FabSwingers.com forum: Socials just because..........

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems to be a lot of fed up people at the mo. Lonely because of the season.

A group of forum men said they'd have a beer night out a while ago but I don't know if it ever happened.

Not a date, not for sex, just a beer/ coffee and a chat. Just 2 people meeting or even get a few locals together.

Have you ever mailed someone in the forum just for a social meet? Would you meet up just for a social like this?

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

We would yes, like getting to know people

Molly

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Have down exactly this and been on a motorcycle ride with someone from fab

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes best way to get to know people without the pressure to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't trust a man to just want to keep it as a social.

I know...cynical me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately would. Friendship is always welcome, especially when it's with like minded people.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I wouldn't trust a man to just want to keep it as a social.

I know...cynical me."

I only do a social first time. IF they can't handle that then that's their problem.

I hardly ever message someone but I enjoy a social of any size

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"I wouldn't trust a man to just want to keep it as a social.

I know...cynical me."

If I ever attend a social like that I always prepare incase something further happens but I never push it to happen - if that makes sense??

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

This is fantastic idea I would be up for this if there is a local one in Leeds area

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m happy to social up locally. I’ve had socials which for one reason or another turned out to go no further. Some planned that way to gain the green tick. Some because of lack of time or connection. Most of them have been enjoyable on their own merit. I have no issues with socials large or small. I know they’re not everyone’s cup of tea.

Mine’s a large, strong, black coffee

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

This is the only way I look at it on a first meet. It's to see if you gel. Going into a meet with expectations only leads to disappointment.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My plans for tonight have fallen through and a social would be most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I dunno"

A social is a great way to meet people without any exceptions other than to have a coffee/drink and a nice chat

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By *ove2Lick!Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I’m always up for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would. If I thought the person seemed sound I'd happily meet up for a social, be just like bumping into a mate kinda thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always up for a social and meet people

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I dunno

A social is a great way to meet people without any exceptions other than to have a coffee/drink and a nice chat

Yesss.. And you may make a good friend too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be a lot of fed up people at the mo. Lonely because of the season.

A group of forum men said they'd have a beer night out a while ago but I don't know if it ever happened.

Not a date, not for sex, just a beer/ coffee and a chat. Just 2 people meeting or even get a few locals together.

Have you ever mailed someone in the forum just for a social meet? Would you meet up just for a social like this?

Would happily go for a pint or a coffee. Nothing needs to come of it. Would just be a nice thing.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m meeting someone tomorrow for just a social. I love a coffee and a good natter, or in this case lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno

A social is a great way to meet people without any exceptions other than to have a coffee/drink and a nice chat

Yesss.. And you may make a good friend too. "

Ok you have convinced me. Before the answer would have been no. But after some serious consideration the answer is no.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Years ago I went through a phase of offering to meet unverified people just for coffee to get them verified, I never ever got taken up on it once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m meeting someone tomorrow for just a social. I love a coffee and a good natter, or in this case lunch

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i always treat a lady to lunch

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Years ago I went through a phase of offering to meet unverified people just for coffee to get them verified, I never ever got taken up on it once!

I've done that, ended up meeting again too

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Years ago I went through a phase of offering to meet unverified people just for coffee to get them verified, I never ever got taken up on it once!

Nice tinsel!

That’s a generous offer though

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I dunno

A social is a great way to meet people without any exceptions other than to have a coffee/drink and a nice chat

Yesss.. And you may make a good friend too.

Ok you have convinced me. Before the answer would have been no. But after some serious consideration the answer is no."

I think you should stop thinking about the goal. Otherwise, I can see a 'why can I not get a meet' or 'it's hard for single guys' thread turning up again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't trust a man to just want to keep it as a social.

I know...cynical me.

I only do a social first time. IF they can't handle that then that's their problem.

I hardly ever message someone but I enjoy a social of any size

I've done a handful of socials. I got fed up being groped under the table and being asked for blow jobs on the way back to the station.

