FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting a lady

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on the site a while now, only just started using it. I can’t put a pic on my profile because of work, but do have one to send in messages. I’m finding it impossible to get a meet

any help ladies with what I can do better x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You need a profile pic. It doesn't have to be of your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t put a face pic either due to work, do a headless one or one that doesn’t show any distinguishing marks (tattoos etc) as most people skip past silhouettes!

Good luck and I hope you find a decent meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck mate you aint half making it tough tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m trying to improve my chances, can I have some ideas for pic. Body is a bit hard also cause of tattoos

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You do need pictures and particularly a profile picture.

Headless and with tattoos, birthmarks or scars blurred is still anonymous enough.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Clothed (teasing or not), tattoos covered or obscured.

You haven't asked for advice on your profile text so I won't give it.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I’m trying to improve my chances, can I have some ideas for pic. Body is a bit hard also cause of tattoos "

Look around the forum. Look at other profiles. Even a photograph of you wearing your normal clothes is a hundred times better than nothing, because it gives people an idea of your body shape, and some women will like to know how you dress.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m just sorting a pic now. Some info on what to put would be great. What catches your eye etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just sorting a pic now. Some info on what to put would be great. What catches your eye etc x"

A grizzly beard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That bad lol? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That bad lol? X"

Nooo the opposite!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need more pics on your profile. Doesn’t have to be face. Not cock pics though either. Maybe some tighty whiteys. They always go down well

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’m just sorting a pic now. Some info on what to put would be great. What catches your eye etc x"

What kind of person are you, what are you looking for, what do you have to offer? Sell yourself, be positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m trying to improve my chances, can I have some ideas for pic. Body is a bit hard also cause of tattoos "

What kind of woman are you looking for? Just a fuck? One that will chat to you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’m trying to improve my chances, can I have some ideas for pic. Body is a bit hard also cause of tattoos

What kind of woman are you looking for? Just a fuck? One that will chat to you? "

Yes. Are you kinky? Are you a swinger? Looking for NSA/FWB/ a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv had an update on my profile. Could u please have a look? Any feedback is greatly heard x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Check your spelling and grammar. Probably break it up into paragraphs with more detail (you can skip height, it's already listed).

I'm not terribly taken by people who say they're good in bed/ well endowed, more bothered by respectful, considerate, interested in mutual pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be a little old lady who’s 99 years old who’d appreciate a little bit of naughtyness,or even looking for a FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on the site a while now, only just started using it. I can’t put a pic on my profile because of work, but do have one to send in messages. I’m finding it impossible to get a meet

any help ladies with what I can do better x"

Tbh mate your profile text is just the same as a thousand others on here, to stand out on here it's not about what you want.. it's about what you can give..be respectful,be funny,be creative.

for every one female there's a thousand guys all vying for her attention..best advice? be yourself and be in for a long wait..but enjoy it all the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv changed that now. Thanks lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Iv had an update on my profile. Could u please have a look? Any feedback is greatly heard x"

To be honest I'd rethink the last two pics you uploaded especially the one that the background suggests it was taken in a kids room

I'd lose the "I'm not too small" bit from your text - is unnecessary. The rest of it isn't bad but isn't great either - for example saying you have a kinky side is very subjective and could mean many things to different people - for some it will be doing it with the lights on, to others it will mean whips, chains and gimp masks!!

You need to think of your profile as a shop window and entice people into your shop tell them about you, what you're looking for and think you offer a prospective meet- try and inject some personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv changed that photo now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv changed that photo now x"

Take out "6feet tattooed and well build" this is already listed... Also explain why you cannot accommodate as most females would question why a 32 man doesn't live on his own ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv done that, thank you mate.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Rugby you say?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I’m in rugby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv done that, thank you mate. "

Now sit back and get comfy and wait for all the sexy females messaging you lol....oh if it was only that simple,eh? Best of luck bud

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not to far from Northampton either x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Your profile text could still do with a spell check - starting with "Where" not "We're" at the beginning - know that might sound pedantic but it's details like that which can make or break things.

I'd also try and expand on your profile a little - as I said further up "kinky" can be different things to different people - years ago when I was using dating sites, I got chatting to a woman whose idea of kinky was using spray cream on her boobs, which is somewhat different from my definition!!

You want to aim for just enough information to pique interest, but not so much that you reveal everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rugby you say?

Feel free to drop me a message x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Well that that sorted then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must have found a golden woman from starting this thread. Lucky fucker

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Oooohhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooohhhhhhhh

Ah so near yet so far LL!!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Oooohhhhhhhh

Scared another one Off miss lick.

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By *ooking4othersMan
over a year ago

Here ...

Lady Lick must have scared him away fluttering her eyes at him

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Oooohhhhhhhh

Scared another one Off miss lick.

I didn't say a thing gov!!!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Oooohhhhhhhh

Scared another one Off miss lick.

I didn't say a thing gov!!!"

Maybe it was the thought of catching his bits on the holly in the wreath that scared him away

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I was just about to give some

great advice but now we have an Unlos!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I've See n this happen before, guy asks for advice changes his profile and then they're deluged with messages, you gotta give guys chance ladies.. patience please

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Oooohhhhhhhh

Scared another one Off miss lick.

I didn't say a thing gov!!!

Maybe it was the thought of catching his bits on the holly in the wreath that scared him away

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