FabSwingers.com forum: Sometimes something puts things right into perspective

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carpe diem. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye treat life like the joke it is

Ya a long time dead xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

The week before Christmas was talking to a friend on the Wednesday night and they asked us of we would like to go up to Scotland with them, they rent a cottage for three weeks every year. That was at about 9pm.

Phone went 8.50 the next morning, it was the guys wife, he'd died during the night.

The cases were packed as the were leaving on the friday. 23rd December attended his funeral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The week before Christmas was talking to a friend on the Wednesday night and they asked us of we would like to go up to Scotland with them, they rent a cottage for three weeks every year. That was at about 9pm.

Phone went 8.50 the next morning, it was the guys wife, he'd died during the night.

The cases were packed as the were leaving on the friday. 23rd December attended his funeral"

xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Carpe diem. xxx"

mmmm soaked overnight in salt and lightly fried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three people very close to me have serious illnesses. If you do not have your health life is so hard. Its the most important thing.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Phone went 8.50 the next morning, it was the guys wife, he'd died during the night.

The cases were packed as the were leaving on the friday. 23rd December attended his funeral"

thats awful xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

hope your uncle is better soon xxxxxxxxxx

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By *ixson-BallsMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Carpe diem. xxx"

cos one day will be your last xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x"
thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hope your uncle is ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?"

Nice!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?"

Am I missing something here, I thought the OP was sharing a heartfelt moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

Am I missing something here, I thought the OP was sharing a heartfelt moment.

He certainly was sharing a heartfelt moment xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I think we must be missing something

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

Nice!

+1 nice as in spitefull..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?"

Go troll somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?"

Sorry but you are

A very wrong about the intention of that post

B bang out of order in my opinion with that relply

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Have said it before on another thread sometimes the lack of humanity from a minority on here is sickening..

thankfully it is just a minority..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have said it before on another thread sometimes the lack of humanity from a minority on here is sickening..

thankfully it is just a minority.."

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Have said it before on another thread sometimes the lack of humanity from a minority on here is sickening..

thankfully it is just a minority..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i thought this was a swinging site not the samaritans, i could be wrong.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I sometimes do wonder about the brevity of life and how even that can be curtailed through illness, accidents etc. I guess that is where I feel that it is just good to be friends or at least friendly with people if possible - negativity invariably means stress, for both, the sender and receiver of it.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"lol i thought this was a swinging site not the samaritans, i could be wrong. "

Some people have compassion. As is said often if you don't like, don't read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

Sorry but you are

A very wrong about the intention of that post

B bang out of order in my opinion with that relply

my apologies i thought the post was simply an attempt at gaining attention and sympathy. certainly sounds like it doesnt it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

Sorry but you are

A very wrong about the intention of that post

B bang out of order in my opinion with that relply

my apologies i thought the post was simply an attempt at gaining attention and sympathy. certainly sounds like it doesnt it ?

Occasionally regular posters will share their experiences in life

And somtimes it helps everyone to put things in perspective

Yes it's a swingers site but we are human beings as well

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

Sorry but you are

A very wrong about the intention of that post

B bang out of order in my opinion with that relply

my apologies i thought the post was simply an attempt at gaining attention and sympathy. certainly sounds like it doesnt it ?

I think you may be the only person who thinks that

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Occasionally regular posters will share their experiences in life

And somtimes it helps everyone to put things in perspective

Yes it's a swingers site but we are human beings as well"

Maybe some aren't Soapy

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

Sorry but you are

A very wrong about the intention of that post

B bang out of order in my opinion with that relply

my apologies i thought the post was simply an attempt at gaining attention and sympathy. certainly sounds like it doesnt it ?

Nope, it does not come across like that at all imho..

the guy has several verifications on his profile, most 'look at me' threads the posters have none usually..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?"

Sometimes just sometimes someone will post something that just beggers all belief and the first thing I think is what a nasty piece of work I'm so glad there is a block button , well IMO this is one of them post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

Sorry but you are

A very wrong about the intention of that post

B bang out of order in my opinion with that relply

my apologies i thought the post was simply an attempt at gaining attention and sympathy. certainly sounds like it doesnt it ?