Now, I decide whether I want to meet them by chatting on here, and then agree to either a drink before sex, or straight to the sex.

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By *ed PetalCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We look at meets as a social first and foremost. If we like you, then things may lead to play, but we are most of all looking for someone we can have a good chat with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno

A social is a great way to meet people without any exceptions other than to have a coffee/drink and a nice chat

Yesss.. And you may make a good friend too.

Ok you have convinced me. Before the answer would have been no. But after some serious consideration the answer is no.

I think you should stop thinking about the goal. Otherwise, I can see a 'why can I not get a meet' or 'it's hard for single guys' thread turning up again! "

What goal? And who says I don't get meets?

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I wouldn't trust a man to just want to keep it as a social.

I know...cynical me.

I only do a social first time. IF they can't handle that then that's their problem.

I hardly ever message someone but I enjoy a social of any size

I've done a handful of socials. I got fed up being groped under the table and being asked for blow jobs on the way back to the station.

Now, I decide whether I want to meet them by chatting on here, and then agree to either a drink before sex, or straight to the sex."

Ewwwww you are choosing unwisely hun. Although I have seen posts with this type of behaviour alot.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Would love to do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anticipation can be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone bew here. I actually prefer social meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In case it's piqued anyone's interest, I'll just drop a shameless plug in here for the Lick & Bicker social in Leicester on the 30th. Details in the meet forum.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

But I'm all tucked up in bed now with my horlicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did meet someone for just a social and I’m head over heels with her now. It really was just intended to put a face to a silhouette

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I did meet someone for just a social and I’m head over heels with her now. It really was just intended to put a face to a silhouette

The point I was trying to put across, but you said it more eloquently.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, I have done it before and will hopefully be doing it again soon. Sometimes it's just nice to talk to someone openly about this side of thing and the added bonus of a new friend is always lovely.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Oh Doris, you know I love you

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By *onyGalWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Yes I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes. I love meeting new people!

MrsH x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"But I'm all tucked up in bed now with my horlicks

It has been a while though

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I did meet someone for just a social and I’m head over heels with her now. It really was just intended to put a face to a silhouette

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done a few times one of my closest fab friends is straight and we meet up purely for socials and have become really good friends now. I have male friends I have never fucked too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would, especialy couples as we dont have many couple friends.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"As someone bew here. I actually prefer social meet"

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I would love to go on a few socials just for a coffee/cake and chat but sadly there are very few single ladies in my area.

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough

"Seems to be a lot of fed up people at the mo. Lonely because of the season.

A group of forum men said they'd have a beer night out a while ago but I don't know if it ever happened.

Not a date, not for sex, just a beer/ coffee and a chat. Just 2 people meeting or even get a few locals together.

Have you ever mailed someone in the forum just for a social meet? Would you meet up just for a social like this?

Yep..I've offered socials many times..in public places so obviously not for sex..but still sat here waiting for my 1st meet

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"As someone bew here. I actually prefer social meet

I used to have that on ma profile before I deleted it a few weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a social, cuppa and a chat. Bit of a flirt, see if there's any chemistry to take things further at a later date x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Years ago I went through a phase of offering to meet unverified people just for coffee to get them verified, I never ever got taken up on it once!

I've done this with a few people who moan about lack of a verification but never been taken up!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a social first, it's a nice way to meet someone & see if you enjoy their company. Still chat to a few I've met for a social when it's not progressed to anything more.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"As someone bew here. I actually prefer social meet"

Hello you

as I’ve said if you were closer I would meet you for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet for a social first as I like there to be that speak there and for safety reasons ... if I want sex with strangers then I go to a club or party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But saying that I absolutely love meeting people and putting the world to rights much better than on line messaging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to.

