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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Could someone please enlighten me to the purpose of this button, if you have received and read a message why mark it as unread,

( curious ). Thanks

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I do it all the time if I’ve no time to reply. It marks it out so it doesn’t get lost.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Because you don't have time to reply straight away so may come back to it.

Because it's someone you don't like the look of and you can't be arsed getting abuse for saying no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough time to reply so will come back later.

Some get stroppy if you read and don't reply, so it's easier to mark it unread.

P

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

To make someone think you haven’t read it.

Or a way of bookmarking to read later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you don't mistakenly delete it when clearing your inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s to make it unread, hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it when I’ve read a god awful message - mark as unread and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A handy way for couples to know what messages have or haven't been read.

I routinely mark unread my messages, ok, message, just so I get the buzz of seeing one unread message. Ok, it is the message saying my site supporter has ran out, but an unread message is an unread message....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A handy way for couples to know what messages have or haven't been read.

I routinely mark unread my messages, ok, message, just so I get the buzz of seeing one unread message. Ok, it is the message saying my site supporter has ran out, but an unread message is an unread message...."

Just couples? It’s handy for me and I’m on here as a singleton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never noticed that before....

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

It's also for males to be able massage your own ego and make it look like we receive more messages then just the "thank you for renewing your membership"..

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"I do it when I’ve read a god awful message - mark as unread and delete "

Hahaha I do this!

Mrs

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

If I can see the message is going to be abusive or nasty or one that’s sent for shock value, I will wait til the sender is offline and read it to make sure and then mark it as unread so it really pisses them off that their vile abuse or attention seeking has gone unnoticed.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

When I can't be arsed to reply, which is quite often.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"When I can't be arsed to reply, which is quite often."

25 unread faf messages and now I find out you couldn’t be arsed to reply - I don’t know why I waste my time!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"When I can't be arsed to reply, which is quite often.

25 unread faf messages and now I find out you couldn’t be arsed to reply - I don’t know why I waste my time! "

Sorry, your 25 easily get lost in the 350 others. You've got my number

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


" Could someone please enlighten me to the purpose of this button, if you have received and read a message why mark it as unread,

( curious ). Thanks "

So people don't know you have read their message and to irritate them that you haven't read their abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To mark it unread

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Thank You for clearing that up everyone

“ good job I’m not an abusive fabster “ phew

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"To make someone think you haven’t read it.

Or a way of bookmarking to read later. "

Sort of had that thought myself

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"If I can see the message is going to be abusive or nasty or one that’s sent for shock value, I will wait til the sender is offline and read it to make sure and then mark it as unread so it really pisses them off that their vile abuse or attention seeking has gone unnoticed. "

Exactly this

Or, Occasionaly, it's a nice decent message. The profile might interest me, but at that point in time I don't have time to send an adequate reply.

Mark unread so the sender doesn't think they're being ignored & I'll reply when I can

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"If I can see the message is going to be abusive or nasty or one that’s sent for shock value, I will wait til the sender is offline and read it to make sure and then mark it as unread so it really pisses them off that their vile abuse or attention seeking has gone unnoticed.

Exactly this

Or, Occasionaly, it's a nice decent message. The profile might interest me, but at that point in time I don't have time to send an adequate reply.

Mark unread so the sender doesn't think they're being ignored & I'll reply when I can "

Good analogy, makes the most sense. Thank you

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

So you can treasure the fact that you have a message and an rejoice in implying to the sender that you have to wade through lots of messages# and that the sender one is in a queue.

# Singles blokes, this works for about 36hrs and the penny begins to drop that this is what you are doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it when I don't have time to reply but curious abt the message itself.

As I don't want to send the impression that the message was good enough to read but not to reply I use the unread button and reply as soon as I have more time.

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Thank you all so much for your responce, have a most wonderful Christmas. Xxx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"If I can see the message is going to be abusive or nasty or one that’s sent for shock value, I will wait til the sender is offline and read it to make sure and then mark it as unread so it really pisses them off that their vile abuse or attention seeking has gone unnoticed. "

Oh yes I do that as well, mark unread and ignore, don't give them the attention they're after

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