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Tis the season to rant about meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before we are all meant to get festive and jolly does anyone wish to vent about a meet?

I had one today. Turned up and left within 3 mins. The person greeted me and had made minimal effort. Their house was a dive. Nice outdoors, not inside. The phrase mind the mess was uttered and that's forgivable this time of year, but then mind the cat litter was uttered, I braced and thought, okay give the benefit of the doubt, got to the second floor and the smell of cig smoke and stale ash hit me.

At that point I'm pretty sure I smelt cat poop.

I just point blank told the lady I was not comfortable being in a house which smelt of cigs so much, asked to leave and stood in cat tish on the way out.

Was I rude? And if so was it deserved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im good not meeting yill new year on my period

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Blimey!! That's horrible, We go OCD with cleaning if anyone comes here!!

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By *oungcoup69Couple
over a year ago

hidden garden

Wow! That sounds horrible! That's not even not being house proud... That just sounds disgusting. If you know your having company at least clean up a bit! We just keep encountering fakes or time wasters ourselves just got to keep on hoping haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manky

If someone can't keep their home clean then I question their personal hygiene

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey!! That's horrible, We go OCD with cleaning if anyone comes here!!"

I know, asked to move a meet back a day once cause work was hectic and the house felt like a tip. Luckily the woman involved understood and said she was happy to wait an hour or two so I could get the house presentable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Manky

If someone can't keep their home clean then I question their personal hygiene "

Yeah that was went through my head. I don't like to be judgy but you cannot help in a house like that but think, "is the person sexually and hygienically speaking, clean?"

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Did her profile say she was a smoker ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did her profile say she was a smoker ?"

Nope.

I'm not against meeting smokers. But I thought it was convention not to leave stale ash around a house.

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I’ve had meetings like that, the worst was a guy said he could accom & was a non smoker, but it turned out he rented a room above a pub & smoked like a chimney & both he & his room stank of old fags.

I turned round & left pretty sharpish

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Blimey!! That's horrible, We go OCD with cleaning if anyone comes here!!"

That's like me. And I still apologise for the mess as though my house is usually even more pristine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had meetings like that, the worst was a guy said he could accom & was a non smoker, but it turned out he rented a room above a pub & smoked like a chimney & both he & his room stank of old fags.

I turned round & left pretty sharpish "

Yeah, I mean to say you can host but mean only in a rented room is a annoyance but forgivable, but something like smoking isn't. It's the kind of thing you declare.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey!! That's horrible, We go OCD with cleaning if anyone comes here!!

That's like me. And I still apologise for the mess as though my house is usually even more pristine "

I apologised once when hosting and the lady politely told me that if her house was this tidy she'd love it - apparently kids ruin everything? :p

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Blimey!! That's horrible, We go OCD with cleaning if anyone comes here!!

That's like me. And I still apologise for the mess as though my house is usually even more pristine "

Exactly x

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