Part of the reason we are on here is that as we've grown and become parents and we've discovered new stuff we like in the bedroom means we've discovered a certain loneliness of not being able to chat to a friend about it. Hoping to find friends on here to share this way of life

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I enjoy a good social. It’s nice to be able to chat fab stuff with a likeminded person and not have to mind what you say. I’ve met some lovely people like that and had a right laugh too

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Love a social, any excuse for a bit of cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone fancy meeting me for social x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes best way to get to know people without the pressure to play "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I enjoy a good social. It’s nice to be able to chat fab stuff with a likeminded person and not have to mind what you say. I’ve met some lovely people like that and had a right laugh too

We should do that SJ

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I enjoy a good social. It’s nice to be able to chat fab stuff with a likeminded person and not have to mind what you say. I’ve met some lovely people like that and had a right laugh too

We should do that SJ

Oh I’d love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy a good social. It’s nice to be able to chat fab stuff with a likeminded person and not have to mind what you say. I’ve met some lovely people like that and had a right laugh too

We should do that SJ

Oh I’d love that

Could I join lol

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By *un Mike 2019Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I’d happily meet for a social, doesn’t have to go further. If it does, great. If it doesn’t then at least I’ve had a nice evening.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"But I'm all tucked up in bed now with my horlicks

It has been a while though

I know , you need to move that tea party to the midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done, it’s grwat to meet with like minded people and talk about fab stuff without having to mind what I say x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My plans for tonight have fallen through and a social would be most welcome

If I wasn't so far away I'd get you a mince pie and a hot pool boy.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"But I'm all tucked up in bed now with my horlicks

It has been a while though

I know , you need to move that tea party to the midlands

Or you could hop on a train

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"My plans for tonight have fallen through and a social would be most welcome

If I wasn't so far away I'd get you a mince pie and a hot pool boy.

Thank you Steel, you do look after me

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I think it's great to meet up and have a natter. I prefer this and it's always good to network.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"But I'm all tucked up in bed now with my horlicks

It has been a while though

I know , you need to move that tea party to the midlands

Or you could hop on a train

I could but I much prefer going north than south for some reason. I think I have some mental barrier about going south

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Years ago I went through a phase of offering to meet unverified people just for coffee to get them verified, I never ever got taken up on it once!

I've offered that before but they always started with the sex chat so I didn't meet them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Seems to be a lot of fed up people at the mo. Lonely because of the season.

A group of forum men said they'd have a beer night out a while ago but I don't know if it ever happened.

Not a date, not for sex, just a beer/ coffee and a chat. Just 2 people meeting or even get a few locals together.

Have you ever mailed someone in the forum just for a social meet? Would you meet up just for a social like this?

Yes we would and have said as much on previous threads like this. Nobody has ever taken us up on the offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Years ago I went through a phase of offering to meet unverified people just for coffee to get them verified, I never ever got taken up on it once!

I've offered that before but they always started with the sex chat so I didn't meet them. "

No one offered me this in London.

Anyone to verify me?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Years ago I went through a phase of offering to meet unverified people just for coffee to get them verified, I never ever got taken up on it once!

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I did that think it was 6 guys and 1 woman i met

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Seems to be a lot of fed up people at the mo. Lonely because of the season.

A group of forum men said they'd have a beer night out a while ago but I don't know if it ever happened.

Not a date, not for sex, just a beer/ coffee and a chat. Just 2 people meeting or even get a few locals together.

Have you ever mailed someone in the forum just for a social meet? Would you meet up just for a social like this?

I'd do it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"No one offered me this in London.

Anyone to verify me? "

Sure if you come here or attend the next STP

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/830083

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'd do it.

We do it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done yes just coffee chatting and storytelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one offered me this in London.

Anyone to verify me?

Sure if you come here or attend the next STP

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/830083"

Thank you for the offer that's quite far away though any social meet before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have and i have several times for socials, it’s great to chat to other guys about their experiences on here, to be honest most guys approached won’t mee for a social but there have been a few local guys over the years that have met up for a drink and chat, plus they get that important veri to show they are a genuine person, it’s a win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like a social tonight. Was hoping just to have a quiet night after all the mingling I’ve done, but I’m already lonely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to meet folk from the forum for a social meet. However...mostly everyone isn’t in Scotland, and that’s a long way to go for a coffee

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By *ereforthafunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Love a good social, nice to meet nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d love to meet folk from the forum for a social meet. However...mostly everyone isn’t in Scotland, and that’s a long way to go for a coffee

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so come sit on someones face too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a good social, nice to meet nice people.

fancy a pint?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

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no

i dont do meets anymore

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I wouldn't go to a social exclusively for guys.

