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"I'm a survivor... and I will continue to be xx" It's a great attitude to have xx | |||
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"Weirdly today is the seven year anniversary of a horrific, life changing day. Onwards and upwards hope you enjoy your celebration x" Today is 30 years since my life changed forever (and I should, by rights, have died) and while it still gives me problems to this day, I still fight and survive. So "anniversary twin" ... Go You ... And keep on going ... You WILL win x | |||
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"Me too, survived and love life now " I dont always love life, but when I get to the stage where I don't, I remind myself of what happened, and the alternative, and it helps to get me back on track | |||
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"I struggle, but I survive. " That's still a win, I know from personal experience that huge life changing events do bring struggles but if you survive them you win | |||
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"Well i am a tiger raaaaaa raaaaaaa raaaaaaaa" Your roar is worse than your bite isn't it B? | |||
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"Based on the fact that I am alive? Survivor!" This really applies to me. If a cat has nine lives, and I were a cat, I would be down to my last 5 | |||
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"Weirdly today is the seven year anniversary of a horrific, life changing day. Onwards and upwards hope you enjoy your celebration x Today is 30 years since my life changed forever (and I should, by rights, have died) and while it still gives me problems to this day, I still fight and survive. So "anniversary twin" ... Go You ... And keep on going ... You WILL win x" Winning every day x it's nice to celebrate.. I'll be baking gifts all day and toasting life with a brew x | |||
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"I wish I could go back in time and tell my past self to keep on trucking and believe in herself. Life is better than I ever dared imagine it could be. (I didn't have high hopes) " That's great to read | |||
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"Had a few traumas in life, but still here to tell the tale. Stronger and more peaceful than ever now. " Love to read things like this ... | |||
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"I will always be a survivor as with life issues all the do is make me a stronger person." Someone recently told me that I am a strong woman, but somehow I don't see that, but I am definitely a survivor though | |||
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"Weirdly today is the seven year anniversary of a horrific, life changing day. Onwards and upwards hope you enjoy your celebration x Today is 30 years since my life changed forever (and I should, by rights, have died) and while it still gives me problems to this day, I still fight and survive. So "anniversary twin" ... Go You ... And keep on going ... You WILL win x Winning every day x it's nice to celebrate.. I'll be baking gifts all day and toasting life with a brew x" You go girl!!! | |||
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"Had a few traumas in life, but still here to tell the tale. Stronger and more peaceful than ever now. Love to read things like this ... " Thank you. | |||
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"Everyone has a story." Yes I agree but I am talking about HUGE, life changing experiences x | |||
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"All Warriors..of our own lives and destiny. " Not totally true, I had absolutely no control over what happened to me... | |||
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"I'm still here even if sometimes I want to be somewhere else..." Exactly true in my case but I can't give up... | |||
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"I'll survive as long as is intended for me to.... Until that day I'll fight to give my kids what they need to grow up to be gentlemen and successful " We only have one guarantee in life and that is we all end up dead ... It's what happens in between that makes us survivors or not x | |||
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"I went to war in 82, I saw many injuries beyond compare, witnessed acts of unspeakable evil and acts of unbelievable kindness, I leaned to hate and I made some of the best friends I could ever have. Not a day goes by when I don't spend at least an hour of it thinking about that experience but I'm still here, admittedly wearing a dress but I'm still here " Do you have PTSD? I admire what you did. I always wanted to go in the RAF from being 5 or 6 years old, but the event of 30 years ago killed that dream forever | |||
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"I went to war in 82, I saw many injuries beyond compare, witnessed acts of unspeakable evil and acts of unbelievable kindness, I leaned to hate and I made some of the best friends I could ever have. Not a day goes by when I don't spend at least an hour of it thinking about that experience but I'm still here, admittedly wearing a dress but I'm still here Do you have PTSD? I admire what you did. I always wanted to go in the RAF from being 5 or 6 years old, but the event of 30 years ago killed that dream forever " I did have yes, whether or not I still do I don't know, I suppose I must but I have learnt to live with it, I think I'm a better person because of it although I went through a patch where I wasn't | |||
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"Everyone has a story. Yes I agree but I am talking about HUGE, life changing experiences x" Do you want us to ask? Or prefer not to tell? | |||
