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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? " People complain about no pics. People complain about daft ones. To each his/her/their own, I'd say. | |||
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"Personally other than black and whiting or framing etc I don't filter mine and prefer to present an honest image of myself. I don't personally like the Snapchat filters, and disagree with anything that alters someone's image to the point they'd be very different if you met them - that said they're easily spotted and avoided, so if people want to fool themselves and others by posting them then that's their prerogative " Snapchat filters! That's what it's called, the name slipped my mind | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? People complain about no pics. People complain about daft ones. To each his/her/their own, I'd say." What can I say, guess I'm a fussy fucker | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? " Snapchat, we find the bunny ear filters childish and would probably block based on that. Pics that are so out of date they bear no relevance to the people who are meeting. Oh and the sky remote/ deodorant brigade next to their dicks are also irritating. | |||
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"Can't stand the "Snapchat filter" pics at all. Ms GR " I agree. Completely changes the reality. It's one step above photoshop. | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? Snapchat, we find the bunny ear filters childish and would probably block based on that. Pics that are so out of date they bear no relevance to the people who are meeting. Oh and the sky remote/ deodorant brigade next to their dicks are also irritating." | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? " Nope. Doesn't matter to me at all. I expect people to want to look their best. I expect people to take shots from flattering angles and in creative ways. I expect people to edit out distinguishing and identifying features such as tattoos, scars and faces. I even expect people to fuzz out the odd stretch mark. Does it reflect badly on people to me? Nope - the opposite. It shows that they are keen to portray themselves in a manner that attracts, rather than puts off others. It shows creativity and care. And I'd much rather see all of that than a generic full frontal unedited nude shot or a close up crotch shot. It's no different to wanting to dress smartly, wear make up or get a decent haircut to me. It simply shows effort. A | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? " yes i think they are. i may change mine to black and white and crop someone out but thats about all | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? " I don't think they are killing fab. I'm not sure fab is dying. | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? People complain about no pics. People complain about daft ones. To each his/her/their own, I'd say. What can I say, guess I'm a fussy fucker " makes 2 of us then | |||
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"How can you tell something is photoshopped? I can't as I have no experience of this device or program. I see these rabbit ears/noses ok I get that but other things people can do I don't have much experience in " There are varying degrees of editing done. If it's just to remove blemishes or distinguishing features then that's fine with me. Then there are those that use software to change body shapes, size and major features. That's where it gets people's backs up I suspect. Both are easy to do if you know how - and also easy to spot if you know what you're looking for. I've always removed all our ink as it would easily identify us. I've never made either of us look taller/thinner or exaggerated any boob/cock shots. And the hair that used to feature in my old solo photos was so blatantly an afro wig that anyone believing it to be real needed an urgent trip to specsavers...... A | |||
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"I edit mine to enhance them but I wouldn't do anything that changes my actual body shape. I think of it like make up, just highlighting what is already there. I find face editing a bit off putting. The ones where you get bigger eyes or slimmer nose etc. Facial attraction is so majorly important i think it's unfair to misrepresent yourself that way. " So dotty isn't dotty | |||
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"Most people wouldn’t know how to use Photoshop, let alone pay for it - an app on a phone isn’t photoshopping, sorry just a bugbear of mine " yep i pay for photoshop, lightroom and elements and i only dabble with photography | |||
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"I edit mine to enhance them but I wouldn't do anything that changes my actual body shape. I think of it like make up, just highlighting what is already there. I find face editing a bit off putting. The ones where you get bigger eyes or slimmer nose etc. Facial attraction is so majorly important i think it's unfair to misrepresent yourself that way. So dotty isn't dotty " Haha I only change lighting/colouring etc. You know all those black and white pics aren't grey people right? | |||
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"Most people wouldn’t know how to use Photoshop, let alone pay for it - an app on a phone isn’t photoshopping, sorry just a bugbear of mine yep i pay for photoshop, lightroom and elements and i only dabble with photography " And for most things Lightroom is much better, unless your doing a composite etc. | |||