I think you may be the only person who thinks that"

Nice to be unique then

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

Sorry but you are

A very wrong about the intention of that post

B bang out of order in my opinion with that relply

my apologies i thought the post was simply an attempt at gaining attention and sympathy. certainly sounds like it doesnt it ?

I think you may be the only person who thinks that

Nice to be unique then

Think I've got another word to describe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i thought this was a swinging site not the samaritans, i could be wrong. "

well the tone of your posts certainly wont gain you any fans! Yes its a swinging site, it doesnt mean people cant share the experiences and it certainly doesn't mean that people cant sympathise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?

Sorry but you are

A very wrong about the intention of that post

B bang out of order in my opinion with that relply

my apologies i thought the post was simply an attempt at gaining attention and sympathy. certainly sounds like it doesnt it ?

I think you may be the only person who thinks that

Nice to be unique then

Think I've got another word to describe"

ooooo intrigued now what might that be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i thought this was a swinging site not the samaritans, i could be wrong.

well the tone of your posts certainly wont gain you any fans! Yes its a swinging site, it doesnt mean people cant share the experiences and it certainly doesn't mean that people cant sympathise

I do not need fans or to seek attention or to gain anybodys favour ..unlike the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i thought this was a swinging site not the samaritans, i could be wrong.

well the tone of your posts certainly wont gain you any fans! Yes its a swinging site, it doesnt mean people cant share the experiences and it certainly doesn't mean that people cant sympathise

I do not need fans or to seek attention or to gain anybodys favour ..unlike the majority

Actually you have just done the seek attention bit just maybe not the type most people would like and seeing as how you seem to be feeding off it I for 1 have said all I will say

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Sometimes it does help me to think of other people being worse off, not even that I think I am having a bad time. But it helps to stop feeling sorry oneself and look at the bright side in life - such a helpful sobering experience...I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i thought this was a swinging site not the samaritans, i could be wrong.

well the tone of your posts certainly wont gain you any fans! Yes its a swinging site, it doesnt mean people cant share the experiences and it certainly doesn't mean that people cant sympathise

I do not need fans or to seek attention or to gain anybodys favour ..unlike the majority

Actually you have just done the seek attention bit just maybe not the type most people would like and seeing as how you seem to be feeding off it I for 1 have said all I will say "

lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i thought this was a swinging site not the samaritans, i could be wrong.

well the tone of your posts certainly wont gain you any fans! Yes its a swinging site, it doesnt mean people cant share the experiences and it certainly doesn't mean that people cant sympathise

I do not need fans or to seek attention or to gain anybodys favour ..unlike the majority

so you just post to be nasty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MEANWHILE...

I am very sorry to hear about your uncle OP....

You are right... there are epiphanous moments in our lives which can redefine our parameters...

Be happy mate.;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"MEANWHILE...

I am very sorry to hear about your uncle OP....

You are right... there are epiphanous moments in our lives which can redefine our parameters...

Be happy mate.;-);-)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i thought this was a swinging site not the samaritans, i could be wrong.

well the tone of your posts certainly wont gain you any fans! Yes its a swinging site, it doesnt mean people cant share the experiences and it certainly doesn't mean that people cant sympathise

I do not need fans or to seek attention or to gain anybodys favour ..unlike the majority

so you just post to be nasty?"

No i just post as and when i feel to current topics i do not post simply to gain attention or try and make people feel sorry for me as the poster.

It does make me laugh all the people defending him. most have probably never even met him in the real world and for all we know he could be.... seeking attention like the people who feel they need to let everybody there leaving here by posting in the forums ..how tragic

So many people use these forums simply to try and get attention i find it very sad yet mildly amusing.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?"

what a thoughly unpleasant thing to say...i had actually wondered where the op had been as he was a fairly regular poster...it was nice to see him posting again, unlike some who wont be missed

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

pmt???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"pmt???

no sfsms

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

So many people use these forums simply to try and get attention

Everyone does..... upto and including you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i thought this was a swinging site not the samaritans, i could be wrong.

well the tone of your posts certainly wont gain you any fans! Yes its a swinging site, it doesnt mean people cant share the experiences and it certainly doesn't mean that people cant sympathise

I do not need fans or to seek attention or to gain

anybodys favour ..unlike the majority

so you just post to be nasty?

