FabSwingers.com forum: Don't look back in anger

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It might be a bit early but as we're heading into the last week or so of the year I'm starting to look back over 2018 and take stock.

I for one will be very glad to see the end of what has been a thoroughly crappy year, but there are always lessons to be learnt.

So dear fabbers, what have you learnt from your 2018?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have learned jointly that blood is by no means thicker than water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to believe half the shit people tell you on here....(but can you believe that.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"We have learned jointly that blood is by no means thicker than water.

I would agree with you completely

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Take out pet insurance bloody expensive to fix our furry friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some people wont be told when they cause huge amounts of shit and dont care about the consequences

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

This year I've had to walk away from my family as their attitudes and hypocrisy was just staggering, lost someone in my life that was very dear to me and struggled with a lot of things.

I do see all of these things as making me stronger in many ways and I've had some amazing positives too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might be a bit early but as we're heading into the last week or so of the year I'm starting to look back over 2018 and take stock.

I for one will be very glad to see the end of what has been a thoroughly crappy year, but there are always lessons to be learnt.

So dear fabbers, what have you learnt from your 2018?"

Not to tell people to use full stop!...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

ive learnt i always come through the shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that no matter how dark it may be, there will always be light eventually x

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I've learnt to take risks as they have paid off for me and I'm now in a much better place than I was in 2017

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont believe the hype ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VERY cheesy but I honestly feel like I've 'found myself' this year

! I've changed so much and grew in confidence, I'm looking forward to 2019!

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

That not reading the news for a while is simultaneously the best and worst thing you could do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That not reading the news for a while is simultaneously the best and worst thing you could do."

I stopped watching the news this year, quite nice being obvious to what’s going on.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Don't trust Australians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait 24 hours and everything can seem totally different.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.

In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.

2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned a shitload about boats, through necessity rather than desire. Oh, yes, fab isn't swarming with hot women desperate to throw themselves at my feet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have learned jointly that blood is by no means thicker than water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year has been the shittest of the shit for me and quite frankly I’ve been willing it to be over since January 8th!

I’ve learnt that you can’t relly trust anyone even those that profess to have your best interests at heart.

But I am going into 2019 with a positive attitude as I need to make it a good year, for my sanity at least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learnt to love myself a lot more this year and to accept nice compliments.

I’ve also met a handful of genuinely nice people that have had an amazing impact on my life xx

On the Fab side, it’s confirmed my thoughts that there are a lot of bitter & twisted people in this lifestyle that hide behind their keyboards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learnt security at airports is shite, if drones can shut them down!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This year I've had to walk away from my family as their attitudes and hypocrisy was just staggering, lost someone in my life that was very dear to me and struggled with a lot of things.

I do see all of these things as making me stronger in many ways and I've had some amazing positives too. "

Iv walked away from a close family member. She is partly to blame for my mental health issues. Im much better off without her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.

In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.

2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with

I second that - Merry Christmas xx

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.

In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.

2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with

I second that - Merry Christmas xx"

Merry Christmas to you

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.

In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.

2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with

I second that - Merry Christmas xx

Merry Christmas to you

I've also learnt that you can get away with semi pornographic clothing if everyone is looking at your boobs...

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Ive just had confirmed what I’ve always known. I’m drawn to kind, caring, funny people and I know a fair few of them luckily.

In Fab terms I’ve learnt the hard way that some people are bitter and dissatisfied in life and will look either for sympathy or for someone to blame on here. I avoid those people.

2019 will be the same as other years. No malice, no anger and no grudges. Enjoy the time I have with those I enjoy spending time with

I second that - Merry Christmas xx

Merry Christmas to you

I've also learnt that you can get away with semi pornographic clothing if everyone is looking at your boobs... "

I’ve learnt that as well

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I was having a ok 2018 my mum was 70 in mid November however on Halloween night some girl in a group trick or treating decided to punch my mum in the stomach for a bag of sweets then the week before her birthday she followed from Santander and was picked pocket.I will be glad to see the back of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell your loved ones everyday how much you love them as you never know what's around the cornerv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned to take nothing for granted, and that I have some truly wonderful friends.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It is a bit early! At least get Christmas out of the way.

I'll stick to fab stuff I've learned -

? That attractive person I think is ridiculously hot? Life's too short not to try so I'll keep trying in 2019.

? People aren't that cuntish but you have to be open to listening to them.

? People are hypocrites and sometimes that can hurt. But people are also marvellous things as well and friendship is wonderful.

? I'm quite cute really. I need to lose some of the chub but I also need to not listen to "mehs" about my looks.