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"I edit mine to enhance them but I wouldn't do anything that changes my actual body shape. I think of it like make up, just highlighting what is already there. I find face editing a bit off putting. The ones where you get bigger eyes or slimmer nose etc. Facial attraction is so majorly important i think it's unfair to misrepresent yourself that way. So dotty isn't dotty Haha I only change lighting/colouring etc. You know all those black and white pics aren't grey people right? " Phew my dreams were nearly shattered then. Back to smiling | |||
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"I edit mine to enhance them but I wouldn't do anything that changes my actual body shape. I think of it like make up, just highlighting what is already there. I find face editing a bit off putting. The ones where you get bigger eyes or slimmer nose etc. Facial attraction is so majorly important i think it's unfair to misrepresent yourself that way. " Dottz you better hope my new camera makes me look fecking good when it comes or your getting a good spanking | |||
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"I edit mine to enhance them but I wouldn't do anything that changes my actual body shape. I think of it like make up, just highlighting what is already there. I find face editing a bit off putting. The ones where you get bigger eyes or slimmer nose etc. Facial attraction is so majorly important i think it's unfair to misrepresent yourself that way. Dottz you better hope my new camera makes me look fecking good when it comes or your getting a good spanking " Patrice makes perfect | |||
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"I edit mine to enhance them but I wouldn't do anything that changes my actual body shape. I think of it like make up, just highlighting what is already there. I find face editing a bit off putting. The ones where you get bigger eyes or slimmer nose etc. Facial attraction is so majorly important i think it's unfair to misrepresent yourself that way. Dottz you better hope my new camera makes me look fecking good when it comes or your getting a good spanking " Have you heard of photoshop? | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? " yes op i just want a clear pc to see nothing else and dont get me started on snap chat insant delete | |||
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"I have no intention of duping people into thinking I'm thinner or better looking than I am, which is why I don't send heavily filtered face pics or carefully angled body pics. I might as well steal pics from a better looking, slimmer middle aged woman and fob them off as me. " Nice silhouette but it makes you look like a bloke | |||
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"its the bunny ears that get me. Your an adult on a swinging site looking for sex and you have pictures of yourself dressed in fucking bunny ears." Worked for Playboy for years. Hugh was swimming in tits.......... A | |||
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"its the bunny ears that get me. Your an adult on a swinging site looking for sex and you have pictures of yourself dressed in fucking bunny ears." This. | |||
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"I edit mine to enhance them but I wouldn't do anything that changes my actual body shape. I think of it like make up, just highlighting what is already there. I find face editing a bit off putting. The ones where you get bigger eyes or slimmer nose etc. Facial attraction is so majorly important i think it's unfair to misrepresent yourself that way. Dottz you better hope my new camera makes me look fecking good when it comes or your getting a good spanking Have you heard of photoshop? " No but I've heard boots do photos | |||
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"I have no intention of duping people into thinking I'm thinner or better looking than I am, which is why I don't send heavily filtered face pics or carefully angled body pics. I might as well steal pics from a better looking, slimmer middle aged woman and fob them off as me. Nice silhouette but it makes you look like a bloke " I have a lovely natural beard in winter | |||
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"its the bunny ears that get me. Your an adult on a swinging site looking for sex and you have pictures of yourself dressed in fucking bunny ears. This. " Rabbits are at it all the time so I think it's relevant and rabbit is a sex toy | |||
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"its the bunny ears that get me. Your an adult on a swinging site looking for sex and you have pictures of yourself dressed in fucking bunny ears." The bar, I was in last night, had a waiter wearing bunny ears, tight black micro trunks and a butler outfit It was a very adult bar | |||
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"I have no intention of duping people into thinking I'm thinner or better looking than I am, which is why I don't send heavily filtered face pics or carefully angled body pics. I might as well steal pics from a better looking, slimmer middle aged woman and fob them off as me. Nice silhouette but it makes you look like a bloke I have a lovely natural beard in winter " I hear you dropped your knicks and got mistaken for Billy Connolly | |||
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"I went to meet one guy and I walked right past him as he was unrecognisable from his pics! I don't mess with my face pics I would much rather be told I'm not their type than to be told during a meet. I had a coffee and left incidentally, cursing the false advertisement I was lured into to" Exactly!..I've done his a few times. Total waste of my time and it's rather annoying | |||