I'm on here because I enjoy the company of women and sex with some of them.

A guys social has no draw for me, would rather spend my limited free time with my real mates.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

I absolutely love a social, be it with one two or many others.. host and attend them regularly and have met the most amazing people through this, some playmates and a majority just friends, there is a group of us that have done holidays, festivals, concerts, clubs, cinemas and all met through socials

Rabbit

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

"No one offered me this in London.

Anyone to verify me?

Sure if you come here or attend the next STP

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/830083

Thank you for the offer that's quite far away though any social meet before?"

Mine on 4th Jan in London

Rabbit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i have and i have several times for socials, it’s great to chat to other guys about their experiences on here, to be honest most guys approached won’t mee for a social but there have been a few local guys over the years that have met up for a drink and chat, plus they get that important veri to show they are a genuine person, it’s a win win

Yay!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"No one offered me this in London.

Anyone to verify me?

Sure if you come here or attend the next STP

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/830083

Thank you for the offer that's quite far away though any social meet before?

Mine on 4th Jan in London

Rabbit"

I must get to one of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only skipped a social a few times & only one of those times, wasn't regrettable.

I've met a guy from a forum thread to verify him. It was never going to go any further, so it was really nice to just chill. Was a great social too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i dont think id have met half the people i have had GG not allowed me to meet her for food and teach me the way of the jedi we only ate laughed and talked but was still fantastic as were most of the socials iv been on it can be great fun

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes...we would and have. It didn't actually happen for one reaon of another, but it's always nice to meet like minded people.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet up for a social. Anyone in the Midlands want to meet up? Free coffee and cake for the lucky lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP, you - or maybe it was the other way round

Either way, I'm glad we met

I love our little socials

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yes OP Ive done this a few times over the year were Ive met guys for socials linked to cycling...it's great

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We love a social. Chit chat witht like minded people.

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south

"I’m meeting someone tomorrow for just a social. I love a coffee and a good natter, or in this case lunch

Exactly this. Nothing wrong with meeting up for a coffee and a nattter, no pressure, no expectations, just a social

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Seems to be a lot of fed up people at the mo. Lonely because of the season.

A group of forum men said they'd have a beer night out a while ago but I don't know if it ever happened.

Not a date, not for sex, just a beer/ coffee and a chat. Just 2 people meeting or even get a few locals together.

Have you ever mailed someone in the forum just for a social meet? Would you meet up just for a social like this?

Not a chance !

Some people on here may be in need of a friend or two , and that’s cool .

We aren’t , and we are fortunate enough to have a very satisfying social circle of friends who have nothing to do with swinging .

The two are very separate things to us , and always will be .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few times I've asked but ladies are understandably wary or didn't seem to get the concept of meeting for a coffee just because we get on chatting on here. So I stopped asking, thinking it must be a fab thing or just me. Only to later be chastised for not meeting for a coffee when I was close to where another lady lives. Can't flipping win!

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I offer socials all the time never get a reply

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I absolutely love a social, be it with one two or many others.. host and attend them regularly and have met the most amazing people through this, some playmates and a majority just friends, there is a group of us that have done holidays, festivals, concerts, clubs, cinemas and all met through socials

Rabbit "

Ey up Rabbit, loved your kiss after the Manc social last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I offer socials all the time never get a reply"

i have a theory but you won’t like it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've got a social tonight now, if he turns up

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I've got a social tonight now, if he turns up

Happy for you.

. Seen your profile, guy who let you down is a fool.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Some people on here may be in need of a friend or two , and that’s cool .

We aren’t , and we are fortunate enough to have a very satisfying social circle of friends who have nothing to do with swinging .