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"I'll survive as long as is intended for me to.... Until that day I'll fight to give my kids what they need to grow up to be gentlemen and successful We only have one guarantee in life and that is we all end up dead ... It's what happens in between that makes us survivors or not x" Bang on | |||
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"I went to war in 82, I saw many injuries beyond compare, witnessed acts of unspeakable evil and acts of unbelievable kindness, I leaned to hate and I made some of the best friends I could ever have. Not a day goes by when I don't spend at least an hour of it thinking about that experience but I'm still here, admittedly wearing a dress but I'm still here Do you have PTSD? I admire what you did. I always wanted to go in the RAF from being 5 or 6 years old, but the event of 30 years ago killed that dream forever I did have yes, whether or not I still do I don't know, I suppose I must but I have learnt to live with it, I think I'm a better person because of it although I went through a patch where I wasn't" All credit to you for surviving. Always in awe of people good enough to go to war for their country | |||
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"Everyone has a story. Yes I agree but I am talking about HUGE, life changing experiences x Do you want us to ask? Or prefer not to tell?" No, I don't need to tell, but to some people, getting over a broken nail makes them a survivor (And yes that is an attempt at a small joke!) | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? " I do! I’ve bioplar but I get up everyday as I need to or I’d be a long time dead! Kitty xx | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? " The little things mount up and destroy me. | |||
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"Well I'm still fecking hear so I guess I'm a survivor " Okay | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? I do! I’ve bioplar but I get up everyday as I need to or I’d be a long time dead! Kitty xx" That's awful x | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? I do! I’ve bioplar but I get up everyday as I need to or I’d be a long time dead! Kitty xx That's awful x" But I’m here and still smiling and trying to enjoy life xx | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? I do! I’ve bioplar but I get up everyday as I need to or I’d be a long time dead! Kitty xx That's awful x But I’m here and still smiling and trying to enjoy life xx" Good well done | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? I do! I’ve bioplar but I get up everyday as I need to or I’d be a long time dead! Kitty xx That's awful x But I’m here and still smiling and trying to enjoy life xx" Goood on you! | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? " I'm proud of you, that you're a survivor | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? " Hope so Diagnosed spinal stenosis July 30th approx Cancer August 6th Now in continual pain with trapped nerve in shoulder. But on the bright side soon be Christmas | |||
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" There is no shame in struggling. Or admitting to struggling. And regardless of however hard your struggle may be you'll find when the chips are down you can survive far more than you ever think you can. What's that quote about the teabag? You dot know how strong it is til you put it in hot water. To all you struggling survivors..Hold your head up and have faith in yourselves. Here's hoping tomorrow is a better day. " That's a lovely post | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? I'm proud of you, that you're a survivor " Ahh that's lovely Sami x | |||
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"Yes I’m a survivor. I was almost broke but I’m getting stronger with each passing day x " I wish I was strong, but good on you Angie, keep it up x | |||
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"i’ve survived a few things over the past 20 years " Keep being strong and a survivor | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? Hope so Diagnosed spinal stenosis July 30th approx Cancer August 6th Now in continual pain with trapped nerve in shoulder. But on the bright side soon be Christmas " That's surviving, good on you. Hope it continues that way I don't think Xmas is a bright side though, it brings back all the shit memories for me, but hey ho! | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? Hope so Diagnosed spinal stenosis July 30th approx Cancer August 6th Now in continual pain with trapped nerve in shoulder. But on the bright side soon be Christmas " Have you tried having a Sports Massage to help with the trapped nerve ? It works well for me | |||
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"It was my sons 8th Birthday recently. 3 years to the day since he was discharged from hospital after life saving surgery. Hes a survivor and the strongest person I know. " And may he grow stinger every day. | |||
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"It was my sons 8th Birthday recently. 3 years to the day since he was discharged from hospital after life saving surgery. Hes a survivor and the strongest person I know. And may he grow stinger every day. " Stronger!!! | |||
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"It was my sons 8th Birthday recently. 3 years to the day since he was discharged from hospital after life saving surgery. Hes a survivor and the strongest person I know. And may he grow stinger every day. Stronger!!!" Both is fine! | |||
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"It was my sons 8th Birthday recently. 3 years to the day since he was discharged from hospital after life saving surgery. Hes a survivor and the strongest person I know. " | |||
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"I guess I'm a survivor as was diagnosed with a brain tumour 8 years ago and I'm still here and still have my sight. It's been bloody tough as the drugs are horrendous, lost count how many brain scans I've had and the drugs affect the heart muscles so I have heart scans too. It's caused me so many health issues but I count my blessings every day " That is a bloody lot to cope with,I hope you're ok at the moment. | |||