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"I went to meet one guy and I walked right past him as he was unrecognisable from his pics! I don't mess with my face pics I would much rather be told I'm not their type than to be told during a meet. I had a coffee and left incidentally, cursing the false advertisement I was lured into to Exactly!..I've done his a few times. Total waste of my time and it's rather annoying " It's the time wasting, it's too cold now to be going out meeting unnecessarily... Im in hibernation mode | |||
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"I went to meet one guy and I walked right past him as he was unrecognisable from his pics! I don't mess with my face pics I would much rather be told I'm not their type than to be told during a meet. I had a coffee and left incidentally, cursing the false advertisement I was lured into to Exactly!..I've done his a few times. Total waste of my time and it's rather annoying It's the time wasting, it's too cold now to be going out meeting unnecessarily... Im in hibernation mode " I will come out of hibernation for the right person in order to create some friction and generate some heat....without the filters! | |||
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"I went to meet one guy and I walked right past him as he was unrecognisable from his pics! I don't mess with my face pics I would much rather be told I'm not their type than to be told during a meet. I had a coffee and left incidentally, cursing the false advertisement I was lured into to Exactly!..I've done his a few times. Total waste of my time and it's rather annoying It's the time wasting, it's too cold now to be going out meeting unnecessarily... Im in hibernation mode " Preach! | |||
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"I once photoshopped out a spot on my bum. So shoot me Actually I have a very small birth mark I blur out on every picture it's visible, so that people who've seen it don't recognise me. " That's different , it's like when people block out tattoos etc because they're recognisable | |||
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"Not really bothered either way. Fact of life nowadays - if there were lots of Snapchat filters I might think that we weren’t hugely compatible but I’m not that fussed. " you alway pop in with something interesting to say. hello | |||
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"Those Snapchat bunny ear and big eye filters are ridiculous, especially when it's the only face pic someone will send you , I just interpret those as 'they must be a minger ' if that's all they'll send face wise" I find it even more ridiculous when it's guys using them for some reason! I don't interpret it as they must be minging, but I do think they must be either immature or lacking in the confidence to show their real self. That puts me off as maturity and confidence are among the first things I look for. As for the "Photoshop me beautiful" brigade, some of the worst offenders locally to me seem to be all about the posing and posting pics, looking for fabs maybe or just showing themselves off. I don't see them actually meeting often, if at all. If that's how they want to use fab then fair play to them. But if they do meet and the other party is disappointed to find them not "as advertised" then that is understandable I guess | |||
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"I don't have Photoshop or Snapchat ,just have the odd black/white pic " yay!!!!! | |||
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"Those Snapchat bunny ear and big eye filters are ridiculous, especially when it's the only face pic someone will send you , I just interpret those as 'they must be a minger ' if that's all they'll send face wise I find it even more ridiculous when it's guys using them for some reason! I don't interpret it as they must be minging, but I do think they must be either immature or lacking in the confidence to show their real self. That puts me off as maturity and confidence are among the first things I look for. As for the "Photoshop me beautiful" brigade, some of the worst offenders locally to me seem to be all about the posing and posting pics, looking for fabs maybe or just showing themselves off. I don't see them actually meeting often, if at all. If that's how they want to use fab then fair play to them. But if they do meet and the other party is disappointed to find them not "as advertised" then that is understandable I guess" there was a guy on here who was in his 50s that had them on | |||
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"Those Snapchat bunny ear and big eye filters are ridiculous, especially when it's the only face pic someone will send you , I just interpret those as 'they must be a minger ' if that's all they'll send face wise I find it even more ridiculous when it's guys using them for some reason! I don't interpret it as they must be minging, but I do think they must be either immature or lacking in the confidence to show their real self. That puts me off as maturity and confidence are among the first things I look for. As for the "Photoshop me beautiful" brigade, some of the worst offenders locally to me seem to be all about the posing and posting pics, looking for fabs maybe or just showing themselves off. I don't see them actually meeting often, if at all. If that's how they want to use fab then fair play to them. But if they do meet and the other party is disappointed to find them not "as advertised" then that is understandable I guessthere was a guy on here who was in his 50s that had them on" Aww maybe thought he was "getting down with the youth" haha | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? " It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. " I do that. I don't know how many men it's scared off, but I'm looking for brave ones anyway. | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. I do that. I don't know how many men it's