The two are very separate things to us , and always will be . "

I have quite a few vanilla mates as well, and it won't change

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

Rabbit

Ey up Rabbit, loved your kiss after the Manc social last year

Hey hey Ace

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Rabbit

Ey up Rabbit, loved your kiss after the Manc social last year

Hey hey Ace

You nearly made me miss ma train though

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?"

But have you mailed them?

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Seems to be a lot of fed up people at the mo. Lonely because of the season.

A group of forum men said they'd have a beer night out a while ago but I don't know if it ever happened.

Not a date, not for sex, just a beer/ coffee and a chat. Just 2 people meeting or even get a few locals together.

Have you ever mailed someone in the forum just for a social meet? Would you meet up just for a social like this?

Absolutely love social meets. I have gained some of my best friends through purely social meetings.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

But have you mailed them?

Nahhhhhhhhh. Experience tells me my efforts at a beautifully crafted personalised intro message would go straight in the bin, even if it's just for a cuppa.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

But have you mailed them?

Nahhhhhhhhh. Experience tells me my efforts at a beautifully crafted personalised intro message would go straight in the bin, even if it's just for a cuppa.

If you're ever in my area, you're welcome to message me for a cuppa and a chat. We can compare our latest shirts, I received something quite amazing for Christmas...

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

But have you mailed them?

Nahhhhhhhhh. Experience tells me my efforts at a beautifully crafted personalised intro message would go straight in the bin, even if it's just for a cuppa.

If you're ever in my area, you're welcome to message me for a cuppa and a chat. We can compare our latest shirts, I received something quite amazing for Christmas..."

Excellent offer, thanks muchly.

I came so close to purchasing a couple of awesome shirts in the sales.

Would have put one of them back anyway, it had short sleeves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

But have you mailed them?

Nahhhhhhhhh. Experience tells me my efforts at a beautifully crafted personalised intro message would go straight in the bin, even if it's just for a cuppa.

If you're ever in my area, you're welcome to message me for a cuppa and a chat. We can compare our latest shirts, I received something quite amazing for Christmas..."

You both have awesome clothes.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

But have you mailed them?

Nahhhhhhhhh. Experience tells me my efforts at a beautifully crafted personalised intro message would go straight in the bin, even if it's just for a cuppa.

If you're ever in my area, you're welcome to message me for a cuppa and a chat. We can compare our latest shirts, I received something quite amazing for Christmas...

Excellent offer, thanks muchly.

I came so close to purchasing a couple of awesome shirts in the sales.

Would have put one of them back anyway, it had short sleeves.

Oh, I only wear short sleeved! If we did the sales together we could buy up all the good shirts between us. It could be a marriage made in heaven

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

But have you mailed them?

Nahhhhhhhhh. Experience tells me my efforts at a beautifully crafted personalised intro message would go straight in the bin, even if it's just for a cuppa.

If you're ever in my area, you're welcome to message me for a cuppa and a chat. We can compare our latest shirts, I received something quite amazing for Christmas...

You both have awesome clothes.

We do, we do.

Polly has better hair though.

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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago

where ever

Think this is a really good idea.

Would love a pint and a natter . Make new friends xx

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

But have you mailed them?

Nahhhhhhhhh. Experience tells me my efforts at a beautifully crafted personalised intro message would go straight in the bin, even if it's just for a cuppa.

If you're ever in my area, you're welcome to message me for a cuppa and a chat. We can compare our latest shirts, I received something quite amazing for Christmas...

You both have awesome clothes.

Thank you

If you ever fancy a wander round the new year sales, a cuppa and a nice slice of cake...

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By *rBlitterMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm always happy to meet for a social - when nothing is going to happen, and both parties know it, there's no worry that things won't go right meaning both parties can be much more relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

But have you mailed them?

Nahhhhhhhhh. Experience tells me my efforts at a beautifully crafted personalised intro message would go straight in the bin, even if it's just for a cuppa.