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"I survived an incident on a hand grenade range. I still have a piece of metal in me now.. I pulled the pin out with my teeth and accidentally swallowed it " Crikey, that is a real survival story | |||
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"I got ran over on Christmas day when I was 10 on my new bike, no one's fault but my own for not looking where i was going. I was on life support for 4 weeks and my parents feared the worst. The guy who hit me with his car came to visit me every other day and to this day we still keep in touch. So I would say I am a survivor." Damn right! | |||
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"It was my sons 8th Birthday recently. 3 years to the day since he was discharged from hospital after life saving surgery. Hes a survivor and the strongest person I know. " With supportive parents by the sounds of it | |||
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"I guess I'm a survivor as was diagnosed with a brain tumour 8 years ago and I'm still here and still have my sight. It's been bloody tough as the drugs are horrendous, lost count how many brain scans I've had and the drugs affect the heart muscles so I have heart scans too. It's caused me so many health issues but I count my blessings every day " That's truly wonderful news...long may it last xx A friend of mine was diagnosed in 2009 and passed away January 2010... | |||
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"I have a 100% success record for not succumbing to my depression, so that's pretty awesome. " Same here (although it's not today's reason for celebrating surviving) | |||
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"I have a 100% success record for not succumbing to my depression, so that's pretty awesome. Same here (although it's not today's reason for celebrating surviving) " Love your positivity towards others xx | |||
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"Had a few life changing events, the rarity has worn off. The only event I still celebrate, is being given the all clear from cancer." Great news | |||
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"Everyone has a story. Yes I agree but I am talking about HUGE, life changing experiences x" That suggests you're somehow downplaying experiences of others | |||
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"Just over a year ago I found out that I was ill.. I will always remember the specialist telling me and the feelings I had at the time... at first I was afraid, I was petrified, thinking I would not survive with this growth in my side.. I spent so many nights wondering what did I do wrong But I got on, and learned how to become strong.. And I'm on my back in a strange place, The radiologist walked in with a stupid grin upon his face, He told me to relax, he told me just to lay there still, He zapped me with some xrays and they made me take plenty of pills.. And now it's gone, from out my head, no more talking to an oncologist from the comfort of a bed. They are certain that gone but I need to get checked out So far so good, I have finally found my clout (ok, I know that bad but trout didn't work either!) And that's me, I did survive And as long as I have friends at my side I know I'll stay alive. I've got all that love to make, eat some pasta bake and I'll survive... I will survive, hey hey... " Another great story, good luck! | |||
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"I was going to post something boring about managing to unblock a drain all by myself, but having read many of the posts above - it now seems unimportant and inappropriate " Each post has equal value. Obviously mine more so but now you’ve got an unblocked drain. Congrats | |||
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"I was going to post something boring about managing to unblock a drain all by myself, but having read many of the posts above - it now seems unimportant and inappropriate " Saucy, if you unblocked it using a selection of vibrating toys, I wanna know about it... | |||
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"I was going to post something boring about managing to unblock a drain all by myself, but having read many of the posts above - it now seems unimportant and inappropriate Saucy, if you unblocked it using a selection of vibrating toys, I wanna know about it... " Actually it was a large kitchen serving spoon tied to a broom handle...... My selection of vibrating toys are used for unblocking something else | |||
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"Everyone has a story. Yes I agree but I am talking about HUGE, life changing experiences x That suggests you're somehow downplaying experiences of others " | |||
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"I was going to post something boring about managing to unblock a drain all by myself, but having read many of the posts above - it now seems unimportant and inappropriate Saucy, if you unblocked it using a selection of vibrating toys, I wanna know about it... Actually it was a large kitchen serving spoon tied to a broom handle...... My selection of vibrating toys are used for unblocking something else " You mean to say that you have blockages elsewhere? They obviously need a regular service to keep them squeaky clean.. if you need a hand.. | |||
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"I have a 100% success record for not succumbing to my depression, so that's pretty awesome. Same here (although it's not today's reason for celebrating surviving) Love your positivity towards others xx" Thank you, I (apparently) am the one people come to at work because I have that "caring" gene xx | |||
