FabSwingers.com forum: Are you truthful on your profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does it say everything that you're looking for? Or do you hold some things back?

For mystery? Because people will say they're into the same things just to get a meet? Perhaps you're ashamed? Private?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we can’t be any clearer on ours

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Think my profile is clear about what i want/am looking for. Its long enough lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it say everything that you're looking for? Or do you hold some things back?

For mystery? Because people will say they're into the same things just to get a meet? Perhaps you're ashamed? Private?

My profile is purposely bare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you made me go and look at my profile cos I couldn't remember what it says!

Yep!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I think mine is clear about interaction but there isn’t anything sexual on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need someone to write my profile. My profile I crap!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Yes we are....and occasionally people read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is pretty honest. Sarcastic, silly etc but honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine couldn't be any more direct, but I would estimate that less than 1% of messages I get are from people who've actually read it.anf of that 1% even less have chosen not to ignore what it says!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to think so. If anything we hold a little in reserve as we prefer the 'understate, over deliver' mentality. No wild claims or boasts.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes it does,although I am aware it can be abused,as I don't believe people on here when they say they want the same thing.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Mine is perfectly truthful

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We’re as truthful as we can be, it’s still a big mystery to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Mine ONLY has the music I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it say everything that you're looking for? Or do you hold some things back?

For mystery? Because people will say they're into the same things just to get a meet? Perhaps you're ashamed? Private?

Get a grip! We’d never get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd like to think ours is as clear as can be although it doesn't seen to stop the 'are you up for a meet now' brigade.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it say everything that you're looking for? Or do you hold some things back?

For mystery? Because people will say they're into the same things just to get a meet? Perhaps you're ashamed? Private?

My profile is purposely bare "

Does it work the way you want it to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think mine is clear about interaction but there isn’t anything sexual on there. "

*cough*

shagging reindeers

*cough*

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Probably too much, think we scare everyone away lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I think mine is clear about interaction but there isn’t anything sexual on there.

*cough*

shagging reindeers

*cough*

Oooops! Fair point, well made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very clear indeed. Not that some people take any notice. We can't see the need to lie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like to think so. If anything we hold a little in reserve as we prefer the 'understate, over deliver' mentality. No wild claims or boasts."

That's cool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it say everything that you're looking for? Or do you hold some things back?

For mystery? Because people will say they're into the same things just to get a meet? Perhaps you're ashamed? Private?

Get a grip! We’d never get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do let people read between the lines a little, but I quickly clarify what I’m on about if they message so as to not waste any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lies, lies, its all lies....but I keep it hidden so you’ll never know what a terrible old liar and fantasist I am....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We'd like to think ours is as clear as can be although it doesn't seen to stop the 'are you up for a meet now' brigade."

Those types mail everyone online. It's not your fault. X

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm just a straight guy looking for a lady, no kinks etc to speak of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it say everything that you're looking for? Or do you hold some things back?

For mystery? Because people will say they're into the same things just to get a meet? Perhaps you're ashamed? Private?

I have been truthful in what on mine, but it's more a case do others think I'm making it up or not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm truthful on my profile, left a few interests off, prefer to get to know someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clear as far as it goes, but with capacity for a smidgen of intrigue.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

The only thing that isn’t is my location which varies depending on where I might be working next.

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough

Yep..100% honest on mine..probably why I don't get anywhere

Love reading some profiles..but I always respect the profiles that say there not looking for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile truthfully tells the basics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I am not even truthful to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even remember what's on mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My profile truthfully tells the basics"

Brilliant

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Why would you not be true full

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have 101 do's and don'ts but only list 100, so there's an element of surprise. I don't aim to cover everything, just give a sense of what I'm about and what's maybe on the cards.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Mine is just a bunch of ramblings which I attempt to pass off as a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I'm truthful

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Does it say everything that you're looking for? Or do you hold some things back?

For mystery? Because people will say they're into the same things just to get a meet? Perhaps you're ashamed? Private?

I like your profile. It makes me smile

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Mines about as accurate as it gets. I forgot my own birthday this year so I’d balls it right up if I had a lie to keep track of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had several profiles over the time I've been on here - and it makes no difference to the messages I receive.