No i just post as and when i feel to current topics i do not post simply to gain attention or try and make people feel sorry for me as the poster.

So many people use these forums simply to try and get attention i find it very sad yet mildly amusing.

Having posted on these forums for over four years now and met the largest majority of the regular posters I find your outlook on the fourms very sad

However you as anyone are entiled to your opinion

I for one certainly don't use it as a look at me tool

Mainly because I don't meet off the site and never have so I don't need the attention

I post for fun and to interact with likeminded people

I use socials and friend networks built up over thirty years for my meets

But personally if people do use the forums as a look at me way of meeting then SO WHAT?

Getting known is half the bloody battle

Whether you do it nicely or nastily then you will appeal to someone

So your way may work for you also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me someone is attention seeking right now. Hope ur uncle is ok matey x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as for the OP.... I for one have seen this young man come onto the forums as a newbie, his posts are decent, welcoming and give the sense of a throughly nice young man.

if a family member is ill, no harm in wishing him and all concerned well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"MEANWHILE...

I am very sorry to hear about your uncle OP....

You are right... there are epiphanous moments in our lives which can redefine our parameters...

Be happy mate.;-);-)"
I totally agree with you!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?"

wow...

that offically is almost as cold a post as i have seen in here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sympathies to the OP, keep your chin up and I hope everything will be ok!

Ignore the spiteful uncalled comments from someone who obviously has no compassion whatsoever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sympathies to the OP, keep your chin up and I hope everything will be ok!

Ignore the spiteful uncalled comments from someone who obviously has no compassion whatsoever!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life changing moment came over 3 years ago when I lost my late partner to an accident. I was not with him when he died.

Since then, I count my blessings every day, and am thankful for what I have.

Certain things are no longer important, like being a jet-setting high-flying executive, working stupid hours for the sake of a better than average performance re_iew in a very stressful job.

I would rather have a job that I enjoy, with no management responsibilities, good job security, and allows me to have some quality time to do the things I enjoy, and to live in relative comfort with no major worries.

I cannot change the past, however I can influence the future, and am enjoying myself living in the present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one person seeking attention on this thread me thinks.

Wouldn't say it was positive though

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

"Sympathies to the OP, keep your chin up and I hope everything will be ok!

Ignore the spiteful uncalled comments from someone who obviously has no compassion whatsoever!"

Thoughts are with you n yours OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP sorry to hear of your troubles, it sounds like you have a supportive family network in place. Let's hope all is well

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

A couple of points.

There really is no need to be so nasty to people when posting.

When does accusing people of using the forums as a " look at me " thread differ from accusing another person of using the forums with " look at me " threads?

Lots of people accuse others of doing just that, but are now telling someone off for doing the same? ( not condoning anyone bitching about other peoples posts, just pointing out the double standards )

Just because someone isn't verified doesn't mean they should be subjected to bitchy comments just as this OP shouldn't be subjected to bitchy comments.

Please start respecting ALL users when you post, or you may find that people can't post at all.

( from me as a member )

To the OP, sometimes life makes you sit up and take stock, we have had many times just like this as I am sure lots of others have, lots of us will know just what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been kinda down lately, worrying about my job and where its going, my future, whats in it for me.

Then yesterday my uncle has a serious incident and he might not have to worry about those things - the whole family comes together, and its a horrible thought.

Some of you guys on here are great. You have familys and loved ones. Thats worth a more than anything.

Im gonna change my outlook, look after each other and spend as much time laughing and having fun as you can.

x thanks for your thoughts! so has your post had the desired result and got you any shags ? whens the your leaving post ?"

Totally uncalled for.

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