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"Had a few life changing events, the rarity has worn off. The only event I still celebrate, is being given the all clear from cancer." That's one hell of a survival | |||
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"Just over a year ago I found out that I was ill.. I will always remember the specialist telling me and the feelings I had at the time... at first I was afraid, I was petrified, thinking I would not survive with this growth in my side.. I spent so many nights wondering what did I do wrong But I got on, and learned how to become strong.. And I'm on my back in a strange place, The radiologist walked in with a stupid grin upon his face, He told me to relax, he told me just to lay there still, He zapped me with some xrays and they made me take plenty of pills.. And now it's gone, from out my head, no more talking to an oncologist from the comfort of a bed. They are certain that gone but I need to get checked out So far so good, I have finally found my clout (ok, I know that bad but trout didn't work either!) And that's me, I did survive And as long as I have friends at my side I know I'll stay alive. I've got all that love to make, eat some pasta bake and I'll survive... I will survive, hey hey... " And it's fantastic that you did...one of Fab's finest | |||
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"I suppose I should celebrate some of the life changing events that have happened to me, but then I would have to admit they left life lasting issues for me to deal with." Haha, typically "male" statement ... It's not a negative, celebrate surviving whatever happens | |||
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"Just over a year ago I found out that I was ill.. I will always remember the specialist telling me and the feelings I had at the time... at first I was afraid, I was petrified, thinking I would not survive with this growth in my side.. I spent so many nights wondering what did I do wrong But I got on, and learned how to become strong.. And I'm on my back in a strange place, The radiologist walked in with a stupid grin upon his face, He told me to relax, he told me just to lay there still, He zapped me with some xrays and they made me take plenty of pills.. And now it's gone, from out my head, no more talking to an oncologist from the comfort of a bed. They are certain that gone but I need to get checked out So far so good, I have finally found my clout (ok, I know that bad but trout didn't work either!) And that's me, I did survive And as long as I have friends at my side I know I'll stay alive. I've got all that love to make, eat some pasta bake and I'll survive... I will survive, hey hey... And it's fantastic that you did...one of Fab's finest " I will see if I can get Gloria Gaynor to sing it for me when I get my all clear.. | |||
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"Just over a year ago I found out that I was ill.. I will always remember the specialist telling me and the feelings I had at the time... at first I was afraid, I was petrified, thinking I would not survive with this growth in my side.. I spent so many nights wondering what did I do wrong But I got on, and learned how to become strong.. And I'm on my back in a strange place, The radiologist walked in with a stupid grin upon his face, He told me to relax, he told me just to lay there still, He zapped me with some xrays and they made me take plenty of pills.. And now it's gone, from out my head, no more talking to an oncologist from the comfort of a bed. They are certain that gone but I need to get checked out So far so good, I have finally found my clout (ok, I know that bad but trout didn't work either!) And that's me, I did survive And as long as I have friends at my side I know I'll stay alive. I've got all that love to make, eat some pasta bake and I'll survive... I will survive, hey hey... And it's fantastic that you did...one of Fab's finest I will see if I can get Gloria Gaynor to sing it for me when I get my all clear.. " | |||
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"I’m a survivor. I’ve been on 4 operational tours to war zones. (Iraq & Afghanistan). I’ve been shot at more times than I care to remember. I’ve lost very close friends in those conflicts and helped so many others to survive. (I’m a medic). I’ve seen more tradgedy than I care to recount. I’ve been out of the forces for 4 years now and work in a very busy city hospital. I thank my lucky stars for the person I am today. " Respect to you | |||
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"I hope to live forever. So far, so good." Same here lol | |||
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"Well i am a tiger raaaaaa raaaaaaa raaaaaaaa Your roar is worse than your bite isn't it B? " much much | |||
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"I’m a survivor. I’ve been on 4 operational tours to war zones. (Iraq & Afghanistan). I’ve been shot at more times than I care to remember. I’ve lost very close friends in those conflicts and helped so many others to survive. (I’m a medic). I’ve seen more tradgedy than I care to recount. I’ve been out of the forces for 4 years now and work in a very busy city hospital. I thank my lucky stars for the person I am today. " Respect!! | |||
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"All Warriors..of our own lives and destiny. Not totally true, I had absolutely no control over what happened to me..." Your still alive and living so clearly a warrior dealing with what your life's having thrown at it | |||
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"Today is proof that I am one of life's true survivors and I took the day off to celebrate it Are you a true survivors or do you struggle getting through HUGE life issues? " I had a stroke 3 years ago...I struggle with pain and fatigue every day...but I am still here so I am not only a survivor...but a warrior | |||
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