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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped.

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Yes ??

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped. "

Once, at a party, I was walking along a crowded corridor with a queue going in the opposite direction and the lights went out. Someone grabbed me and gave me the most fabulous kiss, and instead of stopping I carried on without looking back when the lights came on, slightly embarrassed as to who it might be.

I assumed they would come and find me but they never did, and I never found out who it was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I'm too rubbish at spotting the signs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. If I arranged to meet a sexy man I wouldn't forget.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes ?? "

Really annoying isn't it. lol

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped. "
yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. If I arranged to meet a sexy man I wouldn't forget."

Ignore that. I read the OP 3 times and still read it wrong.

I need a drink.

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By *orro_sMan
over a year ago

Swansea

More than once!!! I'm one of those that even if a woman has served herself up on a plate, I'd not see the signs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering if it is happening at the moment with a work colleague. I'm not very perceptive. Friendliness or flirting, who knows

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Female im so shit at fliting unless your obvious and say would u like to join us i wouldent have a clue

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Many times over the years, for example getting talking to an absolute stunner in the first bar on a night out and there being an obvious attraction, but walking away because friends wanted to move on to the next bar and I've thought to myself "it's fine, I'll see her later" and either never seeing her again or seeing she's with someone else by the end of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm absolutely useless at picking up signals and am notorious for not giving any out.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped. "

Too often, I can be terrible at reading the signs... one meet I had years ago before joining here, met for coffee and I went tot he toilet. When I came back she slid a napkin across the table. I opened it and it said "I want to fuck you" - I got that one!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

I’m useless at reading signs men are interested and I’m crap at flirting! Can make me come across as standoffish!

So yes I have lost out due to my utter inability to read signals

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m useless at reading signs men are interested and I’m crap at flirting! Can make me come across as standoffish!

So yes I have lost out due to my utter inability to read signals

Miss "

lol glad I'm not the only one.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Prior to Fab no.

Since joining Fab there’s a part of me that doesn’t take flirting seriously. The little voice that spent too long in the forums says ‘ah. It’s cos you’re fat and he thinks you’re easy’.

However, that little voice can be shook into ‘it’s cos you’re fat, pretty and super sexy’. Sometimes just takes a few more shakes.

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

All the time. Story of my life

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I'm that bad I probably still don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

part of what life is about .... if only !

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Unless someone tells me directly then I probably won’t get it.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped. "

Yes

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

In real life, all the time..

I'm useless at reading subtle hints.

Friends tell me later I completly ignored the fitty flirting with me

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By *ed PetalCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Yes, in fact, I almost missed out on Mr RP because I am shit at reading the signs. Thank god he was unusually tenacious in my case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nearly missed out on my ex..she had to ask me if I was ever going to kiss her..I stood there shocked going..ohhh

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

Unless a woman carries a huge billboard outside saying she likes me I normally have no idea.

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By *onyGalWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Who hasn’t

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By *hris55555Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Always the way grrr

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Unless a woman carries a huge billboard outside saying she likes me I normally have no idea."

I'm the same.... Apparently...

I need to have it spelt out to me.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Way to many to remember especially in my late teens and early twenty's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time, terrible at reading the signals & I can't flirt either. No wonder I'm single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it happen to me

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s happened to me but it has needed someone else to point it out. I’m not good at reading the signals lol. Many years ago a lady made a massive play for me at work. In the end I plucked up the courage to ask her outright.

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London


"Unless a woman carries a huge billboard outside saying she likes me I normally have no idea.

I'm the same.... Apparently...

I need to have it spelt out to me. "

I was at a disco the other night and a bloke said to me this woman had been checking me out all evening but i hadn't noticed her!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've had it a lot - sometimes missing out completely or just having to catch up. Must be common

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes, famously so!

It requires a flashing neon sign stating it whilst simultaneously being beaten around the head with her underwear for me to catch on.

I sometimes wonder how I've ever managed to actually have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’m terrible at reading the signs. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a couple times when i was young naive and didnt realise women were as horny if not more so than men i was such a fool

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Often

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Unless a woman carries a huge billboard outside saying she likes me I normally have no idea.

I'm the same.... Apparently...

I need to have it spelt out to me.

I was at a disco the other night and a bloke said to me this woman had been checking me out all evening but i hadn't noticed her!"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped. "

Yes. How stupid could I be? next time, less thinking and more action.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Yes. I sometimes want to press reset on my life and start again I certainly would be more straight to the point with some of the ladies I have missed out on. Or I may have got slapped more lol

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford Dublin


"Here's a question. Have you ever not realized a sexy person was coming on to you and later when it was to late the penny dropped. "

Yes quite a few times

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

For those ladies out there - try being a bit more blatant and obvious. It certainly helps me anyway.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Yes.

Thanks for reminding me. Although it was many years ago, I was soooo naiive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago. Now I'm a little more clued up with the signs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never. I'm too rubbish at spotting the signs "

I want to fuvk you rectum !

Is it clear enough for you now???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but this has happened to me a lot. Either I am massively unattractive or men are stupendously thick. (or both)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One day before carnival this year near London eye there was DG on open floor, I was enjoying and dancing and met lovely lady gave hug. Once DG stop playing music I looked but she just vanished, cannot forget her sexy smile and curly hairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, with a couple of people I now look back and am pretty sure I misread a situation and missed an opportunity, and maybe with more as I'm hopeless at reading the signs - if a woman wants to get close to me they pretty much have to grab hold of me and kiss my face off, and then I *might* notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, i’m really bad at picking up those kind of signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can literally have a face full of fanny and be thinking 'is she coming on to me here ?'

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Unless a woman carries a huge billboard outside saying she likes me I normally have no idea.

I'm the same.... Apparently...

I need to have it spelt out to me.

I was at a disco the other night and a bloke said to me this woman had been checking me out all evening but i hadn't noticed her!"

It's normally my friends that point it out to me, so ladies please let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupendously thick then. (Head in hands, shaking head incredulously)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stupendously thick then. (Head in hands, shaking head incredulously)"

Never under-estimate the stupidity of men

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Often "

I sometimes require a fancy a fuck

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

happens way too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stupendously thick then. (Head in hands, shaking head incredulously)

Never under-estimate the stupidity of men "

Yes I am learning that here, and despairing!

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