FabSwingers.com forum: Why do you have friends pics?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do you have pics for friends only? It encourages total strangers to send friend requests. Why don't you have them as public or just private?

Do you have friends pics to entice people to mail you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have photos I want those on my friends list, and not others, to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I can vet who is able to see my face...

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I have photos I want those on my friends list, and not others, to see. "

This.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I want people to send me unsolicited friends requests so I can see their private pictures then delete them.

Not really, I'm not sure, it's just a habit putting them to friends only. The people I am friends with are the ones I'd like to meet, so I'd like them to see my face and more body pics before we do, and it saves me having to send them in a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have photos I want those on my friends list, and not others, to see.

This.

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause it’s a added bonus for friends and I don’t want every Tom, Dick and Harry looking at them, but mostly Dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

random friend requests get deleted, my private pics are for the people i’ve met already, basically pics that most aren’t interested in seeing and a few face pics too.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t have rude photos and I don’t have face photos either. I rotate all of my photos so they’ve all been public at some point. They’re just there.

I tell people there’s nothing to see so no point being friends because there’s nothing to see.

I’m only friends with people I have regular contact with and they just get to see more of the same pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I want people to send me unsolicited friends requests so I can see their private pictures then delete them.

Hell yeah to your first point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"random friend requests get deleted, my private pics are for the people i’ve met already, basically pics that most aren’t interested in seeing and a few face pics too."

They might be interested in seeing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines are face pics, think new friends are probably disappointed to find there's nothing juicy in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"random friend requests get deleted, my private pics are for the people i’ve met already, basically pics that most aren’t interested in seeing and a few face pics too.

They might be interested in seeing them.

they’re me in my birthday suit, and let’s face it, no one really wants to see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends pics are usually just ones moved around a bit from public. They've generally all been seen. Some are vaguely ruder than others and I still have no face on show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep our more explicit pics for friends only. Let's face it - who wants to be hit in a face with a cock or a pussy as soon as they open the profile (sorry friends

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Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends pics identify me so only for those I'm happy that I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only face pictures in my friends pictures, nothing rude. I only add someone who I've met, arranging to meet or am willing to meet, I ignore all other friend invites

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

ha. when my profile was open i kept them in private rather than friends then no fuvker knew they where there unlese i wanted them to know

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

They're like a loyalty bonus

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I keep my face pic on there and if I ever have slightly more risqué pictures then that's where they'd be too!

Generally if I'm friends with someone it's because I want them to see them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only face pics in mine and add very few

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Face pics if somebody we are chatting to and looking to meet wants to see what we look like, nothing naughty to be seen.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I have photos I want those on my friends list, and not others, to see. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I only want the people I choose as friends to see those particular pics, including my face. I never even look at random friend requests and I have very few people as friends on here.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"I have photos I want those on my friends list, and not others, to see. "

This.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Mine are just older,time served pics,saves everyone scrolling through dozens of pics,but don't want to delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"random friend requests get deleted, my private pics are for the people i’ve met already, basically pics that most aren’t interested in seeing and a few face pics too."

I used to delete my unsolicited friend requests but after seeing someone post on here I don't do that now. If you just leave them without deleting than they can't try and add you again.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Friends pics identify me so only for those I'm happy that I don't know. "

And this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're like a loyalty bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any so my friends are only people I have met and keep in touch with or people I am literally going to meet! Anyone else who wants to see statuses I tell them to hotlist me as no advantage in being on my friend's list ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"They're like a loyalty bonus

Well Sainsbury has Nectar points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos im choosy who gets to see my identity life as a super hero is hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I've got mates on here and don't want them seeing my todger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"random friend requests get deleted, my private pics are for the people i’ve met already, basically pics that most aren’t interested in seeing and a few face pics too.

They might be interested in seeing them.

they’re me in my birthday suit, and let’s face it, no one really wants to see that.

That expression always makes me think of a really bad Miami Vice 80's style pale blue suit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cos im choosy who gets to see my identity life as a super hero is hard"

Ninja Turtles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"random friend requests get deleted, my private pics are for the people i’ve met already, basically pics that most aren’t interested in seeing and a few face pics too.