If you're ever in my area, you're welcome to message me for a cuppa and a chat. We can compare our latest shirts, I received something quite amazing for Christmas...

You both have awesome clothes.

Thank you

If you ever fancy a wander round the new year sales, a cuppa and a nice slice of cake..."

I don't do sales but next time I'm over that way I'll give you a shout.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Is anyone mailing the people on the thread and asking to meet for a coffee?

Not yet.

I need to read the thread from the start and pick out a few victims......

I've Fabbed a few profiles I'd really enjoy a "hands above the table" social with.

As always, miles are a challenge. But hey ho, nothing Fabbed nothing gained eh?

But have you mailed them?

Nahhhhhhhhh. Experience tells me my efforts at a beautifully crafted personalised intro message would go straight in the bin, even if it's just for a cuppa.

If you're ever in my area, you're welcome to message me for a cuppa and a chat. We can compare our latest shirts, I received something quite amazing for Christmas...

You both have awesome clothes.

Thank you

If you ever fancy a wander round the new year sales, a cuppa and a nice slice of cake...

I don't do sales but next time I'm over that way I'll give you a shout.

Maybe the Richmond Tea Room in Manchester? A while since I've been there but it's always been a lovely place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love coffee meets with fellow fabbers. Great to be able to chat with like minded people and who knows what it might lead to in time

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m having a fab night out tonight for my birthday. Just lots of us getting together for fun and frolicks of the non sexual variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m having a fab night out tonight for my birthday. Just lots of us getting together for fun and frolicks of the non sexual variety. "

Happy birthday

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By *palWoman
over a year ago

The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk

I would be happy to meet up for a local social,no agendas just chat over a coffee and maybe make a new friend.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

well.... as i find, rather than just talking about it, if someone was actually bold enough to get off derriere and do it, it would probably take off...

just name a pub in the area (not in the the actual thread).... pick a corner of said pub.... and just have a general drinkie with folks....

remember people...social is short for socialising.. so if anyone is going with expectation of more, they are going for the wrong reason!! as long as that is made perfectly clear.... i have had some brilliant group drinks with lovely people

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"well.... as i find, rather than just talking about it, if someone was actually bold enough to get off derriere and do it, it would probably take off...

just name a pub in the area (not in the the actual thread).... pick a corner of said pub.... and just have a general drinkie with folks....

Someone in my area did just that a few months ago. About 7 or 8 people were there at various times and I gained a new verification from it too. Was a good evening

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over a year ago

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

ive pmed a few people and have met them for a social drink.

coffee or tea or even alcohol your also welcome to have a cream cake as well.

Even more so whilst ive been traveling a bit.

Though im not interested in a veri meet social, just enjoyed the company and someone to chat with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m having a fab night out tonight for my birthday. Just lots of us getting together for fun and frolicks of the non sexual variety.

Happy birthday

Ta x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be a lot of fed up people at the mo. Lonely because of the season.

A group of forum men said they'd have a beer night out a while ago but I don't know if it ever happened.

Not a date, not for sex, just a beer/ coffee and a chat. Just 2 people meeting or even get a few locals together.

Have you ever mailed someone in the forum just for a social meet? Would you meet up just for a social like this?

I tried arranging something. 2 of the guys said ‘as long as it’s not for sex..’. Seriously, I would happily go out for a beer with some for United I’ve read and written too.....unless they’re fake.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

I arrange these regularly in all different areas, including London and Heathrow and always meet up with lots of great people only for drinks and chats

Rabbit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are interested in social-only meets.

Glad to see this thread because we thought it would be a non-starter for a site like this.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"We look at meets as a social first and foremost. If we like you, then things may lead to play, but we are most of all looking for someone we can have a good chat with. "

Someone on my wavelength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes think it might be quite nice but then sometimes think not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are interested in social-only meets.

Glad to see this thread because we thought it would be a non-starter for a site like this."

Have a look in the Meets section of the forum, I'm sure there will be some near you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a social meet make new friends and possibly playmates

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