FabSwingers.com forum: Forum fun but losing interest

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i do from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have phases. It can easily become all a bit meh and uninspiring.

Take a break if that’s what you need. I was UNLOS from Dec 2016 to Aug 2018 (bar a couple of very minor brief flirtations back under a pseudonym). The break did me good and I came back refreshed!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath

Yep I agree it’s best thing about the site

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By *lastic.Mask.ManMan
over a year ago

Grimsby

The forum is the only thing keeping me here.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I have phases. It can easily become all a bit meh and uninspiring.

Take a break if that’s what you need. I was UNLOS from Dec 2016 to Aug 2018 (bar a couple of very minor brief flirtations back under a pseudonym). The break did me good and I came back refreshed!

That amused me...kind of like saying I've been off the biscuits apart from those two times I had my hand in the tin...but they don't count lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This seems to be the natural place for every sort of '....opath' to reside. You'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have phases. It can easily become all a bit meh and uninspiring.

Take a break if that’s what you need. I was UNLOS from Dec 2016 to Aug 2018 (bar a couple of very minor brief flirtations back under a pseudonym). The break did me good and I came back refreshed!

That amused me...kind of like saying I've been off the biscuits apart from those two times I had my hand in the tin...but they don't count lol.

I knew I wasn’t meeting so came back for the forums only and put my location at the other end of the country! .. lasted about 2 weeks both times!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

When my partner decided he didnt want to swing any more I had six months on the forums before I felt ready to play again.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I pretty much stopped meeting a few years ago and have only stayed for the forum and odd social. There's a few of us mate.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Folk use the site in many different ways, if the forums are the only part you use so be it.. use it as you see fit

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

If that makes you a sociopath then there are a few of them knocking around!

It's perfectly acceptable to do that OP, it's your profile, do with it as you choose!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here,only here for the forum,but alas even this isn't holding my interest anymore,to many people putting themselves on pedestals and pack attack mentality are ruining things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

Try being a bloke on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here for the forums and enjoy it,I think just stay clear of the threads that can get a bit hairy and if it does get a bit much or frustrating just take a back seat for a while

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath

A bit, but, the forum is becoming fucking dull to be honest. Same shit different day. Repeat.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If you count a near five year total break from the site and then a return solely to waste time in the forums.......then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath

A bit, but, the forum is becoming fucking dull to be honest. Same shit different day. Repeat."

Correct,just how many sucj fuck kiss bollox do we need

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

Try being a bloke on here "

I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath

A bit, but, the forum is becoming fucking dull to be honest. Same shit different day. Repeat.

Correct,just how many sucj fuck kiss bollox do we need"
yep true iv been finding myself on forum less and less

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Do something else then...

Go see a mate... See if their putting kettle on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

Try being a bloke on here

I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit."

That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

Try being a bloke on here

I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.

That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further"

The only filter left is to block all men

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath

A bit, but, the forum is becoming fucking dull to be honest. Same shit different day. Repeat.

Correct,just how many sucj fuck kiss bollox do we need"

I never thought I'd say it, but i actually prefer Twitter. Ignore people and things you don't want to read. Only see things you're interested in. What's not to like!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath

Tonnes of us pal but eventually even the forums dry up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

Try being a bloke on here

I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.

That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further

The only filter left is to block all men"

Ahh well,it's hard being a hot woman I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

Try being a bloke on here

I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.

That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further

The only filter left is to block all men"

Maybe there should be a 'only here to chat' option on the forum listing.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?"

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Take fab out of the equation for a minute OP.

If you no longer enjoyed a TV programme would you still watch it? If you no longer enjoyed eating a certain food would you still eat it? If you no longer enjoyed wearing certain clothes would you force yourself to wear them?

Being on fab and using any aspect of it isn't compulsory. Nobody is holding a gun to your head.

It takes one click to hide your profile, another to log off and then you're free for as long as you choose.

Just don't forget your log in details.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think we should all leave... Today, in mass....

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

All the hairs on the back of my neck just stood up.

Did somebody say biscuits?

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

Try being a bloke on here

I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.

That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further

The only filter left is to block all men"
That's what you should do and join us ladies on the dark side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

Try being a bloke on here

I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.

That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further

The only filter left is to block all men"

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By *arkhorse66Man
over a year ago

bristol

"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you

Try being a bloke on here

I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.

That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further

The only filter left is to block all men"

But then you wouldn’t get the attention you crave!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup not found anyone I actually wanna meet in ages so only really use the forums now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath

Sociopaths aren’t sociable. Do you feel lack of empathy for your fellow fabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x"

Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, finding it very dull here to be honest. Had my flirtations with a few that obviously are never going to meet, plus plenty of unwanted attention that, admittedly, I could set filters for. A high majority of women here have such attitude-filled profiles that regardless of how they look I'd never want to meet because of said profiles, but I get that it's a numbers game and women call the shots here.

The forum though - the occasional intersting topic gets posted, only for the usual forum dwellers to try and tear the post down with their oh so predictable "wit". Seems people are only interested in the banal "kiss fuck avoid", "what are your friday/saturday night plans", "how many views have you got" and "pegging, do women enhoy it" type of threads.

In fact I genuinely dont know why I bother with this site - it must be the lure of potentially meeting someone genuinely sexy and interesting. Sorry forum dwellers, but thats not the majority of you! Now feel free to exercise your pack mentality on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am only here for the forum, it is comedy gold

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x

Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x"
you can't beat face to face, good old fashion interaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still finding plenty of people I want to meet

The forums fill the void while they are sleeping and I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x

Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x you can't beat face to face, good old fashion interaction

And meeting people in that context is soooo much nicer than having a coffee and wondering if you fancy each other.. totally different! Absolutely loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x

Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x"

Im not that amazing

Ok ok il let you have your say

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x

Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x"

I've been telling people this for years... get to the socials, you'll be surprised at how much fun they are!

If there isn't one near you... start one, it really isn't that hard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x

Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x

Im not that amazing

Ok ok il let you have your say

ha ha you goon.. was an eye opener though wasn't it!?!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x

And meeting people in that context is soooo much nicer than having a coffee and wondering if you fancy each other.. totally different! Absolutely loved it

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takes all that pressure away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x

And meeting people in that context is soooo much nicer than having a coffee and wondering if you fancy each other.. totally different! Absolutely loved it

takes all that pressure away

100% the way we did things in our youth

ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months

Event socials do you mean?

Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones

Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x

Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x

Im not that amazing

Ok ok il let you have your say

ha ha you goon.. was an eye opener though wasn't it!?! "
it was something i never tried i suppose a different kind of fun and enjoyment iv not experienced in about 20 years

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Take fab out of the equation for a minute OP.

Being on fab and using any aspect of it isn't compulsory. Nobody is holding a gun to your head.

It takes one click to hide your profile, another to log off and then you're free for as long as you choose.

Just don't forget your log in details.

Spot on.

If you don't like it, either start some threads about things that interest you or just don't read them and log off.

Is the wind making people extra whingey today ?

First world problems hey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find hiding my profile and taking a break works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath

Yes most people are just here to play forum games as far as I can tell. They even get offended when you talk about sex or swinging rather than just innuendo, you'll be fine. Pretend your 12 again.

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