FabSwingers.com forum: Guys what makes a woman an easy lay?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it someone you could ghost for months and then contact again and she would come running?

Someone you could text and then within a couple of hours you know they’d fuck you?

Also once you put a woman in that category can she ever get out of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If men knew the answer to that, they wouldn't be on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once she is put in there she can't get out unless she ghosts that person too then she suddenly becomes attractive again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If men knew the answer to that, they wouldn't be on here...

Not asking how to turn a woman into an easy lay, asking men’s opinions on what they consider to be an easy lay.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op going of topic i thought about you today. Theres a chocolate company that does chocolate bum holes and will even make one of your own bum hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op going of topic i thought about you today. Theres a chocolate company that does chocolate bum holes and will even make one of your own bum hole

Gives up you're own arse a new meaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a guy, but I reckon it's one they think "yeah she'd be up for it" without the bloke needing to make much of an effort to make it happen.

One where they get what they want, as opposed to giving the lady what she wants kinda thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is such a thing as a woman who is "an easy lay", I haven't met them. I have met women who will want sex whenever I get in touch with them, but that usually indicates something else is going on that is a little more complicated, i.e. wanting to please, wanting more. The same for me, by the way. If I think someone is lovely, I will be an easy lay, responding positively despite gaps in communication. I'm not sure any humans are easy, in any respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op going of topic i thought about you today. Theres a chocolate company that does chocolate bum holes and will even make one of your own bum hole

Oh my god, that sounds amazing.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Is it someone you could ghost for months and then contact again and she would come running?

Someone you could text and then within a couple of hours you know they’d fuck you?

Also once you put a woman in that category can she ever get out of it?"

In my opinion it's where little to no effort is required from the guy, lazy messages, last minute contact for late booty calls, etc.

Where he believes that she will come running no matter what.

Basically I think if something is easily won with no effort required then it has less value to the person, easily disposed of.

Can you change it after? Possibly, how, I don't know

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

'Easy lay' is subjective.

There may be a guy who treats you like one (and you may have given him good reason to think of you this way), but that doesn't mean you'll jump for anyone else who snaps their fingers.

Unless you're the type who will shag absolutely anyone... Then that makes it pretty easy

but I doubt there are too many of those about... We all have preferences to some degree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If men knew the answer to that, they wouldn't be on here...

Not asking how to turn a woman into an easy lay, asking men’s opinions on what they consider to be an easy lay. "

Easy lay = marriage potential, don't want to spend the rest of my days struggling to have sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it, someone, you could ghost for months and then contact again and she would come running?

Someone you could text and then within a couple of hours you know they’d fuck you?

Also once you put a woman in that category can she ever get out of it?"

If she's in that category no chance she's getting out of it (speaking with candour) unless her personality and interest (the majority of, truly compliments mine)

An easy lay would be someone who likes having sex no matter how wild but has no interest in my social interests.

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Vodka?

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Can a man be an easy lay too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a man be an easy lay too?"

Yes judging by my recent dating experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op going of topic i thought about you today. Theres a chocolate company that does chocolate bum holes and will even make one of your own bum hole

Oh my god, that sounds amazing.

Arsemould.com

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Can a man be an easy lay too?

Yes judging by my recent dating experience

Well it is nearly Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say an easy lay is a woman who would fuck anyone who asked

If I have previous with a woman and know I can contact her for sex at short notice, I just take it that she enjoys sex and, most importantly, enjoys sex with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so manybe not an easy lay then as that woman might be extremely fussy with who she sleeps with and can take it or leave it when it comes to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had FBs turn into FWBs, turn into relationships. At least you know the sex is good before you get feelings involved

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

"Ok so manybe not an easy lay then as that woman might be extremely fussy with who she sleeps with and can take it or leave it when it comes to sex.

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that sounds like a wife

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Decent guys who talk to them and listen, not expect them to lie on their backs legs s kimbo,

Perhaps you should try this rather than posting such a thread??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Decent guys who talk to them and listen, not expect them to lie on their backs legs s kimbo,

Perhaps you should try this rather than posting such a thread??"