scared off, but I'm looking for brave ones anyway." You are a diamond in the rough. | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. I do that. I don't know how many men it's scared off, but I'm looking for brave ones anyway." I'm sure I've also scared off loads lol. | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. I do that. I don't know how many men it's scared off, but I'm looking for brave ones anyway." I don't wear makeup either. I usually use a paper bag | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. I do that. I don't know how many men it's scared off, but I'm looking for brave ones anyway. I don't wear makeup either. I usually use a paper bag " Double bagger? would need 1 in case yours fell off | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. I do that. I don't know how many men it's scared off, but I'm looking for brave ones anyway. I don't wear makeup either. I usually use a paper bag " Have you tried a horse mask? It's all the craze now | |||
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"It's ridiculous, if you want to improve your looks just get some work done " Women don't get your lips done though. They look awful! | |||
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"It's ridiculous, if you want to improve your looks just get some work done Women don't get your lips done though. They look awful! " Thanks | |||
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"It's ridiculous, if you want to improve your looks just get some work done Women don't get your lips done though. They look awful! Thanks " I meant in general not you. A lot end up looking like Pete Burns. | |||
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"It's ridiculous, if you want to improve your looks just get some work done Women don't get your lips done though. They look awful! Thanks I meant in general not you. A lot end up looking like Pete Burns." You see a lot more good ones than bad ones, you just don't know about the good ones | |||
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"It's ridiculous, if you want to improve your looks just get some work done Women don't get your lips done though. They look awful! Thanks I meant in general not you. A lot end up looking like Pete Burns. You see a lot more good ones than bad ones, you just don't know about the good ones " Touché, if it's subtle. | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. " Im confident in my own skin, I'm happy to a send make up free pic but most would turn up to the meet wearing make up I reckon | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. " I already do that, Id rather they thought I looked better in person than worse! | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. I already do that, Id rather they thought I looked better in person than worse! " Be a nice bonus for them | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? Nope. Doesn't matter to me at all. I expect people to want to look their best. I expect people to take shots from flattering angles and in creative ways. I expect people to edit out distinguishing and identifying features such as tattoos, scars and faces. I even expect people to fuzz out the odd stretch mark. Does it reflect badly on people to me? Nope - the opposite. It shows that they are keen to portray themselves in a manner that attracts, rather than puts off others. It shows creativity and care. And I'd much rather see all of that than a generic full frontal unedited nude shot or a close up crotch shot. It's no different to wanting to dress smartly, wear make up or get a decent haircut to me. It simply shows effort. A" Disagree to a large extent! I’m here primarily to meet rather than just chat/pose for pics - so I want to know that the picture I can see looks like the person I’m contemplating meeting - end of! Shedding stones and years with ‘creative’ photos isn’t making the best of yourself - it’s misrepresentation - pure and simple! There’s a world of difference between blurring out a tattoo and eliminating every wrinkle - or ‘creating’ a slim figure or better abs via photoshop! | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? Nope. Doesn't matter to me at all. I expect people to want to look their best. I expect people to take shots from flattering angles and in creative ways. I expect people to edit out distinguishing and identifying features such as tattoos, scars and faces. I even expect people to fuzz out the odd stretch mark. Does it reflect badly on people to me? Nope - the opposite. It shows that they are keen to portray themselves in a manner that attracts, rather than puts off others. It shows creativity and care. And I'd much rather see all of that than a generic full frontal unedited nude shot or a close up crotch shot. It's no different to wanting to dress smartly, wear make up or get a decent haircut to me. It simply shows effort. A Disagree to a large extent! I’m here primarily to meet rather than just chat/pose for pics - so I want to know that the picture I can see looks like the person I’m contemplating meeting - end of! Shedding stones and years with ‘creative’ photos isn’t making the best of yourself - it’s misrepresentation - pure and simple! There’s a world of difference between blurring out a tattoo and eliminating every wrinkle - or ‘creating’ a slim figure or better abs via photoshop! " You obviously skipped over my later post where I did state that I didn't agree with shape changing. You've seen us in person. Did we look any different in person to our photos? A | |||