? And I've learned that you're not that bad OP.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

And for some annoying reasons my beautiful bullets are now shitty question marks. Slight-rage-but-not-much-as-Christmas-Eve-Eve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was better than the year before but still room for improvement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If 2019 is good as 2018 then we’re very happy bunnies

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

This year I've learnt that I really enjoy wearing ladies cloths, having sex in them and that I feel confident.

Although I've done it previously very occasionally privately, this year Alex came out. I've been out dressed, visited some ace clubs and met some great people all for the first time in 2018.

Roll on 2019

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve learned that while swinging was a fun filled hobby for us for seven years , it has little or no appeal anymore .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already knew it- that some people on here are brilliant.

STP & MLS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a year of two halves - quiet as heaven during a meditation first half, busy as hell second half, punctuated by two fabulous holidays. Cracking year all round for me, but challenging for a couple of close friends and relatives that I wish a much better 2019.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Take out pet insurance bloody expensive to fix our furry friends

Make sure it’s a lifelong policy & not a fixed amount!!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Take out pet insurance bloody expensive to fix our furry friends

Make sure it’s a lifelong policy & not a fixed amount!!"
I best read the small print thanks

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Take out pet insurance bloody expensive to fix our furry friends

Make sure it’s a lifelong policy & not a fixed amount!! I best read the small print thanks

I’m about to claim back £1500 but only insured to £4K. Dog is allergic to fecking everything!! How can a dog be allergic to grass & meat?????

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I have learnt that Fab does have happy endings. I marry TH777 on Friday. We met on here in August 2015 on the nocturnal thread. Poor man had to work so hard for it

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

This year started out so well, plans made and holidays discussed then in March it all changed when my partner suddenly died, April I lost my dad, June I lost a nephew, then and aunt, this year has basically turned to shit and I will be very happy to see the last of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have learnt that Fab does have happy endings. I marry TH777 on Friday. We met on here in August 2015 on the nocturnal thread. Poor man had to work so hard for it

That’s lovely. Congratulations. Have a wonderful day

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt nothing and need to get a life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm happy just being me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This year started out so well, plans made and holidays discussed then in March it all changed when my partner suddenly died, April I lost my dad, June I lost a nephew, then and aunt, this year has basically turned to shit and I will be very happy to see the last of it

xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing and it’s all about the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt that not all blondes are to be avoided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I learnt that not all blondes are to be avoided

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Are you following me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I learnt that not all blondes are to be avoided

Are you following me!!

Hahaha...you wish!!!!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"It is a bit early! At least get Christmas out of the way.

I'll stick to fab stuff I've learned -

? That attractive person I think is ridiculously hot? Life's too short not to try so I'll keep trying in 2019.

? People aren't that cuntish but you have to be open to listening to them.

? People are hypocrites and sometimes that can hurt. But people are also marvellous things as well and friendship is wonderful.

? I'm quite cute really. I need to lose some of the chub but I also need to not listen to "mehs" about my looks.

? And I've learned that you're not that bad OP.

Thanks. I'll pop the cheque in the post, I guess that's the nicest thing you're ever going to say about me...

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

I've had a great fab year. And learnt that I can actually be attracted to bald guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years is a long investment in a relationship. If it doesn't work, then so be it.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I've learned that if anyone has a problem with me... then it's their problem and not mine

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've learnt to please myself more and not to give in to pushy people for a quiet life. Doing that makes things worse in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more desirable that i believed

It is possible to laugh someone into bed

That all those years thrashing my fingers playing olympic gold on the mega drive building speed endurance have paid off

That i can cum from bjs

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I can take my sweet old mum to newzealand to see her childhood friend...that old folk are mainly deaf and they fart a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politicians don’t represent our interests, only their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im more desirable that i believed

It is possible to laugh someone into bed

That all those years thrashing my fingers playing olympic gold on the mega drive building speed endurance have paid off

That i can cum from bjs

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oh and im not as cold hearted as i used to think

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Politicians don’t represent our interests, only their own. "
sometimes what looks like an expensive garden chair is in fact a boob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that in my working life pretty much no one has my back, I thought different, it's made me harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Politicians don’t represent our interests, only their own. sometimes what looks like an expensive garden chair is in fact a boob"

That many fabbers browse the forums on their phones without their glasses on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that trust is a very fragile thing.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I learned to live and to take less for granted. I learned to not be ashamed to love with everything I have. 2018 will be remembered for loss and for life.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

That TB and I are absolutely fing awesome together

unbelievable crap has been thrown at us this year and we got through it together with ease. Got myself a keeper

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

That I still have a lot to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the World owes me evetything. I'm going to take it, Im going to make it!

Stone Sour - Mercy

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

That I actually like sex

I've learnt that there are good people around, even in the world of FAB. Met some lovely people this year and hope to meet some more lovely people next year.

Still need to work on my self-confidence and self-esteem issues though.

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