I don’t understand the point you’re making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which chocolate company is this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decent guys who talk to them and listen, not expect them to lie on their backs legs s kimbo,

Perhaps you should try this rather than posting such a thread??

I don’t understand the point you’re making. "

I dont either

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Decent guys who talk to them and listen, not expect them to lie on their backs legs s kimbo,

Perhaps you should try this rather than posting such a thread??

I don’t understand the point you’re making.

An intelligent, sensual lady, confident in her sexuality while a tease in her eyes.

It’s not about me, if she recognises, she will be back.

I dont either"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a man be an easy lay too?

Yes, judging by my recent dating experience

Well it is nearly Christmas "

I am on a few Christmas lists

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Decent guys who talk to them and listen, not expect them to lie on their backs legs s kimbo,

Perhaps you should try this rather than posting such a thread??

I don’t understand the point you’re making.

An intelligent, sensual lady, confident in her sexuality while a tease in her eyes.

It’s not about me, if she recognises, she will be back.

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wow that glitched

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By *iggerd69Man
over a year ago

wherever you are

"Once she is put in there she can't get out unless she ghosts that person too then she suddenly becomes attractive again "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it someone you could ghost for months and then contact again and she would come running?

Someone you could text and then within a couple of hours you know they’d fuck you?

Also once you put a woman in that category can she ever get out of it?"

Someone who lets others treat them with disrespect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The husbands concent x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

What makes a woman an easy lay?

Someone who has no self-respect or self-worth, or insight into their behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is easy. You are all as complicated as can be!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I recently had a new carpet layer by a female carpet fitter and it was the best lay ever. Once down it was very smooth and didn’t lift once

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

An easy lay for everyone or an easy lay for the right people?

Surely both exist? I've met people who fall into both camps via Fab - it's why they chose to join the site.

Some get off on promiscuity and like the attention it gives them. Others just want an easy route to sex without the BS and see Fab and swinging as a good source.

Neither is wrong. Being an 'easy lay' isn't always wrong.

Like anything it's down to the individual. And yes, men can be easy lays too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it someone you could ghost for months and then contact again and she would come running?

Someone you could text and then within a couple of hours you know they’d fuck you?

Also once you put a woman in that category can she ever get out of it?"

Someone you no, no matter what day or time you text her she's going to say yes, even if you haven't spoke in weeks/months

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"An easy lay for everyone or an easy lay for the right people?

Surely both exist? I've met people who fall into both camps via Fab - it's why they chose to join the site.

Some get off on promiscuity and like the attention it gives them. Others just want an easy route to sex without the BS and see Fab and swinging as a good source.

Neither is wrong. Being an 'easy lay' isn't always wrong.

Like anything it's down to the individual. And yes, men can be easy lays too.

Absolutely spot on

I could very easily say my wife is an easy lay as we fucked on our first date and she is up for it as often as I am . Hence there is never an effort or a feeling that I have to get into her good books to have sex . It’s bloody fantastic and my only issue is that we didn’t meet up a long time before we did .

Others would say she is an easy lay too as we’ve had so many meets since joining fab , and I’m sure they would say the same as me . It’s not a bad thing at all .

She wouldn’t want it any other way , and nor would I . I couldn’t be doing with being with a woman who holds sex back or treats you as if you have to earn it .

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"What makes a woman an easy lay?

Someone who has no self-respect or self-worth, or insight into their behaviour."

Absolute nonsense

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

How many guys will happily admit to being man whores...?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"If men knew the answer to that, they wouldn't be on here...

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True! Love one like that hehe. Is that wrong!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"How many guys will happily admit to being man whores...?"

I used to be.

No problem admitting that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If men knew the answer to that, they wouldn't be on here...

Not asking how to turn a woman into an easy lay, asking men’s opinions on what they consider to be an easy lay. "

I don't know cos I never had one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman with a high sex drive at a guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A woman with a high sex drive at a guess"

Erm hate to break this to you but those 2 things don’t necessarily go together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A woman with a high sex drive at a guess

Erm hate to break this to you but those 2 things don’t necessarily go together!"
like i said its a guess iv no full understanding of the question as per

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