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"The Snapchat filters should be banned, surely the mods who approve the pictures don't consider them to be a fair representation of the poster, so why do they get past when other ,admittedly more explicit,pics are rejected I use a very basic android app (so basic it's the one that came with the phone) to crop things out, adjust colours and brightness, odd bits of focus etc.Very occasionally I'll add some virtual lipstick and that's it. If someone meets me,they expect me to at least look slightly like my pictures ! " Exactly, as opposed to walking right past them as they are unrecognisable - if you read the forums you know who you are! | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? It's false advertising. Women should have to send a photo with no make up on. " Now that would be false advertising. No one we meet would have a chance in hell of seeing me with no makeup on Mrs | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? Nope. Doesn't matter to me at all. I expect people to want to look their best. I expect people to take shots from flattering angles and in creative ways. I expect people to edit out distinguishing and identifying features such as tattoos, scars and faces. I even expect people to fuzz out the odd stretch mark. Does it reflect badly on people to me? Nope - the opposite. It shows that they are keen to portray themselves in a manner that attracts, rather than puts off others. It shows creativity and care. And I'd much rather see all of that than a generic full frontal unedited nude shot or a close up crotch shot. It's no different to wanting to dress smartly, wear make up or get a decent haircut to me. It simply shows effort. A Disagree to a large extent! I’m here primarily to meet rather than just chat/pose for pics - so I want to know that the picture I can see looks like the person I’m contemplating meeting - end of! Shedding stones and years with ‘creative’ photos isn’t making the best of yourself - it’s misrepresentation - pure and simple! There’s a world of difference between blurring out a tattoo and eliminating every wrinkle - or ‘creating’ a slim figure or better abs via photoshop! You obviously skipped over my later post where I did state that I didn't agree with shape changing. You've seen us in person. Did we look any different in person to our photos? A" Well - if we’re being totally honest - I was disappointed at the lack of donut round your todger! Totally misrepresented was that! You both looked great - but I’m sure you’ve come across as many people as I have who looked bugger all like their pics! If you haven’t then you’ve been pretty lucky! | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? Nope. Doesn't matter to me at all. I expect people to want to look their best. I expect people to take shots from flattering angles and in creative ways. I expect people to edit out distinguishing and identifying features such as tattoos, scars and faces. I even expect people to fuzz out the odd stretch mark. Does it reflect badly on people to me? Nope - the opposite. It shows that they are keen to portray themselves in a manner that attracts, rather than puts off others. It shows creativity and care. And I'd much rather see all of that than a generic full frontal unedited nude shot or a close up crotch shot. It's no different to wanting to dress smartly, wear make up or get a decent haircut to me. It simply shows effort. A Disagree to a large extent! I’m here primarily to meet rather than just chat/pose for pics - so I want to know that the picture I can see looks like the person I’m contemplating meeting - end of! Shedding stones and years with ‘creative’ photos isn’t making the best of yourself - it’s misrepresentation - pure and simple! There’s a world of difference between blurring out a tattoo and eliminating every wrinkle - or ‘creating’ a slim figure or better abs via photoshop! You obviously skipped over my later post where I did state that I didn't agree with shape changing. You've seen us in person. Did we look any different in person to our photos? A Well - if we’re being totally honest - I was disappointed at the lack of donut round your todger! Totally misrepresented was that! You both looked great - but I’m sure you’ve come across as many people as I have who looked bugger all like their pics! If you haven’t then you’ve been pretty lucky! " Strangely very few. But then we tended to meet more in clubs so found ourselves face to face rather than face to screen. Those we did swap the odd face/friends only pics with all looked pretty much as per their photos. I've seen some stunning pics that I suppose would be classed more as 'erotic art' rather than your standard swinging profile shot but that's always something I've been into so I guess my viewpoint is skewed. It would take a huge difference between what I see in a photo and what I saw in person to cause any disappointment. I may give more leeway than others though as I've never been purely focused on looks. A | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? " And now I've got to go and listen to Neneh Cherry. Thanks for that earworm..... | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? Snapchat, we find the bunny ear filters childish and would probably block based on that. Pics that are so out of date they bear no relevance to the people who are meeting. Oh and the sky remote/ deodorant brigade next to their dicks are also irritating." Hahahahaha!! I totally agree with the sky remote and deodorant brigade!! that hillarious | |||
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"I'm not talking about the odd black and white one or framing pics. More the heavily filtered ones designed to make a cock look bigger. Or those daft ones with bunny ears and distorts the features. Do you think they are fun? love it or fooking well hate it what's your buffalo stance on the issue? " is it weird that i've never heard 'buffalo stance' before. Off to google i go | |||
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