet the latest addition to my friends list (you know who you are) no matter the distance

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

"To have my tattoos removed.

Got appointment in new year to see how much it will cost then I'll decide what to do."

to be hounest your better off keeping them..from what ive seen of tattoo removal its a long process and it never looks good as you can still see a faint tattoo..unless its radically improved in the last ten years..

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

1...to stop sticking cucumbers up my arse.

2..give up my job at the sandwich shop...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To growl less and smile more it's not going to be easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.

2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.

3. Have at least a mfm

4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.

5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!"

I think once you crack number 1 the rest will seem insignificant..Good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carry on losing weight, tough slog but determined!

Get my promotion at work.

Anything else I do/achieve will be a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. At least get pregnant this year, or have a baby.

2. Stop hating two family members. Not get on with them, just don’t want to actively hate them.

3. Have at least a mfm

4. Stop having panic attacks when I go shopping in Asda, because my ‘bio dad’ lives near there. I’ve never seen him, never want too, but it still fills me with panic.

5. Fuck the bus driver I fancy!"

would love to help with the mfm

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Let it go

Do a 100 mile cycling event in one day

Go to event socials get my face out there

Aim to be the fittest Ive ever been before its to late

Start swimming again

Learn to pole dance or a martial art(kick boxing)

Meet my man in crime and together make 2019 full of fun, laughter, sexy adventures, push boundaries be a we instead of I

Good luck with the 100 miler..I've done several this year and hope to do even more next year

"
Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to 13st, tone up and have fun

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

My goals for 2019 are really about making time for and thinking about me.

1. Coast and castles, my favourite ride, even though they’re doing it arse about face this year

2. Ride to the sun. Dan does it every year and I’ve yet to join him on a night ride

3. Coast to Coast, because I haven’t for a few years

4. Go to Italy to climb a via ferrata in the Dolomites

5. Improve upper body strength, it’s my failing and I rely far too much on my core

Lex

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"None apart from keep being jolly happy and see the positive in people and situations

I don’t make resolutions but Taff has it summed up perfectly here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arm wrestle 3 spiders

Not take things for granted as much

Be successful in my new job role

Dont be a sulk (that will be hard)

Be a little more selfish with what i want from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Improve my fitness

Be more sociable

Meet a couple of special friends

Enjoy each day

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Try a few sexual firsts.

Go to some more socials.

Do at least one parkrun a month even if I cry through it.

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By *r n Mrs F xCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Finally set the wheels in motion, to emigrate.

Where are you moving to"

Australia, hopefully all my family are there.. but its not an easy task..

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By *lirtyfun!!Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

"Travel more, worry less

Where would your next travel destination be?

I've got flights booked to Australia and NZ in a few weeks. Might carry on from there, but I've no definite plans as yet.

Are you going travelling or just a holiday. I wish i was going away. I'm trying to save for a house

I'm (maybe crazily) going to meet up with a guy I spent two weeks with over summer. We're doing a big of a road trip along the south coast and flying across to NZ for a few weeks too.

I was trying to save to buy somewhere too... Then I realised that'll never happen while I'm single in London so there are better things to do with the money than let it sit in the bank! Life is too short not to live it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have new years resolutions. Personal ones outside the lifestyle and Fab related... some may even overlap! Was going to share a few details, but for now:

"None apart from keep being jolly happy and see the positive in people and situations

^ Loving that ^

That is what I always try to do and will continue to do. However seeing the positive in people can get tested... like really tested in certain situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a resolution but I hope I can just make a positive difference to the lives of others

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Carry on with my fab journey. It’s going in a slightly different direction to how it started but it’s an adventure and now there are more things I want to experience and I/we are planning lots and have already started ticking off things on the list.

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Carry on with my fab journey. It’s going in a slightly different direction to how it started but it’s an adventure and now there are more things I want to experience and I/we are planning lots and have already started ticking off things on the list.

Would you like any assistance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine will be hmm. To try my no side out being that with a bi couple or maybe a tidy chap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to be more positive and mindful.

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