I used to delete my unsolicited friend requests but after seeing someone post on here I don't do that now. If you just leave them without deleting than they can't try and add you again. "

It's a good tip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, no we have friends pics to show people that we arrange a meet with. If somebody friend requests us we don’t know, we ignore them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Cause it’s a added bonus for friends and I don’t want every Tom, Dick and Harry looking at them, but mostly Dick. "

ditto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cos im choosy who gets to see my identity life as a super hero is hard

Ninja Turtles

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hero with a half bell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone actually accept random friends requests ? (at least when the sender is online

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Does anyone actually accept random friends requests ? (at least when the sender is online

Yes.

Every single one.

Honest.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

For my friends, who are people I've met. Why do you have all yours set to friends only OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone actually accept random friends requests ? (at least when the sender is online

Yes, I'll have a perve and then delete them or keep them if I like their pics

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I have friends pics coz I don't want my face on public display and only accept friends after chatting for a while and getting to know them would never accept a random request

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For my friends, who are people I've met. Why do you have all yours set to friends only OP? "

Because it entices people to mail me. I like a yellow inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So only my friends can see them. I'm very particular about who I have as a friend on here and ignore friend requests from people I don't want to be friends with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To counteract our enemies pics

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By *ed PetalCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Friends pics are all face pics. Neither exciting either. We wouldn’t friend request just to be nosy at extra pictures too. We only ever add people as friends that have met us irl and have seen us anyway.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"For my friends, who are people I've met. Why do you have all yours set to friends only OP?

Because it entices people to mail me. I like a yellow inbox.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"To counteract our enemies pics"

Brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have slightly ruder ones in private pics to protect the general public ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few rude pics in friends, and mr won’t have any pics that could lead his work force to recognise him x

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We don’t have any friends pics. They’re either all public or private. Either want people to see them or we don’t whether we’re friends or not. But very rare I bother with the friends thing to ge honest. I know who I’m friends with and who I chat to. I don’t need a special marker. If we’re chatting and/or meeting then I’ll send face pics in messages.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people do with their profile is frankly their own beeswax. There are certain things like my face that I don't wish to show publicly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you have pics for friends only? It encourages total strangers to send friend requests. Why don't you have them as public or just private?

Do you have friends pics to entice people to mail you?"

Some people misguidedly thing they are only available to there friends...but screen shots and WhatsApp...as I said misguidedly...

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Because one day I might have friends

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I stopped having friends only pics for years and noticed the big drop in friend invites. In any event I don't accept them unless we've spoken and I like someone as a friend or if they are potential meets and seemingly preparing to meet

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Why do you have pics for friends only? It encourages total strangers to send friend requests. Why don't you have them as public or just private?

Do you have friends pics to entice people to mail you?"

That's a really good question. I don't have any naughty or face pics in friends pics so why hide them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're like a loyalty bonus

Well Sainsbury has Nectar points

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I dont have friend only pictures you either see them or there hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have friend pics but my public picture was jealous of the attention that the friends pics were getting so I had to compromise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don’t have any friends pics. They’re either all public or private. Either want people to see them or we don’t whether we’re friends or not. But very rare I bother with the friends thing to ge honest. I know who I’m friends with and who I chat to. I don’t need a special marker. If we’re chatting and/or meeting then I’ll send face pics in messages.

Lex"

That all makes sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you have pics for friends only? It encourages total strangers to send friend requests. Why don't you have them as public or just private?

Do you have friends pics to entice people to mail you?

Some people misguidedly thing they are only available to there friends...but screen shots and WhatsApp...as I said misguidedly..."

Trust no-one.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Nothing to see in my friends pics, that hasn't already been seen.

They're just older pics that were once public. I've taken new ones, and moved the older ones.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I can vet who is able to see my face... "

This mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm selective who sees my face

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Face pics and 1 Cock pic, forgot I've gone private again now.

Usually couples who are most interested in the Cock pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have friend pics but my public picture was jealous of the attention that the friends pics were getting so I had to compromise. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics and 1 Cock pic, forgot I've gone private again now.

Usually couples who are most interested in the Cock pic."

I like ya face too lol

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