I had one a long while ago that had one word " bollocks "

Same messages

Then I had a few more words

" don't be a knob head "

Guess what - loads of knob heads messaged me

So mine is as honest as it's going to get now - I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's deliberately vague.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Mine is about as clear as I can be, I could go into more depth and state more what I want but I think it's the law of diminishing returns. After a certain point people just don't read them.

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By *ood luking looserMan
over a year ago

Town

Mines totally legit. That's prob why I don't get much attention. Being a shy guy puts people off I guess. But there's no point in trying to be something I'm not. I'll soon get caught out when I'm leaving the party early.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Think mine is as honest as I can be in saying what i am looking for and have to offer, but its not working so maybe it just crap anyway.

Open to suggestions.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Totally truthful, lots of people don't read it though so it could say anything!

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Yes, I’ve nothing to hide.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're truthful about what we want and offer. However I'm only 5ft half and inch and it says 5ft 1inch, our names aren't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 and our dates of birth are out by a month or two.

Nothing is ever quite as it appears

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I try to be as honest as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep loads of peeps don’t read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is just one big lie. I'm not even male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think mine covers everything.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"I have 101 do's and don'ts but only list 100, so there's an element of surprise. I don't aim to cover everything, just give a sense of what I'm about and what's maybe on the cards. "

We'd like to think that we are in the same place as this.

We say enough, about what we are like and what we want but leave room for potential suitors to discuss and discover.

We really aren't in to sex by numbers, preferring a more organic relationship that can evolve.

As is often said here, it's your profile, run it as you see fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a point yes, but not entirely open about everything. Whether that counts as truthful I don't think is the case since there are many elements of my life I haven't mentioned on my profile so just because some information is held back, does that really make it not truthful?

Semantics maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines truthful but still some say it's fake can't win sometimes

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I leave it up to others to decide if it's the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth or somewhere in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it say everything that you're looking for? Or do you hold some things back?

For mystery? Because people will say they're into the same things just to get a meet? Perhaps you're ashamed? Private?

Hell yes no point not being!!

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

100% unlike some on here

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By *urhamjayMan
over a year ago

Durham

Mine is but my age is a big issue because I look older. I've never encountered this before I was on here (well maybe people were being kind). It's certainly not helping.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Mine says “not looking to meet” so yep it’s truthful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile reflects my mood and outlook at the time

Up for meets, it's 'fuller'

Not meeting, it's 'basic'

Profiles should be dynamic in that respect (imho)

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

No point in trying to get meets, if I turned up, and it turned out I'm not what they are looking for.

And anyone who can't read to the end of my magnificent octopus of a profile has a short attention span, which is normally a red flag for me.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think ours gives a holistic view of who we are.

Even our private face photos are unglamed everyday representations i.e. this is as bad as it gets.

Which possibly explains one of our veri comments.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I think mine is very clear, as to what I'm looking and not looking for.

I got told once, "parts are quite negative & ranty, which is the opposite of what you're actually like"

Maybe, but it means I can copy & paste those lines back to people, who send 'I've looked at your profile' messages, thst shows they havn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is just one big lie. I'm not even male."

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To a point yes, but not entirely open about everything. Whether that counts as truthful I don't think is the case since there are many elements of my life I haven't mentioned on my profile so just because some information is held back, does that really make it not truthful?

Semantics maybe."

At least 3 things on my profile are true. I see no harm in not mentioning things. People don't need to know I collect cheese and wear odd socks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is but my age is a big issue because I look older. I've never encountered this before I was on here (well maybe people were being kind). It's certainly not helping."

Have you got any smiley pics?

The sort where you're caught off guard having a laugh with mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine at the moment tells you everything you need to know. Which is nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No my grandma didnt catch me wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True to a degree, we don’t list everything we like as something’s we’d like them to discover over chats x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine just has random words on it. Not a menu.

Strange mumblings written in caveish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bluntly honest. Still doesn't mean folk read it though judging from the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it say everything that you're looking for? Or do you hold some things back?

For mystery? Because people will say they're into the same things just to get a meet? Perhaps you're ashamed? Private?

People I have met have said they think mine is quite funny which is why they approached me, and despite warning that I am equally hilarious in the sack, every one has been back for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, best way. Saves any awkward moments or horror when the truth is discovered - because it always will be lol

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